In my experience, I once had a girl who I was just friends with but I knew she liked me but I had a gf at that time.
I had no feelings for her and therefore I didn't give her any special treatment or attention but she showed me more care and 'love' than my gf at that time so much that my gf noticed. In the context of your topic she (my friend) was the wrong one but she loved my right. While the so-called right one wasn't trying at all.
At least once we meet a person who will love us but we may see the person as not the one. Maybe cos of 'beauty' or any other possible reason.

Thumbs up to Nigeria.
We are truly blessed all round. Intellect, Resources, Sports, etc.
If only we would shun all forms of vices and tap fully into them. We will shock the world.
Congrats again to Team Nigeria. Not many of us expected much, not because we are not good but because of the poor preparation and planning. But they have done very well.
Imagine if we plan ahead properly, execute the plans. We may find ourselves in the top three at these games even the olympic. We got the talents and skills.
Congrats!
#TeamNigeria

Its gonna be a health marketing job orientation.
Had an experience with one organisation like that.
@OP: Send a PM so I can share it with u if interested.

Good One!

Go and Sin No More...

Hello Ph folks.
I'm Onome Tj, from Delta but born & raised in PH city altho I schooled and served in the West.
Currently job hunting, based in Elelenwo area of PH.
I'm cute, fun to be wit & I'm looking for meet up any nice female here in Ph.
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Cheers!

I'm Onome Tj.
Young, Cute & Fun loving
Based in Ph.
Fb; Onome D'Enigma Tj
Bb pin; 236f18e3

Looking to meet cute girls in Ph.

Very True.
While reading this, I had a virtual image of my CV by myside and hmmmm... I won't say which I fault in. Lol.

A DAD’S SPEECH AT HIS DAUGHTER’S WEDDING

I thought I would start my speech by addressing you as the “new” family of my daughter. But I think it would be inappropriate because now that she is married, you are “the family” for her. Believe me; I don’t have a problem with that. I, in fact, want my daughter to have “you” as her priority now. Its time for us to take a backseat in her life. We would happily accept it but would surely request one thing- please keep her happy!

I am more than sure that you will keep her very happy. She will perhaps be happier than what she used to be here. But like all fathers, I obsess over my daughter’s happiness which is making me say this over and over again- please keep her happy!

She never was and will never be a burden for me. She is in fact the reason why I breathe and smile. I am getting her married because this is what the law of nature demands. I am helpless in the face of our culture and therefore sending her to your home. She was the happiness of my home and will now light up your home. I am giving my world to you. Please make sure it remains beautiful. I am giving away my princess to you. Please make sure she stays as a queen. I have raised her with my sweat and blood and now she is wonderfully perfect. For all the care, love, beauty and warmth my daughter will bring into your lives, I just want her happiness in return—please keep her happy!

If at times you think that my daughter has said or done something wrong, feel free to scold her. But handle her with love. She is very fragile. If at times she feels low, be with her. She just needs a little bit of your attention. If at times she feels sick, show her some care. It’s the medicine that works best for her. If at times she fails to fulfill a responsibility, feel free to chastise her. But empathize with her. She is still learning. Do understand her—please keep her happy!

I don’t mind if I don’t get to see her for months. I don’t mind if I am not able to talk to her on a daily basis. I would be more than happy if she doesn’t remember me much. But, my only motive in life has been my daughter’s happiness which is now in your hands. I beg you, please keep her happy.

Dear son-in-law, these words may not mean much to you now but if you are lucky enough to father a daughter someday, you will appreciate them better when you will find every beat of your heart shouting –
“Please keep her HAPPY"

It happened in a hospital intensive care unit. Patients die on the same bed every Sunday @ 3pm.Doctors concluded it was something supernatural. So,a team of xperts came 2geta 2 investigate. The next Sunday,few minutes to 3pm,all doctors and nurses gathered around that particular bed waiting to see what will kill the patient. Then suddenly AKPORS(part time cleaner)entered the. room,unplugged the life support machine and plugged his phone. =))º°˚˚˚°ºнaĦaнaº°˚˚˚°º‎​=))

ADVICE FOR GUYS on Facebook & Others social networks

I'm sure some girls won't like me on this but.....The truth must be reveal!

»When You message a girl once or twice and she doesn't reply, don't message her again... She's not the only girl on your list, try someone else.

