₦airaland Forum

One would want to  ask these Proud ladies Certain question

Why don't ladies pay their bride price
Why don't ladies marry themselves
Why dont ladies Pay for the part of the appartment they occupy
why don't the pay Half of the Family's Bills
Why don't they impreginate themselves
Why dont't they do the Electrical, Mechanical and maintenance jobs in the House
Why don't they be the ones who marries the Man
Why are they not men

Every Body has his or her role in Life and in A marriage, Even, the Bible said that the woman is a help meet to the Man, A Helper, She is there or was created to help the man and nothing else,

Finally why don't the ladies ask GOD the reason why He called women A help meet of a helper, God should have a better Explanation for That,

Lets not decieve ourselves, If u want to have a happy home or marriage, do what is right and forget about these ladies that are home breaker,
All the ladies in the house should know this, By not doing what u should in ur home could kill the love, peace, care and commitment in ur marriage, u know ur home and ur man better than anyone else, so forget about these satanic laddies and do what will bring u joy in ur home, If it good in ur home u will enjoy it alone and if its bad u will suffer it alone, as u make ur bed so shall u lie on it, choose this day how u want to make ur bed. A word is enough for the wise, I rest my case.

farochron:
Dats wat i hav bin sayn.[b]a woman can go more dan an extra myl if d man in question is apreciativ of her eforts nd trits her right.[/b]

Does the Woman Appreciate the Man's effort of providing bread, shelter, Cloths and other necessities for the Family?

ronell:
No, its not compulsory. in my opinion, I think the guy should wash his clothes himself or better still get a washerman to do the washing from him. At least he was washing the clothes somehow before he married.why should things change because he is now married, he definably didn't marry a slave

Some Ladies on NL and the world over are satanic, They just misled other unwise ladies,  Some ladies that say they can't wash there Husband cloth here on NL will Can even go as far as washing their mother inlaw's cloth, They just post those disguising comments to misled other ladies and the unwise ladies will have problems with their loving Husbands for nothing sake,

Hello gurus in the house please how can I setup airtel broadband services in my Dell laptop. The laptop have a slot for sim card and when I tried to set it up it request for my username and password from my ISP. Please what does this mean and how do I set it up, advise please.

agabaI23:
A trace for who owns the refinery will take you back to Nigeria!

U said it all. Niger republic can't build a functional refinery to supply Nigeria fuel after satisfying their domestic need and u will tell me that nigeria cannot.

The fact is that 1 of the leaders in Nigeria built that refinery, take our crude there and import the fuel back,  What they have only succeeded in doing is to ease the unemployment situation in Niger republic while overlooking that of nigeria. its a shame, all the the name of personal interest.

This is greed!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Really

amblors:
Not a written law anywhere,
but it may be an unwritten one in our hearts.

Who wrote it in our hearts?
We Africans just tend to believe in things that donot exist, but because of our level of understanding, we just seem to look at the world myopically, so to say.

This notion we carry around in Africa that the husband must be older than the wife. is it a law anywhere, I mean is it a customary, constitutional, traditional or a societal law, where did the notion/mentality come from, Is it even written in any verse of the holy bible?

I guess knowing the origin will help me and other people who find themselves in sure situation to make the right decision,  Matured comment please. this is a serious issue that can help someone out there to make the right decision.

kaposky:
I think marriage is all about love, care and understanding not age. What do you think? share your view

guy You have hit the nail on the head,  you said it all,  In most cases these older ladies have more respect and regards for the man than the younger ones.

claremont:
No, it doesn't matter, and love has nothing to do with it, common sense and mutual compatibility does!

True talk,

Thank you all for your contributions

Pennywise:
One year is nothing if u are truly in love. Are u sure u are not hedging on age as a convenient reason?

Don't under what u meant by the bold words

Thanks guys for your contributions. She has all the requirements I needed in a woman but for the age issue. Though both of us don't seem to have a problem with it.

I have dated younger girls and she seems to respect me more than the younger girls do.
as for the age she is 29 and am 28

Thanks Man, I appreciate u advice

I love this girl and we are compactable in almost everything, just that she is a year older than me, she still respects me anyway more than those girls am older than, but am kind of confuse,  what should I do, go ahead with the marriage? reasonable comments please.

Why do people that are supposed to be matured minded sound like babies here in NL? Why alway make reference to other peoples marriage as the reason for your Inabilities? Before you wrote JAMB i.e. if you when to school, you heard and saw people that failed, right? before you went to school you saw and heard of people that either die before graduation date or drop out or even graduated but with a very poor grade.

Tell me now then why did you go to school amidst all these? To mention but a few.

Never use someone's situation to evaluate yourself because you are not htat person and that person is not you. Also the woman you will marry is not thesame with the one that person married.

@OP: Why not ask your friend first w3hat happened to his electronics and his life before blaming it on marriage. Did he tell you it was his marriage that reduced him?

holumine:
I painted the true picture, I met them both as virgin and they are no longer (don't you think its a price?)

apart from dating virgin, you are also a good artist(painter)

If its a price then pay it or don't you have the money,

@poster
So you want to turn NL to nigeria fire service or what? na for here them dey put off fire?

As you make your bed so shall you lie on it.

So go make the bed again to your taste and stop bordering people.

rokiatu:
When I was 14, I was a face person. You know the cutie types?

Now that I am ------- well I wouldn't say my age.

I like the manly type. Hot body, strong masculine face (ex, Arjun Rampal Hrithik Roshan etc)

so you don spoil since when you be 14, I wonder how you will now that you are hmmmmmmmmmmmm

prommy:
my name is , [b]and i am 24 years old.i am married and blessed with 3 kids.[/b]Now am in a relationship with 3 other married women and all of them got pregnant for me and gave birth to boys.Anyone that looks at the boys will know they are my sons.two of the women were sent packing by their husbands and now are insisting on coming to live with me.please i,m confused i need advice on how to handle the situation, if you want to read more of this check singles world of Saturday sun,19/02/2011.WAHALA.

How come you are 24 years old and you already had a wife and 3 kids. so you got married at the age of 18 or at 20 and your wife gave birth every year or what?

Lets start from there.

@poster

You said you want backup abi, Na whose person wife you wan take do backup then keep your own safe,

Its either you stay away fron sex or she give you the sex. I stay away when that happen to me last year.

Spclst900:
she is ready only if she wouldnt always cry after every yelling.

What yelling, what do you mean? elaborate on it please

[quote][/quote]i don't know who or wat u are
i know i am hot your attention is already telling me to
but it's okee if u don't like your self but huni i love myself and i know i am hot hot hot not even hell can handle me

hotie tima u are hot

the person that told that lie I mean that you are hot is decieving you, right.

You are not Hot. and who told you He wants to touch those things anyway?

I have heard lots of bullsh**t here about Nigerian guys. Let me tell yo ladies something, if you don't find Nigeria guys as romantic as you want then you are free to go else where and find a romantic guy instead of these noise making hobbies of you ladies.

, let me ask you Nigeria ladies, ARE YOU ROMANTIC, why do you expect to get what you can't give

Na waoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo