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Are u sure your wife is sick?

For me, it's either ur wife is punishing you for some certain reason, has an ulterior game plan(I won't say it) or indeed sick.

amfinishedhelp:
Hello my fellow nairalanders, i created a new moniker to hide my identity, i really don't know how to begin but i will try as much as possible to make everything clear
It all started on the 13th of February 2013, after i and a friend of mine was returning from a football center a match between Real Madrid and Manchester United, there is a brothel close to the matching hall, although i have been passing there most expecially when coming from church but i have never gotten the guts to branch to see how it looks like even though i really wanted to, so on this faithful day when coming from the match hall my friend decided to branch and asked him to follow him, which i did i was still a very strong virgin then and never had sex or masturbated before, i was 19 then but am 23 now, so he called one of the prostitutes and had sex with her i really wanted to also but i didn't have anything on me and it was very late because i had the intentions of getting home to collect money and go back again, but it was really very late already and they must have closed at that time before i could make it there so i decided to sleep and go the next day, that night i could not sleep, the sexual urge that gripped me was too much that i was trembling and can't really wait for day to break and gets dark again so i could go, note : i didn't ever knew that there was anything called masturbation then or that stroking ones genitals will give him/her pleasures, so the day eventually got darker and it was night already, i went to meet my friend and told him about my plans and told him to accompany me because i really thinks i won't be able to approach one or talk to her that i wants to have sex with her, so we got there and i pointed the one i likes and we went in, so she collected 5h from me and we had the sex, i didn't lasted 2 minutes before i ejaculated, i came out but couldn't find my friend then i knew he was in, so i waited for some minutes before he eventually came out, "that day was when my problems started" next day i went selected one and had sex with her, since early 2013 up till date i have been going...going...and going, since that day till this date not a single week have passed that i had not have sex, there is a note Facebook note i have been writing which is privacy is set as "only me" the number of sex i have had, as of last two years before i stopped writing was 244, no exaggeration and no subtraction i said this because many here won't believe what am saying or might probably thinks or making this up, all what am saying here is the truth and definitely 101% true "if am lying concerning anything i says here then let God take u my life, "let me sleep this night and not see the break light of tomorrow, let me not see 2019" i started going and going, most of the time i would have sex with two different prostitutes, i always do so because i lasts more on the second round, sometimes i will go twice on same girl, last year 2017 was when this thing really got worst because i was actually masturbating daily "every morning" when bating before going to work and would still come back in the evening and go to the brothel to have sex all this sex i have been having are all with different prostitutes except for some few which i had repeated sex with, sometimes i would have sex with 2 different prostitutes, and sometimes 3, i no longer sleep with just one prostitute any time i went it's always 2 or 3 different ones the highest scenario i have done so far in the four years i was visiting the brothel was a day i had sex with four different prostitutes and during my night browsing the urge came again and i masturbated, i felt so weak the and pains all over my body the next day that i could not go to work, i have become so thin and laggy that i don't have physical strength to fight or work because of the amount of sperms i waste daily, the highest day i have stayed without having sex in all this period of 4 years that i started was 11 days, i was able to stay long because of what happened between i and my younger brother whom i am older than with 4 years and a month but he is much bigger than me, although same height but he is far more thicker than me with much muscles, "he is always fund of abusing my mum and threatening her all the time, so this particular day i can't really recall what happened between him and my mum so my mum slapped him and he returned the slap to her and kicked her, i was still on the chair pressing my phone that day, immediately i saw this i rushed him, but before i knew it i saw my self on the ground with blows raining on my faces, he held me down with one hand, i could not move after a few minutes a papa, our next door neighbor came to the rescue, "since that day up till this moment as am typing this now, i have always been afraid to confront him whenever he abuses my mum or does anything wrong, sometimes when he is finding something and shouting on top of his voice my heart will be pounding so fast" probably because of fear i really can't explain. that was when i really knew i had to quit because i have become so weak with pains all over my body every single joints on my body is paining me, so after that scenario i was able to hold the urges for 11 days clear before it overpowered me and finally i broke my vow, this past Christmas watching night day i had sex with 3 different prostitutes and still went the next day which it Christmas day, a day after Christmas day and a day after that day, same thing i did on new year day after praying and crying that night not to ever and ever step do it again, that same night was the night i broke my promise, the total of prostitutes i have slept with is more that 460+ within a space of 4 years since i started, everytime i would vow never to go again but the next day i will be the first to get to the brothel with a strong feelings of sexual urges, i really don't know how to stop this, last week i went 5days of the 7days of the week, but this week after vowing not to do it again i have only gone twice and as am typing this now am trembling with a strong sexual urge right now i for sure know i will be going this night, i have written down all the negative impact it's having on me so that when the time comes i will be able to read in and not go anymore, but whenever the urges surfaces i won't dare be able to read them all that would be on my mind that moment is to go to the brothel and have sex, i have tried all i could to stop this and also to stop masturbating but i have not been able to succeed all this while, i really don't know what to do with my life anymore as it is affecting me physically and spiritually, since this year only once i have gone to church which is first Sunday, throughout last year also total number i went to church is was not more than 6times, please fellow nairalanders help me, isn't there something that could be done to stop this powerful sexual urges and thoughts from coming every now and then, i have been unable to save any money all this years, i could remember my mum begging me one day to give her 100# that she wants to eat suyabi refused because i have budgeted the money already to visit the brothel that evening, i ended up wasting 2,700 i was so full of rage, anger and regrets after reaching home but still next day i went again, sometimes i will use the last drop of money i had on me to go to the brothel and the next day i won't have any single thing to eat, i will be filled with so much hatred and regret for my self and vow never to go again, but before i knew it am there already. the amount of action bitters i have drank can fill a paint rubber, i always took action bitters all the time whenever am going so i could last long and not ejaculate quickly, i really needs to quit please i needs solutions, different solutions am ready to try any, please help me nairalanders. I can't really continue like this, there is actually none of the brothels in the city i lives that have not gone to. Please help me nairalanders.

