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I feel for you bro. I pray for open doors for. I wish I'm in a position to help.

Choose wisely. Either an iPhone or a car, depending on what you believe will serve your need.

As for me, I want carry the phone go heaven? Car for commercial purpose straight up.

SUPERPACK:
See as even casket follow dey collect AC. Omo

The thing surprised me o. Na wetin dem dey call packaging be this.

abuhusna1:
Sent

God bless you real good sir. Thank you.

rickleye:
I have sent you #5,000. All the best. Please pay it forward

Thank you very much sir, God bless you.

Good day sirs, please you people showed interest to help me based on this thread by asking for my account details. I'm very very hungry right now please. I have not eaten since morning. Please just help me with anything first, in few days time, I will have anything I can be doing to be making my own money and survive. I really need help to survive first, please. Thanks and be blessed.

6019680 815, Keystone Bank, Victor Monday

@Successfulben, @faruq987, @PK01, @Nasri100.

abuhusna1:
Quote me Paste your aza make I give 10k hold body

Good day sir, please you asked for my account number. I'm very very hungry right now please. I have not eaten since morning. Please just help me with anything first, in few days time, I will figure out what to do to be making my own money to survive. I really need help to survive first. Thanks and be blessed.

6019680 815, Keystone Bank, Victor Monday

Nasri100:
I will hit you up very soon.

Cheers!

Good day sir. I'm yet to receive a mail from you.

Gajagojo:
I have a big problem with this If this is your real identity

It is either you are telling us a scam story or you have no respect for your family because with this you are also revealing your brothers identity
And somehow this can get back to your brother
The solution is not begging for money because that money will finish but to sit down with your brother and talk. Or find a job
The country is hard for everyone including your brother

This idea that your brother is doing you had is very wrong

I am distrustful of this your yarn.
If you want to ask for money do so direct no dey follow corner

I could see so many people condemning your comments on the thread. It's ok this is coming from you.

Pascaldebravoo:
He is like this because of too much alcohol intake—he takes a lot of whiskey.

Hello, I replied your Dm

Faruq987:
Had similar experience,
send me your acct No. Use the money to prepare delicious food for your elder brother tell him somebody you repaired phone for dashed you money.

Do things to please him:
...wash his clothes
...Iron his clothes
...polish his shoes
...clean the house and toilet

Do those things and he will definitely feel your impact and he will give you money.

Pls don't beg him money for transport or feeding it will provoke him.

After all the things I mentioned above,
Skip work. If he ask you reason you didn't go to work then tell him you are very very broke and you were about to ask him for money but you don't knw how to beg him for it.

Be richly blessed as you do this for me. I will appreciate it so so much.

6019680 815, Keystone Bank, Victor Monday

Nasri100:
I will hit you up very soon.

Cheers!

Alright sir. Thank you.

Father4all:
what part of the country are you from?

Ebonyi

Openfortruth:
This questions too plenty please.

Me: brother, please I'm wasting away here in the village as I'm not doing anything. I want to come to the city to stay with you and learn phone repair, before my admission.

Him: No problem. Come

Look at this @ibinaboonline

Father4all:
eya, your story really touched me. Where do you reside?

That will mean so much for me. In fact, it will be like you have taken care of me from now till next month. God bless you.

6019 680815, Keystone Bank, Victor Monday

Gajagojo:
Yes I can see you have no tolerance for questions and maybe that is why you are in your current situation
It seems to me like you are not straightforward

How old is your brother and how old are you

I'm 21 and he's 28

Gajagojo:
You are not sounding straightforward
Did he invite you yes or no?
How old are you? How old is he
Are your parents alive? Does he give them money?
What job is he doing?
Did you discuss how you will sustain yourself
So in the past he did not starve you?
How long did you stay before this starvation started
The place you are learning work Did he help you find it?

This questions too plenty please.

Me: brother, please I'm wasting away here in the village as I'm not doing anything. I want to come to the city to stay with you and learn phone repair, before my admission.

Him: No problem. Come

zionstaar75:
u shouldn't be eating more than once a day when living with someone,,you have entitlement mentality

Everything for some of you is entitlement mentality. Expecting food from an elder brother you are living with is entitlement mentality? How did you people get to this?

Thank God I still have a younger one. When I stand my ground, she will experience something differentt.

AllBlack:
from the onset did your brother invite you to come and stay with him?

when you told him you were coming to join him, did he agree?

be honest.

Yes he agreed. Even before now, I use to come and go. I think may be because I'm staying now.

