Acidosis:


Oshe badass graduate. As you don turn graduate now, I should lick your foot and pay you salary while you provide me with zero value with your useless curriculum?

Go and study the history and evolution of KFC and Starbucks, you lazy a$$ graduate.

When you're done studying the history, review the current position of these companies today and Google the percentage of graduates like you washing plates and cups, and serving beer and chicken laps to customers.

Kai bro... I just learned one thing from you.

Bible even talk am, Do not despise the time of your little beginning.

Joshmodest:

Of all the foolish people quoting me on this topic , I choose to reply you so you can tell the rest ...
A student finishes with a 2.1 from school after spending 6 years or more due to unending strikes , and starts selling kunu and tiger nut ...
The mentality of you and your siblings in foolishness on this platform , is what I find questionable ...
We act like we aren't in this country , Bill Gates started Microsoft cos that was his passion , the CEO of KFC started the company cos that was his passion - something he loved ...
Are you and your slow witted friends telling me that the girls' passion is making kunu or the unemployment rate made her think out of the box , and start something since the system has failed.
All of you are the reasons Nigeria is like this , you want the youths to spend thousands of naira and so much time to study Medicine , Radiography or Law then graduate and start making liquid soap , Kunu , tiger nut or frying buns and small chops ..
Schnooks trying to have opinions everywhere !

Studies shows that you are more likely to make a living out of what isn't your passion.

Salute to you sir! Sorcerer!

pansophist:
In the discourse concerning consent and whatnot, why is the subject only on the women and not the men also? Don't women need consent to sleep with a man again? Why is it only the responsibility of a man to seek consent and not the woman? If we both didn't explicitly gave consent to each other and had sex, while is the man perceived as the violator? I'm I the only one seeing the double standards here?

Most importantly, the issue of consent is obscure. Even if one of the subjects (eg the woman) gave consent, and she later went on the claimed rape, how can the innocent man prove himself innocent? The only way I see justice penetrating deep to persecute sexual violators is if there is an official standard form for both partners to sign that 'hey, we are gonna have sex and are consenting to the act", or a short video clip, in case a partner may claim it's was not signed under sobriety.

Anything short of this will only lead to which hunt, and further destroys gender relationship and create fear amongst the sexes.

In a bid to get their selfish interests, women are ruining relationships. It's funny, but there will be a time where one has to sign a contract to even be in a relationship and to also have sex... Already smart men are keeping receipts just in case things go south, what's the fun in signing papers before having sex?

At a point I will make up mind and go monk and just enjoy this life myself.

He didn't buy this corn since, it's now during this campaign he decided to all of a sudden have a knack for corn and no other place but the public eh?


Nigerians are gullible and its our gullibility that is keeping us here.

Only one person here mentioned something about self improvement!

I'm in my 20s but I believe I've learned a lot from the elderly around me both the fortuned and the misfortune.

In your 20s, start a journey on self-development and self improvement. Know the difference between want and need and work on them accordingly. Forget about meeting THE ONE, if you discipline yourself enough, THE ONE will meet up with you.

rasheylaw:

Man divorces pregnant wife for uploading baby shower pics wearing only pant and bra

GOSSIPMan divorces pregnant wife for uploading baby shower pics wearing only pant and bra


Humans cannot curtail what these information superhighways platforms would bring upon them when the results start tickling in. In fact, the stuff we see with our eyes on various social media platforms such as WhatsApp, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, Snapchat and others can never cease to amaze us.

The love/ bond a husband and wife share has vanished because of the influence of this same social media craze in the world now. A Nigerian man has angrily threatened to divorce (in fact he’s almost through) his wife for posting and sharing her baby shower photos whilst wearing only pant and brassier.

There are a lot of things some people feel normal to share on social media such as the food they eat, monies they cash out, naked photos, etc whilst there are other school of thoughts who believe otherwise.

This Nigerian man is a typical example of those who do not believe in sharing everything personal online.

Was the man wrong or right in divorcing his wife? Please share your thoughts with us.

He is right.

You should run away from such woman for what she bears are traps all over herself even in her spoken words.

Whether or not women like to give consent before having sex, shouldn't be your problem as a man. As man your problem should be ask for consent and making sure you get a response from her. Whether or not it's positive will determine your next move.

professore:
Mainly, they are woe unto men. Strictly speaking, if she doesn't give her consent, let her go, she will find the man that will not need her consent who may then be accussed of raping her as soon as the man messes up (if you don't want to be that man, let her be).

But on a good day, if she says no and she needs it I think you will know as a man. Conversely, if she says no and she seriously means it, again you will know and if you force your way this time, even if she doesn't come out to call you a rapist, you yourself will know that you are a dirty rapist.

You see this right here have put a lot men in early graves and prison! There is nothing like “But on a good day, if she says no and she needs it I think you will know as a man”. If she says NO whether or not she means it, you should take it as NO, no other meaning, just NO. Because in court, she won't be asked if she meant it when she said "No" or not, but would only be asked, Did you consent to him to have sexual intercourse with you? Men should learn to guard themselves.

Mtola8:

I'm not the relationship kind of guy from onset. I was just having flings(2015) then I met her, she seemed different and not so long got pregnant. We both went through hell but prevailed, I then decided to calm down and not complicate things for her, I decided to have a change, give her peace of mind, didn't want her to regret her decisions.

I let go of my way of life, I stopped relating or even talking to ladies at all level(even on church) cause I didn't want to get myself in situations I would t be able to handle.

I'm used to my new way of life and do not even relate with ladies, I just need to focus on my life and make money, I might not even get married. If I'm being pressured, I'll just get another baby mama and rest.

She lost not me.

If men will take this resolve, so many bs from women would not be accepted.

The resolve is well accepted by me and other reasonable men, don't go back on it, maintain it. Life is all about discovering oneself and working to reach self actualization. Let me tell you one thing, your parents will not disturb you to get married again at least not soon enough. God bless you and your new resolutions!

Those women who were oppressed are long dead and those men who oppressed them are long dead! So why crucify this generation of men who probably haven't heard that there was a time women didn't have access to school?

Mtola8:

That's one view I also hold. She's just timid cause maybe she's just starting the game and as such isn't hard hearted about it. She never felt she'd melt when we see and say it all.

I just can't trust her no matter what, no matter what she does, I'll just assume she's saying all what she wants me to know and keeping others like she did before.

Bro, your boy can still have the best of life without his mother. Get married to another lady whilst letting her know you have boy from another woman and that your relationship with her would break if she maltreats your boy.

Or don't get married and save yourself the stress.

The man in the op stories have been seeing some red flags from this girl which I have spotted but still wants to be with her, and even getting butterflies (which is normal).

I'm a workaholic and so I stay late and usually don't make it in time for date >>>> Red FLAG
There's saying: we are never too busy for the ones we love.

Jokingly calling you boyfriend and takes time to give a reply after making a proposal >>>> Red FLAG

The man is a simp if he still wants to be with op.

Ugaboy:
dont mind me, i think business...so advicing men to put it to thinking, can also increase their earning...and save some men asses

Oh that... Yeah it's more money for them but then again, simping trumps money any time any day.

24kmagic:
Why are mothers always warning their teenage girls about boys? Funny thing is they don't always warn the boys about girls. (It's not like they don't do it at all tho). Is it that boys will kill the girls or what? Can't teenage girls destroy a boy's life as well? Why must it always be "stay away from boys or boyfriend"? Why not "my son, run away from girls, they can destroy your life"?

Mothers, why are you making your daughters run away from boys? Do boys always destroy/kill a girl?

How do they market themselves bearing all these warnings in mind?

My mother warned me to be very careful of girls as a growing boy and even till now she still warns me. The last which wouldn't be the least is when she told me that if I am not ready to get married I should not be in any relationship because some girls will use pregnancy to tie me down or claim I raped them. This was two years ago.


It all depends on the kind of mother one has. My mom has us three boy and a girl she doles out her advice which now I think of them as red pill snippets

Ugaboy:
"it was a suggestion"

The hospitals won't take that. No offense homie.

TheSourcerer:
haha Omar, good one ! Hope you have your best day

I did. The likes are unsolicited.

nexta007:

Amen.
But I advise that you seek ways of reconciling with his mother for love's and your son's sake. If she declines, then move on. It's MANLY to seek forgiveness and make amends. Frankly, I hate raising my kids by another woman other than my wife... God will help u out bro

I don't advice this @op. Forget her mother of she comes back it will be another episode of cheating... This time you will not figure it out because she will be smarter this time. Don't make that mistake. There are three things that can't be changed, words spoken, death and cheating.

kokaneprodigy:

Then you hear gender equality,

Well to get along with them, I decided to see them as 4yo who don't know jack about life unless proven wrong by few..

Mtola8:
I'll try to be short and brief.
I met my ex-fiancee when I was a student and she was seeking admission, I wasn't emotionally available then as I wasn't the type who goes into a relationship since I got all the sex I needed through FWB. I had a soft spot for her as she lost her virginity to me, is the church type, beautiful and has so many attributes.

She got pregnant few months after we met, I was an undergraduate and I didn't know what to do, we tried all we could to get it off but it didn't, she used different drugs, took injections and even went as far as going for D&C but the doctor stopped along the line that something is blocking her womb. I took it up on myself to stand by her since I loved her and also the paternity of the child isn't an issue.

She was scared and couldn't tell her brother, I also was scared and couldn't tell anyone at home, I travelled to Lagos so I can raise some money, my phone got spoilt during that period and I had to put my sim in my sisters phone, so I can communicate with her.

She passed out one day cause she wasn't going for antenatal neither was she receiving any treatment cause she was scared of letting her people know, she was also fond of breathing in so as not to let her stomach visible. They go to know when she was rushed to the hospital and I was called but my sister picked up and she told me everything.

I spoke to her mum and assured her I was going to show up as I wasn't around, though they were skeptical and didn't believe cause of the rumors they had about me been a bad boy and all sort( which wasn't true). I later showed up and saw and accepted everything. We rented an apartment for her so as to shield her from ridicule.

My sis, mum, step-brother and I decided to keep it away from dad cause of my school( Bad idea). They didn't help out and I was left to face it alone( only helped in rare situations) I stood by her and made sure thing didn't go south, made sure she wasn't thinking and she also felt loved. I was 21 then!! Her stomach is still a lil bit rough due to child birth, she had tears during delivery, she even aborted for me twice after and I decided just to be cool with her for all what she went through, I dedicated my all cause I didn't want her to cry or regret all she did.

To cut the long story short, after giving me a boy, she took care of him for a year then moved on with her life by seeking admission, I let go off my life style cause I didn't want her to feel bad, didn't want her to be ridiculed, didn't want all her effort to end in years, I stopped socializing and never had female friends so as not to find myself in tight situations.

She went to school and cheated in less than a month, she felt bad and told me, I felt bad, I thought she was infallible, untouchable. She was always in my plans and I did all I could to make her comfortable, I already took her for a wife but I was mistaken. She opened up to me but instead lied she was forced, abused and raped thrice (by one guy).

The story didn't add up and I decided to pester her but she insisted she was forced. I then did something stupid but it made the truth known, I logged in her Facebook and messaged the guy(she told me his name), I wanted to hear his part and not just take sides, I played on her psychologically and she fell for it. We were very open to eachother that we knew our Facebook passwords.

I messaged the guy telling him he abused and forced me because he knew I was helpless and had no choice, I even called him a beast. He then replied and I was surprised seeing my ex telling him he isn't a beast that the act was, she also confirmed she consented and wasn't forced in all three attempt. The guy was very confident and I could see the way he expressed himself, he was surprised she could come up with such accusation.

I'm happy it ended this way, I know deep down I gave my all and she might regret her decisions. I can take so many things but not a cheating partner!! I'm pained but just have to stand by my decision. She has being begging for months and even her mum contacted me, but I told her same.

I'm just using this medium to tell people not to act or react to allegations based on emotions, so many ladies are taking advantage of this fact when they mess up to exclude themselves off any fault. I would have had the mindset of that guy being a rapist and even use it against him in future if I didn't disguise to hear his side

I'm good and I've moved on.

I liked that you have moved on. Don't ever take her back, she's a cheat. You might wanna do a DNA check on her to know if he's actually your boy.

Ugaboy:
He is lucky to find out earlier...i suggest hospitals should include D.N.A Test for baby after birth.
it hurt to invest your love, money, time on a bastard child

It is your responsibility to check the DNA of your kids as soon as they're born.

TheSourcerer:
., L

Not today Sorcerer! Not today!

kokaneprodigy:


she even gave him the window for appeal, after 3 years he should forever hold his peace

some ladies are even saying its not her fault.

when do women take responsibility?

God's gonna have a hard time judging them. I don't think they ever take responsibility for their actions. They get drunk, it's a man's responsibility to see she's not hurt, same man gets drunk and it's still his responsibility that he doesn't get hurt.

This life no balance.

kokaneprodigy:
no one noticed she never apologised or took responsibility, instead initiated emotional blackmail.

Men are scum indeed.

You had 3yrs to come up with this, why now? Out of all days but today? C'mon!

I did notice. Women, not much is going for them.

skywalker240:

ding ding ding ding.

thats why we have been criticizing them, but dumb people over here would rather call us Xiaomi Marketers.

the A3S comes with mediatek helio A22 right? and It runs COD & PUBG without lagging ?



wow

Yes it runs perfectly fine! I'm going for it now because that's what I can afford now.

skywalker240:

not just only infinix, but all Transsion device (Tecno and Itel her sisters)

Transsion makes Infinix, Tecno, and Itel (this one is the worst of all)

1. No android version upgrade, you cant upgrade from android 10 to 11 unless you get another device

2. Keep recycling Poor and outdated chipsets on their latest devices

3. Slapping outrageous prices on the same phone with outdated chipsets. When you compare the outdated chip infinix price to another brand with same price but with better chipset you would be angry.

4. Their service centers charge you almost the price of the phone or they tell you outrightly to get another device from them.

5. They lie about their camera

6. They add latest features to their phones just to entice and deceive people who are not tech enlightened. Features like higher battery mah, higher camera mp count (mostly a falacy) higher ROM/RAM count and then increase the price.

I noticed one thing about infinix phone. I have an infinix hot 6 and in fact I am using it type this now. Phone is 2gb ram 16gb rom I bought it 43k 2yrs ago, the phone can't play COD and PUGB but umidigi a3s 2gb ram 16gb rom can play the above games very well without lagging. And again, if use umidigi a3s to search for asphalt 9 on playstore, I do see it but I can't see it with my infinix. Umidigi is 30k...


It seems infinix 2gb ram is usually 1gb and not 2gb.

SIR0:
There's a girl in my neighborhood who I can refer to as my home sister. We're so close. We share feelings, advice & keep nothing from one another, our love life inclusive.

She has had quite a number of relationships and got disappointed in all. I've had one relationship too.

There was a time I told her about my feelings towards her & she said she would have loved to accept my proposal but she couldn't handle double-dating. Well, I felt okay having let her know my feelings. I understood her decision & I don't think I was ready to be kept as a spare tyre, too. We moved on with our friendship.

We talked both clean and dirty stuff. She would even tell me anytime she felt Hot & needed to see her boyfriend for sex. In short, we are now having mixed feelings for one another. It could no longer be hidden on her face, too.

As a lady, she's expecting me to make the first advance. Making the move is not my problem but the thoughts of some dirty talks we've had together. The most worrying part was a time she got drunk with her friend at a birthday party & she mistakenly called one of her Ex-bfs (who she loved most) over & he took advantage of the moment to have his way with her again. Though she claimed she was not sure if something really happened between them but she noticed she had no pant on when she woke up in the morning, blablabla. To me, the guy is not that reliable as he is into drinking & smoking. She appears too innocent to be dating such a guy & I gave my advice. She might not really disclose all that transpired at the birthday party. I kept thinking the guy could have recorded the act, knowing well that she's stark drunk. What if our relationship leads to marriage & the guy begins threatening her with sex-tape or he leaks any sex tape involving her, how would I go about it? Aside her other sex life, this is most worrisome of all.

My thinking/guess may be wrong, yet I do not want to be caught unaware, to avoid stories that touch later. This is a dilemma for me. I truly love her but my happiness matters a lot.

Don't hesitate to advise a brother.
Kindly overlook any grammatical blunders.

Thanks

When will y'all learn?

I see the problem here. I think the most reason why nice guys hang out with bad girls is because of the possibility of sex from such "women". Little do they know that the possibility is very slim.

Bro that girl is damaged. Any girl who gets drunk and have sex wanted to have sex (but don't go around getting girls drunk, it's stupid and weak). And any guy who have sex with drunk girls is stupid and deserves the rape case that will slammed on him. That said, any girl who gets drunk and calls her ex for a sex romp is damaged and such girl is not good enough to be mother your kids. You are a king and hence you should live like a king. Move out, make friends (reasonable ones) and forget about her. It's a suicide mission. Get you a deserving Queen cause you are a King.

lammylam:
Guys i wanna know

is an inquisitive babe a turn off or turn on for you guys??

and what do u guys think about an inquisitive girls.

A big turn off. I feel it's a disturbance to me.

Haywhyluv:
Your Mobile contact

Here is his mobile contact, you can check his siggy to confirm. +23 481 356 83 431.

@progeek37, I figured the problem with my strong password detector program. I didn't read the question correctly. It states write a function and I've been doing it without a function. Will rewrite it to give out the correct answer.

Martinez39s:
Why didn't he stay in the UK? What was he looking for here?

It's not about going to the UK to study... It's about going for a course that will get you a job before you graduate.