Romance / Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Opengates(m): 1:03pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
PENNYSWAP:
It’s not as you think , some one I caught in the act , changed the narrative of that she wants to play the said guy , I was just looking at her , like ok fine do what’s in your mind .
I had to give her the yes to know what she was upto, and she was so happy I gave her the go ahead . I am not a fool bro...
Many things were going through my mind , so this is some I’m to marry , how do I take my own pound of flesh , a million thoughts Please bro, if you will heed my little counselling, don't do anything to revenge what she has done to you. Just release her to go. Forgive her and forget her. She is not your wife otherwise marrying her will spell doom for you. If you can do what I asked you to do, God will compensate with an honest and a helpmeet wife very soon. Don't put yourself under unecessarry pressure about marriage now that things have turned out to be like this. Take this time to improve yourself mentally and financially. May God console you in Jesus name. Shalom |
Romance / Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by Opengates(m): 10:51am On Jun 24, 2021 |
mugnmuffin: Dear Nairalanders, I have an issue that has been on my mind for weeks now. My fiancé and I have been dating for over three years. I love him and he loves me too. We are physically attracted to each other. We’re both catholic but since I graduated, during my service year I gave my life to Christ, got saved and left the Catholic Church. So I’ve been a Pentecostal Christian since then. He on the other hand is still catholic. I subtly try to nudge him to consider getting saved, i.e acknowledging Christ as lord and savior and becoming born again but he is content with his laidback Christian life.
Earlier this year, he asked to meet my parents and I let him. My parents like him especially because my younger sis is married and they have been waiting for me too. They’re glad I’ve someone. However, after the introduction,I regret it. I’m now certain that he’s not the one. I think about my spiritual life and how lukewarm he is about the things of God, I think about kids and how we’ll raise the, with such differing views about God and I’m discouraged. I feel like I’m settling because he checks all the boxes on the checklist of physical attributes. Another mistake I made is, I didn’t pray about this decision and that worries me because anything that involves him,I just act with pausing to ask God, but I always ask God about other aspects of my life. So it’s like my associating with him is a minus for my spiritual life and that’s a huge cause for concern.
At this point, I want to tell my parents I am not convinced it’s him but I’m afraid of the disappointment this will cause. *sigh* I’ll appreciate your thoughts, comments, criticisms... It's a pity that you came to Nairaland for advice. Since when does Nairaland(ers) become marriage counselors? This is a grave mistake on your own part. Why don't look for a marriage counselor or better still , your Pastor who can guide you better with a spiritual guidance concerning this matter. The decision you make in the issue of marriage goes a long way in determining your eternity. Don't treat this area carelessly like most of the contributors suggested here. You have the last say now that you have not been hooked in marriage to him but what after you got married to him, you MUST submit to him whether you like it or not. What if he turned out to hate your God after all, what will you do then? Will Nairaland counsellors be there to endure your problems with you? May God guide you right in Jesus name. Don't take these red flags lightly! It is well with you sister. Seek for counseling from the right place and the right quarter. I assure you, you will not regret it. 2 Likes |
Religion / Re: Pastor Stephen Akinola Is Dead by Opengates(m): 9:50am On Jun 07, 2021 |
EKONGKING:
Just say RIP and move on. Repenting and accepting Jesus now .Did it saved any christians from death. Has not many born again christians or pious christians died just like that. What makes accepting jesus special .Muslims ,Hindus,Buddists ,have their own heaven or hell . It makes a lot of difference. Yes everyone will die but you must NOT die as a sinner. Accepting Jesus and repentance will pave way for you to heaven. You need to be born again. This has nothing to do with your religion. Salvation is to be saved from perdition which is a punishment for the sinners in hell. If any religionist dies in his/her sin, he/she will perish in hell. Get this right and repent before it is too late for you, my dear. God bless you. Jesus Christ is coming soonest than expected. Prepare for His coming, repent and forsake your sins, accept Him to obtain mercy an forgiveness. May the Lord have mercy on your soul in Jesus name. Proverbs 28 vs 13. John 3 vs 17 Shalom 1 Like |
