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Politics / Re: Rivers Ups For Grabs As Wike's Romance With Tinubu Escalates by Opinedecandid(m): 8:06am On Aug 14
Some writers write as though they can't read politics and the times.

1. Rivers State is not Wike's property. He can't influence up to 30% of the votes.

2. He has his preffered candidates to the House of Reps and Senate whose election will be conducted same day with the Presidential election, he knows that any mistake to confuse the focus will spell failure to his preffered, and then afterwards, the governorship and HoA Candidates.

3. Wike wants attention and negotiation.
He knows the odds are in favor of PDP that's why he can't walk away
Family / Re: Unusual Behavior Between My Step Brother And My Wife by Opinedecandid(m): 11:39am On Aug 12
grop1040:
Hi guys,

Something happened 9 months ago, I decided to keep mute or probably just wait for the right time to commence my investigation to actually know what is going on between my step brother and my wife.

So I'm 9 years already into my marriage, and we have 3 kids. My step brother who is the 2nd of my mum has temperamental problem.

He's bossy and very vulgar plus he's controlling, everybody knows him for that, he was married 13 years ago, however after his family relocated to the USA, he later found
out that his 3kids aren't his, the marriage ended like that, ever since then he's been traumatized, emotionally and any other way one can describe him as. Sometimes in order to at least feel that children presence around him, he would ask me to have my children come over to his place for some days, and I could witness how that really helped him over time, but then I noticed the absence of his wife started making him familiarize with my wife in certain odd manners which I was not really down with.

For example, if he comes to our house, most times comes around with a friend, either female or male, my wife seems not to be the attache type who would sit with us in the living room, she will rather be upstairs in the room, I have witnessed cases where he will shout at her, saying how can everybody be here and ur there upstairs?

There was even a time when one of the visitors he came with sighed and made face in a way that defined, wow, "was that necessary". Or times when he will ask her to cook stew for her, if she forgets or probably didnt want to do it because she knew it isnt her duty, she will be yelled upon, you'll here things like, where
is the egusi i told u to make, even the one you made last time, u didnt put enough this and that

Now yall might think am a dullard or a simp, or someone too relaxed as gentle and as patient as I am, I be original demon, if I start my madness, the result will end in eternal damage, and our family background from my mums side where this my brother was born, we tend to uphold unity over adversity, so when things like this occur, mum would rather have us calm and not fight so unity can continue.

So sometimes last year, the major issues started grooming that made me start to think if there was something going on with my step and my wife, it started with when the kids were with him, so madam and I were suppose to go for outing, so we decided to branch at his place to check up on the kids, on getting there while in his living room, he said to my wife "I like your hair" she responded thanks, he was like are u guys going out, I was like yea am taking her out, next thing she asked my madam, so when are we going on
our own outing
? I shrugged and didnt understand where that came from, though she didnt answer him.

While we were leaving, I was waiting for her to bring up the topic and put it to me that why did ur brother say such a thing, even if its a joke, its too expensive, but she didnt, I brought up the topic, and she was like shes surprised too that she never thought he would say such a thing.

5 days later, we had a family party in his house, my other brothers, cousins and my mum, my children were there, while the
caterer were cooking outside, and we were all in his living room drinking, he opted to get some meat to dish and give everybody to at least be chewing something, he served it round but when it got to my wives turn, the one he already bit off from was what he gave her, funny thing is, it was only my mum and myself that saw the scene, my wife was not aware, that was when I knew something could be going on.

Afterwards, I put the ish through to my wife, she acted disgusted and said she cant blv he would do such, that although my mum already called her to say the same thing. So I asked details of what she discussed with my mum, she said my mum advised her that whenever he calls her, she shouldnt pick, that when he knows its obvious that shes avoiding his call, he probably would want to report to her, and then she will now break the silence of what she my wife have been experiencing with him thus her refusal to pick his call.

So I called my mum and I was like being calm, patient and cooperating with the useless policy of the family doesnt mean that the recent things happening won't seat any longer with me, that am gonna have to confront him and put him in his place. My mum begged me and begged, cos she's 76 years old, I considered and I had no choice but to cooperate with her advise.

The funny thing is, after this whole ish, I asked her that if he calls, will you pick, she answered yes I will, but I will have to see what he has to say first to know if I will continue the conversation or not, I was like for real? You must be kidding me, it means something that I am not suppose to know of is happening, she was like oh well its ur fault, why didn't u confront him instead of listening to ur mums advise.

Since then, I have let it slide, but what actually made me bring up this issue again, was when I went to my bros house to pick some stuffs my sister sent from the USA, madam was off to the market, I called her to ask if she would like the only size 10 of the shoe I saw cos she wears 9, she didnt pick after calling like 4 times, immediately my brother called her with his own phone, she picked and was like sorry when you called I try to pick but it was nt connecting, I just weak at that moment sey wetin dey sup.

