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Politics / Re: Throwback Video Of Peter Obi Declining When Mbaka Asked Him For Money by omolasho: 2:00am On Jun 17, 2022
If father mbaka actually called Mr Obi stingy, then i am highly disappointed in him.
Romance / Re: I Need A Girl From Port Harcourt For Serious Relationship by omolasho: 1:55am On Jun 17, 2022
Porthacourt girls na OLOSHO o. Dating or girlfriend no dey dem syllabus. Dey ma chop your pocket to bone!
Romance / Re: She's My Spec But An SSCE Holder. by omolasho: 1:43am On Jun 17, 2022
Infatuation & Lust
There are bills to pay o
Inflation will continue to rise

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Romance / Re: How Can I Get Over My Ex ? by omolasho: 3:35am On Jun 15, 2022
Clueless youth, our fathers were leading this nation at the age of twenties and some of the world's richest men today are young guys. Here you are obsessed about a liability cunt.

Well don't take her word for it(free style), she will end up coming after you.
Sports / Re: Vincent Kompany Has Been Appointed As New Manager Of Burnley by omolasho: 1:03pm On Jun 14, 2022
Too early for you to start getting heart
Business / Re: How Do I Recover A Debt From My Pastor? by omolasho: 8:40pm On Jun 12, 2022
Please be sincere Christ is our witness, how much is the debt?
Family / Re: My Wife Still Asks Her Ex For Money by omolasho: 1:17pm On Jun 10, 2022
Arkhanmu:
I married my wife in Kaduna two years ago. During those period we were dating, we were very much apart due to distance. She stayed in Kaduna while I worked in Lagos.

During few times of my personal meeting before our wedding, I noticed huge communication between her and this man. I called her attention to it but she just waived it aside saying they are just friends as Ex (stuff). She joined me up in Lagos after the marriage but the communication between them still continued.

This is a woman I have sacrificed so much for in my life by providing her basics need with the children even though not huge like that. She told me the Ex is a Doctor and they have nice experience together while dating back then. I have adviced even begged her to stop this communication as it it very hurtful and insulting to my personality but she won't stop. Instead she secretly calls and requests money from this guy in almost different occasions.

At a point in time in the past when she went to Kaduna to get her transfer from work place to Lagos, she still visit the guy even as she is heavily pregnant that time. I was able to get the idea through her bank account statement when the same guy send her money for what business I don't understand. It is almost 2 years of our marriage now, I am starting to regret why I marry her initially even as I noticed much difference between us; she is from Southern Kaduna while am from Ibadan.

I wish I have married my tribe whom I can easily understand. Just yesterday night I see another 4k alert from the same guy to my wife. I am really pained though I have not confront her. See guys, I have 2 boys, twin, I take care of them, buy food and all.

Though my work is not going fine but I try my best to make her happy but it seems she is not built for me. I don't really know what is going on again in my life as I am heartbroken.

Maybe the man is even in Lagos most times self. Many things are just running through my mind.




Bro this is the thing. Majority Northern girls are highly promiscuous. Am unapologetical about this.

The above is based on my own personal experiences due to my job. I have lived in Plateau (Jos, Ratified, Tudun wada, Didin Kowa, Room, etc), Kaduna (Kaduna, Malali, Gidan waya, angwa rimi, etc), Bauchi (Bauchi, Bogoro, Tafawa Balewa, liman katagun, Boto, Lere, Bonunu, etc) and Abuja(Garki, Asokoro, Area 1, Kuje, etc).

They are easily wooed and bedded partly due to their harsh economy compared to the south.

They are very manipulative(emotionally and sexually). If they use sex work on your pschi eeeh, in fact you go forget your mother's maiden name . Thanks to their love potion "kaya mata"

Compared to the south, they are less demanding. They will will appreciate the small you give to them. Better still, they demand small small but often.

They are so clingy that once you start having sex with them (soo choking guush!).

One other common thing with them all is that they are incapable of keeping one sex partner no matter how caring you are. Damn bitches!

Many of girls are beer drinkers, but the muslim girls are doctorates in the use of hard drugs, which as a southwesterner, i found so stunning.

They are also emotionally damage. They welcome break up with open arms and are ready to move with any available train.

As a southerner especially a cultured Yoruba man like, you will find alot of their way/life really weird. May God's will be on your family o.

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Family / Re: My 17yrs Old Son Is Getting Out Of Hand by omolasho: 12:41pm On Jun 09, 2022
A Case Of Delinquency Gone Wild

Sorry about everything ma'am.

Absence of a father's cohesion (not your fault though).

You cannot bend them now(they will break and hurt anyone around them).

You only have a single throw of the die; PRAYER PRAYER PRAYER. Let them see and know you always pray for their change.

It's well!
Politics / Re: Aregbesola Congratulates Tinubu On His Victory by omolasho: 11:47am On Jun 09, 2022
Ogbeni, too late you go collect!
Traitor!
Health / Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by omolasho: 11:33am On Jun 09, 2022
Abi thunder wan fire this oops? So you wan we advice you to abort preg and have murder blood for hands? Keep things to yourself the same way you did when you were whooping that candyass. Oloriburuku! undecided
Romance / Re: My Mother And Her Sister Are After My Life. by omolasho: 3:31am On Jun 09, 2022
Before they kill me. I have made up my mind to kill them. I will do

Am tired.



[Ogbeni Nigerian Prisons bad gaan ni. I will advice you take feasibility studies in Kirikiri, Panti amongst others before you decide. If Na Yanki Prisons Na, I for say assurance cover you]

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Romance / Re: 7 Benefits Of Marrying A Virgin by omolasho: 3:13am On Jun 09, 2022
9: she’ll give you HEALTHY babies unlike a lady who’s had thousands of sperms deposited in her.




This one choke o shocked

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Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Is Manipulative. I Know She Is Cheating But She Constantly Denies by omolasho: 8:02pm On Jun 08, 2022
Chai this oops simp o! Like say make I flog am Oraimo cord for neck!


[quote author=MrDanas post=113611582]Ok, So I and this girl have been dating for 3 years.

I made my mistakes (A few girls came visiting me which she saw, she saw chats on my phone and all), we broke up and within that time I am pretty sure she had been with one or 2 other guys as I was always in touch with her security guy who gave me updates. I asked but she denied. I have mentioned I don't have any problem with what she has done during the breakup as i believe it is payback for what i did.

During the breakup, we were still in contact and she mentioned not wanting to get involved with anyone as she was emotionally stressed and needed the time to heal. Well, I knew I wanted her back so I kept on trying.

Well, long story short. We are back together but she still sees the guy and still denies it. I asked her to move in with me for some time and she agreed. She agreed for us to get back together on the condition that she would leave if she notices any foul play, like me talking to girls and all.

However, here is my plight:

It's been a week plus since we got back. She doesn't put in much effort, doesn't call or text, and if I decide not to call or text (match her energy) she fumes and threatens to leave.

>>> I understand it's been just 1 week and she needs time to rekindle whatever we had so taking it slow and being patient. However, I sometimes feel I am getting breadcrumbs (little attention just to keep me as an option ).

>>> She cries whenever she comes to my place as she says it reminds her of all the hurt and the wrongs I did (bringing girls to the house, getting gifts from other girls and stuff)and she still finds it difficult to get past the hurt and trust me again. (So I
Romance / Re: Sex With My Wife Is Very Very Boring, I Need Help by omolasho: 7:40pm On Jun 08, 2022
[quote author=Kollins11 post=113605636]The day I will beg a woman for sex.. My Ancestors will come out from their graves, surround me and flog me with a naked copper wire.

What are men turning into? Don't you know you're reducing your self worth by begging and persuading your wife for sex... Please stop Simping in marriage.

If your wife no wan give you good sex... Go out and get one beautiful lady with fresh, soft and tight kpekus who would fvck the living demon out of your destiny.. Infact she would moan so loud that Jesus will come knocking at your door saying "My son please take it easy with her.. Don't kill someone only daughter"

There are many girls out there who would give it to you exactly how you want it. Shey na missionary style, wheelbarrow style, doggystyle, aeroplane style, stand-lifting style, snake in the monkey shadow style,.. Just name it.

Don't beg that woman for sex again and if she's caught cheating on you.. Please don't hesitate to kick her out of your house


What brought Jesus to this now? That's pure blasphemy. If you offend man, men would plead for you. But if you offend God who will plead for you? Be careful please. As for the oops I feel lashing Oraimo cord on your neck.

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Romance / Re: I'm About To Break Up My Relationship Of 3 Years Due To Indecent Dressing by omolasho: 11:17am On Jun 08, 2022
I percieved you are one of these cool nice guys. You love her too much and you dive too deep!

I sense some elements of insecurity though; your options are limited because you lack enough means (money & swag). Make money, dress to impress and go on dates. Don't get fooled by the society and media, Ladies/women/girls/Virginarians are incapable of LOVE but DESIRE only!

Calm down, love yourself more and turn on your second option plan. You don't need to freak out or tell her it's over, let her shoot and bury herself.

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Romance / Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by omolasho: 3:28pm On Jun 07, 2022
Like parents do sound during child's delinquency stage. Relax like some pple here, experience will educate you well. Since you were sure of your instincts walk her up the aisle and continue enjoying your BJ and nipple twisting, why make a public stunt here?
"Irresponsible father"
"Money is not the problem "
I laugh in Russia-congo!
Romance / Re: “no Matter What Happens, Never Lay Your Hands On A Woman” by omolasho: 4:36am On Jun 07, 2022
The clown didn't read it.


Ochyes:
Did you bother to read the write up before commenting?

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Romance / Re: “no Matter What Happens, Never Lay Your Hands On A Woman” by omolasho: 4:35am On Jun 07, 2022
Bold and sincere one from you OP.


Ochyes:
What are some examples of manipulation?

“No matter what happens, never lay your hands on a woman”

You've most definitely heard this statement a million times. It wouldn't have been a bad statement were it not for the first part that says “No Matter what”

Is this gender equality? Is this your definition of the word? Parents advise their daughters to be strong and not take shit from any man, which is okay, but on the other hand; boys are advised to take shit from women because that's what makes them real men. Are you kidding me?

This is why we're gradually raising boys who will end up getting abused by their partners and see nothing wrong with it.

The media keeps peddling garbage quotes like "the day you raise your hand on a woman is the day you cease to be a man" but a woman dosent cease to be a woman the day she hits a man.

Now, in case you haven't gotten it yet, this post isn't about promoting gender based violence; it's about teaching our guys that it's okay to defend yourself if she starts hitting, it's okay to shove her if she won't stop hitting you.

Some people will quickly jump in and say "why don't you be the man and walk away". Let me tell you something; the only way to take care of bullies is to stand up to them, if you walk away, they'll come back for you.

"No matter what happens, never hit a woman", Anyone peddling this statement is trying to excuse abuses on one side, anyone making such statement is trying to silence the other side from standing up for themselves.

I'll always remember the story of Amber heard and Johnny depp; that's a prime example of what happens when you let abuses from the female gender linger, all in the name of being a man.

I also recently remembered something about the case; it wasn't Johnny who came out first, it was Amber. That means, if she hadn't come out to falsely accuse him, johnny would have remained silent and kept suffering.

That's what will happen guys, if you allow an abusive partner to continue, it's not going to stop until you address it.

This dosent only have to be about relationships, tell yourself you're worth it, and that nobody, not even a girl has the right to hit you, and if she does, defend yourself.

Defend yourself! Defend yourself!! The law will always excuse self defense, I don't know why so many guys don't seem to understand this. If a man tries to attack a woman, she's advised to go for the weak points, use any weapon around her to inflict as much pain as possible (rightly so), but when a man is being attacked by a woman, he's advised to be the bigger person and walk away.

It's shown in movies a lot, a woman hits a man first, and as the man's about to hit back, the woman goes "you're not really going to hit a woman, are you?"

Scenes like that make guys feel it's okay to be hit by women but it's an abomination to hit back.

Another statement I hear from people trying to excuse shit like this is "you can't really compare a woman hitting a man to a man hitting a woman" oh really? That statement is the most archaic thing I've ever heard; no matter how ripped you are, if a 13yr old girl punches your nose, or your eyes, or your throat, you're going to go down! Gender has nothing to do with it. Guys feel physical pain too

Never ever excuse abuses from the female gender. Here's the thing about human beings;

If a baby is sucking it's mom's breast, there are times when the baby tries to be naughty (usually due to boredom as a result of it no longer being hungry) by biting on the nipple. Now here's the thing, when it bites her, it usually looks at her face to see her reaction, if the mom looks at the child sternly, the child will know better than to try it again, but if the mom ignores it, or even worse; smiles, the child will bite on the nipple next time—harder!

That's humans for you, give them an inch and they'll take a mile. It works for all genders but I'm being specific here.

Defend yourselves guys, never excuse abuses because you want to be a gentleman. When I say "don't excuse abuses", it doesn't only have to be physically, if the situation allows you to walk away, you can walk away and file a lawsuit, but if the situation dosent allow you to walk away, hit back

This post isn't encouraging guys to hit girls, it's encouraging guys to hit back (if there's no other choice).

If I have sons, my advice would be "boys, the day you become the aggressor and hit a woman first, you become a disgrace to the male gender and a sorry excuse for a man. But if she hits you first, defend yourself however you can"

If you're a guy and you were too lazy to read this, at least take this home; never ever lay your hands on a woman, but if she does first, make her no longer a threat.

If she's man enough to throw a punch, she should be man enough to receive one as well. Nobody has monopoly of madness.

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Romance / Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by omolasho: 8:58pm On May 30, 2022
From your narrative, God had given you a good job and Satan will crown it with this guut wife.

Premium Tears brewing.

Trust me, we elders shall be here to console you while we sip palm wine from the calabash.

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Family / Re: I Had A Fight With My Married Younger Brother, I refused to Apologise by omolasho: 10:22pm On May 29, 2022
Ops, frankly i cringe reading through your narrative. Especially when you beat up your married younger brother in the presence of his pregnant wife and his child. In fact tears nearly role out of my eyes. He is an adult for goodness! Adults don't change but they are managed.

You have painted a negative life time pictures on the memory of your sister in-law and nephew, not only about yourself but of the whole family.

You are no better than your brother because you disobeyed your mother by choosing not to apologies to him. I must tell you this, you should also apologies to his wife and child also. Beg God for forgiveness and never thought of such anymore.

Hint: have you heard of siblings stabbing one to death during fights. Fight between adults are often bloody and deadly. That is why the governments of all countries criminalise it. Your brother had the ego inducement(humiliation before his dearest ones) to have did you blood if not your parents moral that still remains in him. Please go genuinely apologies fast!

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Religion / Re: 31 Dead In Kings Assembly Church Stampede In Rivers State by omolasho: 10:31pm On May 28, 2022
[quote author=FERNANDEZISBACK post=113251565]31?what was God doing? grin
Smiling as usual?so sad.. cry
Can we now accept the fact that he doesn't exist cos if he exist he would have found a way to save those persons.. undecided undecided

No sensible father will watch his kids stamped to death.. cry
They are gonna insult me for sure but will never think about my statement..if God was truly alive why didn't he save those people...?

Modified: Christian extremist are really insecured..look how they keep insulting their God without bringing logical proof and statement.. grin
My statement remains the same..[color=#990000]GOD IS MAN-MADE AND HE DOESN'T EXIST..HE WAS CREATED BY HUMAN TO DECEIVE GULLIBLE PERSONS..THE EARLIER YOU UNDERSTAND THE BETTER..STOP WAITING ON A FOLKTALE BOOK TO CONTROL YA LIFE.


Chai, this is blasphemy in its purest form!!! May you see tribulations that will make you believe that God truly exists. Amen.
Crime / Re: Kenyan Man Kills His Wife's Lover After Catching Them In Bed In His House by omolasho: 5:40pm On May 27, 2022
He should have butchered the wife too before going to jail. This demonic catalyst of a woman would be fucking around while the man waste off in jail!
Romance / Re: Married But Dated A Single Lady For 2 Years Now I Am Loosing My Mind! by omolasho: 12:31pm On May 27, 2022
[quote author=NLElder post=113204471]First of all don't be quick to judge me. I am just here for matured help/advice cos I am fast loosing it. I am sure if it's abroad I will to told to go meet a therapist.

I am a young man in my early 40s and married for 9 years now with 2 kids. My nature of work is such that I am living on another town 5hours away from my family. This has been the case 6years out of the 9 years I am married. I have never really enjoyed my marriage as a young man cos I am always driving up and down every weekend to meet my family and when I got a promotion with more responsibility I reduced it to every 2 weeks, and as the stress of work and driving became more stressful, I now go every month. I have tried all my best even till date to see if I can get another work in the same state my wife and kids reside to no avail and my wife can't leave her work in the state join me as she is in a federal government establishment that has no branch in the state I live and work.

The scenario so far shows you that I am not enjoying a healthy sex life with my wife, but being someone brought up to respect the marriage institution, I have resigned to my fate and taken life as I have seen it. To make matters worse, with due respect to my wife, she suffered female genital mutilation and you know it affects women's sex life and their man is always worse off for it. In summary we lead a routine boring sex life in the few occasions we even get to have it. However, the 6 years I have lived and worked in another state, I have never cheated or thought of cheating on her despite all the cold lonely nights I have to spend alone. I am a kind of introvert and never hide it from people that I am married. Some will be like "u no get side chick"? I will say no.

The problem started 4 years earlier out of the 6years in the city I live and work. Since I am always lonely and bored in my crib, I mostly do video calls with my wife and kids daily or chat online with friends to keep my mind busy and avoid unnecessary tensions that will remind me of the lonely boring life I was living. This also keeps me away from sexual urges if I feel any as a fool-blooded young man I was. It was in one of these online chats that I got close to one young lady of about 30. We really got close through chatting and graduated to exchanging numbers. I always make it known that I was married to everyone I meet and she was no exception. We became best friends online and kept our limits as married man and a single lady would. We became curious and excited to meet each other live when we found out we were in same city.

We arranged a harmless date in a restaurant in town were we really got to know more about each other. I found out that she was a struggling young girl teaching in a private school with NCE and was unable to proceed to degree level due to lack of funds. Her salary wasn't even up to 18k and she was squatting with one lady in very uncomfortable circumstances. After that 1st live meeting, a very good friendship ensued but entirely platonic .

All these past 4 years before I met her, I cook for myself and go to market by myself. One Friday she called and I did not immediately pick cos I was in the kitchen. I called her back later and told her I was cooking and she jokingly asked if she could help. As at then she was yet to come to my place, so I told her if she really wanted to help then I would come and pick her up and that was how for the first time in 4 years, a lady visited me in that town. It felt awkward. It did not take long for me to find out how homely she was...washed plates, tidied everywhere, and finished up the cooking. I really felt at peace and started getting worried at the same time. We spent time chatting but kept our distance and nothing happened between us and I dropped her off later where she was squatting.

After that, our friendship went to another level and the visits became more frequent but still nothing happened between us. I got to know she was a well brought up lady that still had values and I also confirmed she had no man as at the time she met me. She said she had always wished to be married before now and never believed she would reach 30 and still be single.

I know my story is getting rather long, so let me try to wrap up. In summary, she started having issues with the family she was squatting with and didn't have enough money to rent a place of her own. I didn't have enough to rent for her either as I was already carrying a lot of financial responsibilities for her by then...monthly stipend of ₦10k to add to her salary, tolletries, making hairs and even helping out with her sick mum hospital bills.

So without a 2nd thought, both of us decided she move into my place. Inside me I knew it was somehow but I think by then we were already in love with each but maybe living in denial.