Give ur life to Jesus and go for spiritual deliverance. This is beyond what mere efforts can handle. Only Jesus can

just type and 'friend' Jude Idada on facebook and be amazed at the dexterity with which Jude writes and presents his day to day experience on Lagos roads. He is a very good writer.

Anomalyy:
Didn't really want to bring it here but to follow my heart but a topic on fp about a man fathering a 3 year old kid that's not his has made me more confused

Let's say I'm in my late 20s and hoping to settling down later in the year or probably next year.

Met this girl last year and we've been dating for 6 months now. The problem is I'm very scared of our future, i took her very serious because i love her and she's very beautiful but on a scale of 10 my trust for her is at staggering 5. Her mom left her dad, when things went south for the unfortunate man, lost his bank job and became broke, she left him did some business before she traveled abroad. I've seen her pictures drinking, smoking a life we can easily call wayward and unafrican for a mother, in fact she has tattoo

At first i didn't bother my self with all that until she also told me about her aunt who brought her up while her mum was away. She didn't hide it that this one is a senior runs girl in portharcourt

Then her own lifestyle (my gf) she has lived just like the 2 women in her life. One day i jokingly asked her how many men she has slept with she said maybe 10 which i even believe is more than

But she claims she's now a changed person and thank me every day for changing her lifestyle.

But my big question is, do they really change? Can she really leave her oloshoism and be a good wife. Me i can't handle an unfaithful wife at all. She cheated on me 4 months in the relationship but she claimed she didn't sleep with the guy she traveled to spend weekend with because they were just friends. We've had several issues of her putting her phone on flight mode when ever she came visiting, that was at the beginning of our relationship.

I'm very confused i brought it to the family section because i know they're more matured people here than the romance section.

Do you think a woman can really change like that. She even had a sugar daddy before. Did i mention i was her 4th bf in 2017 and we stated dating in July lol. i am very comfortable and i don't think there's any thing she has asked for i didn't provide for her to my ability

My people should i continue with the relationship and keep praying or just reconsider and find a good woman for my self. Thanks

keep praying for what exactly? litany of signs all around you of miseries you are gonna walk into if you marry this lady, yet you seem unperturbed. This ain't just about the history, the lady has actually shown you that apple doesn't fall far from the tree. I like giving people the benefit of the doubt, not in this case. Walk away and save yourself from regret of a lifetime and stories that tell.

samolistic80:
Frsc team at Ogere unit command did the rescue, which I'm well aware.

All right

woodmood:
Oga FRSC officer, the FRSC does not have the " mandate to operate on ANY and EVERY road" in Nigeria.

People are not against the officers and men but against their excesses.

Change and tell your colleagues to do same.

Na early morning be dis.

I don't think it would show any semblance of sanity if I continued to argue with you. Have I ever met or had an encounter with you to the point of you asking me to change?

My argument ain't about what they do on the road but whether it is within the ambits of the acts establishing them to operate on any road.

Kindly get a copy of 'FRSC Establishment Acts(2007)' to put to rest your ignorance.

AutoReportNG:
Despite the directive of the Lagos state governor, Mr. Akinwunmi Ambode banning the activities of the Federal Road Safety Commission (FRSC) and that of Vehicle Inspection Officers (VIO) from Lagos roads, it might interest you that the dreaded FRSC are back on Lagos roads. A cross section of the officers can be seen around Lagos Metropolis such as Victoria Island area, Lekki and some other parts. AutoReportNG did a quick survey and it might interest you that the guys this time around mean some business. Lagosians have sighed relief 5 months ago when the state gov. restrict their activities on any Lagos road. A friend jokingly asked one of them if they forgot something on Lagos roads that they came back to pick.