»Don't "woo" every skirt on your list... You don't have to be a male LovePeddler. Not every girl is meant
to be your girlfriend... When you ask a girl out and she says "NO",
you already lose your self-esteem and respect to her.

»Improve your self esteem, don't hop on every post made by a girl to like or comment... Sometimes you have to just let it go.

»You don't have to compliment every picture a girl posts. If its not beautiful, don't tell her its beautiful...Perhaps, she already knew it was good before she uploaded it... Believe me, a harsh comment makes more meaning to a girl than hundreds of nice
comments.

»STOP POSTING BULLSHITS LIKE "thanks for the add"...or "thanks for the request" on every
girl's timeline, its pure nonsense! Even if u feel lyk doing dis u can msg her but I don't av passion for it.

»Never tag a girl to an ugly picture...Infact don't tag any girl you don't have a regular chat with.

»If a girl doesn't reply your messages, never
comments on or like your status...then what's she doing on your list?
Many you want to tell me you need friends...

»No girl is good enough for me to "FOLLOW"... If she can't accept your request then cancel your request and move on.

»When a girl uploads a picture or a post and she already has about 20 comments
complimenting the post, then what's the need of complimenting it too..? She already has all the compliments now, just like the post and move on!

>>FINALLY, Prove to girls that you don't need them, and they'll start loving you. Stop being Social Slave to girls, have some self respect for yourself.
Remember, its not girls that will dig your grave when you die,
its your fellow guys. Best of Luck.

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Shout out to those girls who wear clothes short enough they cant bend down to pick their dignity.

Shout out to those girls who wear heels and trek. I respect your hustle.

Shout out to those girls who take their bath and make up early in the morning before they start the days work. I respect your hustle.

Shout out to the girls who have camera 360,960,1060,2060 and still have to go take a photo shoot to post a picture on facebook.
I respect your hustle.

Shout out to those girls who put their legs in their cloth and take a selfie so that their breasts would look big.
I respect your hustle.

Shout out to those girls who wear hid pad,foam bra,eyelashes,loads of make-up and red lipstick.
I respect your hustle.

Shout out to those girls who wear short skirts and
draw them all the way.
I respect your hustle.

Shout out to those girls who sit with a cute guy on a public bus and touch them with all their sensiive parts.
I respect your hustle.

Shout out to those girls who wear clothes revealing
their pants and bra straps
I respect your hustle.

Shout out to those girls who knows all party and nightclubs.
I respect your hustle.

Shout out o those girls who think 1000 likes on their pics would grant them a good husband.
I respect your hustle.

Shout out to those girls who snap pics with their lips looking like kiss.
I respect your hustle.

Shout out to those girls who the only quote they know is "Use what you have to get what you want"
I respect your hustle.

Shout out to those girls who changed their name on facebook cause their father is on facebook. From ojulari sukura -~~Mosexy sukubaby.
I respect your hustle.

Shout out to those girls who says if she has to quit partying all the time and the way she dresses to find a good husband shed rather stay single.
I respect your hustle.

Shout out to those girls who say beauty is from within.
I respect your hustle.

Shout out to those girls who beat their parents. Respect your hustle? Nah.

A great shout out to those girls who are Not depending on make-ups and photo editors or revealing clothes and their boyfriend to know their true beauty. Who knows that education is power. Who invests on the future rather than present enjoyment. Who knows the difference between beauty and brains. Who is a virtous woman and not a flirtous woman.

Drop your own ShoutOuts!

@mod: fp material.
Thanks.

Ladies have different reasons for choosing a man; what one lady might see in a man might totally differ from what another might see; what attracts Miss A would totally differ from what would attract Miss B.

If you ask every young lady at age 18 to write what they would love in their ideal man; the list of things might be quite superficial as she wouldn’t state more than the obvious. Fast forward to seven years later when that same lady is about 25 years old, and the list would almost totally differ from the one she wrote some years back; you wouldn’t even believe it was written by same person.

However, one thing that I’ve noticed is that ladies most times even settle down or fall in love with a man that’s so different from their ideal man. Is it a case of the available becoming the desirable or the desirable becoming unavailable or it’s just a matter of the heart being swayed like a pendulum?

What are the criteria ladies really choose for their ideal man? If it’s wealth, looks, career path, family background and all of the sort you won’t be wrong for terming this a superficial ideal man. The hardest of criminals and gangsters have a woman or women in their lives; I’ve never seen a lady saying she would love a criminal as an ideal man; but how come so many end up with them?

I can go on with so many examples to prove that an ideal man is just a word that only exists in the dictionary. Ladies want a different kind of man and end up being with someone entirely different; is it that the ideal man doesn’t exist or is the brain tricked into having an ideal man?

Who is your ideal man? Is there even anything like an ideal man is one question I seem to carry at the back of my head because getting that ideal man is as hard as uprooting a tree with bare hands. I’ve come to notice that the ideal man for most ladies is never constant and it changes with time. Maybe the ideal man is just that man that the heart falls for without minding every other factor.

True but one seems to wonder how "connection" is still the highest way of getting jobs

lindachi86: too long for me to read

Just take out time to read. you'll learn a lot.

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We all have that friend that always wins every argument and you want to get back at him/her or maybe you are that friend that never looses on an exchange of words, here is a proven way of winning an argument.

1 Carry your opponent's proposition beyond its natural limits; exaggerate it.
The more general your opponent's statement becomes, the more objections you can find against it.
The more restricted and narrow your own propositions remain, the easier they are to defend.

2 Use different meanings of your opponent's words to refute his argument.
Example: Person A says, "You do not understand the mysteries of Kant's philosophy."
Person B replies, "Of, if it's mysteries you're talking about, I'll have nothing to do with them."

3 Ignore your opponent's proposition, which was intended to refer to some particular thing.
Rather, understand it in some quite different sense, and then refute it.
Attack something different than what was asserted.

4 Hide your conclusion from your opponent until the end.
Mingle your premises here and there in your talk.
Get your opponent to agree to them in no definite order.
By this circuitous route you conceal your goal until you have reached all the admissions necessary to
reach your goal.

5 Use your opponent's beliefs against him.
If your opponent refuses to accept your premises, use his own premises to your advantage.
Example, if the opponent is a member of an organization or a religious sect to which you do not belong,
you may employ the declared opinions of this group against the opponent.

6 Confuse the issue by changing your opponent's words or what he or she seeks to prove.
Example: Call something by a different name: "good repute" instead of "honor," "virtue" instead of
"virginity," "red-blooded" instead of "vertebrates".

7 State your proposition and show the truth of it by asking the opponent many questions.
By asking many wide-reaching questions at once, you may hide what you want to get admitted.
Then you quickly propound the argument resulting from the proponent's admissions.

8 Make your opponent angry.
An angry person is less capable of using judgment or perceiving where his or her advantage lies.

9 Use your opponent's answers to your question to reach different or even opposite conclusions.

10 If you opponent answers all your questions negatively and refuses to grant you any points, ask him
or her to concede the opposite of your premises.
This may confuse the opponent as to which point you actually seek him to concede.

11 If the opponent grants you the truth of some of your premises, refrain from asking him or her to
agree to your conclusion.
Later, introduce your conclusions as a settled and admitted fact.
Your opponent and others in attendance may come to believe that your conclusion was admitted.

12 If the argument turns upon general ideas with no particular names, you must use language or a
metaphor that is favorable to your proposition.
Example: What an impartial person would call "public worship" or a "system of religion" is described
by an adherent as "piety" or "godliness" and by an opponent as "bigotry" or "superstition."
In other words, inset what you intend to prove into the definition of the idea.

13 To make your opponent accept a proposition , you must give him an opposite, counter-proposition
as well.
If the contrast is glaring, the opponent will accept your proposition to avoid being paradoxical.
Example: If you want him to admit that a boy must to everything that his father tells him to do, ask him,
"whether in all things we must obey or disobey our parents."
Or , if a thing is said to occur "often" you are to understand few or many times, the opponent will say
"many."
It is as though you were to put gray next to black and call it white; or gray next to white and call it black.

14 Try to bluff your opponent.
If he or she has answered several of your question without the answers turning out in favor of your
conclusion, advance your conclusion triumphantly, even if it does not follow.
If your opponent is shy or stupid, and you yourself possess a great deal of impudence and a good voice,
the technique may succeed.