So she moved in and that was it. Yes, we started having sex, uncomfortably at 1st but later became 2 sex maniacs. It was as if she was sent to compensate me for my horrible marriage sex experience I have endured all these years. We couldn't have enough of each other. In fact when I want to travel and see my family, she breaks down crying. I knew it was more than a side chick matter. In fact this lady gave me a fulfilled sex life that I swear if it's in the olden days I wouldn't mind taking her as a 2nd wife. Months grew into years and our passion for each other grew to the point that we got jealous of the opposite sex calling us. She even starts frowning when my wife calls or tears will start running down her eyes. People, I became so confused. We both knew we have gone too far and yet were not ready to end it.

I even because part of her own family cos I go with her to see her sick mum and played a prominent role when she died. I don't know her older siblings knew if I was married or not , but I think she confided in her older sister who seemed to like me so much and only warned her to be "careful."

After 2 years, she started agitating about marriage so much that she said she needed to move out of my place. That as long as she is with me, she might not get married since it's obvious I wasn't going to marry her no matter how much both of us pretended about it. Deep inside me I knew she was right and I couldn't be selfish to keep her from meeting single suitors but I felt an inexplicable pain in my heart as if a part of me was about to be cut off. However, I forced myself to assist her to get a place and yet she on her own kept coming to my place every weekend until she moved in again leaving her place wasting for over 2 months., only going there once in a while to pick things..

All the 2 years we were together she was open and truthful to me about relationships she was now trying to build with single guys she hoped would marry her. I was already feeling bad inside me that she was about to leave my life, but she kept assuring me that she was with me and truly told me everything happeneing in the new relationship she was building.

She later moved out completely from my place after 2years on a new year day. She said needed to start the year on a good and clean note and had gotten serious with the guy that said he wants to marry her. I began to feel extreme jealous I couldn't explain. I knew it was not right but I couldn't stop myself. I tried my best and stopped calling or chatting with her but I still didn't find peace. One evening a month after when it was now clear that she has decided to get serious with the guy she said was coming for marriage, she visited me and and you can't believe it, we made hot passionate love. And when we were lying side by side, her new man called and she quickly ran into the toilet to answer him. I felt it was time I ended this whole thing, it wasn't looking right again.

So I confronted her why she was still leading me on when she is now in a marriage -bound relationship and she said because she still loves me and doesn't know how to let go of me. We cried together that it wiould be tough as we would soon separate from each other for life and she left. I cried like a baby as we made love again and she consoling me to try and teach my wife the things she does to me despite her FGM predicament.

The period she was with me, she was uncomfortable answering calls from her man and I got fed up and decided to investigate. So I went to the street where she showed me the guy lives(she was truly open to me and I give her that) and waited to see if she has started visiting him as she mostly denies and lo and behold, I saw her entering the guy's house. I felt a sharp pang of jealousy which I couldn't control. I picked up my phone after some minutes and started calling her, but her phone rang severally and she didn't pick. I was almost half-dead with jealousy. I cried iny heart and drove away. I sent her a text that because she was "enjoying" herself with her man she was now avoiding my calls. That maybe tbe guy was so good at it. She called about 2 hours later and really took offence that because she visited him and did not pick my call was simply because she doesn't want him to start asking questions and not necessarily that they were doing anything.

We quarrelled like never before and said hurtful things to each other and I asked her to return my key at my office the next day cos by then she no longer visited my house as she has really gotten serious with the guy. She returned the key and for over 2 months we stopped communicating and became strangers.

Instead of pushing her out my mind, I felt a daily torture looking through her Facebook pics, WhatsApp status, and other social media. I will go to her guy's street and painfully watch her enter his house from afar. I was fast losing my mind. I knew it was over for good and don't want her back but the obsession is yet to leave me till date. Everyday, I check her pictures and feels pangs of pain and jealousy as I see her lovely smiles. My people it's punishment and torture for me. I keep obsessing every second of my life about her. Who can help me? Something is definitely wrong. In one of her recent status, I saw her flaunt her hands with an engagement ring and I felt a sharp pang of sadness instead of happiness. People help me I am loosing it. Even though she has apologized to me and I too have apologized for the hurtful things we said in the course of our quarrel, my mind is still not at peace.

