Gr8fulHeart:
@opejulie10,lemme start from d loan aspect. is ur husband one of ur guarantor? if yes kindly let d loan officer be aware and let dem pik him up and colect d mony from him. im a loan officer and i understand ur predicament. pele.
for ur son"s schook fees. i hope d school is not too expensive. if it is kindly change him to a lesser and good one too. drop ur husbands number at d school and tell d authorities to call him wen its time for the fees. why am i saying all dis? cos if u kip carrying d load for him na so e go continue dey go oh. wen wil u now hv time and mony to get things for yourself?
for d oda issues il let oda mamas like dem zaynie. liftedhands giddyperson advise u. above all try and find peace cos u nid to be happy right now.
u can suport financially but for u to carry d full load dts not good.
team april how una dey? me i don tire o. my down below aches lik mad as if e wan break. as if smtin wants to fall out.wich kian life be dis self. women too dey suffer jare. lolzzzz

thanks ma
he is my guarantor and the bank are threatening to arrest both of us, I have called his parents to intervene and I hope everything will be solved this evening but next time I am not borrowing for him or borrowing him my money unless I want to....

why are some men so ungrateful

I regret ever helping my husband.......

pls pardon me mama, I want to rant a little cos I can't sleep tonight...

I don't even know where to start from

I met my husband when he had nothing, I mean absolutely nothing, he couldn't afford to buy me a cup of Garri to soak when I visited him as at 2012 when it was just 20naira per cup, yea, it was that bad.
I decided to stay by him and manage, I was having issues with my mom and parent and he stayed by me, along the line, I got pregnant and all hell was let loose but he stood by me and supported in his little ways even though I had to collect Diaper and golden morn on credit from all the aboki on my street and beg a neighbor to feed me cos dh dropped 50 naira most times and I was nursing. I was so lean and even strangers abused me when I strapped my son to my back, I was so malnourished, yet I stood by him

fast forward to three years, he told me about a business and I tried my best to borrow from banks and lapo people, I borrowed a sum of 500k,we were to pay for 2 yrs, the business clicked and hubby paid the money for just a year and the bank kept disturbing me cos I was the one that collected it, family intervened and he managed to pay another six months, remaining another 6 months.. he refused to pay and he made sure he paid all the debt he collected from his own side but he left me to face the bank

I got a job last year out of frustration and the salary wasn't even worth it but I took it.. I started ajo and I picked first, unfortunately my hubby called again that he wants us to change my son school but there was no money, I told him the ajo I was doing was to pay off those bank but he insisted we used it to pay my son's fees and he would settle the bank when the money he was expecting came out... I agreed.

can you believe that my husband got the alert today and he refused to pay the bank money, he even told me that he tricked me to pay my son's fees and next term I would be the one to pay since I am working, that he wants to use his money for a project.

I am so upset right now cos I don't know what to do, why is he so wicked to me, I was trying to be the supportive wife, I was trying to be plain with him
now I have to deal with the banks and also paying back of the ajo monthly, and I might also be the one to pay for my son's school fees next term, I also have to take care of my siblings tooo

how much is the salary ehnnn, I am just fed up

aghaibiam:
Opejulie try to rest and light massage might work too.I have been having hot breasts for some weeks now.I have this feeling of being unwell without knowing the cause until one day when dh and I were *praying* and he started handling my b :oObs.I felt intense relief the kind you feel after holding your pee for so long.That was when I knew my breasts has fever.It has come this evening with full force.I feel so breastsick.How do I explain this one to my gynea ?He will check hoha come check bwest again ? Hope its not mastisis cos that is what dr google is diagonising.

lols
thanks dear for these
I feel so much better, dh couldn't take the way I was complaining about the ache so he rushed down to a pharmacy to get dicoflenac gel to rub on my back and I feel so so so much better...
for the breast and hooha, me I can not do it oooo, the day I tried having s*x, everything just dey tight, I just gave up and I pity dh cos d way he fondles me from behind, you would know he is high

mama in the house, how una body....
May mama's how una dey?

feeling so tired from within
Goshhhhh, I feel like vomiting too
baby has been vigorously moving around and I am seriously back ache
just 34 weeks
pls what can I do, I just came back from clinic and was not experiencing this while there...
pls should I be worried or is it normal?

