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iCode2:
Thank you sir.

tot:
You just want to slander your country by all means possible.
My question to people like you is "why exactly have you not renounced your Nigerian citizenship?" There are many other countries you might feel "freer" e.g. North Korea.

TheSourcerer:
Three letters
Ego

TheSourcerer:
it's a loop, because each person that veiws this thread would definitely be compelled to comment especially if you're new

lexy2014:
Break down d "actual sense" in relation to friendship& adding value

emmaodet:
Hmmmmm
So men are seen as certified workhorses who are not meant to complain for such things.

lexy2014:
Adding value in what sense?

joseph1832:
One would think they're promoting homosexuality. Lol. Then again, hardly have I seen a man having a woman as his best friend and hardly have I seen a woman having a man as his best friend.

TheSourcerer:
Do you really believe this thread gets a winner? It's an endless game , someguy in 2040 will still comment

emmaodet:
Thank God you can now see how draining financially, emotionally, psychologically broke, poor and jobless women can be to men too.
So when you see guys complaining here, you will have an idea of what they are passing through.

HeavenlyCherub:
God help us. Just don’t settle anymore. I pray God gives you a man who stable and also earns more than you do. Just be patient and desist from dating boys who do nothing more than take. Not only are they taking support and money ,they’re actually draining you mentally. Physically and spiritually. A lot of guys with no income are usually attracted to women out of their league

Zaronxpanol:
I don't know why most of the men asking me out are always after my money. In my previous marriage, I was the major financier and sacrificed a lot before it eventually hit the rocks!! I don't know when been an ambitious and fairly successful career woman has turned into a curse in Naija that men feel you have too much money and you don't deserve to be pampered. Too many lazy men in Naija now days looking for rich ladies to prey on.
Quite unfortunate !!! If money dey na sugar sugar, if e no dey na big wahala, carry dey go i don tire, i no dey 4 pay as you go love ooo!!

Dande55:
If you are a guy and you agree to this, that means it was also your mum's retirement plan.

HeavenlyCherub:
It’s true. It’s sad. They think they’re being masculine but it’s such a turn off. Nothing as attractive as a humble, understanding man who views a spouse as a partner than someone beneath them.

Premiumwriter:
no worry dem no go still dm you.


The lyrics is trash.

Having lyrics no mean say we de hear wetin you de talk. It means making sense.


There's noway for any reasonable man to blame Adam for the sins of Eve when he was absent when eve ate the fruit.


There's no logic in blaming Mark Zuckerberg for what Facebook users choose to consume. There are good out there and there is evil out there.

A woman like a man have sense to choose between good and bad. Why say men are the reason women choose evil?

If anything, your song denies the equality women are seeking. It's saying women are a bunch of dumbinos that men can manipulate and made to do their biddings at will.

Go back and cook something better. This time, try not to SIMP.

Premiumwriter:
unfortunately women will still hate him for asslickin them this much.


I mean how does a normal human being blame Adam for eve eating the fruit or say men control the media that corrupt women?

The guy is SIMPING on a whole new level

Buvado:
Have you listened to it? He said Adam stood by while Eve was tempted. Indirectly saying men control the media and things that corrupt women but later men go dey cry say women dey spoil.

Go listen to the song. No be Malian something

Boytide:
A Nigerian rapper named King Koko has dropped a song titled "No leaders"

He laments about how boys are neglected during the trying ages of puberty and they are only left to lead one another or they learn from a curupting media, thus in the end they become toxic when they grow up.

He blamed men for a lot of the misinformation that women are exposed to. He also went on to lament that most world leaders are men and so men are responsible for most of the negativity we see.

This is a song everyone needs to hear

http://www.naijapals.com/music/No_Leaders_King_Koko-106347

Coronavirus84:
No matter the level of infidelity of your spouse, killing is never and can never be the next option. Why killing her and stabbing yourself to death?

kikero:
Yes, we could do more for single mothers. Ostracising them is not the way forward...and can lead to them commiting crimes out of desperation.

Or we legalize abortions on demand...which most Nigerians don't want.

