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Following comments made by Tuface Idibia that the PDP had done nothing in the last 16 years, a social media commentator, Mr Eric Amodu has taken a swipe at his fellow Idoma kinsman saying the music super star lacked the moral ground to criticise the PDP since he too was a beneficiary of their perfidious rule.

His comments below:
Too bad you threw the bomb at yourself on this. You are my friend but the truth must be told.

Question 1. Name a single soul you’ ve ever helped?
Question 2. Why did your fellow childhood friends deserted you?
Question 3. What have you given back to the society that made u?

Infact lets go deeper

First of all, OJB produced you and brought you to limelight and even gave you a song for free without you paying a dime. But you threw your back at him when the world were rallying round to save his life. Not even a dime from you when lesser musicians gave their widows mite.

No any Idoma sons could say he’s on your scholarship list yet you have the mouth to talk back at the people that you helped in eating from their states’ funds.

You ate the resources meant for Benue State during Akume days in PDP as a governor when he bought you a Camry.

How about Donald Duke when he was the PDP governor of cross Rivers State? He lavished the state resources for you and still paid 20 million naira just to reunite the plantation boiz yet you have the guts to say PDP did nothing? Better still, you for reject all the money.

Akwa-Ibom state governor under the PDP-led government lavished the money meant for the state to sponsor your wedding. Why didn’t you kick against it when he gave you eight jeeps and sponsored several people to Dubai just to attend your wedding?

Jolly Nyame wasted th state resources on you and you practically abandoned Lagos for Taraba just because you began to taste the juicy side of unmerited resources from government coffers.

Don’t forget… when you sang ” I de feel like so so so and so person… because you de spend for me.” Over 70% of the names you mentioned were PDP people you joined in eating away the future of their states.

Brother man, sorry to say this… you don’t even stand the moral ground where conscience speaks to talk about PDP.

I would love Banky W, the little Davido that just started, Ice Prince, Don Jazzy and so many others to talk because they don’t dine with the PDP and their states’ funds yet they’ve given a whole lot to the society.

On your wedding day, you took away the pleasure of the eyes from Nigerians to Dubai so that dem no go fit benefit even small thing from you. Stingy life.

You're on your best behavior when you first start dating someone: polite to a fault, quick to suggest sharing dessert (later, you enter "order your own!" territory), and really, truly careful about what you say.

Then, somewhere down the line, you get comfortable. A little more loose-lipped. You say things you don't mean.

An apology generally goes a long way, but some things said in the heat of the moment may be irreversibly damaging to your relationship. Below, 10 phrases you should banish from your argument arsenal.

1. Anything that begins with “you always” or “you never.”
There's no hope of having a productive conversation once you or your S.O. makes sweeping accusations against each other, said Virginia Gilbert, licensed marriage and family therapist.

"Uttering these words will immediately put the other person on the defensive. Instead of getting what you want, the two of you will spend the rest of the evening -- or the rest of your relationship -- debating who’s right. Instead, use 'I' statements. For instance, 'I feel that I’m usually the one to say 'I love you' and it would make me feel good if you could say it first sometimes.' Keeping the focus on your needs instead of pointing out your partner’s shortcomings -- as glaring as they may be -- invites an opportunity for positive change."

2. "Why do you want to do that? You never used to like to [fill in the blank]."
Healthy, long-lasting relationships involve two people who are able to grow together. You're different people than the ones you were when you first met, so don't freak out or assume there's some ulterior motive if your partner changes his or her habits.

“You each need room to grow," said relationship author and divorce attorney Christina Pesoli. "Just as you wouldn’t be threatened by him updating his wardrobe or growing a beard, you shouldn’t be threatened when he updates his hobbies, either. Developing a new interest isn’t a threat to your relationship, but your refusal to allow him or her to do so is. If you’re with someone who never tries anything new, your relationship will eventually grow stale. So as long as he’s not talking about learning to cook meth or joining ISIS, try embracing his new hobbies."

3. "You're overreacting!"
Related, equally annoying-as-hell phrases include: "You're being too sensitive." "Don't get so defensive!" "Calm down." Let one of these sentences slip and you'll more than likely find yourself in the proverbial dog house, said William J. Doherty, Ph.D., professor of family social science at the University of Minnesota.

"Saying this is a favorite of men trying to get women to stop being upset," he said. "It's never worked in human history, but why not keep trying? The problem is that when in the midst of being upset, no one thinks their feelings are unjustified, and thus they feel unheard and put down. It would make anyone madder."

4. “Mmmhmm. Mmmhmm. Wait -- what did you say?”
Think you've mastered the art of scrolling through Instagram while pretending to listen to your S.O. talk? Think again.

"Eventually, your partner will conclude that you’re not all that interested in what he has to say -- and it’s hard to argue with that," Pesoli said. "Talking to someone who doesn’t really care about what you’re saying can be hard on the ol’ self esteem -- especially when that someone is your significant other. Being too busy to listen every once in a while is understandable. Being too busy to listen all the time is a relationship killer."

5. "I told you so."
What, you thought we'd get through this list without including this classic example?

"Say 'I told you so' one too many times and pretty soon, resentment sets in," dating expert Marina Sbrochi said. "No one likes to be thought of as dumb. Try empathy instead and see how your relationship grows."

6. “Not tonight (or tomorrow night, or any night), honey."
You and your partner aren't always going to be on the same page when it comes to sex. You each should absolutely feel free to say, "Not really in the mood after that brick-sized carnitas burrito." But you don't want "not tonight, not ever" to become the norm.

"Defaulting to 'not tonight' is a bad habit to form," said Pesoli. "Physical intimacy is what makes your relationship with your significant other different than any of your other relationships; otherwise, the two of you are just roommates who may or may not have kids together. If the fire goes out in the bedroom, there’s no question that your relationship will be in peril. Making a little effort to have sex with your S.O. is almost always a good idea."

7. "What's wrong with you?"
Below-the-belt personal attacks have no place in a healthy, loving relationship. Your goal should be to prop your partner up and be his or her cheerleader in hard times, not to bring them down.

"If you find yourself saying something like 'Are you that stupid?' 'What kind of a parent does that?' or 'You're just like your mother,' you need to cease and desist," said marriage therapist Becky Whetstone.

8. "I don't believe you."
There are bound to be times when you suspect your partner is bending the truth a bit -- or a lot. It's how you relay your skepticism that will move you closer to discovering the whole story.

"Maybe you really do suspect he or she has feelings for someone else, for instance, but there's a better way to go about it than accusing your partner of lying," said Doherty. "Saying 'I don't believe you' is inflammatory and almost always backfires. A better version is this: 'I'm having trouble believing you are telling me the whole story.'"

9. "I want a divorce."
When you threaten to breakup or divorce, you're pulling out the big guns . You may have deep regrets about saying it later, but the damage is done. As idle as the threat may be, the message to your partner is loud and clear: you already have one foot out the door. And who wants to be in a relationship like that?

"Simply put, it's emotional blackmail," said Whetstone. "If what you say has a tone of 'if you don't do this, you'll pay or I'll leave,' it's eventually going to take a toll on your partner."

10. “If you really loved me, you'd..."
Nope. Stop right there. Your partner shouldn't ever feel pressured to do something he or she doesn't want to do to prove his or her love for you.

"There’s nothing like guilt combined with a stealthy ultimatum to drain the love right out of a relationship," said Gilbert. "Instead of trying to manipulate your partner, be transparent about what you want: 'I miss spending time with you and I’d like to have a regular date night' is a direct, non-confrontational approach that’s far more likely to get you the love you want than holding your partner hostage emotionally."

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2015/05/13/saying-these-things-will-ruin-your-relationship_n_7276250.html?ncid=txtlnkusaolp00000592

Today,Fifteen ambassadors visited president-elect,Muhammadu Buhari with goodwill messages from their respective countries..They are
1. Svante Kilander (Sweden)
2. Suomela-Chowdhury (Finland)
3. Jovan Maric (Serbia)
4. Denmark Amb.
5. Belkacem Smaili (Algeria)
6. A.R. Ghanashyam (India)
7. Abdulaziz bin Mubarak Al-Muhannadi (Qatar)
8. MASAYA OTSUKA (Japan)

9. Wassin Ibrahim (Lebanon)
10. Alh Khalil Mhesisin Alshammry (Iraq)
11. Jong Yong Chol (Korea)
12. Shafik Daiyob (Syria)
13. Abdulaziz Alsharsah (Kuwait)
14. TOM AMOLO (Kenya)
15. Netherlands Ambassador to Nigeria, Mr.John C.M Groffen
......... i cant upload all the pic due to limitation by the moderators......... but here are the top four

Adaeze Yobo and her babies head out on a pre-mother's day outing.... Former beauty queen, Adaeze Igwe Yobo shared pictures of she and her cute kids.

