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SarutobiEky:
I finished there 2016, studied Nautical Science. I'd advise you to go for either martime business and transport studies or marine engineering for a better shot at employment opportunities.

Thank you.

PulaPower:
Well, betting is a matter of choice, not as if you’re being forced to play it. It is people that will take money from their banks then walk into a sport bet center to play bet..

Me for example, I don’t play sport bet. I don’t even play anything gambling games at all..

then congrats to you. You are like a virgin lady. Gambling is the greatest killer of men. Far moreton “kolo”

SIERRIA LOANE

wonderworld:
#JusticeForFactoryWorkers
#EndSlaveWages
#NigerianLivesMatter
#WakeUpNigeria

All advanced nations of the world paid heavy price for industrialization, Nigeria must not be an exception. They will not die, let them work.

jmoore:
When Goodluck Jonathan renamed UNILAG to their beloved son, Abiola. They rejected it.

Now see what they are doing to University of Maiduguri.

Oga stop being sentimental, Unilag has more non-western students.

The revocation of rename with respect to Unilag was as a result of dogged resistance by all students(both present and alumni) especially the non-indigenes of the school.

It's now left for the students of Unimaid to repeat what Unilag did in 2012.

jmoore:
Assistant Professor Yakubu has reacted to renaming of University of Maiduguri.

Politicians destroying our institute of learning with ugly zombic terrifying names. I hope both students and alumni will reject it.

cutecommend:
You may have noticed that at some points in life, you lost appetite to a certain addiction, but you probably felt you were not just in the mood for it at that period. This addiction could be fornication, betting, smoking, masturbation, drinking, lesbianism, visiting prostitutes, watching porn e.t.c.

Sometimes when you are not in the mood for an addiction, it may be God who has brought your freedom, but you need to be sensitive enough to continue and engage in things that will make you continuously not be in the mood for such addiction. You need to cut off wrong things too. If you do not take this serious, you may still go back to things that can stir appetite for the addiction, even when the appetite is not there: and from there, the appetite may come back. And when the appetite comes back, it becomes "war".

Lesson: When you loose appetite for an addiction for a period of time, do not see it as mere "not being in the mood". It may be God who has offered you grace to be free.

I got part of this as a message from someone.

well said sir

Bigcowhorn:
I heard that problem with olosho but never betting

Everyday a different woman. Some days three different women. Money never lasts in my hand and when what I have finished I steal to rush and Bleep

Today I'm a satisfied business man with a young wife




Until you say enough is enough you won't stop and it will destroy you

whaoh glory to God !

Ops needs no advice, he is a lost course

Xso666:
Thanks for your thoughts but why I put virgin wife was because I was so proud that I was able to marry a virgin as I promised myself never to marry a woman that is not a virgin and now this is happening to me so it’s like my fate is being manipulated and I don’t know what to do at this point in time

zThis is troubling i pray Jesus gives you solution of peace.

Thunderfayamods:
Na wah o! What type of mind set is this abi na lack of proper education?

My comment is for MEN only. Let the boys first cross the Rubbican, hopefully they come back alive, then seat with MEN to tell their tales.

Chilipepper:
A lot of men are scrambling to find out which state this dowry list came from 😂😂😂 Why? It's unbelievably cheap!

NON-VIRGINS are not BRIDES but harlot s. Only harlot is without intact hymen.

Men Men Men, stop paying bridal for harlots. Otherwise, it's the day you signed off your honour. Save yourself and stop trying to help God.

If you had deflowed a girl, go marry her unconditionaly. She is your wife.

MightySparrow:
There's nothing like spiritual forces. Let the family go to biology laboratory and find out the cause. If you are still not satisfied, and ChatGpT AI.


If you believe I. the spiritu .al, seek spiritual help

Reasonable solution. Let all you girls be marrying at 36 - 40 years. Case solved.

unfortunately some gullible people will subscribe to your demonic factory made notion. Hope you don't abuse the grace of Christ.

Casham:
My cousin just told me last night that she just got raped on Sunday afternoon/evening (6th July, 2025).

I stay with them for now. She's 18, the first of two daughters and was still virgin (as far as I know). Her only [older] brother is in school.

She's been acting funny since on Sunday evening. She couldn't hold it in anymore and, since there is no one else she could actually confide in, she confided in me. Now she's begging me not to tell anyone and not to cause trouble. She only wants me to help her get a drug (if any) that will prevent pregnancy.

She told me about the man coming to see her in her mother's restaurant and said she was going to talk to the man about getting me a job, but when she went into his car, he forced himself on her.

Honestly I am angry right now! I am angry at three things:

First, I am angry at my family. I have a family where the children are afraid to open up, because if you do, you will be blamed and castigated upon. I understand her fear and apprehension about letting other people know, but I just can't let this go.

Secondly, I am angry at our society. How can a man confidently feels he can force himself on a lady and get away with it? What kind of society do we have?

Thirdly, I am angry at myself. I am angry because I feel helpless. I can't let this thing go. I have to deal with this man, but I don't know how to do it without putting my cousin in a difficult position. I have tried to let her know that it is not her fault and that the man needs to pay for this, but she's been begging me to just let it go. She only confided in me because she's really scared of getting pregnant.

According to her though, there was never any real penetration, but the man (who is a high ranking government official) actually "released" ON her, not IN her. (Does that even make sense?)
How can I handle this issue right now? For me, I am planning to go all out and let hell break loose and let the heavens fall if they have to.

Oga stop this lamentation ! Meanwhile don't listen to her(she is naive and if matter not properly handled its a gateway for her being future olosho ) tell the matter to your parents and then you guys should go the police station for report immediately !!!!!!!!

ChildOfDoom:
betting hard since 2015

oloshos here and there since 2022


multiple loan sharks indebtedness since 2021



had to flee from my 6-digit paying job as i owe a lot physically and online


my misery is about to start

i wholly relate with your challenge , i wish we could talk. Lord have mercy on us.

This is the thing; a girl that tells she likes you, had told some guys before you she liked them, and shall also tell other guy she likes him. Before a lady shows interest in you, she had already written her script and knew how the film would end ; you are just a lead character while she's the director.

Bro, deflate that dopamine; you are not the most handsome, smartest & richest. Now imagine after some time of getting along, there was a conflict, and you discover she's “seeing” someone else in the same workplace, how would you feel ?; sure discomfort and resentment for work.Gradually you begin to loose that virtue that attracts ladies to you;PURPOSE.

Cease that “opportunity”, cut her “pie”, is all a lie. NOTHING is FREE from LADIES(especially non-traditional ones), not even a cup of water; all have HEAVY price tags .

Ozzyk:
I've been dating my woman since 2021 we did introduction recently and already fixed our wedding to next month
Yesterday, She gave me her phone to fix so I used the opportunity to go through her chats...
So, I went through her chats with her sister only to observe that she discussed almost everything we discussed within ourselves with her sister too unprovoked
Although I've always known that she and her sister who is happily married also used to be 5&6 but I never knew my fiancee could be spitting everything we talked to her sister just like that....
I went through their chats even though there's no toxic discussion about me between them
But I'm not fine at all with the fact she debates almost everything we talked about with her sister...
This lady Is everything a man could ask for, she's beautiful, hard working very decent and I met her a virgin
I've not spoken to her about it though I still don't know how best to go about it
I am very displeased

Oga no disturb us here o! You got VIRGIN, beauty, hardworking. What else are you looking for?; perfection; Angel right?

Na people like you go marry dey fight their wife because of how she dey press toothpaste. Make i no stone you there o!!!

1STCREATURE:
Please I really need genuine advice.

I’ve collected the numbers of more than 12 girls in my church — and every single one rejected me. Not even friendship, just straight rejection.

I know I’m not bad-looking — I’d rate myself above 7/10, no exaggeration. I dress well, I keep myself neat, I have curly hair and a good physique. I also earn over ₦500k monthly, so money is not my problem.

I don’t even live in the city — just a town here in the Southwest — by local standards, I know I’m doing well for my age.

I’ll be 30 next month, and honestly, I’m mentally tired. I’ve never even had a serious relationship — marriage talk is far.

The funny part is, I don’t even talk too much in church. I’m not loud, but when I try to approach someone, it never works out.

Please, I really want to know — what could be my problem?


I’ll appreciate real advice, please no insults. 🙏

Thank you all.


CAN I BE TOO INTIMIDATING?

Bro you are ok.Men with destiny often get this type of obstacles. This is a ploy to get them desperate and the subsequently end up with bad wife.
Don't be desperate you should be sieving them and not the other way round except you are only driven by just fornication.

tctrills:
For no fault of theirs, our ancestors did not hear about Christ or Christianity would they be punished for that or would they be given a second chance?

It is written
Timothy 2.3-4
For this is good and acceptable in the sight of God our Saviour;

4 Who will have all men to be saved, and to come unto the knowledge of the truth.

Also
Romans 10:14
How then shall they call on him in whom they have not believed? and how shall they believe in him of whom they have not heard? and how shall they hear without a preacher?

No one preached to our ancestors so is it the will of God that they also be saved and come to a knowledge of Him?

Romans 2 :12-24
“For all who have sinned without the law will perish without the law, and those who sinned under the law will be judged by the law”.

Yes but lesser punishment compare to those who have heard of Christ. Judgements because they had the their consciences to convict them wrong doings(sin), but lesser punishment because they did not hear of Christ.

In Hell there is hierarchy of torments but all inmates are burned with fire.

Gmone:
So here's my dilemma — two amazing women, one heart, and definitely one wedding o. I can’t marry both.

Lady 1: 33-year-old Virgin from Kaduna
She’s kind, mature, and very giving. If I buy her biscuit, she go cook full pot of soup. If I say I’m not hungry, wahala don start. She's respectful, but sometimes her love feels transactional — every kind gesture must return with food or gift. Virginity still intact like unopened bottle of wine. Sweet lady.

Lady 2: 23-year-old Non-Virgin from the South East
She's sharp, focused, full of initiative. She doesn't wait for instructions — she sees problem, she solves it. Very supportive and loyal, at least so far. Yes, she’s not a virgin, but she’s confident with GenZ vibes

Now here’s the problem — with the way infidelity dey fly up and down these days, I dey wonder:

Does marrying a virgin guarantee faithfulness?
Or should I go with the one who already has experience that has GenZ vibes

To be honest, both of them like me, and I like both of them. But I must choose.

So my people, help a brother — who should I marry?

Honestly speaking your inert mind slants towards the 23year old because you have been fornicating with her already. Forget Hollywood and Nollyhood, stay away from non virgins; you will SUFFEEEEER!

When you marry a virgin, you marry purity(undifiled ) and God's favour.The benefits are endless(can't type much ).

Glimpsetv:
A motorcyclist reportedly dropped off this young girl at Orisun Ibukun Celestial Church in Sango, Ogun State, and drove away. Residents are now appealing to anyone who may recognize her to please come to her aid.

The girl was found wearing a school uniform with "De Vision Gate Schools" written on the back.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pGNxq2GIioY?si=K0yh59qcpUZFmlwD

what an angel! Thank you Jesus Christ for your intervention.

who is looking for a perfect wife ?
We are saying a Virgin is still better than a LovePeddler 99.999%. Stop misleading the young men. Get it!

Elusive001:
Iran intensifies mass deportations of Afghan refugees, some accused of being 'Israeli spies'


https://www.ynetnews.com/article/sywdv8lbeg

Mossad and Iran are like NaCl not easily separable.

Whoop! Before i could exclaim holy sh*t ,i was on a rubble of some nail-riddened piece of furniture with a tip of nail piercing my side. As i struggled to get up i asked Kunle(my best friend) in my dialect, “se Kehinde la mi mole ni?”(did she slammed me on the ground?); with a surprise in his face he gently nodded in affirmation. To avoid further embarrassment, with fake threat i had to move off with my friend. As a “big boy” in class, the luck i had that day was that it was a close time and only the 3 of us were in the scene.Even i had to make Kunle swear oath of secrecy to me. I couldn't care less of my minor injury. KEHINDE am a man now, come and let fight!!!

zAm proud of you oop.

KiNg0G:
To be sincere I got disvirgined by prostitute while back when I was still in secondary school Jss2 to be precise. I still remember that day clearly I met with one of my class mate who took it upon himself to show me different joints since that day my life has never been the same.

I don't approach women not like I can't but I find it stressful when I could just go to a joint and pay to be serviced.

Years has gone pass I have graduated from arshawol joints to hook ups which we all know is very expensive. It's not like I can't keep up with the lifestyle but I am tired of having to live this way year in and year out with no changes.

Every morning when I wake up with a different girl beside me I feel emptiness within me like a loser. I might decide to stop but immediately as time goes I relapse.. it's almost like I have been programmed this way.

All my age groups are married with kids of their own but I keep on dumping mine in condoms every night.

just keep relaying your complaint to Jesus Christ. one day
your deliverance will come. Am telling
you this with all assurance never give up on yourself.

Thank God for your life. What a testimony. I'm happy for you.
Let's celebrate

Yes bro
i appreciate you sir

My pity goes to the new guy who is going to start crumbs immediately you fornicate with him. Fornicators pay too heavy price, demn! I dont want that path again Jesus Christ.

I can relate with similar incident in Jan this year. I had a work appointment with a man and was to turn up early monday morning. As i was moving to the Loc around 5am some 3 guys on okada cornered me, their daggers were so long, i percieved they were northerners. Personally my instinct was to react violently in such situation but that day, God took control of my emotion. I said, “abeg i get money, i no want whahala, i get money”. Immediately i gave them the around 10k with, they torn my pocket for more money and phone. I knelt down before them asking to take everything that i wanted no wahala. Pointing the dagger at my chest while on my kneels they latter opted their minds and left.

My takes is this; First God keeps us from the rod of the wicked. Paradventute this happens never drag anything with them . They are lawless, wounded, drug addict and murdering their victim does not cost them a button. Jesus will never leave us o.