Palema007:
If you had typed this like centuries ago I would have reasoned with you... Men provided all for women back then. But these days when women work and some are breadwinners I wonder how relevant that narrative is. Marriage benefits women more? Lol or Society forces Marriage on Women more . So aside sharing bills, pumping out kids , changing to men's surname,what does typical Nigerian MARRIAGE offers a Woman? You people should change this your who benefits more mentality and rants because seriously you will push women to start asking questions and believe me, You men will lose a lot.... Don't push it. Because sometimes I wonder what a Typical Nigerian Man has to offer A Modern Woman. . Please don't start with food and security

Dangrace01:


I remember when I was really mad at a lady and she was like don't you know I am a woman, my anger increased the more and I was pointing at her manipulation that it can't work, guess what she said she said I can't stay with a woman. Lollllllll women are crazy I swear

luminouz:



Lol...very dark is good too...Black Cat!!

Ohk...I'm kinda used to Ariza sha...You planning to stick with this one for a while?

Gentle0wavez:



That is manipulation in a subtle way. There is a meeting we always have at our lodge and when somebody is talking, you should wait till he's done b4 u object or support what he said. There are a group of girls that used to talk anyhow. If you are saying something they can just start shouting at the top of their voice" No, No, I no gree oh. Do am like this, Do am like that " Our lodge master was now saying that Leave them na they are women, I just waited for the day that they stopped me talking. The insult I gave them that day too bad.

Palema007:
I'm not a Cat though, I don't like cats.

I can't promise that....I just pray to get over my addiction and leave this forum for good. Lol I have tried.

Dangrace01:


You are digressing from the issue. The issue is why women pretend you said men pretend too we asked for reasons give us just one reason why men pretend to get married that's all

Palema007:
So now I'm digressing.... You lots are no different from the ladies you call out , you are just a bit logical at it. . But good to know the "Marriage benefit women more" logic died.

Dude Marriage is important to both parties, Men need it to secure a home,a sense of responsibility,sense of ownership, continuity of existence, steady access to sex, access to care , attention,dominance to mention a few. Now a man can do anything aside spending money to convince a woman to give him the aforementioned. You all should stop this pretense that you gain nothing from Marriage when reality is you can get just as desperate as the woman sometimes.

CorGier:


You see those ones that are often times grandiose, always talking a big game and making several promises that can't keep? I avoid them like the plaque. I hate it when a woman talks alot, it's their way of making up for what they lack in substance with a loud mouth.

So when the chips are down, they are the first to bail on you. Rather than channel the essence in their feminity to make the relationship work, they rather turn the whole atmosphere as toxic as possible. The way she gets to feel good about herself, seeing you all miserable and a shadow of your former self.

pansophist:
When a woman knows you're strong enough to bring everything down and walk away from the marriage, then she would sit up. Also, women will always show you who they are, but most men lack the emotional intelligence to pick up on those bad behaviours or ignore them because they don't wanna start again, or perhaps, have a scarcity mentality.

Marriage is a life insurance policy for many of our women, hence, they are on their best behaviour to secure the bag. Many are even more interested in the wedding itself, not marriage. It's about the title, ceremony, and feeling better than other female friends. The energy modern women operate on is just downright low.

Women are not hard to understand. To understand women, simply remove reasoning and accountability from their behaviours, then you get a manual on how to relate well with them.

Dangrace01:


Maybe you don't understand me

Me: give one reason why a man would pretend to get married?

You: give me one reason why a woman would pretend to get married

Me: many reasons to sum it benefits them more

I have tried to give you one reason can you

please give us one good reason a man would pretend to get married

NB a man can pretend to get into a lady's pant not marriage

ubunja:
It's called the Bait and Switch.

Women act a certain way to get married. After marriage there's no reason to keep up the act. Youtuber Coach Greg Adams speaks a lot on it.

Haywhymido:
any book written on bait and switch?

wwwtortoise:


Is this 'RED PILL' a coded name or what?

If yes, what does it mean?

ubunja:
not that I know of. But there has to be.but Just go search for red pill videos on the subject on YouTube. And closely read the comments under the videos as men write their testimonials. You'll get an idea of what it is about.

angelfallz:


unfortunately this would also affect red pill men. Beta men wouldn't be the only ones that suffer.

Haywhymido:
any book written on bait and switch?

ubunja:
you can't change the world. But you can change how the world affects you. Simps rule and outnumber the Red Pill many times over. The world has gone to shet but we the Red Pillers are the ones who make women's pussy wet. Not simps.

