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The Jos-born further alleged that Mr P petitioned the EFCC to arrest him on multiple charges, including diverting P-Square’s money and unexplained wealth.

Which one is "Jos-born" again?
Are they no longer Igbo boys from Anambra state?
Are they now from Jos?
Na wa o.

Kenelum jehova ndi nile obi ha di nma

https://www.facebook.com/reel/1167690311101918

Gen Z won't know it and funnily enough it is not on Youtube.

Every Nigerian should watch this documentary at least twice to see how things have not changed in Nigeria in 40 years.
Everything she spoke about in the documentary in 1984 has either remained the same or gotten worse.
Even Achebe that said he wouldn't leave Nigeria back then eventually left and stayed abroad for years before his eventual final retirement.
In fact this documentary should be shown to every Nigerian.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y-OzTxlstw8

So Hausa men go to school almost TWICE more than Fulani men, yet Fulani men rule them in the North?
Hmm, e get as e be o.

luminouz:
I don't agree with you. So let's agree to disagree

Of course, ditto with me too.

Gbogbowa:
Tinubu has forgotten that those children voted for him

He has conveniently forgotten. lol
Now the problem is no longer bad leadership at the center but northerners breeding.
This movie is only loading...

luminouz:
Yeah...I am not making a generalized assessment but most simps had no moderating male influences and were raised in a household with no strong or dominant male presence.

Your inductive reasoning is flawed ..it's too basic. Let me help you

Mr Simpson is a simp and a man raised by a single mom, so all men raised by single moms are simps

Chai, see logic.
Did the OP mention that the man was raised by a single mom?
I would only consider your position if the OP confirms that the man in question was raised by a single mom.
But even at that, I know MANY men who are simps and who were raised in typical nuclear family (where there's a mom and dad of course).
I come from eastern Nigeria where single motherhood is rare, but I still see many simps.
One simp I know is from a family of 9 and he is the last born. Grew up with mom and dad plus 8 other siblings, 6 boys and two girls, yet he ended up a simp!
How come that is possible if your theory is right?
Your theory at best wrong and at worst dangerously wrong.

luminouz:
You are wrong ... Statistically, men raised by single moms tend to be simps because there is no moderating male influence in their lives.

Google it bro

Probably true (per the statistics, though I need to check that), but still that doesn't mean that ALL simps are people raised by single moms
That is inductive reasoning.
Example: Mr Simpson is a simp. Mr Simpson was raised by a single mom. Mr Simpson is a man. Therefore all men are simps.
See the logic flaw bro?

Oluromantic:
It's simple! That's an obvious sign of male children raised by single mothers and grew up having no father figure. The gap will always be left out. So I don't blame him, he's yet to understand masculinity at it's apex. [b]I blame single mothers who think they can have completely groomed children without their fathers as if they can play both roles. [/b]A mother can never play a father's role. Some mothers even go as far as incubating bitterness in the children against their father. A mother may not be in good terms with the father, but every child deserve a relationship with his/her two parents. No woman can have a child alone if no seed is planted in her and such children end up hating their mom after reuniting with their father and they find out he's a very loving man despite his drunkenness as opposed to what their moms have been telling them about him, then her maternal efforts would be at the edge of being in vain after all the years.

So your friend will get over his simp nature after many abuses from girls over quite some time but he'll overcome it aptly only if he's lucky not to be entangled in a case of pregnancy with who he doesn't love, else may wish he had known later. Or perhaps he lost his father at an early age and his elder sisters are domineering. It's the psychic effects of something like that, that's manifesting in him. You can't compare him with a guy who has a dad and many brothers with probably a younger sister who respects him and a mother who respects his dad...such a guy would discover his masculine self earlier than someone like your friend.

Oga this your psychology theory is suspected quackery of the worst kind. What a logic LEAP!
Simpism as far as I know is mostly inborn or inherent. There's absolutely no proof that persons raised by single mothers grow up to become simps.
I've met A LOT of simps in my life and none of them were raised by single mothers.
One simp I know is EXACTLY like this OP's friend and even worse.
All it takes for him is a girl just dating him ONCE and he automatically gets hooked and be willing to take anything from her, just to continue the relationship.
He is well to do enough, handsome, smart as far as I can see, and good guy. Yet he is a simp, and there are many others like him.
BTW women can also be simps. Women simps are even worse and hard to detect, because the woman would be very reserved, until a man sleeps with her and bam! She becomes hooked and can never say no to that man again.
We should be careful trying to simplify things of nature, because nature cannot be completely understood even by the best brains.
The man should be left alone, but should be advised to marry so that he can keep his simpison IN HOUSE.

Being Igbo I don't give a flying fck about any protest in Nigeria.
But this protest is REALLY exposing those feeding fat on the collective pains of Nigerians.
See all of them shouting "no protest, no protest!"
Before they were all quiet while things went from bad to worse.
Evil people.

EmeeNaka:
It is a sad news indeed.
He is one man with clout in Nnewi, who we have accepted to listen to.
We will miss him. RIP Ifeanyi Ubah!

Just yesterday I was watching one heart-wrenching video about Nnewi roads, particularly the central business area roads at Nkwo.
ALL of the roads looked like they'd been abandoned by successive Anambra governors since 1999.
Ifeanyi may not be perfect, but he definitely was our hope for some form of redemption.
He was ezigbo nwa afo Anaedo.
May God rest his soul.

Uchesis:
Sorry to say but you may be wrong bro.

I'm sure you met other people that day but its the woman that is the snake in your dream abi? Dey play

A strong man (and i mean a spiritually strong person) will still encounter those women to see if they are truly who you think they are.

You are just speculating. You can't even prove in any court that those women are evil.

Besides, some dreams are induced by our thoughts before we went to bed. Me for example, anytime i'm hungry and i go to bed i always dream of attending a big party where food is served.

I had wanted to give a more detailed response to you but changed my mind because it is a waste of time.
I merely bolded the most ridiculous of your comments.
My short answer to you is REAL STRONG MAN all have a PERSONAL divination method.
My is dreams.
I believe that God spoke to most strong men in the Bible through dreams: Abraham, Jacob, Joseph, Pharaohs, Nebuchadnezzar, prophets, etc.
Did you say "prove it in court?" hahahahahahahahahaha!

Skooltynz:
I know there are ikwerres,ikas,ogbas and other Igbo-denying subgroups living in Lagos,I beg you all in the name of God if you know you want to join the protest in august in the name of saving Nigeria I advice you to change you names to Yoruba names or Hausa names dont do the chukwuma nzeogwu on us,if your name is ijeoma,ekene,ifeanyi,emeka please try and change this names or add a yoruba suffix to the names, you can bear chukwu-ola, chi-lola,olu-emeka or better still tell them you state of origin don't drag igbos into any mess we will pray for you and wish you all the best by we will never join you In august please be warned thank you.

This is an EXCELLENT idea.
As a matter of fact they should just change their Igbo names (personal names, town names, group names, etc) to ANYTHING other than Igbo as a way to send a clear message to the whole world that they are not Igbo.
I mean how can a Kayode Olumide claim not to be Yoruba? Who is his right mind would believe that crap?
For some in Anioma land claiming not to be Igbo, they should please change Anioma to Amoina (simply spell it backwards). That's enough to de-igbonize the name.
We are tired of "nkita tachaa okpukpu, eze egbube ewu" -"after the dog had finished eating the bones, the goat develops tooth ache".
Enough is enough.

drnoel:
I mean in this time and age we still have human beings with this mindset. We are in trouble in Nigeria

Oga you are in trouble in Nigeria because your leaders lack spiritual insight.
If any of them had any sign of spiritual insight, there would be 24/7 electricity.
All developed countries were founded and run by peoples with DEEP spiritual cognitive abilities.
That is why they are able to deliver things like universal healthcare, decent minimum (read livable) wage, decent and clean environments,
functioning democracy, peace and security for everyone (instead of kill and go and terrorism ruling Nigeria).
These are all products of spiritual cognitive abilities.
Take your pick EVERY top country today was founded and run by people of faith of some kind.
Nobody who lacks spiritual insights can ever dream of delivering such public good.
Nigeria is ruled by spiritually illiterate (read Godless) people.
So, next time you lament Nigeria, remember to add that you contribute to the problem with YOUR GODLESS mindset.

Rexymania:
All this could have been coincidence....just saying
I'm not saying that can't be real either

Coincidence?
Well, I said that it takes ability to discern spiritual matters to escape some of these things.
I never said one needed purely logic.
Logic alone would have guaranteed one sleeps with a devil.
Not everything in this world can be scientifically explained.
Human brain is severely limited in cognitive abilities.
Sometimes you need "SPIRITUAL intelligence".

Let me help to hammer home some of the OP's points, and I will use real life stories.

Back when I was young and still available and roaming, I had two distinct experiences with "strange women".
What saved me was that I've always been a spiritual person and always understood the point about strange women.
In fact there is nothing I fear more than women. No blame me, na so I see am.

Case #1: When I was about 21 yrs, I shared a bus ride with one lady while traveling from one part of Nigeria to another, and at the end of our trip we exchanged contacts and she promised to visit me. When I got home, that same night I had a dream, and in that dream I saw the type of shinning snake I had never seen before and it was making a weird hissing sound. Then I woke up.
My dreams are mostly direct messages from God. What did I do after? I gave instructions to my people that if any girl came to look for me, they should tell her that she had the wrong address..
That was the end of that one.

Case #2: I met one lady at a mall somewhere abroad. To cut a long story short, we connected and exchanged contact information.
Again, that same night I had a dream, and in that dream I saw an entity that looked like "ekwensu" - a tall black dinosaur-like creature whose height was as tall as a four story building. When the entity moved, buildings around the place shook.
Then I woke up.
Nobody told me to again delete the lady's contact and never picked up any of her calls, and that was that!