The singer Kiss Daniel who is behind the hit single woju, has lost his dad. The singer announced the passing away of his father on his official instagram account. May God grant him the fortitude to bear the loss.

Olamide the talented rapper a. K. a. (BADOO)..... The rapper today released new photos of himself in a bishop-inspired look that makes him look like a Catholic Bishop or Priest. Lovely outfits? See more photos after the cut.

Safina is pictured on the Right with her father when she was a baby and on the left, a grown woman with her cute sons.

DB Records Star Dbanj is promoting his latest release, 'Extraordinary' and he captioned this photo which he posted on his Facebook page - 'Sending a Message to all the #Extraordinary Women Out there...You are all wonderful and fearfully made by God.. Following you soon!!

Paul Okoye gists with his son & Peter's daughter.....He says"I have no choice than to hear them out"..They are said to be besties...

The Aridolf hotel in Yenagoa that is Allegedly Owned By First Lady Patience Jonathan is an unlikely monument to kitsch on a reclaimed swamp in Nigeria’s oil-producing Niger delta......Continue below
In the lobby, Louis XIV furniture is accompanied by bowls of plastic fruit, faux Dutch landscapes and a grotesquely gaudy chandelier. The hotel is redolent of the riches on display in a region that for half a century has generated the bulk of Nigeria’s wealth.....

The Argentine revealed over Facebook that he and girlfriend Antonella Roccuzzo are expecting another child

Lionel Messi has revealed that he will become a father for the second time.

The Barcelona star and girlfriend Antonella Roccuzzo celebrated the birth of Thiago, their first child, in November 2012, and revealed on Facebook that they will become parents once more.

The 27-year-old posted a picture of the pair's son kissing his mother's stomach, with the Argentine adding the message: "Can't wait to welcome you into our world!!! We love you! Thiagui, mum and dad," to the post.

He also posted the same picture on Instagram, saying "Waiting for you baby! We love you".

There has been no announcement as to when the child is expected or how far along Roccuzzo is in her pregnancy.



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Popular singer, multiple award-winning artiste reveal why why he dropped out of school, He told Views Channel in an recent interview, Read below;

"I got robbed sometime in school. All my audio cassettes that I recorded they took them. I was sad for like a year plus. I dropped out and I am like look I am not continuing this thing I am going to follow music.

“I actually confessed to my parents. I told them the truth that I am not going back to school. I am going to Lagos, Festac town. All this waka wey I dey talk so, na molue... staff, sometimes na fight we go fight. Them go pursue us from bus" he said.

risky business............... can U try it?

The Independent National Electoral Commission has said that despite the extension of the Saturday’s elections till Sunday in some parts of the country, the complete ‎results of the presidential poll will be declared on Monday.

INEC chairman, Prof. Attahiru Jega, who gave this assurance on Sunday, however, said as of Sunday evening, results of the polls had only been completely collated in two states, one of which was Ekiti.

He maintained that the commission would declare the results of the presidential election within 48 hours after the conduct of the polls as it did in 2011.

He said this while addressing journalists in company with some of the INEC commissioners on the update on the conduct of the elections so far at the International Conference Centre, Abuja, venue of the National Collation Centre of the elections‎.

He said, “Some people assume that when I said 48 hours, it starts from the morning the elections commenced. It is 48 hours after elections have ended, like yesterday.

“You start counting 48 hours from yesterday (Saturday), when substantial majority of the polling units ended elections.”

He expressed satisfaction with the conduct of the Saturday’s polls, which he said held in a substantial number of polling units across the country, including the troubled North-East region, where he said Internally Displaced Persons were able to vote in three states of Adamawa, Yobe and Borno.

