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EgunMogaji:
Do you have a job?

Throw yourself at your work, ask for OT, volunteer for extra assignment.

hmmm

KashyBaby:
Same problem, same solution...every person who fall in love, felt d same way when they broke up..

Why not focus urself with something interesting instead sitting there and keep thinking about her & feel pity for urself?

thanx my dear.. But like wat interesting thing can I embark on

falconey:

falconey wat?

Love is painful when u love someone and the person does not see or understand that u love her, I find it hard to move on with my life without my Fuel attendant girl... I have never in my life love a woman the way I love her and not that she is that beautiful but I just love her like that.
Since everyone gave me an advise to Forget about her I have tried my best not to call her or text her... I maintain my silence since last week about her.
But sometimes deep inside me I feel the pain of not communicating with her and since she told me she don't want to see me I can't force my self on her.
Yesterday I felt like calling her I have already dialled her number but thank God I control my self and I didn't call her again. I woke up this morning with her thoughts on my mind I wanted to text her and I stopped and caution myself again.
Romance landers Am I doing the right thing and can anyone help me with good advise how to move on when someone breaks someone heart... No insult pls... I need a matured comments...you guys has always been my source of inspiration with your comments and advice. Thanks all

Fellow nairalanders pls I need help on how I can create a Facebook add to advertise my business and also create a simple Facebook page that I can automatically add my friends to it... Thanx all

Aremu01:
It's painful but I feel ur pain. I think ur mistake is getting too intimate and showing her how much you love her.

Jus let her go. She is not interested. Heartbreak is painful but u have to survive it bro.
Girls are plenty

thanx bro I really appreciate your candid advise

Penisinpenisout:
Why are you soo obsessed with this girl OP

From what i can see, you sold yourself cheap
You bought her all this gift and you lost your value
You did not even make her want you, and now you're wondering why she never loved you.

Just mend your damn heart and move on, and i hope you've learnt? That not every girl will fall for your materialism trickery, i hope to God you've learnt your lesson that personality is very important.

Here is an abstract lewd image of pepe and wojack. To console you

Thanx man.. Best advice so far
U are really intelligent
That was exactly what I think happens....
She does ask me material things every time which I did not resist..

Thanx all for your contributions and advice on this forum I have made up my mind now to forget about her... But what should I do may be after forgetting her for some months and she calls me back that she is sorry

Am depressed and in sad mood now, Romance landers, how can u love a girl so much that the girl don't even care about you? After much effort to get attention of my Fuel attendant girl, I did everything to make her happy, takes her out, to many places, zoo, garden, eatery and so on. The relationship between us was so superb in the first two weeks, suddenly one night I was kissing and romancing her, very close to a corner in her house she touched my dick and was feeling it, she was happy as I held her in my arms, I was kissing her kissing all part of her body I brought her melon out that night and I was playing with her tips with my mouth.,i then manipulated her private part with my finger, she stood up got angry and left me there, I persuaded her but all effort to get her back failed, though she warned me never to take beer again but I still take and she still perceived the odour, I bought things for her and she does collect,since the day she left she has not picked my call, I went to see her yesterday at her fuel station when she saw me she hiss on me and walked out.... I went to her sister shop very close and told her sister what she did, it was then the sister said she will talk to her, I even try to impress my girl by driving my brand new Toyota corolla car to her station on my way coming back home I met her on the road with a guy and since we knew each other she has never seen me driving.... So I parked by her side to greet her even though the guy was beside her, she did not noticed it was me. So when she came close to the car and discovered I was the one she hiss and told the guy.. Let's go jor..... It was painful I wish the ground opened mouth and swallowed me... She really rubbish me... So this morning u called her to know if her sister has talked to her. She picked the fone and told me never to call her again in my life and that I should avoid her way... I was depressed the more... I never knew I could love a girl like this I av not been eaten well for some days just cos am sad. I only takes drinks... She called me bak about 30 minutes ago now and this is what she said...


TOBA WILL U LISTEN TO ME,, U SEE IN A RELATIONSHIP U DON'T FORCE YOUR SELF TO LOVE SOMEONE.. I NEVER ACCEPT YOUR REQUEST AT FIRST BUT U ENTICE ME WITH GIFT AND TAKING ME OUT... I NEVER LOVE U... I TRY TO LOVE U BUT THE LOVE DOES NOT COME FROM MY HEART AND I DON'T KNOW WHY PLS JUST STAY Away FROM ME I DON'T WANT U...

After saying that she cut the call and I call her back this is what she said again..

