₦airaland Forum

Ashawosboifrien:
I am deeply pained, I use to make a lot of money before the lockdown. Infact there was a day I and my babe spent 40k inside the club. I did not save much. During the lockdown she was arrested. I and her had to pay through our nose. I lost most of my clients. We all agreed that she should move out of her accommodation to a new place which cost a lot of money. Today she asked to see me and told me she wants to start runs till December to solve family problems and get money to rent a shop (she is very skilled in hair making). She said after then she will stop. She said is not breaking up with me and will still have my time. But I can leave if I want. I could not say a word, just begging her to give me a chance to make more money. I work and I give her something every month. But I have the believe that when dating you should invest in your self. So I have a project for the future which she is aware but can't wait. The problem is I can't stop hallucinate about other men pounding her. How do I move on.

Like ma niggie pointed out, P1mp her like a hoe. How are you gonna do this you'd ask me.

Post her pics all over your WhatsApp, whoever hits you up via he like her, tell him she will bang him for a price, get the cash and hook them up. It's called business. But first you will call her and tell her you love the idea but she will have to consider you in the business since you both are still dating.

STOP BEING A CRY BABY AND SEIZE OPPORTUNITY.

ubunja:
be her business manager. Women cheat daily atleast now you can get some money out of it. Be smart. P1mp that hoe out

My niggie is back. P1mp that facking hoe.

pansophist:
When a woman knows you're strong enough to bring everything down and walk away from the marriage, then she would sit up. Also, women will always show you who they are, but most men lack the emotional intelligence to pick up on those bad behaviours or ignore them because they don't wanna start again, or perhaps, have a scarcity mentality.

Marriage is a life insurance policy for many of our women, hence, they are on their best behaviour to secure the bag. Many are even more interested in the wedding itself, not marriage. It's about the title, ceremony, and feeling better than other female friends. The energy modern women operate on is just downright low.

Women are not hard to understand. To understand women, simply remove reasoning and accountability from their behaviours, then you get a manual on how to relate well with them.

I no get anything to talk.

I have off.

TheSourcerer:
Omar09 I like this one as an introduction of who I 'am ' or should I say was ...
Hope you get my drill?

I dig.

lefulefu:
the truth of the matter is some guys will bash indenpendent ladies classifying them as proud and saying ladies who depend on men are submissive then they will turn round again and start bashing ladies who depend on them calling them golddiggers.i mean to me what does such a guy want

The guys who bash independent women are guys who don't measure up to the financial strength of the said lady. They're the same guys who will bash the dependent women because they can't foot the bills that comes with her.

Now there are men who just want peace.

SmartPolician:
I assure you that nothing will happen

Anyone who thinks that Nigerians are tech smart is only fooling himself

You would say 'most Nigerians', not just "Nigerians". I agree a handful of us are very much lazy, this is something inherent in a 'Nigerian'.

Hollasmall:
No need to set age bro just do it when you're financially stable and you can boast of a stable income in four different ways. You'll enjoy married life when fiance is not a problem. God bless us all

You are quite right.

Poseidon000:
My brda.

I wish guys will see things from your panoramic perspective, instead of succumbing to peer pressure and societal dogma.

So, what's the age benchmark you set for marriage?

35yrs.

Hollasmall:
Exactly jare. Don't fall for any societal pressure

Never. I'm looking at between the age of 35 and 40. I have to have strong financial foundation before anything.

Poseidon000:
Sup guys. I've something that have always earned the acme of my discountenance. And that's how men crudely jump into marriage in other to conform to societal dictate or for some selfish satisfaction.
This have gotten me pensive and I'll make no ado in getting to the nucleus of the issue.

Yesterday, I was headed toward gwarimpa, and on my way I noticed a disheveled young guy around Efab estate trekking by the express.
As a rule, I always give such guys 'lift,' because i was once with a female colleague in a lonely path that seldom have cars coming our way, suddenly one private car stopped and when I tried entering after my female colleague boarded, the SIMPson bounced me out and zoomed off with an empty back seat.