15 If you wish to advance a proposition that is difficult to prove, put it aside for the moment.
Instead, submit for your opponent's acceptance or rejection some true proposition, as though you wished
to draw your proof from it.
Should the opponent reject it because he suspects a trick, you can obtain your triumph by showing how
absurd the opponent is to reject an obviously true proposition.
Should the opponent accept it, you now have reason on your side for the moment.
You can either try to prove your original proposition, as in #14, maintain that your original proposition
is proved by what your opponent accepted.
For this an extreme degree of impudence is required, but experience shows cases of it succeeding.

16 When your opponent puts forth a proposition, find it inconsistent with his or her other statements,
beliefs, actions or lack of action.
Example: Should your opponent defend suicide, you may at once exclaim, "Why don't you hang
yourself?"
Should the opponent maintain that his city is an unpleasant place to live, you may say, "Why don't you
leave on the first plane?"

17 If your opponent presses you with a counter-proof, you will often be able to save yourself by
advancing some subtle distinction.
Try to find a second meaning or an ambiguous sense for your opponent's idea.

18 If your opponent has taken up a line of argument that will end in your defeat, you must not allow
him to carry it to its conclusion.
Interrupt the dispute, break it off altogether, or lead the opponent to a different subject.

19 Should your opponent expressly challenge you to produce any objection to some definite point in
his argument, and you have nothing to say, try to make the argument less specific.
Example: If you are asked why a particular hypothesis cannot be accepted, you may speak of the
fallibility of human knowledge, and give various illustrations of it.

20 If your opponent has admitted to all or most of your premises, do not ask him or her directly to
accept your conclusion.
Rather, draw the conclusion yourself as if it too had been admitted.

21 When your opponent uses an argument that is superficial and you see the falsehood, you can refute
it by setting forth its superficial character.
But it is better to meet the opponent with acounter-argument that is just as superficial, and so dispose of
him.
For it is with victory that you are concerned, not with truth.
Example: If the opponent appeals to prejudice, emotion or attacks you personally, return the attack in the
same manner.

22 If your opponent asks you to admit something from which the point in dispute will immediately
follow, you must refuse to do so, declaring that it begs the question.

23 Contradiction and contention irritate a person into exaggerating their statements.
By contradicting your opponent you may drive him into extending the statement beyond its natural limit.
When you then contradict the exaggerated form of it, you look as though you had refuted the original
statement.
Contrarily, if your opponent tries to extend your own statement further than your intended, redefine your
statement's limits and say, "That is what I said, no more."

24 State a false syllogism.
Your opponent makes a proposition, and by false inference and distortion of his ideas you force from the
proposition other propositions that are not intended and that appear absurd.
It then appears that opponent's proposition gave rise to these inconsistencies, and so appears to be
indirectly refuted.

25 If your opponent is making a generalization, find an instance to the contrary.
Only one valid contradiction is needed to overthrow the opponent's proposition.
Example: "All ruminants are horned," is a generalization that may be upset by the single instance of the
camel.

26 A brilliant move is to turn the tables and use your opponent's arguments against himself.
Example: Your opponent declares: "so and so is a child, you must make an allowance for him."
You retort, "Just because he is a child, I must correct him; otherwise he will persist in his bad habits."

27 Should your opponent suprise you by becoming particularly angry at an argument, you must urge it
with all the more zeal.
No only will this make your opponent angry, but it will appear that you have put your finger on the
weak side of his case, and your opponent is more open to attack on this point than you expected.

28 When the audience consists of individuals (or a person) who is not an expert on a subject, you make
an invalid objection to your opponent who seems to be defeated in the eyes of the audience.
This strategy is particularly effective if your objection makes your opponent look ridiculous or if the
audience laughs.
If your opponent must make a long, winded and complicated explanation to correct you, the audience
will not be disposed to listen to him.

29 If you find that you are being beaten, you can create a diversion--that is, you can suddenly begin to
talk of something else, as though it had a bearing on the matter in dispute.
This may be done without presumption if the diversion has some general bearing on the matter.

30 Make an appeal to authority rather than reason.
If your opponent respects an authority or an expert, quote that authority to further your case.
If needed, quote what the authority said in some other sense or circumstance.
Authorities that your opponent fails to understand are those which he generally admires the most.
You may also, should it be necessary, not only twist your authorities, but actually falsify them, or quote
something that you have entirely invented yourself.