Rhemy2013:


Dats d adv of big bump ooh

Naomi14:
Teamie, dis your bump is biggie no use am chance people for atm queue

as in ehnn 'n.. the bump just dey grow ooo

iyaff tire me ooo.... but I get special favors when I go out and it is kinda cool

beyedew:

Awwww, it will end in praise ok. Soon, you will start your segxy walking back.

amen oo
I can't just wait

zaynie:




This bump reach to waddle......
Kilode!

lols, are you making jest of Me.... I am still sexy ooo

Dazzle86:


Lol, doh ma. It will soon be over.

thanks ma....

this is us at 34 weeks ooo
I just dey waddle like duck

Giddyperson:

I think I read where someone answered your question, nothing wrong with bone, way better than sand

lols.. I sight you

crystalzoe:

God bless Ur kind heart mama. I appreciate.

I contacted her and she asked me to pay before delivery, is that how she does her stuff? I don't want to fall Maga o

Giddyperson:
Hi my sand-eating teamie , I see you peeping

Lols

what men do cos of tohtoh
d guy wan chop again... desperate measures is needed

mydreams25:

Hmmm, this is me,as in me. Started craving concrete around 30weeks and till now I still eat it but not swallow it, I just love the smell and taste it gives in my mouth, will eat it to pieces swallow the saliver and spit out the remaining particles, oh what a relieved feeling. I do this secretly cos my hubby mustn't know.lol. Presently at 36weeks and still craving it, oh God help me.

so I am not in this alone.... dark secrets.... hubby mustn't know.lol

Naomi14:
Ha teamie you've join those women that craves weird things? Sawdust, sand, ash, ice it is well o! I experienced that nose thingy in second trimester but it subsided on its own I didn't use any medication.

I have joined oooo
I will continue using hot towel to touch the nose

Dazzle86:


Lol, it's called pica. People craving for things like sand chalk, paint, clay. Etc.
I used to have craving for sand too, dust and clay, anything earthy. I used to have it even as a child. They say it's iron deficiency.

ohhhh, iron deficiency
hearing this for the first time.....
my obgyn must here this

Giddyperson:
My stomach is paining, it's coming and going every two minutes I'm at work, am I in labour again. . I can't even say if it's baby related or it's something I ate. I'm this close to taking permission to go home.

awwww Pele dear
I know how you feel
there are days like that when I feel like going home immediately I resume work.

jesufifunmi:
I can imagine. During my first pregnancy, mine was the smell of kerosene. I love the smell so much that i felt like drinking it sometimes . This sand own just sounds worse than my Kerosene

lols @kerosene
I hate the smell of kerosene, makes me puke....
pregnancy can surely bring out the weirdness in women

queensnow:
u mean u actually digest the sand and d thing no do u anyhow for mouth?

yes, I love the crunchy feel in the mouth, but I did it just twice and I am actually feeling somehow about it so I had to voice out, pls is there any remedy?

Naomi14:
Ha teamie you've join those women that craves weird things? Sawdust, sand, ash, ice it is well o! I experienced that nose thingy in second trimester but it subsided on its own I didn't use any medication.

so I have to manage this hard nose till I give birth, to sneeze sef Na one painful tin as at now

for the craving, Na wet sand and fried turkey I dey chop oo

jesufifunmi:

Sorry sis, i couldn't help but laugh

Sabi mamas will come and touch light for the matter.

It is kinda funny.... I can't tell dh, he would make jest of Me ehnn and even starts monitoring me, make I no give lo sand chop

I just don't know what to do, everytime it starts raining, I start to imagine the wet sand outside in my mouth

congrats luvluv
happy married life
you look so stunning

mama in the house, I have strange craving ooo, anytime it rains I feel like eating sand, I mean just little in my mouth, I love the after smell of rainfall

secondly, I have this painful and hard swollen nose for some weeks now, I don't know what to do

Naomi14:
March roll call for Team May 2017

@Naomi14 ............... 3rd May, gender XX
@Rhemy2013 ..... 5th/11th May, gender XY
@Nwarosa ................ 6th May, gender X?
@realtalk19 ...... 16th/30th May, gender XY
@queensnow ............ 16th May, gender XY
@opejulie10 ............. 15th May, gender XX
@Berra .................... 3rd May, gender XY
@ftmum ............ 13th/19thMay, gender X?
@Kemifemi .............. 6th May, gender X?
@Pamelar ................ 14th May, gender XX
@nikkishola ............ 13/14 May, gender XX
@eriifemi ............... 21st May, gender X?