Men are the majority in the ruling class(politics; executive, judiciary, legislative)
The majority of men, are betas. therefore, it stands to reason that these beta men would enact laws, executive orders etc that are feminine-centric or in other words, favour women.
for example in the western world, women are favoured over men when it comes to paying alimony, child support, divorce, rape claims etc. yesterday or 2 days ago i read a news report that stated that the CBN, has reserved 60% of the funds for entrepreneurs, for women entrepreneurs. the majority of entrepreneurs in Nigeria are men, but somehow they get 40%
these are a few examples of how red pill men would also so suffer.

the red pill does not insulate red pill men from the laws of the land which were created, enacted and enforced by beta men.
it is for this reason and other reasons, that it is imperative to educate as much men as possible on the red pill.

angelfallz:


Lol. i am looking beyond sex.
below is the reply that made to someone, who also had the same line of thought as you.

Palema007:
You supposed no pay dowry.... Most men won't mind preparing meals or doing it together with their fiancees but once they are Married entering Kitchen becomes an abomination for them. Then you wonder what the deceit for.


Lol I mimic you ooo

ubunja:
dude sex is the only way most of these modern women will submit to a man. Even a hardcore feminist submits when dicked down proper. Money no longer makes women submit like long ago because women now have money of their own. Good luck using money because the next guy has more money than you. Its always about sex. It has always been about sex. Even the betas that run the world do women's biding in hopes of earning women's favour. Don't lose Sight of the pûssy. Because at the end life itself is about making babies to push the species forward. So it's always about sex.

Degrezhaa:


So you are saying.. Women need sex to be submissive to there partners...
Can you elaborate more on that..

So someone who don't put value in pussy, how would he then control his partner.
am lost

ubunja:
no. I did not say women need sex to be submissive. But today's self-sufficient woman is only prepared to submit to good dick and nothing more.

To get pussy easy pussy must mean NOTHING to you. That's the psychology of game. The more you prize pussy the more it will cost you. Its like when someone is selling you something, if you appear truly impressed by that thing he'll charge more. But if you pretend you don't even need that thing he'll sell it to you for cheap. That's the same psychology with women and sex. When you act like you can't be bothered with sex women will give it to you easy.

And its when you pretend pussy is actually nothing to you that you'll control women because the power of women lie in the value YOU put on their pussy.

Women only have pussy to bargain with. When a man is not bothered with pussy women don't know how else to proceed. Because they now have to prove their worth through other ways. But men are so much better than women in ALL other areas. So a woman who's pussy has been rejected questions her very existance and value as a human being. And a man who puts women in that position is the one who's dick they need because it validates them and make them feel like women again.

pansophist:


Welcome back sir Ubunja

MadeINchenzen2:
I've heard and observed that most married men complain of this issue, 9 out of 10 men will tell same story of how their wives is no longer desame caring, thoughtful, altruistic, loving, calm, easy-going and peaceful lady she was before marriage.

she is now a nagging, violent, swearing and cursing regret to her husband who now detests staying @ home. He will rather sit @ the bar with friends instead of going home to his wife.

The mere thought of going home after work scares the hell out of him.

I know of a married man with grown kids, he got fed up with the toxic presence and attitude of his wife and pretended he was processing a visa to travel abroad only to change location but was within the country and away from his wife.

He calls her with a foreign number and sends money for their upkeep and needs, he returns home quaterly to see his family as he endures another short stay with his wife and then travels again.

His wife once threatened, asking him not to return but he replied saying his source of income largely depends on his travel.

He revealed, should it not be for his children, he would either abandon his marriage or send her back to her parents.


Now my question is;

Is there a reason or an unexplainable phenomenon that possesses women when they finally move in to cohabit with a man as his wife?


I believe this is the same reason why we have so many single guys out there who may have it all and all it takes to settle down, but due to the fear of the unknown, they have decided to be more meticulous and careful.


Also read;
https://www.nairaland.com/6003143/reasons-why-every-guy-must

Smile4mee01:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EjO-KAsowgI

Maybe this man will provide you some insight.

ubunja:
bro it's been too long. Spreading the Red Pill gives me life.

pansophist:


I feel you. To be a man and awake (redpilled) is to be in a constant state of rage, all the time. You get pissed off on how common sense becomes so uncommon and the apostles of truth persecuted.

The best is to keep ushering the good news, and he who has ears, let him hear.