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Mariangeles:
If you were asked to delete one forever, which one would it be?

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As it is now, the presidency is not really sure for Tinubu again.

Atiku has been busy maintaining a positive reviews but Tinubu has been from frypan to fire and this is really affecting his future votes

Roof ko ceiling ni

maikbanj:
Good morning dear Nairalanders,

Thank you for being there in the past with your timely advise(s). I am here again just to get some more on a case.

I have a girlfriend which I plan getting married to as both families are all involved. My girlfriend has had a bad past. She was once abused and all but then I was able to help shape her when I got into her life. I have been there for her in my own little way but lately, she has not been behaving too well and I am not happy about that fact.I will itemize these:

1. She once borrowed her friend her school fees to rent an apartment with the promise the friend was going to pay her back before exams started. Her friend failed to pay her back and I had to provide her with the money in order not to miss her exams. Note, the said friend is a female.

2. Second semester, her pops gave her school fees which I saw the alert. Yea,she travelled down to see me from Lag and she spent some but then I told her she would not have spent her school fees to come see me. Infact at that time I never knew she was going to come because I was sick but she did. So I told her not to touch her school fees again that I was going to refund her the money. She left and I refunded. I paid her flight back to Lagos.

I later found out my girlfriend didn’t pay that school fees. She spent it and when it was time to pay she kept complaining. I was mad at her wondering what she must have used it for. I scolded her and gave her part of the money.(N100k)

3. I have paid several debts for her as she made some mistakes in her online business and was swindled. The most recent one now, she went to get loans from apps online. I don’t even know what would have made her do that as I try assist her when she’s in need. I have warned her severally against borrowing but she went to borrow and now she’s into debt.

I have asked what she used the money for but she can’t even point to one thing. She said she used the initial loan for her personal needs and when she couldn’t pay back, she had to borrow from another app to pay and all. That’s how she kept borrowing to pay another till she borrowed from over 15 loan apps and her debt is running into 350k as at today.

I honestly can’t pay such an amount as I have my own personal problems to carry. I was mad because in the past I have warned her against borrowing and all. Now she’s in trouble and they’ve been threatening her to pay back.

I have told her I don’t have such monies to pay back and even if I had I won’t pay back. I have advised she talk to her parents and siblings about it but she has been scared. I have that money but I can’t pay back as I have more pressing needs to attend to. Since she has refused to tell her parents, I am thinking of telling her parents. I am very close to her family.

This is someone I wanna get married to but with all I’m seeing, I am already having doubts.

She’s from a very good home. Deep down, I love her and she does too. But why these problems, I don’t understand.

Please I seek your advice on how to handle this as I can’t pay such debts. I have done several in the past

Thanks

If she is from a very good home, she won't be behaving abnormally

Ah

Get her arrested

Cypress042:
Davido would probably think winning an election, is as simple as him topping Nigerian Apple music chart with any song he releases

At least, he is giving his support

He was lamenting about leaving the tenure ASAP but yet still won't want to leave now

Boko people, they will spread boko to the whole country.

They are yet to deal with bandits in their state, they still want them to hold the country to spread their state plague to the whole states in the country.

wheelzcoded:
I've been in love with my friend's sister for a year now, the whole family are cool with me. I and the girl has been so close , we fight, settle, she apologizes immediately when she's wrong, I do too , when we're together there's no boring moments as she keeps creating funny jokes and discussions even if I'm out of words.

So many times I try to understand and dictate signs she loves me , even situations where there are guys with cars whenever we're walking and they stop to talk to her , the reactions from her shows to them she's my girlfriend. Even though we both know we're not dating.

Many times people tend to ask her the state of the relationship or who am I to her , sometimes she says her boyfriend, sometimes her manager because we're in a business together.

My question here is despite she being supportive and understanding, can a lady go into a biz with a guy who she doesn't see the future with? Like she does more of the commitment than I do sef, whenever I talk about the future she doesn't laugh she only says if it's God's plan no one can stop it but she always tells me "I'm not ready for a relationship now, you're not my boyfriend, I just need to focus on my growth"


This is one girl that understands my kinda person and I do understand her too
We fight and settle just immediately.. so many times I lockup and don't want to talk to her she does the checkups and communication. I'm not pushy, the stuff is just balanced .