We ask you, Father, in Jesus name, to hedge our little baby about with Your mighty protection. Watch over this little one each day as You intricately created him/her in the hidden sanctuary of the womb, God we know that Your hand is on our babies while they are in the womb and your hand has gently mould his/her beautiful life, body and spirit. We ask for Your divine health and that you will sustain us in good health and vitality throughout this whole pregnancy.
I pray that You will keep this baby growing in the womb until Full term and this baby will come forth in Your perfect timing. In Jesus name. Amen.

Happy new month to all the mamas in the house. Congrats to February mamas that have given birth. Team March, go into that delivery room and come out with goodnews. Safe delivery to y'all.
@Berra, @ftmum, @nwarosa @eriifemi, it haff tey you pipo come online. I hope you mamas are good?
TeamMay2017 mamas that haven't updated lo's gender, please try and do so. New members are highly welcome, gerrara of thy peeping mode and come say hello!


I am grateful to God it's 31weeks today, he brought me this far and will take me farther. Amen! Tiredness at its peak. Mamas, please ori (sheabutter) is not working for my stretchmarks it haff tire me o, very itchy and it's now appearing on my belle! what else can I use? @Feddy27, @Zaynie, @enque, @jazzyjazz, @all sabi mamas.



#TeamMay2017# #veryeasyswiftpainlessdelivery‎# #ourcaseisdifferent# #notear# #noloss# 
#supernaturalbirth#
#wearedestinedforgreatness#

amen oooo

Thanks a lot cappo for the roll call
we are 30weeks today
tiredness and dragging tins.....

as in ehnn, the matter just tire me... wetin dey the person body? why not marry someone you are sexually attracted to? I love seeing my husband sags his jeans and I love the sight of seeing his boxers underneath it, he has a tiny dark spots near his mouth and he is very fair, that is what got me attracted, when I see those stuff, the rest is history.... I can never get married without seeing the features I like

realdentist:
My punctual prince charming arrived today by a few minutes past 12 weighing 3.6 kg. Join me praise God.
Britneystacy I need to have a private chat with u pls. My email address is babaojochide@gmail. com

congratulations ma

I currently got a job in a government firm and I can say married folk commits adultery than single folks.... chai! after work Na office parol remain ooo
This is so alarming and when I complain, people are like asking me if I was seeing it for the first time
well, I grew up in a family where such thing us an abomination, even to talk about sex, it is like sacred.
I am married now and my husband younger brother who got married 2years ago with 2 kids currently invited his ex-girlfriend who is also married to the other room and the are currently doing the do..
haba! why cheat on your partners? the way the girl are screaming sef is making conji catch me and I am patiently waiting for my husband.
but, why is adultery on the high rise in Nigeria?

Yesitsme:
The Lord fulfilled his promise
My lil angel Phoebe Nzube is here
@35wks weighing 2.5kg by 1:45pm

congratulations ma.... it's well with you and your lil one

Roseey0:
opejulie10
How are you now?

Mama Ghennys congrats! It ended in praise.

thanks dear
I am fine ooo
I had to go to the hospital, I kept seeing watery bloodish discharge, went for scan and the doctor said he baby dey bounce and she is healthy, no cause for alarm... I was placed on a drug, klovinal, to be inserted in my vagina every night for 12days...

I greet all my teamie ooo
how una dey?
mama in the house, it is well with us all
To all the new mummy's that have birthed their lo's

Roseey0:
opejulie10

Pls go back to hospital.
Is your obstetrician always available?
If not, see another immediately.
What worked for Mr A may not work for Mr B.
Be close to hospital for close monitoring.
Infection can cause miscarriage if not promptly treated.
Bodies are different.

Most importantly, PRAY! Confess positively
A closed mouth is a closed destiny.

thanks ma
told dh yesternight when he came back from work, I am going to the hospital tomorrow morning to complain... thanks a lot