Business / Re: ➜ ➜ ➜Currency/E-currency Market Deals 2020 ➜ ➜ ➜ by Opengates(m): 7:55pm On Jun 06, 2021 |
naijacutee: As the previous thread created by @puskin is now 4 years old and 8,000+ pages long, please continue your E-currency trading requests here
Hello Naijacutee, pls can you recommend a trusted escrow or somebody who can act as escrow between a buyer and I on this Nairaland? Thanks |
Business / Re: ➜ ➜ ➜Currency/E-currency Market Deals 2020 ➜ ➜ ➜ by Opengates(m): 4:18pm On Jun 06, 2021 |
$140 USD Webmoney is available for sale @N400/$1 |
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Crime / Re: Deeper Life Pastor, Otamayomi Ogedengbe, Regains Freedom In Ondo by Opengates(m): 5:07pm On May 17, 2021 |
Youngvegetable:
What Money can't do does not exist yet
Catfishing PiggyVestTroll Labadi69 The5DME ammaSTAR Money cannot buy live (#ask Doctors), cannot stop death when it is bound to happen (#ask Abiola) and cannot buy security(#ask Abacha). Btw: We thank God for the answered prayers on the Pastor. May His name be praised for ever 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Shekau Appoints Abu Muhammad As New War Commander, Kills Predecessor by Opengates(m): 6:33pm On Apr 29, 2021 |
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Politics / Re: Shekau Appoints Abu Muhammad As New War Commander, Kills Predecessor by Opengates(m): 6:23pm On Apr 29, 2021 |
CaptainAyub: Imam Shekau,one of the few true moozlims out there with a very deep knowledge of the Quran. Backs up his beheading with the appropriate verses of the Quran and none of the so called "islam is the religion of peace" people can counter him theologically. Btw, al-Baghdadi of ISIS was also a PhD holder in Islamic studies but some Yoruba muslims claim they know more than Shekau and Al-Baghdadi You are absolutely right my brother, God bless you jare 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: What A Close Relative Posted About Ada Jesus. by Opengates(m): 10:56pm On Apr 24, 2021 |
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Religion / Re: Why Youtube Suspended TB Joshua’s Emmanuel TV by Opengates(m): 8:28pm On Apr 16, 2021 |
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NYSC / Re: Has NYSC Destroyed Your Relationship Before? Tell Us Your Story by Opengates(m): 3:38pm On Apr 16, 2021 |
Delpeiro:
Lol..I don't miss a chance, Not in this life. And dont let any body decieve you about bad luck yen yen yen.. Those Take your chance as it comes Las Las we will all be alright. Life is short.
If you know that life is short, then why taking risks that will make it shorter? Don't be deceived, nothing and nobody will be alright because evildoers can never be paid good rewards. That is the truth, it may be bitter 6 Likes |
Religion / Re: Catholic Church In Yola Built A Mosque For Muslims - Bishop Mamza by Opengates(m): 5:34pm On Apr 11, 2021 |
Vulcanheph: Why would Muslims accept a mosque built by INFIDELS ... This is HARAM, any Muslim that uses the mosque should be killed and the mosque should be destroyed because Islam is a religion of PEACE |
Romance / Re: Trust Issues, Should I Continue The Relationship? by Opengates(m): 8:09pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
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Business To Business / Re: We'll Build Your Home Or Commercial Property Using HYDRAFORM INTERLOCKING BLOCK! by Opengates(m): 5:54pm On Mar 04, 2021 |
What is the estimate for 3-Bedroom flat ensuite for all the rooms from start to finish? |
Politics / Re: Medina Vs Jerusalem — Religious Tension Brews Over Renaming Of Oyo Community by Opengates(m): 2:35pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
igboarenice: May Allah keep anybody that say anything bad about Islam or attribute this little tiff among indigene to Fulanis away from HIS mercy You see your life? Do you think God is a fool? Keep wallowing in sin simply because you are keeping the tenet of a religion brewing chaos in the world over, you better run, REPENT, FORSAKE sin and accept Jesus as your Lord and Saviour before it is too late. Do you think God will allow those who hate their brothers without just cause in His heaven because you are equated to murderer which is your lifestyle now for all to see worldwide. Ki la gbe, ki la ju, ti won ti bere si se epe. (Instantly you were quick to start cursing, uhnnn, religion of peace indeed). The way of peace you don't know. God, the custodian of mercy is not like you. Read John 8 Vs 21 - 24 |
Religion / Re: Why I Rejected The Opportunity To Become A Millionaire Some Years Ago by Opengates(m): 12:22pm On Feb 28, 2021 |
Interesting15: The devil will always come with his offer. He will always present a seemingly pleasant method of getting something desirable, particularly money and wealth. Don't forget that he made an offer of wealth to the LORD Jesus too, and he will continue trying to make us embrace sinful methods to acquire material things.