Drivers, brace yourself and make sure your documents are up to date.

Source:
http://www.autoreportng.com/2017/10/frsc-back-on-lagos-roads.html

Lalasticlala
Mynd44
Ishilove
Marpol
Semid4lyfe
Obinoscopy
Seun

Ask yourself whether a federal agency having the mandate to operate on any road in Nigeria considering the establishment acts that brought it to fore be banned by some statement allegedly made by the governor of a state. More so, what I heard he said was that he only advised the Corps knowing the limits of his power vis-à-vis federal agencies.

KingOvo:
Source:http://thenationonlineng.net/oau-3-8million-saga-lamba-beat-two-times-vp-retorts/

These are the expected-to-be leaders of tomorrow. God save this nation!

This is one of the reasons I watch cartoons with my children. You never can tell when a mind-twisting scene will be shown. May God help

blackberlin:
Jazz is not real (for those who know the God they serve)

Saying jazz is not real is saying devil and demons are not real. Don't be deceived. They are very real, but God protects His own

dedoz:
Wow! I thought I was the only one who fights when giving her son drugs.He is 2yrs n 4months now.Even if I mix it with fruit juice,golden morn,pap etc he still detects d taste and abandons it for you...I had to resort to using cane to scare him.Once I pour d drug in a cap and he refuses to take it,i bring my cane and hit it on d floor and chairs around him threatening to flog him if he doesn't take it.He usually takes it after all the persuasions.It really takes time.

Be happy yours capitulates after being threatened, but mine, as long as it is about drugs, he would be looking at you crying, but won't comply.

Originalsly:
Bro.... ask yourself if you liked everything your parents gave you to eat... then ask yourself if you had a choice... then try to remember how many battles you had with your parents... and if you did... how many you won.Bend the tree when it is young . At 2 years old the baby child is battling the parents.... like it or not... you're training your child to be a menace to society.

At times when I see the way some people reason, I'm alarmed. Are u saying every child that doesn't take drug is being trained to become a menace to the society? This is extreme! Are u married let alone have children? like I said, your sense of thinking beats my imagination.

katchycouture:
Yes I heard but since this this drinks I mentioned are what my son drink almost everyday, it is part of his launch pack to school so I don't think using it as a means of giving him drugs will have any effect...

Just yesterday my son was given this immunization medicine that the local government people go about to give, unfortunately they met him in school, my boy vomited everything he ate while going to school simply because of that tasteless drug... so u see I no get choice oooo he has to take medicines mixed in his fruit drinks or take injections....


I wonder how I came about have a child that would never take drugs... was it my fault?? Did I indulge him too much as a baby??

This has nothing to do with indulgence. They just develop that attitude. His older brother takes any drug, even when it is bitter. Imagine me now falling sick because of worry. Anytime the boy in question falls sick, it is a battle.

katchycouture:
You are welcome...The drink doesn't reduce the potency of the drug...This is a system that works very fast for me. ..Once my son has high temperature I administer paracetamol with this method and under 5 mins my boy is sweating and fever gone.

My wife called to tell me that she poured ibumed into his pap, he took it without knowing. He likes pap very much.

katchycouture:
I understand ur plight very much, my son is almost 5yrs old and has never taken drugs, he won't take it no matter how much trick u apply, but there is something that works for me now....I buy his favourite drink ( happy hour, caprisone, lucozade boost or ribenna) then I desolve the medicine in very little water, I use an injection syringe to draw it and pour it in the drink.... belive me ur child will have no idea of what he is taking...try this and thank me later

Thanks very much, madam. You really understood my plight. This is one way to go, but I hope the drink will not reduce the potency of the drug. Thanks so much, ma.

delishpot:
Very simple solution. buy a syringe from a pharmacy, use it to dispense the medicine slowly. Put in his mouth then pause then repeat until he finishes it.

we've tried that, it didn't work. He vomited everything. Al I'm saying he doesn't want to have anything to do with drugs.

My younger son, irrespective of what you do, doesn't take drugs despite their sweetness. He is unwell now. I've been tinkering with the idea of telling doctors never to recommend syrup again for him. He wastes them. Rather, any medicine he needs to take should be through injection though a doctor argued otherwise. I've been battling with this for over a year. He is 2. Really confused.