Nwanne, the world is a very very dangerous place where entities use women to do a LOT of damage to men who lack spiritual discernment.

Suffice it to say that once I got married, I closed shop.

Single men may not find it easy to avoid these troubles, but they should at least try, because the dangers are very real.
This is part of why I am a FIERCE DEFENDER OF MARRIAGES, whether monogamous or polygamous. Anything that can keep a man at home is very much welcome as far as I'm concerned.
That thing you want to do, do it inside your marriage. It is safer -by far!

@Namaster

The only advice I would give you is that wives don't fall from the trees.
They are mostly products of men's preferred social circles.
So, if you want a certain type of wife, you must consciously belong to the social circle where you find such woman.
I admit that it is harder these days due to the menace of smart phones and social media.
If I had the power, I would ban all smart phones in Nigeria. Damn thing is destroying our society in ways previously impossible.

Namaster:
Any man who values his peace of mind would NEVER get married in the first place. Regardless of the lady's occupation.

ALL women will cheat on their husbands if it they get the opportunity. Their occupation or profession means NOTHING.

Consider Nikki Haley, the former governor of South Carolina and a former US presidential candidate. She has NOT one but TWO men who claimed she had an affair with them.

That's a supposedly respectable woman with a respectable job. Yet it made no difference.

Any man who marries has chosen to FORFEIT his peace of mind. Because irrespective of her profession, his wife will SURELY Bleep around. Only a matter of time.

A female doctor will Bleep her doctor colleague whom she spends an extended period of time. A female lecturer will Bleep her lecturer colleague. A school teacher will gladly hop on the dick of her 16-year old male students as we have seen COUNTLESS number of times.

Even in places PRISONS where you'd think the male population are unfit and ineligible and as such your wife/girl would be forced to be faithful, she'll decide to Bleep INMATES.

Only FOOLS get married in the 21st century.

Oga you dey vex well well o.
But believe it or not there are still women who don't fck around.
I know a few of them, and I'm lucky to have married one of such.
So, good women are out there...
A combination of prayer, good luck,and commonsense will land you one of such good women.
But I understand your grouse tho'

OfoIgbo:
But it was Tinubu that fought hard to bring in Buhari, a northerner to replace Jonathan who's far better than both Tinubu and Buhari, as a president.

Just to make matters worse for Tinubu, he supported Buhari's re-election ambition in 2019, because Tinubu saw nothing wrong in the way Buhari led Nigeria from 2015 to 2019, so Tinubu is part and parcel of every failing that Buhari brought to Nigeria.

As though Tinubu was not done with his bad boy moves, he instigated a heavy anti-Igbo feeling in Nigeria during the last election, to the extent that his political hirelings took pleasure in destroying Igbo properties in Lagos, and you think such a move will endear Tinubu to the Igbos.

Continuing, his hireling Onanuga went on to try and hang the protest on the neck of Peter Obi an Igbo man, so that he could be made a target. Now why should an Igbo man or indeed any other southerner ever support Tinubu, when his track record is full of him undermining southern president and a presidential candidate.

Tinubu should make do with the Ohanaeze directive that Igbos shouldn't lead any of these coming protests. That is the very best he can ever get from the Igbos. Igbos will not be rallying for him, to intimidate the north. Let Onanuga do that for him.

Let us not forget the fact that Tinubu forgave Igboho his fellow Yoruba, but has left Kanu an Igbo, in detention.

You Ronus are really living in a different universe.

The bolded shows you how ridiculous the idea of a "South" is in Nigeria of today.
These people think they are smart, but like I've always said, Nigeria na turn by turn.
When they were haranguing Jonathan, throwing everything at him including the kitchen sink to get him out of office, they thought nobody noticed.
Truth is that the North can do with Tinubu whatever they want, and nobody in the broader East would give a flying fck.
He made his bed, let him lie on it.

Contrary to what some people think, she will be very very difficult to defeat.
Mark this post.

Bayo Onanuga has shit his pants and ran away like the coward he is.

The dangerous thing about these onanuga people is that what they lack in courage, they make up for in wickedness.
They are natural cowards, so they became satanically wicked to cover their cowardice.

Edygrin:
When Buhari was in power, protest was haram. Now because it's a Southerner, you remember that protest is your right. During the end Sars protest in 2020 in Lagos, there was no single protest in the North, instead there was counter protest in Abuja and Kano.
Please keep your protest in the north and await the counter protest from the south. 2 can play the game.

The problem with your view is that there is NOTHING LIKE SOUTH in Nigeria.
There is South west, and others.
So when the time to eat comes, South west claims it alone.
While the "others" foolishly divide and weaken themselves further out of idiocy.
The North has spoken, and you must obey whether you like it or not.
If you don't like it, too bad!