Even encourages more and sacrifice for me like a wife even some girlfriend's wouldn't do for their boyfriend's...

Few days to my birthday she wrote on her status
"My love's birthday is loading"". Soon I viewed it she deleted it .

How long can I keep accepting this you're not my boyfriend words and I'm your girlfriend attitudes....

Sha no come here later to dey tell us say some females are bad or have entitlement spirit...

Cause, you don't know that some females are better off being just friends than dating them.

As soon as you start dating them, just forget all these you are enjoying from her.

She is doing all these because she is also gaining something from you and if you decide to Bleep it up by asking her out, it's your loss bro....


Get, your self a girlfriend elsewhere.

thebosstrevor1:
So how come commercial drivers aren't given the same judgement

Shey commercial drivers dey survive accident tooo

thebosstrevor1:
The sentence is Too harsh, maybe i am wrong

Or maybe something is wrong with your sanity

So it's not God bless America again, it's now God damn America

mrvocalprowess:
What does this mean on an iPhone (real life experiences preferably) and how can it be removed


Thanks.

Why can't you click learn more about supervising?

Dhevine:
Am tired of changing chargers every time,before I taught it depended on the cost but I was wrong, but I was truly wrong,
is it not better I go for the cheap fake than the costly one.

Pls help me guys. I need to know how to identify them.

I have been using my charger for the past three years now , if you want a charger you can contact me.

DamnnNiggarr:
My Bossom childhood friend was financially down and needed financial assistance because his landlord was suffocating him with his constant nagging. So he contacted me as his old guy and and told me the situation on ground and requested for financial assistance from me. I didn't hesitate in sending him the money which he summed up with the one he had and cleared his house rent.

So, this afternoon, his wife texted me, and in her text, she thanked me for the assistance and requested to pay me a visit and and help me with some of my chores since my wife is in Bayelsa. From the very moment I set my eyes on that text, I haven't been myself knowing fully well that one thing may lead to another during her visit/stay.

That my guy is so dear to me and we treat each other with utmost respect so for this reason, I wouldn't like to loose that respect and trust. This woman is anticipating my response, according to her.

Please house, how do I discourage her from visiting me in my wife's absence without it looking as if I'm avoiding her? What does she want? Who has been in this type of situation and how did you resolve the issue without creating enmity?

You are just a pervert sha and looking for validation

Rastaramsey:
Damnnn

Dwarfism still dey

Mhen I dey pity her ooo

Point of correction

She no fit do half of wetin a normal human being fit do

She is just being metaphorically

Damm

Disclaimer12:
May her soul rest in peace ! She was probably sick before embarking on the hajj, majority of Muslim faithful believe that if you die in Makkah, you're forgiven of your sin and you're going to heaven! She should have waited behind to treat her ailment unless she suddenly fell sick while she was there! So much for religion in Africa

You have spoken my mind.

So jjc too dey live for woman house..

Na your problem be that

He resigned or forced to resigned , they're all useless and we don't even know their impact.

Okay

All these are just within South Easts

1. 50 cent
2. Jay z
3. Nas
4. Snoop Dogg
5. DMX
6. Kanye West
7. Nelly
8. Eminem
9. Pharrell Williams
10. Jarule
11. Lil Wayne

Maybe she has mental problem. You never can tell.

Cause a sane person can't wear something like this to a religion gathering.

Reinaldo:
For your mind. APC and PDP are finished in the Southeast, and that is good news.

If APC and PDP are finished, so what party will remain again in South East?

Kobojunkie:
Oh, I see now! Feminists don't submit, and the some is you can't submit yourselves, but expects the females to submit to you on grounds that they are females. I get it now!

So, you are a feminist? That means you are retard

Their opinion is not needed, it has never helped them so disregard their opinion.

Worriedwife:
Address her sister inlaw’s rudeness and laziness. If her blood sister is rude, am sure she would have beaten her silly. Not all of us tolerate nonsense frm our siblings

How do you know that her sister in-law is rude? Bro. Women lies a lot.

Don't believe anything she says here ...

Women can be crying and still be lying

Mehn

Nice