Even now presently she is engaged she still calls me and tries to engage me in friendly conversations but I will just be answering without interest. She even sent me a pic recently at a wedding she went to and I told her she should stop sending



Firstly this is an ungodly relationship that must end inresperetive of the closure. It's mostly better it ends in state of displeasure like yours. Friction like this means you guys are now doing the needful by ending it.

Secondly, ops I percieved your heart for game(cheating), like a soft belly, is too tender. This is a normal stage Simps(pardon me) go through before they become 'Hyaena heart" like some of us. Mind you, don't be hard on yourself self. You will be better off.

Girls like that, from what I percieved in your story are MASTER MANIPULATORS. They know that they have nothing to offer and are damaged. However, they have one lethal weapon in their arsnal; Enslaving SEX(BJ, CG, RCG, AU). She knows that well and that's what the likes of your girl use to enslave men! Perfect sex, house keeping and fake submission.


Stop viewing her profile/pic in all social media, don't initiate calls, pick her calls, be polite and unattached.

Stop taking it personal, it was all a game! Focus on your family more and give yourself time, time will make you feel alright!
Romance / Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by omolasho: 7:48am On May 26, 2022
Already going through this hell on top of a woman whom you have not married yet! How miserable would your life if you eventually fall into her manipulation and marry her!



cowboyvs:
Good day Folks, I am not going to bore you with all the details. Ok, I have been a member of this Forum but I really need matured advise cos I am in a dilemma right now. I met this cute babe in 2021. She is from Edo I am Igbo. I was really thinking of getting married to her but I have some serious concerns.

Firstly, sometime last year she came visiting. While she was sleeping on my laps her phone screen lit up so I was tempted to look and I saw message delivered to Mariam. So something whispered to me to check the content of the message. When I checked, I discovered that the message was deleted after it was sent. So being a Guyman, that discovery spurred my curiosity. What I did was to copy the number and checked on Truecaller, lo and behold a Man’s name appeared. So I checked his name on face book and checked on WhatsApp too and I saw it was a married Man with five kids. So I waited till morning and confronted her. Initially, she denied it was a man but when I confronted her with my evidence she confessed it was a married man. I enquired further and she told me they have had s*x like 4 times while we were dating ooo. I butted her out of my house and blocked her completely. But this babe will be using other pple’s phones to call and be sending msgs telling me she is sorry. So at a point I forgave her and we continued, but, I was not ready to start trusting her again. So last week, I was trying to see if she has truly turned a new leaf before making a major move by going to see her parents. I was shocked what I saw in her WhatsApp. There was this random dude asking her out. From their chats she told the guy that she has a boyfriend so she can’t have anything to do with him. But, she sent him a video of her touching her Vagi*a. Telling him she wets and squirts very well. When the guy demanded they see so he can feel her she told him no that her Vagin* is only for her boyfriend. Also I saw so many guys asking her out but she kept telling them she is in a serious relationship and she can’t date them. So I am really confused. She is 22 and I am 33. It pains me so much cos this girl is so loving and caring and also a good cook. She treats me well and has never disrespected me. I am really hurting inside cos I feel this is not the kind of woman I wanna marry like how do u expose the most intimate part of ur body to someone else. Is it lack of maturity or she is jst loose and I didn’t know. I have refused picking her calls but she keeps on begging and sending msgs seriously. I am tired. Please I need matured advise cos I am no longer getting young and I wanna settle down ASAP.

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Religion / Re: Then Vs Now; Deborah's Family From Grass To Grace(pictures) by omolasho: 7:37pm On May 25, 2022
Amen, Yahweh bless his servant greatly in Jesus name!


Favaman:
As posted by founder of OPM.

This is how God turned the family of Deborah's situation around.

From living in a hut in a small settlement to owing a flat In PH.

God bless apostle Chibuzor and his ministry
Romance / Re: I'm Addicted To Peeping At My Neigbhours unclothedness While They Are Bathing, Help! by omolasho: 12:24am On May 25, 2022
Almighty Jehovah please deliver op from this bad habit in Jesus name I plead!