31 If you know that you have no reply to the arguments that your opponent advances, you by a find
stroke of irony declare yourself to be an incompetent judge.
Example: "What you say passes my poor powers of comprehension; it may well be all very true, but I
can't understand it, and I refrain from any expression of opinion on it."
In this way you insinuate to the audience, with whom you are in good repute, that what your opponent
says is nonsense.
This technique may be used only when you are quite sure that the audience thinks much better of you
than your opponent.

32 A quick way of getting rid of an opponent's assertion, or of throwing suspicion on it, is by putting it
into some odious category.
Example: You can say, "That is fascism" or "Atheism" or "Superstition."
In making an objection of this kind you take for granted
1)That the assertion or question is identical with, or at least contained in, the category cited;
and
2)The system referred to has been entirely refuted by the current audience.

33 You admit your opponent's premises but deny the conclusion.
Example: "That's all very well in theory, but it won't work in practice."

34 When you state a question or an argument, and your opponent gives you no direct answer, or evades
it with a counter question, or tries to change the subject, it is sure sign you have touched a weak spot, sometimes without intending to do so.
You have, as it were, reduced your opponent to silence.
You must, therefore, urge the point all the more, and not let your opponent evade it, even when you do
not know where the weakness that you have hit upon really lies.

35 Instead of working on an opponent's intellect or the rigor of his arguments, work on his motive.
If you success in making your opponent's opinion, should it prove true, seem distinctly prejudicial to his
own interest, he will drop it immediately.
Example: A clergyman is defending some philosophical dogma.
You show him that his proposition contradicts a fundamental doctrine of his church.
He will abandon the argument.

36 You may also puzzle and bewilder your opponent by mere bombast.
If your opponent is weak or does not wish to appear as if he has no idea what your are talking about, you
can easily impose upon him some argument that sounds very deep or learned, or that sounds
indisputable.

37 Should your opponent be in the right but, luckily for you, choose a faulty proof, you can easily
refute it and then claim that you have refuted the whole position.
This is the way in which bad advocates lose good cases.
If no accurate proof occurs to your opponent, you have won the day.

38 Become personal, insulting and rude as soon as you perceive that your opponent has the upper hand.
In becoming personal you leave the subject altogether, and turn your attack on the person by remarks of
an offensive and spiteful character.
This is a very popular technique, because it takes so little skill to put it into effect.


DISCLAIMER: If practising one or all of this earns you a black eye, Please you are on your own.
Thanks.

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The above question seems to be directed to young women only, but it is not true. In as much as a young womans dream of the kind of husband she wants in life, a young man is also bothered with the issue. For instance, if a man is poor, unintelligent, evil, and dubious or has a stigma on his life, this same question is also directed to them.
Of course, who would like to marry a lazy young man, a thief, a womanizer, a drug addict or criminal? In the other angle, a young rich man who does not know the reasons young ladies surround his life has this question to ask. He wishes to know who comes because of his money or because she loves him.

This is indeed a puzzle! In choosing the right mate, every marriageable youth has the task of finding the right partner. Many years ago, or in the days of our forefathers and our fathers, marriage directives or guidelines were given by family or extended family members. The decided on whom to marry and whom not to marry.

They had the final answer to marriage questions and nobody argued with them. But today, the changes that evolved in our cultures, traditions, and educational systems have in greater proportion put an end to the old ideology on marriage.
The young people of the contemporary world depend on God through the church to guide them well in knowing and choosing whom to marry. In view of the above revelation, it is therefore pertinent to enlighten the young persons on some basic considerations for finding the right marriage partner in relation to the Bible- God’s word on marriage.
This should be everyone’s hunger if one wants to enjoy ones marriage. In view of this, however, a marriage counselor, William Lyon Phelps, holds that: The highest happiness on earth is in marriage. Everyone who is happily marriage is a successful man even if he has failed in everything else.

And every man whose marriage is a failure is not a successful man even if he has succeeded in every else. So, if anyone wants to succeed, he or she should find out the will and purpose of God for his or her life and marriage.
The person should follow the Bible standards and the diving instructions in this book. If a marriage must be successful, then God must be totally involved. And it must be between one man and one woman.
The union is formed so that the man and the woman involved may be helpful to each other, and useful members of their society, and extended instruments of God in procreation and enlargement of the world. Read Genesis 1:26-30, Genesis 2:18-24 Mathew 19:4-6.