Some days back, I published an article on my official blog (sundayakanni.com) about what happened after losing my mum years back when I was just 20. In this article, I want to share some other things that happened during that period
You know, that season was a nasty one filled with uncertainty. It was the time I was really ready to further my education in the University. I needed a lot of money. Unfortunately, the family wasn't too financially strong at this time.
So, in my quest to get equipped with information and opportunities to earn money, i met different bright youngsters with similar ambition, and we created a platform (a WhatsApp group) for motivation and information sharing. The community started on a pure note, until one day, someone discovered an easy way to make money online - via unethical/immoral blogging. The system and procedure was shared on the group, and it was working for anyone interested - you just have to always craft false and indecent content.
Several other young folks on the group jumped at it, and they started making huge amount of money each month - some were making up to 1 million naira each month (I'm talking about very young folks)
But, as I explained in the previous article, I have met Jesus before this time, and He has planted His fear in my heart. And despite how badly I needed money at this time, I exited the community (I first gave them a sermon before leaving though). It was a decision I never regretted. I kept enjoying God's peace and pleasantness, and I go about with a pure heart
When you truly have an intimate relationship with the Lord Jesus, you will prioritize Him above anything else. Of course, He is always faithful too, and He won't leave nor forsake you. Jesus will always take good care of His own, and He always open doors for you. Jesus is so Sweet.
So I'm advising you (particularly young people) not to sell their souls to the devil by dancing to his tune just because of earthly and material things. Today, there are tons of young folks scamming others. There are many people making money through corrupt means (politicians, business people, civil servants, etc).
No excuse can justify your wrong actions. We also passed through tough times, but then refused to indulge in illegal and immoral stuff to get money. If you are currently getting money through wrong means, please repent now and ask God for forgiveness before it's too late. Jesus is ready to cleanse you and make you a new creature. Just sincerely ask Him for mercy and be determined to stop doing those wrong things, and you will be saved from the nasty curses attached to those sinful stuff.
In conclusion, the Bible says godliness with contentment is great gain (1 Timothy 6:6). People without contentment will keep doing wrong stuff to make money. Be contented with what you have, don't compare yourself with others, and cut your clothes according to your size. We are all going to leave this earth one day and will stand before the judgment seat of GOD, where we will be judged according to what we did on earth. Don't allow this temporal world to push you into eternal anguish in hell. Jesus wants you to reign with HIM in Heaven for eternity. Stick to Jesus.
https://www.sundayakanni.com/2021/02/why-i-rejected-opportunity-to-become.html?m=1 God bless you my brother. We shall make heaven together in Jesus name. Let me add this: Revelation 20 Vs 12 - 15; Revelation 21 vs 1 - end. Read and be wise... God bless all and happy Sunday! 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Tonto Dikeh Appointed Ambassador By Nigerian Christian Pilgrim Commission (Pix) by Opengates(m): 5:59pm On Feb 26, 2021 |
blamingthedevil: See her breasts outside, clearly showing under her transparent Jezebelic dress.
Judgement will start in the House of God Sure... |
Politics / Re: MURIC: Why Has No Yoruba Muslim Ever Occupied Aso Rock? by Opengates(m): 5:55pm On Feb 26, 2021 |
GOVERNMENT2: I WILL ALWAYS MAINTAIN THAT ISLAM IS THE RIGHT RELIGION ORDAINED BY GOD BUT WE MUST DO AWAY WITH THE RADICAL ONES IF WE MUST HAVE A BETTER SOCIETY FOR OUR CHILDREN AND CHILDREN CHILDREN Lori iro... |
Health / Re: Is This Pregnancy For Me? by Opengates(m): 3:19pm On Feb 25, 2021 |
Jakasibo: I had sex with this Girl on the 24th night of December 2020 and on 30th of same December she told me she was pregnant, she confirmed to me that she last saw her period from November 28th to Dec. 2nd, i was so surprised that early January i took her to the hospital for a proper test which came out positive after that she told me she's not keeping the baby. She took some drugs and told me the pregnancy has gone.
It was last week she called me again that she hasn't still seen her period yet so i told to go for test, two days ago she did test and confirm she was still pregnant so i have to take her for scan yesterday myself, when the scan result came out it was showing 12weeks and five days which when calculated is more than the day of intercourse (24th dec).
Please Experienced person and doctors in the house please i need help coz I'm very confused now.
Even the man the scan told me the baby is not mine.
