Both of them were of the opinion that it would rather keep me confused instead of helping me. That recruiters will consider a candidate with B.Eng Chemical engineering without a masters over me, while chemistry field will consider a chemistry msc holder over me also.

Bottom line, it's almost a waste of time especially here in Nigeria that I should just do msc in industrial chemistry.( says who? That's a rejected hypothesis. Besides most chem eng grads are no better off because they end up in classroom or unrelated ventures in life)

What you need in your field to max is mastery; which includes Msc and probably PhD

You did fairly.
Howbeit this is the thing, when you take Sex out of a relationship then you have Clarity. You wouldn't need a soothsayer or much prayers to know if the lady is The One or not. 95% of ladies use sex to manipulate and deceive men into a Marriage of Inconvenience

However, when it boils down to you jerkingoff and you get a bitch. Stop coming there to nag the bitch(always hungry, can't afford her hair of 3/3.5k and sleeping over in your room and sexing all night) is this or that because you both knew it's a game of give and take.

Hence, avoid abusing the sacred word; Relationship

The palm wine may contain some Tramadol. Just persevere the reaction and you will be fine soonest and avoid that particular wine next time.

Please don't lie to him because you owe him no explanation. If you allow longa throat worry you, it shall end up in premium tears o

Please don't be offended o. Tell me it's a fairy tail right?

With a bag of rice, how is that possible?

Why this story on crime section?

You have no business marrying a non virgin as a man if you have never disvirgined any girl in your life. It is a dishonor to your dignity, pride and Ego as a man. Hence, every guy should marry girls they disvirgined.

These girls in their seventeens and twenties would sleep with different boys, experiment all sex positions, do hook up with different men( married and single) for money exhaust their purity and youthfulness. But when reality began to dawn on them during their late twenties and thirties;unmarried with no good education, prospective degree, skills, they are now suddenly ready for marriage.

Ridiculously enough, they want guys with good paying career, comfortable apartment and probably a nice ride to bend the knees;we see these weak men all the times, propose to them, pay bride price(originally meant for virginity) for a hoe, marry them and pay literally all their bills thereafter. On top of that, her loyalty and respect [/b]to you is not
even guaranteed because of her soul-tie with past escapades and entitlement mentality to your hard earned finances.

Guys after working your ass all your teens and youth and you succeed in stamping your feet, made money and upheld your family name, what is your gain? Settle for a bitch, LovePeddler, hoe, born-again virgin that had been run through by battalion of guys with dicks of different sizes. Ain't you gonna feel cheated that you deserve her youthfulness, purity and virginity which she willingly gave out so cheap? Ain't you gonna feel outplayed by guys whom you are smarter than and whose level you outgrown to be the real man you are today?

Don't be decieved by the media and society, marrying a non virgin as a wife is a bad deal and is the catalyst for so many marital problems we see in homes today! Alas, the same society and government will still later punish you for marrying hoe by giving her priority during child support, custody and alimony in the case of conflict. Of course these are Godly and natural concession reserved for a virgin.

A woman releases chemical during sex when she orgasm that attaches her to that guy.That's why girls often go back to the best sex of their lives. It doesn't matter what the hell the guy did to her, she is coming back if that was the best sex in her life.

This is the point, men and women cheating is not the same. To men it's a fling, but to women they release "feel good" hormones. So if your woman cheats on you, she doesn't love you. But if a man cheats on a woman he loves, he still very much love her. That lady she cheats with is just a mop- bucket.

The bottom line is this, though i am not promoting it, cheating however is different in respect to men and women.

Oga, It's absolutely not wise for a girl to flash-off a guy she is not formerly engaged to. This applies to you too. You flashing her off is entirely your choice and business.

Because you couldn't read between the lines

Where are they then? They are with other guys they judge worthy of their youth and freshness
. And you are not on the list. So, you have to wait. And to not let you hanging, they give you the task to accumulate the wealth they will enjoy after the other guys have enjoyed their bodies.

See, that advice;make money and women will come would be apt if, after becoming rich, the women that will come are virgins.

And when they understand that the guys who took these women purity where in the very same state they thought they had to grow from to attract them, these men become bitter. They feel scammed. And rightly so. Unfortunately, this frustration can lead to hatred and violence. And this is not good for men themselves and society as a whole.

Succeed for you and your legacy first and foremost. And when, you do succeed be ruthless in your selection of women.

No amount of money protects you from the games women play. No amount of money can compensate for lack of attraction.

As these men are busy building, most women are busy fvcking.

Thank you oops.
Personally I believe that when you marry a lady that was disvirgined by another man, it is dishonor to your dignity, pride and Ego as a man. I can never love such lady. Imagine how they share unclothedness, the sweat, sperm, kisses, positions, etc tweeeeeh! I cringe, and the society makes it look like no big deal! Let every man marry ladies they disvirgined. Am outa here abeg

Glory be to God brother

Absolutely unnecessary and it only complicate learning for the kids.

Before I will list out your remedies, I would like to say that your woman elopes because of the following;
1. See finish; she has lost almost all respect for you by involving third parties and not hiding to your advise and instructions.

2. Finance; both of you are unable to manage your financial challenges maturedly.

3. Abuse; you both exchange psychological and physical abuse over the years.

REMEDY 1
Your emotion; your first adversary now is your mind. It's worried that you will not see your son again, another guy will be sexing your wife, she would get more care from other guys than she got from you, your son will be at the mercy of others, She would villify you before people. Oops calm down your mind! The best thing to do now is to do nothing.

Still trying......