“We are pleased that the elections went on smoothly in a substantial number of Polling Units across the country, including the North East where the commission was also able to conduct voting for Internally Displaced Persons in the three states of Adamawa, Yobe and Borno,” he said.

He also debunked speculation that‎ the resort to manual accreditation in some polling units, where the card reader machines failed, could undermine the credibility of the election.

According to him, out of more that 150,000 card readers used for the conduct of the polls on Saturday, only 300 of them failed, representing only about 0.25 per cent of the total number of machines.

“It is also gratifying to not that the card readers worked well in the majority of polling units, even though there were areas where difficulties experienced necessitated additional guidelines to allow for manual accreditation of voters, as announced yesterday (Saturday),” he said.

He said the resort to manual accreditation occurred in some polling units in nine states which are Osun, Kebbi, Ekiti, Adamawa, Borno, Jigawa, Anambra, Akwa Ibom and Ebonyi.”

http://elections2015.punchng.com/story/312193/

YOU ACTUALLY SAID PREDICTED NOT THAT THEY ARE SEEING THE RESULTS ..........YOU NEED TO SEE THE RESULTS IN 2011 AND TAKE A LOOK AT THE RESULT BY ALL THESE SOCIAL MEDIA IF THEY DIDNT TALLY.............. THEY ARE FROM INEC OFFICE AND JUST DON,T BECAUSE OF SENTIMENT DESTROY OUR BELOVED MEDIA COMPLETELY.......... AT LEAST THEY SERVE HAS OUR SOURCE OF NEWS BEING GOOD OR BAD

THIS WAS 2011... I WONDER HOW IT WILL LOOK NOW!!!!

he Presidential candidate of the All Progressives Congress , Maj.Gen. Muhammadu Buhari (retd.), has appealed to Nigerians to be patient as the Independent National Electoral Commission collates Saturday’s Presidential election results.

The APC candidate, who is contesting the poll for the fourth time, gave the charge on his official Twitter page on Sunday evening.

He urged his supporters to be vigilant.

He said, “Fellow Nigerians, I urge you to exercise patience and vigilance as we wait for all results to be announced.”

https://twitter.com/ThisIsBuhari?original_referer=http%3A%2F%2Felections2015.punchng.com%2Flive-updates%2F&tw_i=582242263729831936&tw_p=tweetembed

on its twitter account
source: punch

Omo naija people dey fear o, See people running away! No Joke o! people are actually leaving the country in a hurry

words from Denrele came as a shock to the populace as he said some amazing words showing he is still human
Derenle has finally revealed that he will be getting married soon,Read what he said, Speaking to Global Exellence, below;



"My brother, it’s true I’m goin to wed soon, &I promise u that no ONE will know my prospective bride before d wedding day. As I’m talkin to u now, my wedding suit is ready. I’m goin to surprise a lot of people; becos most people thought I can’t luv; and I will prove to them that I do luv & being loved, just that I can’t give up my style for Luv. I will still remain who I am till d old age,”

PETER IS A LUCKY MAN .......... JUST LIKE OMOTAYO.............. SHE IS AN ANGEL AMONG ANGELS


Lola Omotayo show off her beautiful face on Instagram.

show casing there love for APC ........... who are you for?

BankyW shared a childhood photo of himself with his mother & sister.

She shared the pic on her instagram page with the caption 'The love of my life'

Michael and Daniel are the twin grandsons of Charlie boy. The three year old twins who
are based in the United Kingdom are also into modelling just like their mother. Their mother created an instagram account for them some few weeks ago and since then, they've gained about 74,535 followers.

jona dey try oooooooooooo

these was on valentine day .............. hope she had fun

Boko Haram right now in Gombe are dropping letters warning people to stay away from the March 28 elections.

Earlier on today, hundreds of Boko Haram Islamists invaded and attacked the restive northeast Nigerian city of Gombe, firing heavy guns. AFP reports that locals also confirmed to them that the insurgents threw leaflets at them that were asking them to boycott the forthcoming general elections.

Donjazzy sets the record straight: I don't do diss songs..Dbanj & Wandecoal can confirm that

P-Square, Don Jazzy, Clarence Peters and others are in SA shooting the video for the collaboration song, 'Collabo'