Below is the scan result
Can it still be aborted successfully? It is clear enough who owns it BUT why do you want to abort the pregnancy that is not yours? |
Investment / Re: Fx Accurate Signal (free 100 pips daily) by Opengates(m): 2:48pm On Feb 23, 2021 |
Forex still the in thing... |
Business / Re: Free 100pips Sure Daily FX Signal by Opengates(m): 2:47pm On Feb 23, 2021 |
Forex all the way... |
Politics / Re: Hijab Crisis: Kwara Is Muslim State, Take Your Mission Schools To Rivers - MURIC by Opengates(m): 8:57am On Feb 23, 2021 |
gringrin:
Cursed be anyone who gets paid to rig elections in this country, force evil leadership on us and is getting paid to defend evil in the media.
May they use all the money they are being paid to treat incurable disease that doctors cannot diagnose.
May the money they are being paid be used to pay ransom to release their kidnapped relations, spouses, children and parents.
As for those who are killing and kidnapping people in the country, may they lost their lives through fire accident and may terrible disease and afflictions locate them to the point that they will not remember to think about killing anyone else but will only think about how to recover their health.
May this be their portion and that of their accomplices.
May Nigeria and it's citizens be free from every evil and triumph gloriously this year and beyond.
This is written and so shall it be....Amen. Amen in the mighty name of Jesus Christ |
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Business / Re: Forex Trade Alerts: Season 21 by Opengates(m): 7:40am On Feb 13, 2021 |
infofirst:
The final table remains as posted. Congratulations to @Satine-c I obviously came 2nd but wil not get any prize, so @wavesandgold will automatically get the second prize.
The 4th person came with a negative returns and can not be awarded the 3rd prize. So I will share the 3rd prize among all the participants 4th to 8th in form of a recharge card. Dm me to claim prize.
Thank you.
Great |
Politics / Re: Nnamdi Kanu Replies Aisha Yesufu Over Esn’s Attack by Opengates(m): 7:42pm On Feb 01, 2021 |
Brendaniel: I used to respect this woman before, but the day she lost my respect was when she came out and was supporting LGBTQ community in Nigeria, so I'm not surprised about this, I've seen she's just out for the fame, she supports anything that will give her fame, she has no bearing and stand, she doesn't stand for anything, she only stands for her fame, why hasn't she condemned the harassment of other faiths in the north by hisbah or fulani killings in the south...
If she did not support LGBTQ, I will still be respecting her, it's not ESN, the ESN issue has only shown that She is also a tribalistic and terrorist sympathizer just like Buhari, Imagine her even threatening that no tribe has the monopoly of violence, her true nature is coming out day by day... Ko si bi a se maa se ebolo ti koni run igbe... Leopard will never change its skin. |
Sports / Re: Anthonia Abisola: Female Footballer Shows Her Football Skills Online (video) by Opengates(m): 6:33am On Feb 01, 2021 |
God Himself will locate you and it shall be well with you in Jesus name.
The devil shall not hijack your glory, talents and potentials as go higher in Jesus name
From glory to glory, so shall your story be in Jesus name |
Technology Market / Re: World's Smallest Power Inverter by Opengates(m): 7:08pm On Jan 25, 2021 |
Does anyone knows smart changer seller that is based in Lagos or its environs? |
Family / Re: Bricklayer Wife Organizes A Birthday Party For Her Husband In Appreciation by Opengates(m): 5:03pm On Jan 25, 2021 |
greendice: I can't believe tears just dropped off my eyes. Every good man deserves a good woman. God pls bless me with one. And it shall be so in Jesus name |
Technology Market / Re: World's Smallest Power Inverter by Opengates(m): 2:12pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
Mr. Feflo, great works.
Please do you have a brand new smart charger 50AH, 12/24 volts or 12v only?
If you have, how much and can you send it through a vehicle to me?
Thanks |
Politics / Re: Zulum: Christians, Foreigners Also Boko Haram Members by Opengates(m): 12:42pm On Jan 17, 2021 |
If the ideology of Bokoharam is based on fighting anything about Christianity and Christ, how come Christians are also part of Bokoharam?
I am not surprised at this man's lies, it is part of their religion fundamental principles not to see daylight lies as sin.
Ride on and continue to deceive yourself, gone are the days your lies are selling but now it is cristal clear which religion is troubling the world. 1 John 3 Vs 8
Believe them at your peril. May God save us from their strongholds and set up His throne in Nigeria in Jesus name |
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