WHAT IS THE PROBLEM WITH YOU TOBA? DON'T U GET MY POINT? I WAS TRYING TO STUDY YOU DURING THE FIRST TWO WEEKS I WAS GOING OUT WITH YOU BUT I HAVE KNOWN U AND WHOM YOU ARE... SORRY I CAN GO OUT WITH U..
she then hang up the fone..


I call her again she picked but this time I asked her about her jamb result.. And she said she hasn't check it..
When I dropped the call I was thinking about her and I felt like shedding tears...
This is where I need your advice most Romance landers.... Cos your advice has greatly impacted my life... Should I forget about this girl for life or I should still try whether she can still love me? And with AL I have explained what might be the cos of her action was it becos I showed her much love or what? thanx all... Your advice is needed urgently

This is a real story of a young Ex-Unilag girl who passed away last month. Her name is Lola. She was hit by a car at Oyingbo on her way to work at Apapa. She was working with MTN. She had a boy friend named Emeka, a banker who was recently transferred to Abuja. Both of them were true lovers. She spent half of the day and most night talking with Emeka on her phone. Lola's family knew about their relationship. Emeka was very close to Lola's family in spite of the tribal differences. (just imagine their love.) Before she passed away at LUTH, she told her friends:"If I pass away, please bury me with my cell phone"She also said the same thing to her parents. After her death at LUTH, the attendants couldn't carry her body to the mortuary. A lot of them tried to do so but couldn't. So they went to call a priest in church who had the gift of communicating with the dead. He sprinkled some salt and water on the body and started speaking to himself slowly. After a few minutes, he said:"this girl is missing something". Then her friends told them about her intention to be buried with her phone. They asked them to bring a coffin, and then they opened it and placed her phone inside the casket. After that, they tried to carry the body which could now be moved and they carried it away easily. Everyone was shocked. A day later which was Lola's birthday, Emeka came to their house with gifts but was so shocked to receive the news. He couldn't believe because he still spoke with Lola the previous day, He then tried calling her phone again in their presence and behold! It rang and Lola picked it and they were chatting. They called the priest to come and intervene and when he came and prayed for 5 hours,It was revealed that MTN is everywhere you go. Chill! Don't insult me yet, because I'm also looking for the idiot that composed this......lolz. But u like gist sha! See how u concentrated on this.... Oya dont be selfish pass it on while I go disturb anoda group

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Baba God me too wan sell bread oooo OLAJUMOKE no get two head na beg I dey beg oo, pls pick up the call

I was surprised to see the name of the church I keep wondering what the Efcc mean

popesam1:
He try though, you should work more on this. May God crown your effort@op

yes

Diddyydiva:

what

cruzita:
well is the child not his?why can't he do it?if he doesn't do it for his wife ,who will he do it for?

to me it looks somehow.... Is it not better for the husband to adopt the service of a cook

MrCork:
..Son..is yorrr name Sinaj?...PLiS..GET THE STEPPIN!! (No ofeensce)

STEP WHERE?

Pls let's share our opinion about this matter

MrCork:
..darrlin pliss can I enter?

enter where? E resembles were u fit enter?

bolt000:
So fvcking true.

hummmm

Diddyydiva:






So?

Diddydiva don't come here and form for me okay?

Check this photo and comment Is it true?

mineANDurs:
OP dat thing na witches trade mark oo, beta buy plenty cocoyam and keep on ur doors and windows or contact ur Pastor ASAP b4 they suck u dry.

are u for real or you are just blabbing and saying your own?

Fellow Romance landers
How was your day?
I woke up from bed dis morning and noticed different scratch on my chest and lower abdomen, there was traces like using blade to strip my skin
But which animal do u think might have been the culprit behind these scene

muba4huss:
al fingers arent equal na

Exactly

Macmilla:
You are making plans for a girl dt is yet to get admission into d university? Are u for real?
The only thing that is constant is change and girls change faster than d weather.
Imagine d possible changes dt will take place in her life within the 5yrs she will spend in school. Imagine the number of guys she will meet in school. Imagine the categories of men. Definitely, she will meet someone that is richer, more handsome, taller, better in bed, with brighter future, more intelligent, etc, than u.
So tell me, what are the chances dt she will still love u when these men are after her. She most likely loves u now bcoz she doesn't have much of an option, but Blive me, she will have plenty of options in d university.

My advice, keep an open mind. If she still loves u, like truly loves u, by the time she is around her 4th yr, then u can start saying u've found ur missing rib.

U have spoken
That's your own view
It's true change is constant
But let me tell you
Such cannot happen
If it's happen
Life goes on
What will be will be
And what will never be will never be
Okay