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Family / Re: I'm Tired, My Husband Is Mentally Challenged by Opinedecandid(m): 4:52pm On Jul 30, 2023
beautifulsoul12:
Good morning everyone. I have to create this account to post this.
I can't even sleep at night lately.

I'm so tired and I need help right now. I have been doing this all by myself for so long now, without much complain but now, I need help.
Before I got married to my husband, I didn't know he had a seasonal mental health challenge, but not violent.

I met him in the university, he was in medicine, he had dreams, very ambitious, one of the best in his department, Working his way to travel abroad to continue his education. We were just friends, but I liked him. He kept on asking me out, but I declined. I wanted to graduate first.
We parted ways in year two. He changed school, so, I knew nothing about him again till years later.
Reconnected with him years later after graduation, to my greatest surprise, he didn't graduate, wasted all his resources and couldn't travel out. We still love each other, so we got married.
after the birth of my first child, I wanted to leave him, but I couldn't because he was a good man, but with too many changes and I was the only one who truly care and was there for him.
Three years ago, he became much better. He got a small job, Started bringing in little for upkeep. I saw change and I was happy. We had our second child last year after 8yrs.
Since early this year, the whole thing came up again. Since then, he became jobless again.
The financial burden is all on me. Right now, we can't afford to renew our rent.
I lost my business capital some times ago in wrong business, since then, it has been so much struggles.

I'm trying hard but it's not enough.
I'm thinking of working away, but to where? what about my children? Who will be there for them? What about him? But I'm tired of being in a marriage where I have to struggle for everything, where I can not depend on my man.
Pls, help us renew our house rent.

What do I do?




Take him to psychiatry.
This is important.
It can be treated.

Move to a small apartment.
Politics / Re: Tinubu, Akpabio Will Take Nigeria To Next Level โ€“ Yari by Opinedecandid(m): 1:47pm On Jul 26, 2023
We are expectant
Events / Re: Reckitt Nigeria Launches WASH Accelerator Program With Seed Funding by Opinedecandid(m): 3:48pm On Jul 25, 2023
Great opportunity.
Put in your thinking cap, guys.

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Investment / Re: If N1k Was All You Had, What Would You Spend It On? by Opinedecandid(m): 4:39pm On Jul 24, 2023
To buy data or recharge card and go to my timeline on social media or send sos messages for help.


You can actually start here on nairaland.
Even if na 200 naira dem transfer to you. If 100 people do it, that's 20k.
Than me later.

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Family / Re: Is This Family Right To Demand For The Whole Money? by Opinedecandid(m): 2:28pm On Jul 11, 2023
donbachi:
Na the "thank you" wey dem suppose tell the pastor be dat.... ungrateful family.
Na pastorr been give?

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Family / Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by Opinedecandid(m): 6:55pm On Jun 30, 2023
Marry her again, you mean.
For what?
For eba?
For gari?
I WILL MARRY HER AGAIN AND AGAIN.
NO WOMAN ON EARTH LIKE LIKE, (aswear)
Politics / Re: Nigeria Can Earn Billions From Exporting Faeces, Cockroaches โ€” Prof. Oluwalana by Opinedecandid(m): 9:20am On Jun 26, 2023
crossfm:
Hehehe .

I love Nigerians,once this business of pooing start to boom,they will start kidnapping people to feed them and make them poo in large quantity grin grin grin.
I have not been this amused in a while.
๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ

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Health / Re: What's This On My Thighs & Under My Scrotum? Please Help (Viewers Discretion) by Opinedecandid(m): 6:57pm On Jun 21, 2023
Chronicwanker:
Greetings everyone. I've had this on my thighs and under my scrotum for a while now and I've tried to get rid of it but it's still there. Please who knows what it is and how can I truly get rid of it because I'm worried.

I bath twice a day and I don't wear a boxer for more than 12 hours. I shave regularly too so I'm confused.

The skin area is white and sometimes falls off when I scratch it, but the marks are there and the whiteness still.

Warts or hepes
Politics / Re: Boko Haram: UN Peace Corps Celebrates Outgoing Service Chiefs by Opinedecandid(m): 3:28pm On Jun 21, 2023
Hope alive.
Politics / Re: Yari: Itโ€™s Unfair To Have Leaders Of Three Arms Of Government From The South by Opinedecandid(m): 2:36pm On Jun 20, 2023
Rubbish talk
Politics / Re: Breaking News!! Obaseki Enough Is Enough In Edo: Ijaw Fumes!! by Opinedecandid(m): 11:50am On Jun 19, 2023
The tone of this post seems somehow.
Hmmmmm.
Politics / Re: Senate Presidency: Shettima Appologises For Muslim Comment by Opinedecandid(m): 1:11pm On Jun 18, 2023
iHateFraudsters:


If course I know that.

In saying that Shettimas apology is unnecessary.

What has happened has happened.

You're right.
Politics / Re: Senate Presidency: Shettima Appologises For Muslim Comment by Opinedecandid(m): 12:44pm On Jun 18, 2023
iHateFraudsters:
The deed has been done.

Akpabio is now the senate President.

Anpabio is more competent than Yari, by far.
Politics / Re: Senate Presidency: Shettima Appologises For Muslim Comment by Opinedecandid(m): 12:41pm On Jun 18, 2023
Akpabio is note competent than Yari, to start with.
Politics / Re: Akpabio: Udom Emmanuel, Umo Eno On War Path - The Will by Opinedecandid(m): 12:02pm On Jun 18, 2023
Udom is a goner.
Health / Re: Is It Normal For A 30 Year Old Male To Have Reduced Libido by Opinedecandid(m): 1:06pm On Jun 17, 2023
Walkerstilldey:
I just entered 30 and experience low sex urge and low libido, is it normal

It's not normal.
If you need help that won't cause you a dime, indicate

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Politics / Re: Stop Payment To MDA's Till Further Notice, Tinubu Orders CBN by Opinedecandid(m): 7:24am On Jun 17, 2023
I never voted for this man.
But he's impressing me and stealing my heart on the daily.
What a President.
Keep popping, Sir.

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Politics / Re: Tinubu Economic Advisers Propose Customs, NIMASA, FIRS Merger by Opinedecandid(m): 8:40am On Jun 16, 2023
marlow1962:
Did I just read "over 50million jobs for the youths" lmao ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚.
Just letting you know, there is no job for you. If you don't have someone, who has someone that has someone, you know the jerk.

Tinubu government is not going to give a poor man's child a job, except your "so help me lord" works for you.
After taking your student loan and you manage to graduate, go and start work in a private firm. Tecno and Infinix stand dy where you fit work, or other firm.

I hope you can just be wary of the law of attraction.
Whatever you wish, becomes your lot
Politics / Re: Senator President Godswill Akpabio Visits The First Lady, Remi Tinubu. Pictures by Opinedecandid(m): 6:34am On Jun 16, 2023
Akpabio, the jagaban of south south.
The uncommon Senate President.
The chief strategist.
I hail your rising.

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Politics / The 10th Senate Leadership Election: How Senators Voted by Opinedecandid(m): 8:47am On Jun 15, 2023
Here is the display of how each state's senators cast their votes.
Guys, what do you make out of this?

Politics / Re: Godswill Akpabio Takes Oath Of Office As Senate President (Picture) by Opinedecandid(m): 9:52am On Jun 13, 2023
Congratulations, Sen. Godswill Obot Akapbio.
Politics / Re: "Go To Court": Rowdiness As Yari, Akpabio Slug It Out by Opinedecandid(m): 9:12am On Jun 13, 2023
If Yari gets eventually elected, the court will invalidate his election.
Politics / Re: Northern Groups Hail Tinubu For Withdrawing Support From Akpabio by Opinedecandid(m): 8:30am On Jun 13, 2023
Akpabio, sealed, done and dusted.
Uncommon National Assembly loading.
Politics / Re: Pro-Akpabio Senators Seated As Senate Elects New Leadership by Opinedecandid(m): 8:19am On Jun 13, 2023
Akpabio is a goal.

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Politics / Re: 10th NASS: Governors Will Back Tinubuโ€™s Choice, Says Makinde by Opinedecandid(m): 8:12am On Jun 13, 2023
No alternative.

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Politics / Re: NASS Inauguration: Akpabio And Abiru Pictured In Senate Chamber by Opinedecandid(m): 8:10am On Jun 13, 2023
Akpabio is a goal.

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Travel / Re: Nigeria Air: Only N3b, not N85b was released - Interview with Hadi Sirika by Opinedecandid(m): 9:26am On Jun 12, 2023
For.you to loot?

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Politics / Re: Senate Presidency: Akpabio Not Our Preferred Choice โ€” Niger Delta Group by Opinedecandid(m): 9:21am On Jun 02, 2023
"Notice me" group.

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Politics / Re: Senate Presidency: โ€˜I Wonโ€™t Step Down For Akpabio, Expect Saraki 2.0โ€™ - Kalu by Opinedecandid(m): 3:38pm On May 31, 2023
Mouth.
Politics / Re: NNPC Confirms Increase In Pump Price Of Fuel, Releases Statement by Opinedecandid(m): 3:19pm On May 31, 2023
It's well.
Politics / Akwa Ibom State Governor Makes First 5 Appointments by Opinedecandid(m): 9:50am On May 31, 2023
HE Pastor Umo Bassey Eno has made his pioneer appointments as follows:

GOVERNMENT OF AKWA IBOM STATE

PRESS RELEASE

The Governor of Akwa Ibom State Pastor Umo Eno has approved the following appointments with immediate effect

1. Prince Enobong Uwah - Secretary to State Government

2. Mr Ekerette Udo - Chief Press Secretary

3. Mr Anietie Usen - Senior Special Assistant, Media and Publicity

4. Mr Otobong Edem Idiong - Chief of Protocol

5. Dr (Mrs) Uduakobong Inam - Economic Adviser

Please accord them necessary support to enable them discharge their duties creditably.

Dr Nathaniel Adiakpan
Permanent Secretary, Government House

30th May, 2023

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