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Family / Re: Spitting Blood After Been Punched By Husband by opejulie10: 2:42pm On Jan 29, 2020 |
UPDATE Thanks everyone for your comments I went to the hospital and doctor said I had internal bleeding and the baby had to be evacuated,Well,I don’t know if I am happy with this news because I have already made up my mind I was going to hand over my post to my superiors at work and carry this baby,who rejects this bundle of joy?? Who? He called the doctor and he was happy the baby wasn’t there anymore,I don’t know what to feel,If it is anger or bitterness or I should just run away from everything and start all over again but what of my kids? The lady he called came over to spend the night at our home,my sister informed me while at the hospital.my parents still insist this is the “devil doing “ I should not give up on my husband,this is not ordinary,that I should pray. I pity him,he has a lot to loose because we are legally married,most of the stuff we have is in my name,if I should move he would be left with nothing but I am confused. I will be discharged today and I am moving back to my parents house for 2 weeks to clear my head. |
Family / Spitting Blood After Been Punched By Husband by opejulie10: 1:54am On Jan 20, 2020 |
It’s past 1 am in the morning and I have been coughing out blood and I have the worst stomach ache and body pains,I am even so scared to close my eyes and sleep for the fear of been stabbed, I slept in my kids room ,the locks are spoilt Rewind to what happened to the previous day.Yes we have been having issues but he has never lifted his hands to beat me,I called him I was pregnant again with our third child and I don’t know what to do,at the peak of my career,I am pregnant again. I had my first child was I was 19,I was still in school I had my second child and I almost lost my job as a temporary staff. I am permanent staff now and was recently promoted,I am pregnant again, I told him I am confused,anytime I tend to move forward in my life,He doesn’t care about the withdrawal method anymore,He makes sure he cums in me just to ruin and burden me,can’t I be free too for once. Instead of him to find a soothing words so we would find a solution to it,he walked away from the conversation to the sitting room,after waiting for an hour for him to come back,I decided to go the pharmacy to get drugs for my second child,I came back and the gate was locked,I banged the gate,no one answered,I called his line till from 10pm till 12 am ,he didn’t pick, it dawned on me he intentionally locked me out, I was wearing his boxers and a light top,I had to call my brothers to pick me up so I can sleep and go back home the next morning,I called my mom to report him and she told me, he has called him already to open the gate for me when I return home,I got home yesterday morning and he still didn’t open the gate,our neighbor came outside to get something and I used the opportunity to enter the gate.When I entered he wasn’t bothered,no questions,nothing,he just lied down there looking at me,I was so pained and I questioned him why will he treat me that way knowing my condition,he didn’t even answer,he just pick his incoming call and he was directing a lady to come to our house,I sparked and told him if he should bring any lady in this house he will regret his actions , he told me to repeat myself,out of anger I abused him and threw his phone away,the same phone I have been calling since yesterday and you didn’t pick and a lady called you just once in my presence,the phone didn’t ring twice and you want me to keep mute,I abused him and he punched me in my neck and my stomach,maybe I would have been dead if not for our neighbors,it’s midnight now and I have been coughing out blood and having bad dreams that he is chasing me with a knife, I am scared of staying alone with him at home,my parents said I should go and beg him for forgiveness and move on But I don’t think I can move on from this,I am making plans quietly to leave this country with my children in the next five years,I can’t endure this anymore but for the main time I will pretend all his fine because of my kids |
Properties / Re: Cost Of Renting A 3 Bedroom Apartment In Lagos | Co-tenant by opejulie10: 8:22am On May 16, 2019 |
At ipaja ayobo, command, estate gate,alimosho,3 bedroom flat should be between 250-300k,ayetoro is 200k-250k |
Family / Re: Could My Husband Be Gay??? by opejulie10: 7:57pm On Mar 23, 2019 |
His friend no longer stay with us and I am not allowing any other person to come in and stay again. Ever since we fought about his friend issue,he is coming home early from work,he is bonding with his kids more,he is no longer leaving home as early as 5:30am and coming home by 1am.. Drinking alcohol has reduced.... And everyone is happy........... 4 Likes |
