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Of course it is possible, Good to see that you have some knowledge in the bible, I would like you to read the whole books that paul wrote in the new testament of the bible and the answer is there! Developing feelings of lust can be controlled! So what paul mentioned is possible!

@ ihujumbo

When you knew that you had no love for the guy, why did you marry him in the first place? That is deception which is bad. The truth has to be said. But what has been done, has already been done. What you need to do now is to pray to God for forgiveness for your deceit towards your guy. God would forgive you. BUT more importantly, try and see if you and him can sit down and discuss, so that you can amend things. I understand that you just used him so that you could have someone with you to keep you strong after you suffered a heartbreak. Now you want to dump the guy. Are you a christain? If you are, the bible contains much advice.

All this karma thing that people are talking about, I don't believe in it! But as a christain, there is something similar to karma. And it is in the bible. What you do unto people shall be done unto you too! And God said that he is the God that judges the sins of a person up until the 3rd and 4th generations! Its in the bible.

I don't know how much knowledge you have in the bible. There's a story in bible about a man called Issac who had two sons, Jacob and Esau. Esau was a good hunter of meat. When Issac was old, Issac told Esau to go get & prepare him nice meat. Fortunately, Jacob and Esau's mother - Rebekah, overheard the conversation between her husband (Issac) and her son (Esau). So she called Jacob and told him that his father is about to bless Esau. So Rebekah advised her Jacob to do the same as Issac had instructed Esau to do. WHen Jacob had brought meat, Rebekah helped him to prepare it. Issac was old and he could only identify Esau by touching his hairy body. So Rebekah advised Jacob to wear a clothing that was hairy. So Jacob wore the hairy cloth and brought the nice meat to Issac. Meanwhile Esau was somewhere else still preparing his own meat for his father!

Issac touched Jacob and thought that it was actually Esau. So Issac took the nice meat and then blessed Jacob. So here, Issac has been decieved by his son Jacob!!!! THIS IS THE DECEPTION. Now look at how it affected Jacob in his life! Jacob was also decieved in another unsuspecting area of his life.

Lets pause here on the story in the bible. Some people on this forum have advised you to watch out and be careful so no one decieves you just like you decieved your husband. So likewise the same, Jacob too would have been cautious but look at the unsuspecting area of his life that he was decieved!

Jacob was decieved when he wanted to get married to Rachel! WHen Jacob indicated his interest in Rachel, Rachel's father - Laban told Jacob to work for 7 years before he could marry the lady(Rachel) he loved. We all know that 7years is very long. Imagine being told to wait 7 years before you can marry the lady you love. You are not even allowed to go on a date! Talkless of touching her or possibly seeing her!

So Jacob worked for the 7years and after 7years he was decieved just like he decieved his father! He was given another lady instead of Rachel! This other lady was Leah, Rachel's senior sister! So Jacob was played! bUT Jacob protested and said he wanted Rachel but Rachel's father then told Jacob to work for another 7years before he could marry Rachel! SO he did and after another 7years (14years in total) married Rachel. You can imagine how Jacob would have felt! BUT that is just how life is!

That is why it is advised in the bible that you should do good to everyone and not treat anyone badly because God would forgive you if you ask him to but the scars of the sin you commited would still be there! There are many other stories in the bible, you can read them and see for yourself!

NOTE: Although this whole issue of deception in the house of Issac was caused by Issac himself! If you read the bible, the answer is there! BUT Jacob was also decieved by Laban( the father of Rachel and Leah) because of his little role in decieving his father!

Pray and ask God to speak to you about what you should do! God knows best so pray and he would guide your choices!

TO OTHERS
TO all you parents with children, it is very very advisable to teach your children about the word of God in the bible. Let them understand how God dealt with the people of those days. Remember, God said he changeth not! God is no respecter of persons! Even a prophet that disobeys shall be dealt with. (Read the story of the last years of Moses).

If you need advice, you can go to the church, I believe there should be a minister of God that can help you out.

I really wonder how people are this rich o, I guess things are getting better for nigerians now!

@ ONOSEN
Thats true, UK employers are more interested in the experience you have and not the qualifications you have.


Its a good thing to return to naija and possibly start a business rather than stressing out in so called "Jand".