That incident birthed in me a sense of solidarity and understanding of what men go through just for being men, but yesterday, I was so incensed by a botch job my mechanic did that I drove past. After about 4 hours when I had everything sorted and was heading back, I saw the same guy heading toward my direction again(it's a dual carriage way) and he was sweating profusely, so I beckoned on him to enter. We got talking and I inquired why he's trekking such a long distance. He said: he went to look for a job that wasn't successful and he's going back to Arab road.
But this is just a miniscule of the guy's travail. He grew up in abject poverty.In fact, they gave birth to him and his sister in an uncompleted building. His dad died in that building, his sister got pregnant for some riffraff and they started what we call "abuja marriage", his mom subsequently fell sick and died in the same uncompleted building. Then the owner of the building decided to complete it, and drove him away.

Now, this guy was able to get another uncompleted building to stay, and as I'm typing this, he's with wife and kids. This is a person that don't have food at home and can not afford N150 to and fro.

I gave him 10k but I was so mad with him; I mean, I was disconcertingly appalled that this guy will think of marriage in his privation. Why not be a little bit comfortable before considering marriage, instead to face life with the dignity of a breadline.

Sadly, this is the same mistake lot of guy's have been making thinking they'll fall into some stupendous money as soon as they marry, and this is mostly perpetuated by religious charlatans who say; a man's destiny is predicated on his future wife, that as soon as he gets married, the special blessing tied to marriage will start opening way for him.

That's a mendacious twaddle that will leave you in a precarious situation. Please guys, have 'comfort' afoot before you dabble into marriage.

What's your take on this?

I can't believe I had the thought of getting married at the age of 25 or latest 28. But as I grew older, I've realized what you said here even before coming across it from you or any place here. Life ain't worth being in privation and bringing in kids or even adding extra burden to on one's neck.

My take is this, it's better to be comfortable before dabbling into marriage.

missjo:
This is dependent on the society a woman lives in.
I believe single women in Nigeria are too culturally restricted when it comes to the issue of sex, this can make them feel embarrassed if they need to walk into pharmacies or see doctors to get birth control options.

I've been getting access to birth control since I turned 21. Waking into any pharmacy here for these things is quite normal and no one looks at you funny. Bought male condoms sometimes as well, to ensure he does not come with an excuse of not having one. Getting pregnant or not getting pregnant is my decision.

Simple. @bolded.


I don't know how a man will dictate what happens to his body and also dictate what happens to his girlfriend's body. Lol


When he does it, he becomes misogynistic. When he doesn't and minds his business he becomes irresponsible. If you won't follow the advice of this lady I mentioned, then whatever comes your way, you deserve it.

MoodyQueen:
100% about women?

OP, are you suffering from selective amnesia?

Or is it just convenient to ignore the community pricks who refuse to wear condoms and those who engage in the act of stealthing??

Once a lady filled with sense refuses to have sex without condom, she will never be raped instead the man will go and buy condom fast fast so he can shuk. Stop all these stupid.dity you people call gender balancing. It's your body and you get to dictate what goes in and out of it. Don't be a mor.on and start blaming other people for your failure.


When I was in the dating field, I wanted to bang a lady, she told me I don't have condom and so no sex, i never had sex with her that day because I was not with condom. Did she get pregnant by me and abort it? Or did I force her into it?


The way women play the blame game they forget that they are Wielding a powerful tool that will make any man do anything once hooked. The pussy you will use to make him buy you literally anything becomes powerless once there's no condom abi? Don't make me descend on you oh....

Kingarthur21 I've noticed you are now in the background. Long time no comment.

I am trying to download pyperclip on my win 32 bit through the anaconda prompt, but it keeps showing me:

Solving environment: failed to.......

Gurus what do I do?

Please mention me of you know the solution.

Magnito74:
Few weeks ago ,I came in contact with my cousin sister ,whom I have not seen in a while. Our friendship got stronger since then and it is becoming hard for us to leave each other. Our bodies could not hold it any longer and we had sex. our love just keeps on getting strong.. I know it's against culture. But what should I do?

Move to Alabama and get married.

Xavfra:
TheSourcerer.

You know him.

Makavelli25:
that noise is shit

Bring the volume down to nothing, n you will not feel it.

Xavfra:
It isn't scary tho

I'm aware. It's gore n I know who likes gore.

Makavelli25:
That site ruined my night

Lol

ambitiouschap17:
My over Sabi don kill me now, Chai how did you come across this .

One mumu meme gc for WhatsApp.

Ishilove:
My dear brother, you missed your calling in life. You should have been a clinical psychologist where you will have all the corpses you want to play with to your heart's content.

... No I have a point I view art. Not just looking at it, but...

Ishilove:
Pray tell, what beauty does a picture of bullet ridden corpses hold?

What you see when you look at a picture of bullet might be death, but I just see art. Art, that is the picture itself, I think of what the photographer might be thinking when he/she took the picture yes they are very chilling, and scary, but the beauty in it is that you get to feel what the photographer felt when he/she took the picture even though the photographer doesn't know who I am and that I felt his feelings. The feeling of laughter, love, tears, a lot. We do not admire the killings, (speaking for myself) I do not admire the tragedy, or death but I like to feel what the photographer felt or try think what he/she thought. It's called Complexity.

We all are scared of all these gore tragic pictures, that's what makes us human, but we do enjoy the photography for the purpose of the above.

Faithful4real:
Wtf bro. That website

That site is for the strong n mighty.

Bannylove13:
Apc love stories, lies, deceit

They think Nigerians are mumu

They don't think. They know most of Nigerians are mumu and the few weh sabi no go fit talk.

Martinez39s:
Donovan Sharpe is very redpill, but the hope he is selling to american guys to venture into the dating market over there is dangerous. Many guys think that they can be dominant and maintain frame in a marriage in gynocentric America where the wife is given too much power over the husband. The divorce courts don't care if you are alpha or beta, or if the frame you are maintaining is made of steel. If one is stupid to married over there, the divorce courts will grind you to pieces. There are even new laws that treat a man and his girlfriend as married couples if they have stayed long enough.

Donovan Sharpe is good but just like Richard Cooper, they are selling pious hopes for cash. The difference is that Richard Cooper is arrogant and charges exorbitant fees for his unnecessary services (I have no problem with that, after all it's his service). I stand to be corrected on Donovan Sharpe tho, I only listened to some of his podcast back then.

@italics
In the USA, it isn't a new law. It has been around for a really long time however not in all the states just few states like Alabama, Kentucky etc for the purpose of inheritance when one couple dies, but we all know it's not just that.

TheSourcerer:
Massacre at Sharpeville, 1960

To control the passage of blacks through white areas, South African law required them to carry a passbook at all times. On March 21, some 20,000 gathered in township of Sharpeville to protest the rule. Police opened fire, killing 69 and injuring some 180, most of them shot in the back as they tried to flee. Police Commander D.H. Piennar said, “If they do these things, they must learn their lessons the hard way.” This image of random carnage forced other nations to heed the vile injustices there.

Can you do another thread with these pictures in colored? I'm just curious as to the beauty it holds.

Martinez39s:
Lol. Though I am bit sceptical, but let's allow him get to his point and show us his ways of gaming Nigerian women as he promised. So far he has been dishing redpill truths that we know, and some pua tips some of us are aware of. Let's be patient and let him get to his point and "practicals." If he turns out to be another Donovan Sharpe or pua snake oil salesman, we will call him out for the sake of his followers. If he works as he says he would (though he hasn't written his approach methods yet), we would give him the thumbs up. Let's wait.

Donovan Sharpe is good but CRP is better.

TheSourcerer:
Just went through it and it was whhoooooooooo , does this have to do with the site ish?

Yeah... It's a meme. Some people thinks it went too far, but it's just the usual. Well 'usual' not that I do it to myself or will want to do it to myself, but damn!


Anyway I watched it for a long time thinking it has an end but, it's just a loop.

jasent:
This one can't work in Nigeria abeg..when men are looking for guys to rape them.

You are looking for people rape you, not MEN

TheSourcerer:
Jeffery Dahmar comes to mind

Uh... Sly you...