Fashion / Re: Asantee Papaya Soap Vs Fair And White So White Soap by opejulie10: 12:44pm On Mar 20, 2019 |
Buy glutathione injection soap or better still dodo soap |
Fashion / Re: Asantee Papaya Soap Vs Fair And White So White Soap by opejulie10: 12:44pm On Mar 20, 2019 |
But glutathione injection soap or better still dodo soap |
Politics / Re: Photos Of Babajide Sanwoolu Campaigning At Computer Village In Ikeja by opejulie10: 3:11pm On Mar 01, 2019 |
if igbos should take away their hatred for tinubu,sanwo olu is an humble and intelligent man,I have worked with him and he has a heart of gold |
Family / Re: Could My Husband Be Gay??? by opejulie10: 8:52am On Feb 19, 2019 |
eyinjuege: Thank you... about the appearance, I am looking younger than my age, you will never know I'm married not to say having kids, for those saying I don't want him to hang out with his buddy, seems you don't get it,he has lot of friends but the influence this one has on him is bad.... I don't like it and I won't watch him become a drunkard or become a stranger to his kids in his own home because of a friend. I am going to let him be,he is still not talking to me but I will keep my job and kids.... I have told his family about all the recent stuff and he is not listening to any of them, I have tried to talk to him overnight,he is saying my guilty conscience is eating me up ,I should kindly shut up my mouth and take care of the kids.... I will let him be and face my life...na him Sabi.. |
Family / Re: Could My Husband Be Gay??? by opejulie10: 10:15am On Feb 17, 2019 |
merahki: you are right.... I told him he is the only friend I have and he said he is not holding me back to have other friends, this is a man that would call me every minute when I hang out with my colleagues at work to monitor my movement and even start complaining when I spend 3 hrs outside or would even tell me to fly bike to get home early if I gave the excuse of been in traffic. Anyway, I know things would change after this and I will learn to socialise more,it's a hard lesson,I will let him be with his friends either good or bad.... I will learn not to get jealous again. it's hard been an African woman, you make your husband your friend, they say you are choking him, you make him just like any other man,they say are not caring and submissive. 5 Likes |
Family / Re: Could My Husband Be Gay??? by opejulie10: 10:40pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
[quote author=opejulie10 post=75806523][/quote] what do I want to do again,my dad scolded me and I went to him tonight to apologize for calling him gay, infact he closed his ears with his two hands and still shooed me away... what have I done wrong?is it wrong I love my husband or I have as my best friend,is it wrong I scolded him?is it wrong I corrected him,it hurts so much,I am weak,and I break down easily emotionally, I feel like running away from all this...God,I am tired,I am so tired, if I knew I wouldn't have married so early..... I would have had some friends so I can confided in and not hurt this much....thank you so much nairalanders you have been of great help... 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Could My Husband Be Gay??? by opejulie10: 10:28pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
LadySarah: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Could My Husband Be Gay??? by opejulie10: 6:46pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
crackhaus: exaggerating doesn't add a Kobo to my account not sympathy from readers,these is the only place I can share this and I don't have friends I talk to about what is happening in my home 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Could My Husband Be Gay??? by opejulie10: 6:44pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
crackhaus: yes I am jealous and worried,he has had other friends in past and I have never complained because they are not as irresponsible as these new friend he has 4 Likes |
Family / Re: Could My Husband Be Gay??? by opejulie10: 6:04pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
crackhaus: Thanks a lot...we learn everyday I am not trouble some, my husband would have sent me packing because he doesn't rubbish and I grew up under a submissive mum, I have only learnt I can't keep my husband to myself, others too have to share him right 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Could My Husband Be Gay??? by opejulie10: 1:53pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
SmellingAnus: how did I make my home a place of war??by correcting him about coming home late,or not attending to his kids life anymore,or by cautioning him about visiting beer palor or drinking so bad that he vomits everywhere in the house.... I should have just left him and not say a word because I want peace to reign 22 Likes |
