₦airaland Forum

my bro,I understand your pains,some married men are in the same shoe with you but refused to act just because of children in the marriage. though my own is not as bad as your own, aside the restrictions from sex from my wife other aspect is better I think.

my wife complains of being tired all the time,if I make love to my wife twice a month am lucky,that will be after fighting or begging. she will never initiated sex,or ask for it.
I fell in love like that for a lady in the past but i later reset my brain otherwise I would have divorced my wife.

talk to your wife one on one if it doesn't work,report to anyone she respects.if it fails then do the below.

look for a working class single mother of two or three who is not under pressure to remarry to date.enjoy yourself and forget about your wife.leave all the house matter to her.but be finacilly responsible to your children. she will come around later to seek settlement.

if it doesn't come for settlement see separation not divorce.divorce should be a last resort because of your children.

I don't think the the writer is married.

my brother,pls discontinue with the relationship.two of my siblings died of sickle cell problem. our last born got half paralyzed one leg and one hand out of the sickness complications, he later died at the age of 13 the day my elder sister was doing introduction. my mum developed hbp because of sleepless night and stress.
we the other siblings alternate school to care for him.all these amounted to waste when he eventually died.
I got married to an As lady while am equally As accidentally but God in his mercy gave me a boy and a daughter who are AA and As.
I dare not think of babies again despite having resources to take care of more.
in fact we are seriously warned by our doctor.

super story

you be mumu.gerroout of here mehn

Thank your lord for saving you from potential olosho.they full online.

when will you grow up boy?

when will grow up boy?

after this stress,some will be unable to secure employment after many years of graduation. God bless Nigeria,where stealing is not corruption. Gbami!

people respond to heart break differently, some will cry,some will resort to mood swing,some will just stay calm and nurse the wound quietly. crying is not a sign for being weak.

trust women at your own peril, love with your heart not brain bro.
give her space for sometime.

you need to examine yourself and talk to your wife , terminating the marriage is not a solution to every challenges in marriage.do you know if the next wife will exchange nudes with other male friends. so work on your marriage.

where is the evidence please.if the complainant can bring evidence fine.but law is about evidence.

good plan though,but masters bedroom should be cross ventilated.then do you really need 4bedroom with 2 living rooms.can't you consider 2and 3bedroom and be designed in such a way that it can be divided in future and rented out.it could amount to waste of land space in the nearest future.