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Yes, but it's going to be at his own discretion and convience. This is because the court did not oblige him to give any particular amount. Hence, Anita will definitely find herself paying more bills. Mind you this place is called Naija, Afrika!

Real Analysis Of The Verdict
ANITA VS PAUL
Court disolves marriage= 1:1 it's a draw

Court grants joint
custody= 1:1 it's a draw

Access to children= 80% : 20% Anita wins

Paying of children bills= 75% : 25% Paul wins

Court overruled her joint building claim of #10,000,000=0:1 Paul wins

Court strikes out her $20,000 monthly upkeep claim=0:1 Paul wins

Probability of ease of sex = 65% : 35% Anita wins

Probability of ease of remarriage= 15% : 85% Paul wins

He just blew his chance. Huge red flag there!! (did you say chance! He is red hot and doesn't need a red flag)

I actually liked him and thought he is cute even though he's a Yahoo boy.(... actually like his dos$)

He's quite popular in my dept and lots of girls like him (he's got too much options because $$$)

He told me his wife asked for a divorce from him but he declined.(he took the first good decision).

She said she don't have any feelings for him and the love has fade away.(he shouldn't take that to heart at all)

She has gone to court and asked for marriage annulment. ( She is a wise wife, instead of cheating on her husband and pretending everything was ok or nagging him around.)

He married her a virgin so she is new to all this sexual stuffs.He still doesn't care only satisfy himself that's all.



Ok this is the thing, am sure like a million times, you have heard the phrase, "till death do us part". Biblically this applies to when you marry a virgin wife. She shall never be divorce by husband all the days of his life. Ignore the twist of the sinful society.

Now, the prob is that the wife wants to divorce the husband!
1. Tell him to muster the help of the family and inlaws to beg her in.

2. If eventually, she insisted and get to court, he should tell the judge he still loves his wife and and want to remain married to her. Of course, the court is ever reluctant to divorce couples expecially when one partner is not consenting to the divorce. They are most likely to meditate first.

3. Oops what the both of them need now is space(most men don't like accepting this fact because they think someone would bed their wives during this period). Just a temporary one to reflect and rekindle their vow.

4. Finally if all don't work, let her take her decision but he should never tell her Go.

I've been totally understanding of her and whenever she says stop, I stop. (you got no choice cos it's just 14years of vacation behind 4 great walls)

But I don't think I can keep on with the relationship without having sex.(I thought as much)

I've tried talking to her about it and asking her to maybe see a professional for advice, But I haven't gotten a positive responds so far. (for trying to have a sinful, illegal and premarital sex, common grow up lad!)

I'm thinking of ending the relationship so neither of us can get hurt. (best cos you can have more time for study, career and finance)

Just a game of nerves

When it's just few months to leave power!

Both of them were of the opinion that it would rather keep me confused instead of helping me. That recruiters will consider a candidate with B.Eng Chemical engineering without a masters over me, while chemistry field will consider a chemistry msc holder over me also.

Bottom line, it's almost a waste of time especially here in Nigeria that I should just do msc in industrial chemistry.( says who? That's a rejected hypothesis. Besides most chem eng grads are no better off because they end up in classroom or unrelated ventures in life)

What you need in your field to max is mastery; which includes Msc and probably PhD

You did fairly.
Howbeit this is the thing, when you take Sex out of a relationship then you have Clarity. You wouldn't need a soothsayer or much prayers to know if the lady is The One or not. 95% of ladies use sex to manipulate and deceive men into a Marriage of Inconvenience

However, when it boils down to you jerkingoff and you get a bitch. Stop coming there to nag the bitch(always hungry, can't afford her hair of 3/3.5k and sleeping over in your room and sexing all night) is this or that because you both knew it's a game of give and take.

Hence, avoid abusing the sacred word; Relationship

The palm wine may contain some Tramadol. Just persevere the reaction and you will be fine soonest and avoid that particular wine next time.

Please don't lie to him because you owe him no explanation. If you allow longa throat worry you, it shall end up in premium tears o

Please don't be offended o. Tell me it's a fairy tail right?

With a bag of rice, how is that possible?

Why this story on crime section?