1. Characters/Qualities to expect from partner: Loyalty, integrity, decency dependability, kindness, and honesty. Rule out anyone who is violent.

2. Friendship: Marry a person who will handle you as a friend. Marry a friend and not a ghost; a person you can share your passions and interests with, and he or she can help you be what you want to be.

3. Value: You don’t have to think alike in everything. Discuss how you will spend your money, have kids, and how to raise them, and where you would like to live and raise them.

4. Sex: Do you like his or her physique? Can you look proudly on his or her body. Do you enjoy the odour of his or her body? Is he or she a person with which you can have fun and good conversations?

5. Kindness: Marry a person who helps people or helps out in time of need, buys gifts-surprising gifts on most occasions, and says loving things to you.

6. A sense of hurmour: Marry a person who can laugh, crack jokes even when there are conflicts, troubles, and problems. It is a treasure to have such a person as a wife or a husband. Marry a person who can handle anything, especially disagreements with people.

7. Ability to Communicate: Marry a person who is open. A person, when he or she is angry, he or she will say it, and the reason for his or her annoyance. Do not marry a person who acts out anger by slamming the door, being late or staring at the television.

8. Intimacy: Marry someone who can be open to discuss his or her hopes and fears.

9. Commitment: Marry someone who shows you great concern and deep involvement in the relationship. How much energy can the person put into a matter that concerns you? This is an issue of paramount importance.

10 Respect: Don’t marry someone who doesn’t respect himself or herself. If you do, the person won’t respect you. Marry someone who values your feelings, goals and priorities.

11. Faith in Christ: Marry someone whose faith is strong to carry your marriage through even in the midst of calamities. In that marital relationship you are into with that young man or woman, ask these questions.
A. How loose is his or her relationship with God?
B. How loose is his or her relationship with others
C. What things do you have in common?
D. Has he or she positive attitude about marriage
E. Does he or she make future plans that include you?
F. Do you compliment each other intellectually. Spiritually, and financially?
G. Is he or she happy with himself or herself, his her job, appearance, and life generally?
H. Does he or she take care of his or herself. Note that anyone you want to marry must be a man or a woman you would want to be by your

Note that anyone you want to marry must be a man or a woman you would want to be by your side for the rest of your life.
So, you should choose the rest of your life. So, you should choose your marriage mate or partner wisely and prayer because your future happiness depends on it.


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Triska:


But , alas, against your valid points they (the HR people) put only one word: 'overqualified'

Hmmmm... But I'll rather be overqualified than not qualified at all. #myOpinion

None!
I don't know but I'm sure u look good just the way you are. A lot girls out there will do anything to get your so called 'skinny' model body.
Instead of using drugs or supplements to add weight. Eat good, rest well, worry less and enjoy your body as God has made it. You'll be happy you did later. I hope you get to thank me then.
Remember! "Be-you-tiful"

If I don't get a job soon. I might be tempted to register. Lol. I hope I get a good job though.
But it should be fun, adventurous and a great opportunity to be brought to limelight and yes! Plenty money! Hmmmm
#deepThinking!

Good write up.
Although I think this 'longterm unemployed' folks have better chance that the fresh graduate as vacancies and job adverts come with a minimum of 3yrs post graduate experience which can be gotten by manipulating address and names of companies and dates or actually putting past experience but the young, fresh graduate doesn't have this luxury. So? Are they not better placed to get jobs faster?

As a young graduate, I can relate with this.
Very true and factual. A lot of jobs, posts, opportunities in Nigeria are gotten as a result of 'man know man'
I was part of the last NDDC post graduate scholarship applicants. My experience made me know that even before putting up the advert 80% of the chances have been 'pre-occupied' the remaining 20% will be randomly picked from the best. This is a decay in the system. But bro/sis that's the way it is. You gotta know someone or perform extremely GREAT to stand a chance.
It all good though. God bless us all.

Great and helpful tips. Would be needing them soon.
Thanks.

Really Nice piece. Got me trapped in the story.

I am a born-again christian, single based in Port Harcourt.
Any single sister in Ph looking to meet up. Mail me or add up on bbm: 236f18e3
Stay Blessed.

All I notice around me is not 'gender equality' but promotion of 'double standards'
if women wanna be equated with men, they should be ready to be equated in all ramifications.
U all know what I'm sayin... #walksoff

Very very good write up. Food for thought for the day!