The legitimacy of the property is also important. Eg for land, you need to see the certificate of occupancy,

True talk, y'all need to starting thinking of a business you can do! Look at what people need and see if you can supply it, rather than moaning for lack of jobs. Look at Jay-z the rapper! This guy knows he had talent, he applied to sony records and all those record labels in america but they all turned him down. Look what he is today! Its true that you may need a job to gain experience and possibly capital, but the hard truth is that no one owes you a job! Nigeria has got talented citizens for sure. I know nigeria would be a very great country one day whereby everyone from around the globe would want to come and visit nigeria.

@ everybody

GOD FORBID A TSUNAMI IN LAGOS, O, LAGOS IS DA CITY OF GOD, AI-IGHT,

God is able! Are you a Christian? Depends on your faith in God! Besides I know people that got F9 in Mathematics but graduated with good grades from university!!!

Hello people,

Please does anyone know of a free software that tracks shares/stocks, (if any free one exists), Suggestions about non-free software would also be appreciated.

Thanks Y'all

PLEASE LIST THE REQUIREMENTS OF THE PROPERTIES YOU NEED, SO THAT FELLOW ESTATE AGENT NAIRALANDERS MAY HELP,

Consider your choices carefully! What I would advice you is this - Whatever move you decide to make, don't and DON'T SELL OFF YOUR BUSINESS!!!!

@ Seun

If you are an electrical engineer, do you need a loan to repair damaged electronic equipment for people?

If you are a Computer Science graduate, do you need a loan to supply PC consumables and repair PCs?

If you are a brilliant student , do you need a loan to start giving personal tutorials and composing handouts?

If you own a digital camera, do you need a loan to cover events and produce photo CDs for people?

If you like to cook, do you need a loan to offer to be a resident chef for all neighbours?

If you like children, do you need a loan to convince your neighbours to pay you for baby-sitting services?

I know students who own laptops. Why can't they lease such laptops to people for short presentations?

Nigeria is a country full of problems. One man's problem is another man's profit!!. Get cracking, people! Instead of looking for capital, look for a business that requires capital withn your means. The fact that you are alive and not dead means that there's a certain amount of capital at your disposal. Manage it!!

This is really true! I hope many people can listen and stop demanding huge capital to start a business.

There should be! Have you considered going to university? Otherwise, you can still get jobs as a secretary for a company or there should be plenty of other opportunities, Or you can start your business, you don't need a huge capital to start,

There are many businesses you can start with that amount of cash!

Come down to where?

@ Freelance,


I like your first post! That is a word-up! Freelance which area of Nigeria do you live? We can do business together! Being positive and trust in God is da best thing,

DONT ATTEMPT A TUMMY TUCK. BE HAPPY WITH YOUR BODY SHAPE. YOU MAY TRY EXERCISING SHA, BUT FOR ME, I CAN NEVER ADVISE ANYONE TO DO TUMMY TUCK BECAUSE IT IS A RISKY SURGERY PROCEDURE. IF YOU ARE DOING IT FOR POTENTIAL HUSBANDS, THEY ARE NOT REALLY WORTH IT, A TRUE MAN SHOULD LIKE YOU THE WAY YOU ARE,

HALLAR

Hi,

You can continue checking this Job section. Some good faithful nairalanders do post job vacancies here. Besides I think your university you graduated from should be able to help you. God's time is truly the best. I've got a friend that actually graduated from university and found a job after about one year. It was a miracle! Don't lose hope. God would see you through! You can approach companies yourself too.

Word,

Are you a graduate and looking for a job? Don't worry God would see you through. Besides you can use your spare time to think about a business you can start. You don't need a huge capital. Also ask your self if your business venture is in demand. I hope this helps.

Nice pictures! Thanks for the enlightenment of the African continent!

HELLO NAIRALANDERS,

I JUST WANTED TO GATHER INFORMATION FROM YOU PEOPLE ABOUT THE I.T. TRAINING PROVIDERS IN THE UK. IF YOU HAVE JUST REGISTERED OR GRADUATED FROM AN I.T. TRAINING PROVIDER IN THE UK, PLEASE LET ME KNOW YOUR EXPERIENCES. EG DID THEY HELP YOU FIND A JOB? MOST I.T. TRAINING PROVIDERS CLAIM TO FIND YOU A GUARANTEED JOB, IS THIS TRUE?

I AM PARTICULARLY INTERESTED IN HEARING FROM PEOPLE WHO TRAINED UNDER THE FOLLOWING PROVIDERS
- FDM ACADEMY (BASED IN BRIGHTON BUT IS OPENING A NEW BRANCH IN LONDON)
- JUST I.T. (NEAR LIVERPOOL STREET STATION IN LONDON)
- UK I.T. TRAINING
- BRITTANNIA I.T. ACADEMY


THANKS IN ADVANCE FOR YOUR RESPONSES.

Which country are you in? Don't worry, regardless of location, God will help you find a job! Dont panic. Besides have you thought of starting your own business?

thanks people, any more comments would be appreciated. i have noticed some true words here! keep the truth alive peeps.

London Met. is nice. There are plenty Nigerians there. So be rest assured that you would come across a lot of them. I can say that the university is Modern, compared to most universities in London. Enjoy your studying & have fun!

HELLO ALL,

I AM DOING A SURVEY AND WOULD LIKE TO RECIEVE YOUR SINCERE RESPONSES.

1) WHICH UNIVERSITY DID YOU ATTEND?
2) WHAT SUBJECT DID YOU STUDY?
3) WHICH YEAR DID YOU GRADUATE?
4) HAVE YOU FOUND A GRADUATE JOB IN YOUR CHOSEN PROFESSION? (EITHER IN NIGERIA OR UK OR ANY COUNTRY)
5) ANY COMMENTS ABOUT THE UK GRADUATE JOB MARKET. I WOULD ALSO LIKE TO HEAR FROM NIGERIAN INTERNATIONAL STUDENTS AND ALSO HOME STUDENTS TOO.

THANKS IN ADVANCE.
NB: INFORMATION COLLECTED FROM HERE WOULD BE COMPILED AS STATISTICS AND SHOWN TO SECONDARY SCHOOL CHILDREN IN NIGERIA WHO INTEND ON COMING TO THE UK OR ANY OTHER WESTERN NATION TO STUDY. PLEASE BE SINCERE. THANKS AGAIN.

how do i get nysc exemption certificate?

TRY UNIVERSITY OF EAST LONDON.

THAT IS WHAT I HEAR FOREIGN STUDENTS SAY IS THE CHEAPEST.

@ AFRICWOMAN

WHY DON'T YOU APPLY TO COMPANIES WHICH SUPPORT WORKPERMITS IN THE UK. SOME COMPANIES ASK FOR ANY DEGREE DISCIPLINE FOR A PARTICULAR PROGRAMME. EG WITH YOUR MARKETING DEGREE, YOU CAN WORK IN AN ENGINEERING PROGRAMME.

WHICH UNIVERSITY DID YOU GRADUATE FROM? AND WHICH YEAR?

@ ALL

THE ANSWER IS BLOWING IN THE WIND,

ALL IT TAKES IS COMMON SENSE, TO SETTLE THE SITUATION IN NIGER DELTA,

THESE PEOPLE ARE NOT BORN-ANIMALS, THEY ACTUALLY REQUIRE SOMETHING, WHAT IS IT? THEY WANT THE GOVERNMENT TO CREATE A BETTER LIFE FOR THEM, WHY CAN'T THE GOVERNMENT DO THIS? AT LEAST THEY ARE PUMPING OILS FROM THEIR LAND, THEY ARE EVEN VERY NICE, THEY ARE NOT ASKING FOR MONEY, THEY ARE ASKING FOR HEALTHCARE, SCHOOLS, E.T.C. ITS A SHAME ON NIGERIA THAT THE VILLAGES THAT GENERATES OIL IS ONE OF THE POOREST, PLEASE VOTE FOR ME SO THAT I CAN REPAIR NIGERIA AND STOP ALL THIS RACISM BETWEEN YORUBA AND IBO AND HAUSA,

@ HEADHUNTER


WHAT IS THE NAME OF YOUR COMPANY, I KNOW MANY PEOPLE THAT WILL LIKE TO COME AND WORK AT HOME

any naija party happening in style in London Make una talk o. Or Lagos? or Islamabad?