ZenithBanking:
I have a big probem.

I'm always peeping on my neigbhours/friends unclothedness when ever they are taking their bath.

It all started six years ago during my ND in school, & up till now, i'm still living with it.

During my ND, there is no famale tenant that i didn't see her unclothedness to more than a million time, even when i went back for my HND, i did thesame thing.

I'm currently serving right now, and i'm still doing thesame thing here. I peep on my neigbhous and fellow corps member here.

I've been doing this for six years, and i've never being caught. Sometimes i ask God; why was i not being caught all those times in school, why didn't GOD want me to get caught.

I've tried every possible means to stop it, but all failed, even when i don't want to do it, my spirit will keep pushing me & if i don't do it at that time, i won't rest.

It seems i can't live without it.

I know someday i will be caught and embarrassed and get my pictures uploaded online for this crime.

I'm afraid, i need help.
Politics / Re: FG Moves To Weed Out Some Sports Betting Companies In Nigeria by omolasho: 3:13pm On May 24, 2022
adenigga:


Source: https:///FG-Moves-To-Weed-Out-Some-Sports-Betting-Companies-In-Nigeria

He just wanted to be given some egunje, election is in the corner and they need money.
Romance / Re: Ashawo With Good Character Vs Prayer Warrior With Bad Character by omolasho: 6:01am On May 24, 2022
Ogbeni forget about the ashewo with good characters and prayer warriors with bad characters. Look for PRAYER WARRIOR WITH GOOD CHARACTERS!

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Romance / Re: As A Woman What Will U Take Back 4rm Ur Boyfriend If He Decides That It Is Over? by omolasho: 4:44pm On May 23, 2022
Choilila:


It is so childish to collect things for someone because you both are not in a good terms .
Only sicko and useless animals do that.
And that is not the end, they go around telling the universe how they afford heaven and earth to satisfied your service .


The topic is what a partner could offer in a relationship! Stop twisting the whole thing abi which kind of daft souls am I sharing nationality with gan sef?
Romance / Re: As A Woman What Will U Take Back 4rm Ur Boyfriend If He Decides That It Is Over? by omolasho: 4:38pm On May 23, 2022
Choilila:
It is so childish to collect things for someone because you both are not in a good terms.

See this bushmeat, Mumuski!

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Family / Re: My Stingy Elder Brother by omolasho: 4:27pm On May 23, 2022
Gottiii:
I still can’t believe my elder brother is planning to send me a Es330 (2006) from the United States.

I have told him several times i can’t drive such car, I am already imagining the look of people when they see me. I mean people wey dey my area. People for area know say I be big boy.

I don tell am several times say I no need car wey dey less than yr 2017. The money dey but very stingy. I sure say na the wife dey give am wrong advice.

The car clean sha, full option but below my level. I go just sell am.

Abeg, make una advice me.

Rehearsal to Fraud. Guys beware o!
Romance / Re: I Would Have Lost My Girl Friend If Followed An Advice I Got Here. by omolasho: 12:52am On May 22, 2022
Chai see fresh mugu! Well the elders are waiting, because surely you shall come back.


Alaigbopress:
Some days ago, I posted here about how my girl friend posted her ex pictures twice and I got a handful of advice, insults and very derogatory statements. Also at the same time I also got very few matured and helpful comment.
I wanted to apply the advice I was given here because I was furious and that could have been disastrous.

The next day after posting here, I confronted my girl, I told her it is over between us(all was a ploy to know how much she loves me). Since that day, my Girl's mood changed, she doesn't talk to people, she doesn't laugh and even started skipping her meal. She came to my house and was crying heavily that she was sorry. That has it been she know that it will provoke me that she wouldn't have done it.

I still pretended that I will never forgive her. Just yesterday she called my female bestie and narrated to her what happened and she called me yesterday evening and pleaded with me to forgive her. Which I did and You need to see how happy this girl has been. I will send screen shot of her recent Whatsapp status.


My Advice to anyone seeking for a relationship advice is not to follow the popular comment here.

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