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She is 16, underaged, and naive to be a wife. But she is very ripe to change their bed sheets and give them different “positions”.

Long time ago, the aristocrates in the West locked-up themselves in monogamy with the instrument of law(bigamy). But in order to fill their lustful desire, they will need to keep sex partners outside their marriages. However, there are two problems; most of the young beautiful girls are either bethroled or married, adultery or balantly taking the wives of the poor was a capital crime.

In order to get around these problems(bigamy and wife stealing) they had to use the long arm of the law. A female of 17 years plus is underage! With this prettily harmless law, they maintain their religious statue of marriage(monogamy) and still have long fleet of beautiful young virgins to ravage for between 5 - 10 to years “secretely”. When they are lustfully filled, what do they do? ; they turn the chaff to the poor. Lo, the chain rate of divorce in our society. This is because a woman whose body, heart and soul is damaged can not bond and can not keep a home!

Ogbeni, if you are one of those english speakers, who is saving his hard earned money in other to marry a “bored-hole”,; long years of pains and regrets may await you. mi o shepe fun e o.

A virgin wife >= Phd wife!

A woman releases chemical during sex when she orgasm that attaches her to that guy.That's why girls often go back to the best sex of their lives. It doesn't matter what the hell the guy did to her, she is coming back if that was the best sex in her life.

This is the point, men and women cheating is not the same. To men it's a fling, but to women they release "feel good" hormones. So if your woman cheats on you, she doesn't love you. But if a man cheats on a woman he loves, he still very much love her. That lady she cheats with is just a mop- bucket.

The bottom line is this, though i am not promoting it, cheating however is different in respect to men and women.

Oga, It's absolutely not wise for a girl to flash-off a guy she is not formerly engaged to. This applies to you too. You flashing her off is entirely your choice and business.

Because you couldn't read between the lines

Where are they then? They are with other guys they judge worthy of their youth and freshness
. And you are not on the list. So, you have to wait. And to not let you hanging, they give you the task to accumulate the wealth they will enjoy after the other guys have enjoyed their bodies.

See, that advice;make money and women will come would be apt if, after becoming rich, the women that will come are virgins.

And when they understand that the guys who took these women purity where in the very same state they thought they had to grow from to attract them, these men become bitter. They feel scammed. And rightly so. Unfortunately, this frustration can lead to hatred and violence. And this is not good for men themselves and society as a whole.

Succeed for you and your legacy first and foremost. And when, you do succeed be ruthless in your selection of women.

No amount of money protects you from the games women play. No amount of money can compensate for lack of attraction.

As these men are busy building, most women are busy fvcking.

Thank you oops.
Personally I believe that when you marry a lady that was disvirgined by another man, it is dishonor to your dignity, pride and Ego as a man. I can never love such lady. Imagine how they share unclothedness, the sweat, sperm, kisses, positions, etc tweeeeeh! I cringe, and the society makes it look like no big deal! Let every man marry ladies they disvirgined. Am outa here abeg

Glory be to God brother

Absolutely unnecessary and it only complicate learning for the kids.

Before I will list out your remedies, I would like to say that your woman elopes because of the following;
1. See finish; she has lost almost all respect for you by involving third parties and not hiding to your advise and instructions.

2. Finance; both of you are unable to manage your financial challenges maturedly.

3. Abuse; you both exchange psychological and physical abuse over the years.

REMEDY 1
Your emotion; your first adversary now is your mind. It's worried that you will not see your son again, another guy will be sexing your wife, she would get more care from other guys than she got from you, your son will be at the mercy of others, She would villify you before people. Oops calm down your mind! The best thing to do now is to do nothing.

Still trying......

Oops am happy to know you are already a smart guy. However be more careful of her!

[b]What is she even saying sef?

Ma'am from your write-up, I guess you lack communication skill. Learn to relate your sexual need to your husband, not only in words but by actions. Cos ain't gonna lie to yor, me see dress rehearsal to adultery ]

Only if men could pay attention to minute details that emanate from the mouths of ladies, their response to the stimuli you subject them to, everything will be alright. Take this oops for instance;

He's sound, smart and doing well really financially.(conditional attraction)

Guys that work there always think they're a catch to every woman in Lagos and all that.(insecurities)

Placed his message on read from Sunday till late Tuesday. I noticed he didn't bother to send any message.(Manipulation)

If he cares he could have thought I'm unwell and call.(narccissm)

Replied yesterday and told him I was a bit sick and that's why I didn't reply.(deception)

You owe her no explanation.

Sleeping with random girls without condom, you guys get big mind shaa.

Wise man, another potential broken marriage saved.

Slimwhyt:
God bless you

Amen

Accept her the way she is or leave her alone. Don't try to bend a dried mackerel.

How can 30k be transport to ekiti? She is just looking for a base to lunch her ashawo enterprise.

Only if she can convince me that she is a virgin.

Chai I pity for this oops shaa!

I think you are actually right. The are pile of narcissists, PTSD afflicted and simply put; insane bitches.

Why una cover her face? If na man una go use magnifier expose his face to the world. Thunder fire you wretched feminists!