All the comments, I have not gone through them yet.

Pk01:
Nigga drop account number na...

God bless you sir. I will really appreciate it.

60196 80815, Keystone Bank, Victor Monday

Pascaldebravoo:
He is like this because of too much alcohol intake—he take a lot of whiskey.

I have replied your mail sir.

FROGMAN101:
This is facts who knows if he has bad behavior we don’t know about.

A elder brother can not just leave you stranded unless something is happening

Can I drop his phone number with you?

Stevenbright:
Ok, I see.

He doing what he wants to do. But then you have to appreciate the fact that you have where to stay and ensure you don't nurse any grievance against him.

Just continue to manage till you start being able to get something from where you are apprenticing.

If where you are learning is a busy place, you can ask your oga to also permit you to do marketing by standing in a strategic location and asking people if they want to repair their phones and any customer that comes through you, your oga should find you small thing to hold body. You can ask him to give you one or two hours for this daily.

Thank you. I will try my best. Not as if he has much but some things can be bought and kept in the house when there's a little money.

Nasri100:
Send your bank account to my email

Thank you for this sir. I would appreciate it a lot. This would come at a point of my need, but I cannot find your email to send it. If you permit me, I can drop the details here. Please my email:
johndan4you@gmail.com, if you are not comfortable to drop your own.

Nasri100:
My girlfriend saw my replies on this post and said i was insensitive

On a serious mood, your elder brother is suppose to take care of you. Leaving you hungry shows the problem is from his end and not you.

I take back my earlier post and apologize if i was insensitive to your plight.

Sorry about your ordeal and i hope things work out for you two.

My girlfriend also wishes a quick resolution to your predicament.

Good night.

Sir you have been very hard on me. I read your earlier comments and had nothing to reply you. May God bless your girlfriend for coming in.

frozen70:
You know what, people learn in different ways

Some hard way and some soft ways

Your brother maybe the I don't care type of person, so if that's who he is, don't expect much from him

You already know that you are not from a rich home, so bear all you have complained of

Just bear it if you can and unfortunately hunger is not something one can bear

I think you can discuss it with him that you are starving and hear what he will say

If his response ate negative, then you are into a big sheet

What next, look around if you can see family's who will need you to wash their cloths, especially young guys

You go to them, help wash their clothes and dry them in their premises or wherever that is safe, to avoid theft

Clean their house and wash their cars, then it on their clothes

This can be done on Sundays, forget about what people will say, that's not your business

Now
The main question I want to ask you is this
I hope this is not the person you are expecting to train you in the school, I mean university
Because you may face the worst hardship in school if you hope on him

Thank you for your comment. I appreciate it but he's not the one I'm hoping to sponsor my school.

pansophist:
All this one-sided stories. I would have loved to hear from your brother.

You seems entitled, that someone owe you because you're blood relatives. That's a perfect recipe to failure. You'll have to paddle your own ship, and be grateful for little help.

Everything is not entitlement sir. I guess if a child complains of hunger, the mother should feel the child feels entitled to her food.

I have seen where the elderly ones stand as parents to the young ones in the absence of the real parents. At least this is not going to be for long. I'm making effort to make money and be on my own. I won't expect him to help me again then.

If I were in his position, I would do better for my younger one.

Stevenbright:
Do you do house chores and do you respect him?

How is your communication with him like?

Your sincere answers to the above questions and changes where necessary, might be of help to you.

I'm the one that clean the house, wash his clothes when I wash my own, fetch water and do anything in the house.

Last night, I openly told him I haven't eaten and I'm very hungry. He told me I should bear it till this morning and he dropped N500 for me before he left for work this morning. I don't know if he wasn't even happy about it, he said I should help myself and not expect much from him.

Same thing I'm going through this night. I'm going to bed hungry.

majesticguy:
All of you saying entitlement mentality, abeg bone that shit. This is all shades of wrong. Unless the OP did something to his brother which he's not telling us. I go get mind chop clean mouth while my kid bro way no get anything go sleep with empty stomach, mbanu!! untop wetin na? my own blood. This life is nothing ooo.

Even if i'm so poor that it's only garri I can afford, I'd gladly share it with him.

God bless you sir. If I were to be in his position, I would never behave with him this way.

Kobojunkie:
Has your brother always been this way or did something happen between you two that caused him to begin acting this way towards you? I find it hard to believe your own blood brother would suddenly start treating you like a stranger for no reason.

I'm still trying to find out where I have offended him.