Family / Re: Could My Husband Be Gay??? by opejulie10: 1:36pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
UjuJoan2: Thanks, I will do this#crying#, never knew a day like this would come in my marriage when my husband will neglect me because of a friend, I think it's high time I start making friends too,he is my only friend and hurts so much to see your best friend having other friends. 10 Likes |
Family / Re: Could My Husband Be Gay??? by opejulie10: 1:33pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
his job is demanding but he has been coping,we talk about his work a lot, I even assisted him with loans from my office to help out,he is taking care of the kids,we don't have monetary issues, but this late home coming, drinking at beer palor, been friends with someone that has like 3 girlfriends apart from his wife is my problem... could my husband so value this friendship that he can act so cold towards me to the extent of trying to beat me up because I warned him I don't want to see friend at our home?? |
Family / Re: Could My Husband Be Gay??? by opejulie10: 1:24pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
dangermouse: I am trying to but he shoo-in me away... like get out my sight, I don't want to see you?? |
Family / Re: Could My Husband Be Gay??? by opejulie10: 1:21pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
UjuJoan2: like what... I have not done anything... I don't usually react to stuff unless I study it, I have complained times without number and he keeps promising to change... I am tired,is it wrong trying to fight for my husband attention?? 1 Like |
Family / Could My Husband Be Gay??? by opejulie10: 12:44pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
nairalanders, I am confused and this is the last place I would ever think I would bring my family issues.. I have been married to my husband for 8 yrs with 2kids..he has been caring and all sort.. The problem started 6 months ago when he brought in his friend without informing me to leave with us cos of the distance from work to his home, along the line,I noticed my husband started coming home late, like past 12am,1am or even 2am,he doesn't bother calling me when he is at work, I do the calling and I kept complaining he apologizes and he continues again. whenever he comes back from work,he would rather sit with his friend and even forget to sleep in his friend room,I have to wake him up to come over and sleep,he doesn't even help with the kids anymore,he doesn't want to go to church anymore,I keep wasting food as he won't eat if his friend his around. on Val's day my husband didn't even call or send a message or buy a gift,it has never happened before. I called his friend and warned that I don't want to see him in my matrimonial home again and I guess he told my husband,my husband didn't speak to me since morning, I even went to meet him about what was wrong and he said he was going to beat me up when I called him gay. he has reported me to my family and I feel so bad,I am so hurt and I don't know what to do,he is not himself this morning because his friend is not around |
Family / Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by opejulie10: 6:44pm On Feb 14, 2019 |
very sad thread |
Family / Re: What Are You Allergic To?? by opejulie10: 1:57pm On Feb 11, 2019 |
Alphafeezay: lol... like seriously.... Buhari don offend people 1 Like |
Family / Re: What Are You Allergic To?? by opejulie10: 1:57pm On Feb 11, 2019 |
Alphafeezay: lol... like seriously.... Buhari don offend people 1 Like |
Family / What Are You Allergic To?? by opejulie10: 12:11pm On Feb 11, 2019 |
is there anyone in the house allergic to carbon monoxide,I keep sneezing when I smell that stuff,pls is there any remedy because it can be quite embarrassing when I start sneezing in public due to carbon monoxide. is there anyone in the house allergic to carbon monoxide,I keep sneezing when I smell that stuff,pls is there any remedy because it can be quite embarrassing when I start sneezing in public due to carbon monoxide. |
Family / Re: Can You Wash Your Wife's Underwears? by opejulie10: 2:41pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
my hubby washed mine when I gave birth and I was too weak because of heavy bleeding....so 3 Likes |
Family / Re: I Need Help For My FACE by opejulie10: 3:53pm On Feb 06, 2019 |
had this issue some months back
oily face
large pores.
pimples
makes U ug Lee
Until I discovered
Neutrogena facial toner and 42 heures facial cleanser the cleanser should be used only at night the toner should be used morning and night. |
Travel / Re: Which Are The Top 5 Most Traffic Congested Roads In Lagos by opejulie10: 10:01pm On Feb 05, 2019 |
Ikeja along to iyana ipaja traffic na die....it seems ama give up the ghost when I am in the traffic....Okada is my saving grace 11 Likes 1 Share |
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