Zabiboy:

I'm not supposed to do this, But it's a Sunday so i have some spare time
It's sad that a lot of guys are still clothed in the feminine imperative....
Anyways i still maintain my decision not to go into Uwa's case bcz its a forgotten issue BUT since lots of guys havnt stepped out of the feminine social conditioning, i'll give you guys the 5 VALID reasons why Uwa's case was as a result of FOOLISHNESS....ONLY IF THE CONDITIONS BELOW ARE MET..
1) You wont use it as an avenue to insult anyone..
2) You'll start THINKING outside the feminine-imperative before going into conclusion
3) Whoever is interested creates a thread and CC me..
I'm doing this bcz i see it as an avenue to make some guys come out of the feminine world we all have been conditioned and nurtured in
GL

ollins:
Let me cut the story short. Had a fling with this girl, along the line she got pregnant. You know all that talk of "if you could sleep with her, then you must marry her" "if you got her pregnant then you must marry her", Iooking back now, I wished I hadn't listened to all those voices.
I knew in my heart that I didn't love her, even she knew but the pressure from the family was too much, I had to marry her. On my marriage day I was practically crying within me.
Her character is just opposite of all I wanted in a woman, she's barely educated, loud and loquacious.
That's my cross I am carrying today, stuck in a loveless marriage.
The warmth and Romance is absent from our home, we have not had intimacy since beginning of the year till now, we just have no interest anymore in each other. We are just living together for the sake of our child.
My question now is how does one cope�? Is this how I am going to live the rest of my life?

kikero:
Indeed, but annoyingly some folks don't like using condom.

Haba.

kikero:
Why did they do it?

Because in Nigeria, if you have a child out of wedlock, your family and community would label you a loose woman.

You would be ostracised by your family and community, you may find it difficult to get jobs, and you would find it difficult to survive economically.

As for marriage, forget it. Even if the man is willing, his relatives are not willing.

That's why we need to forgive women who have children out of wedlock and help them to survive with their children.

progeek37:
I discovered that the reason many people don't know algorithm and data structures is because they usually base their studies on YouTube videos and online coding courses. You can't learn programming principles with YouTube videos, it is never possible, I have not heard of any professional programmers who learnt all from YouTube videos or online courses. YouTube courses and online courses will give a quick grasp of the concepts but not a solid grasp. This is because no YouTube videos can provide you with adequate exercises and examples.
What I mean is to learn algorithm and data structures you need a textbook... printed or soft copy. I repeat you can't be proficient in handling algorithmic tasks without reading books from professional programmers and following their examples and solving their exercises... YouTube videos and online courses many give you a false hope of understanding programming principles when you do just few things the person who uploaded it did in 5hrs videos not knowing you are thousands of miles behind the full stuff.
To learn algorithm and data structures you inevitably need to read books and practice coding programming problems.
I recommend "The Art of Computer Programming" by Donald E Knuth[
He spent more than 2500 pages explaining algorithms and data structures and their importance to software engineering.
But don't rush to the book yet, start by downloading books on your favourite programming language. Try to solve all exercises.
Learn from me ---there is no book I have ever read without doing all the exercises, some take me few seconds, some minutes, some hours... some days, some even take longer time!
I repeat there is no other way to learn programming principles and algorithm and data structures apart from practising, reading alone is never enough. You need to practice, practice and practice no other way. You need time and patience, you will make mistakes, you will see many runtime errors, many compilation errors. You will fail, and fail and fail. At a point a point you will start experiencing the moment when things start becoming clearer and clearer and some problems that have given headaches previously will become a child's play. I'm speaking from experience.
If you are new to programming, you may consider joining my tutorial group. I give exercises that will you a sound understanding of algorithm and data structures. I also solve many problems live via Zoom app to teach participants how to tackle problems.

purples25:
True, a church is not a library. Then, after she got killed there, could we say the death was deserved?

Zabiboy:

It was crystal clear to me right from the first day i read the story....
But as usual....no one care about the details...
Crazy Crazy World...