Movies produced then in nollywood had originality, good concept, great storyline and a lot of thoughts and creativity were put into them. One can't say same of today's. full of craps! I remember Asiri nla, Ti Oluwa nile, Iru esin, Fali werepe, Asewo re Meca, Lola idije( if that's the real title), ori and so on.

Couple of movies like that back then

Ori! wat an interesting movie

project8:
i dnt know about u guys but i havent had or seen anyone who receive november salary.if there is a news/update on that pls lets here u.tnx

What sort of country is dis! Salary is not paid and no information from the FG to douse the tension that's already built up. This is so shameful! Maybe they are of the opinion they owe workers no explanation for this. What a shame!

Jimi23:
Did she partake in the act in exchange for winning the pageant? After she won the propably blackmailed her into returning everything she won with the pageant.

That's a theory I wud subscribe to

[quote author= post=50190995]This part na lie the ASP definitely knew.



This were just the unlucky policemen, used as scape goat naso life be o. Funny thing if you ask the policemen now they would say it is their first time o.

Very soon our police men would start moving with P.O.S machines.

But to those police men that lost their job, chai work hard o, how una go do now na[/quote]May I tell u that the ASP was lucky. You can't do that in some other paramilitary settings. He will be charged for loss of command and control. He took a team out and allowed that to be carried out under his nose!

LadyMercedes:
It applies to every Honda. I'm not so sure about the new models.

Abeg, carry out your experiment with your friend's ride ô.

my colleague's 2000 Honda baby boy's key does not open the door of my 2002 version let alone the ignition. It doesn't work the way it's being postulated here.

ExAngel007:
Recent reports reaching Naij.com this moment confirms that owner of popular multipurpose studios and entertainment outfit, Chris Jeyibo otherwise known as Chris Koga is dead.


[img]http://i.onthe.io/vllkyt2me067am4lo.914c0837.jpg[/img]

The CEO of the multimillion naira outfit died in a ghastly automobile crash at about 1:00am this morning.

Chris who was on his way from an event in his white Range Rover Evogue crashed into a parked truck around Magodo, Lagos.
May his soul rest in peace.

https://www.naij.com/999641-sad-top-entertainer-dies-ghastly-motor-accident.html?source=index_main

it's either this man was inebriated or asleep when this happened. May God grant his family strength to bear this inauspicious loss.

ouvredeparis:
It's not against his wish....they only agreed to tell me when I clock a certain age.. And before I got to that age... The man died.. .so she only acted on their agreement.. .and I guess that's the more reason she was so pained when he died

Don't ever call ur dead adopted father 'the man'. I saw that and felt pained. He's far above that, pls.

CSTR2:
And Netflix does it again with an awesome series on the Infamous drug lord Pablo escobar.
No season 3 unfortunately.

The season 2 I bought was not properly subtitled. It's subtitled when the characters communicate in English, but not if the other language is spoken

DOCTOR90:
buy lemon fresh lotion & d body wash

To you, it seems lemon fresh is the solution to virtually all skin issues cos u've used it for three years as u claimed. Are u talking as an expert or ur assertions are sentiment based?

ChrisKonor:
Hello ma'am,

the reason for your uneven foot might be because its nearly neglected when you're applying your cream.

you have to apply much quantity to your legs ma'am, because its exposed to much environmental hazards than your hands.
scrub your foot well while bathing to remove dead skin cells.

as for your face, Try CARO TONE DARK SPOT CORRECTOR. its very effective, i advice you to use it periodically tho. And you should start using a facial wipe. use at least 5 pieces a day. I wrote about facial wipes HERE: http://www.ilookdope.com/2015/11/facial-wipes-secret-to-outstanding-face_25.html

Drink alotta water too, 10 cups too small for a day right? (LOL! kidding o)

Hey! i almost forgot your baby's own. Buy him nivea naturally even body lotion, it will return he's natural skin colour...

#bless

I bought Nivea natural fairness to bring out my natural skin colour as I'm neither dark nor that light. I discovered my face is dry and almost wrinkled, does not make my skin fair, but somewhat dark, gave my face pimples and some patches of acne. This is after using it for about a month. I just want some cream that will even tone me without all I'm seeing right now. I'm a man. Any way out?

prof1990:
During my IT at GTB I had an encounter with a lady that paid 50k to a scammer who promised her a job in the aviation sector. 50k to a scammer

It is what it is. Similar thing happened to me in 2009 while looking for job. I didn't buy that, but fell flat when I was told of a federal job vacancy which I had to secure with 180000. I was swindled by my cousin of that sum. The job never materialized. One needs to be very careful and wise. May God help us.

This ain't a surprise it is not having lots of comment and I don't think it is on the front-page. We prefer commenting on mundane things. May God bless the soul of ur mother. I don't know her, but I say she was a very loving and faith-filled woman. God bless her soul