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She is always depressed most times she tells me she feels like commiting sucide that she is tired of life. I do my best to make her happy daily but it doesn't really work, she seem to loose interest in everything.

Sometimes when I call her she doesn't pick and wont call back, and this is someone that could not stay a day without hearing from me. Atimes I see her online chat her up but she doesn't reply like before.

At a point I started to suspect maybe she has lost interest in me or now seeing someone else, so I decided to limit calling her or chatting her up, but she will still complain that I don't care about her, that I don't check up on her, but most times when I do she ignores me.

She now picks offence with almost everything I do, compares me with her ex that he is more caring, most times all the past disagreement we had and settled, she now brings it up and stills attacks me with It, I'm really confused.

After taking time to monitor her I know she is not cheating on me, but she is not just happy, I try my best to put a smile on her face yet it doesn't work, pls advise me, I don't want to loose her, the Way she is going she might just commit sucide, pls how can I handle this?

gregyboy:
Edo state

Journalist

Dele Giwa, Nigerian journalist, editor and founder of Newswatch magazine

Pastors
Archbishop Benson Idahosa, Pentecostal Church Leader
Pastor chris oyakilome

Business man
Gabriel Igbinedion, international business mogul and bini high chief and owner of ITV

Raymond Dokpesi, owner of Africa largest private television network and politician


Footballers
Osaze Peter Odemwingie
Odion ighalo
Oshimen
Victor.moses
Yakubu ayegbeni


Musician
Sunny duke okosun
Victor uwaifo


Clean those list i striked out you personally over hyped it

ThatFairGuy1:
Mabizela has nothing to counter that other than what they're known best doing just as he did. CHESTBEATING

gomojam:
Mention the billionaires from Anambra state pls. We've had enough of this same stale "Anambra state have the highest number of billionaires." Could you pls just mention them and their networth on forbe.

adadike:
Just the fact that Anambra state have the highest number of billionaires have rubbished this your yeye write up. Ogun state ke? I can understand if you want to praise your state but do it objectively and stop yapping rubbish

tabletguy:
Uhmmm
My husband must have wizkid's pink lips
Flavor's six packs
Iyanyan's muscles
Dangote's riches
Davido's dimples
Ramsey Noah's colour
Micheal Jackson's moves
...that was how sister Monica clocked 40 without a husband!

BigDawsNet:
Good job

Its only exterior design

In programming language
The young man is a UI designer and probably will need a UX Engineer to help the plane fly

Juliusmalema:
Laycon should leave this girl alone





The same manipulative attitude Lola wife of peter have. You are not in talking terms with someone but always rush to sound nice on media.

Why do these guys have that kind of trait. Like Lola like Laycon.



It marvels me how human beings behave. The only good thing Laycon paid back to Erica for her good deeds were all done through evil ways...evil machinations

Bigblogman:
Bookmark this Post: Biden will never be president as in never, Donald Trump will be certified winner by Dec 14th. watch and learn Master Chess moves. God is at play and many people all around the world shall be amazed at what will begin to happen in the coming weeks.

Omoslim26:
Guy see The best you can do is to unshyly teach your kids stuffs concerning sex attraction with the opposite sex
something happen today for my house with my Neighbour Kids wey still dey keep me in shock since I come back from office

guy Our kids need prayers dey are too exposed to sexism and if we don't incur core values and information in them God have mercy

The little boy said if all the girls keep chasing him, that he will run very well. He went further to tell his mother that girls wahala is too much.

moneyshop:
People sef! See all of them forming holy holy. One mumu even mentioned arrest...

Anyways, I keep say it, all of these things are happen because of lack or incomplete education. That was while I struggle and completed my education and graduation with First classes in English Languwage so that I can be inform.

Kunle shall swear he doesn't watch pirate movie ever! Causing somebody because of simple things.

O jare, let me check my mail abeg, CNN has reply my job slut application. This time shall not be another reject letter probably

chingle5:
Chairman abeg help my life ..... please come and teach me, I am stuck in that useless CSS .....that stuff is complicated I am staying in lagos, please chairman i am willing to learn in fact I will do anything I can wash house ,I can wash anything , I am a student of unilag .......in fact I am tire of that useless school ..........

EvilSec:
Near the top of most security recommendations is to use "strong passwords". We need to stop doing this.

Yes, weak passwords can be a problem. If a website gets hacked, weak passwords are easier to crack. It's not that this is wrong advice.

On the other hand, it's not particularly good advice, either. It's far down the list of important advice that people need to remember. "Weak passwords" are nowhere near the risk of "password reuse". When your Facebook or email account gets hacked, it's because you used the same password across many websites, not because you used a weak password.

Important websites, where the strength of your password matters, already take care of the problem. They use strong, salted hashes on the backend to protect the password. On the frontend, they force passwords to be a certain length and a certain complexity. Maybe the better advice is to not trust any website that doesn't enforce stronger passwords (minimum of 8 characters consisting of both letters and non-letters).

To some extent, this "strong password" advice has become obsolete. A decade ago, websites had poor protection (MD5 hashes) and no enforcement of complexity, so it was up to the user to choose strong passwords. Now that important websites have changed their behavour, such as using bcrypt, there is less onus on the user.


But the real issue here is that "strong password" advice reflects the evil, authoritarian impulses of the infosec community. Instead of measuring insecurity in terms of costs vs. benefits, risks vs. rewards, we insist that it's an issue of moral weakness. We pretend that flaws happen because people are greedy, lazy, and ignorant. We pretend that security is its own goal, a benefit we should achieve, rather than a cost we must endure.

We like giving moral advice because it's easy: just be "stronger". Discussing "password reuse" is more complicated, forcing us discuss password managers, writing down passwords on paper, that it's okay to reuse passwords for crappy websites you don't care about, and so on.

What I'm trying to say is that the moral weakness here is us. Rather then give pertinent advice we give lazy advice. We give the advice that victim shames them for being weak while pretending that we are strong.

So stop telling people to use strong passwords. It's crass advice on your part and largely unhelpful for your audience, distracting them from the more important things.

ebenezer202l:
it will request for otp which will be impossible for your transaction to be successful

SandraJane:
a canal man cannot understand the things of the future !!! - continue

Jeromejnr:
If he has 0 evidence, then why did the court order a recount in Georgia on Friday?

Why are they afraid nah?

Lol.