Guys, ladies, from deep experiences u guys must have gone through, what do u think could be wrong and what do yall think I should do, something could be happening
that if I dont unravel early, it might be the cause of ones demise or destruction.

Do you knack your wife well?
If no is your answer, your guess is as good as mine.

This also goes to everyone here who doesn't do well in that regard.

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Politics / Re: Bwala: El-Rufai Will Join PDP Before 2023 Elections by Opinedecandid(m): 10:40am On Aug 08
Elfufai??
Sports / Re: Governor Hope Uzodinma Receives Chiamaka Nnadozie At Government House, Owerri by Opinedecandid(m): 3:02pm On Jul 28
Congratulations
Politics / Re: SERAP To Sue FG & Udom Over Inibehe Effiong's Sentence by Opinedecandid(m): 5:06pm On Jul 27
What did Effiong do?
Let them answer this question first?

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Religion / Re: As A Christian, How Often Do You Pray? by Opinedecandid(m): 10:59am On Jul 24
Always.

Aloud, but more times silently.

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Politics / Re: Nigerians Ask INEC To Include Candidates' Photos On Ballot Papers by Opinedecandid(m): 9:14am On Jul 24
DebbieBianca:
Nigerians Ask INEC Nigeria To Include Candidates' Photos In Ballot Paper

Adding his voice, a Catholic Priest, Fr Kelvin Ugwu wrote, “Dear INEC Nigeria,
Our ballot paper should be like this because in the true sense of it, it is actually the individual with his vice that we are voting for. All the elections conducted in Nigeria in the past, the ballot paper just carried only party logos. But it is not the party we vote that leads us after the elections but the individual. Almost all the countries in Africa has both the face, the name of the candidate, his/her running mate, and the party logo on their ballot papers. Please do this for Nigerians.”

� Isah Ibrahim

What if it isn't in tandem with the electoral law?
Politics / Re: Police PRO Muyiwa Adejobi ‘locks 3 Friends Up’ For Disagreeing With Him In Traff by Opinedecandid(m): 9:47pm On Jul 20
Na dem
Politics / Re: AAC Party Unveils Caroline Danjuma As Akwa Ibom Governorship Running Mate by Opinedecandid(m): 9:00pm On Jul 18
Mmo etienebe

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Politics / Re: FFK: I would Rather Stay In PDP and Go To Heaven Than Hell With APC (2019) by Opinedecandid(m): 5:05pm On Jul 11
This set of people....

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Politics / Re: Tinubu, Gov Masari In Closed-Door Meeting With Buhari by Opinedecandid(m): 4:11pm On Jul 10
Failures
Politics / Re: Akwa Ibom 10-Lane & 8-Lanes Leading To The Airport Near Completion (Photos) by Opinedecandid(m): 4:26pm On Jul 08
MadamVanessa:
shocked


Udom really tried for this state. The only fuckup of Udom Emmanuel is trying to imposed the clueless Umoh Eno on the good people of my state.

Really?

Tell me how clueless Umo Eno is.

Pls this assumption is too hasty and baseless.

The hilltop mansion is no one's birthright, in particular.
And Umo Eno is even more competent than many others, argubly.

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Politics / Re: Meeting Of Peter Obi Support Network In Bauchi (pictures) by Opinedecandid(m): 12:38pm On Jul 07
Hmmmmmmmmmm
Politics / Re: Primaries: Aggrieved APC Senators Meet Buhari, President Vows Intervention by Opinedecandid(m): 6:41pm On Jun 28
Just how does he intend to intervene?

Party without...

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Politics / Re: I Lost All My School Certificates - Kabir Ibrahim Masari, Tinubu’s Placeholder by Opinedecandid(m): 6:35pm On Jun 28
PresidObi:
I am really trying hard not to laugh, but
grin grin grin

Brother I couldn't control my own outburst.
I actually laughed out Loud.

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Politics / Re: Everything You Need To Know About Tinubu’s Certificate Controversy by Opinedecandid(m): 10:21am On Jun 27
seunmsg:
Tinubu certificate brouhaha ~ Woye :

You will recall that there was a petition dated Aug 12.1999 about the educational background and age of Asiwaju Tinubu written by Alhaji Jammed Seriki & Dr. Waliu Balogun - smith.

They accused him of lying about his age in his nominating form to INEC.

2: Gani Fawenhinmi went to court to seek for prosecution of Tinubu up to Supreme Court. Supreme Court ruled that Tinubu CANNOT be Prosecuted by the police for alleged certificate forgery. That only Lagos State House of Assembly can investigate him.

3: Then, June 4, 2013 one Dr. Dominic Adegbola asked Federal High Court Justice Saliu Saidu to re - open the suit filed by Gani Fawehinmi in 1999. The suit was to compel IG of Police to commence investigation into alleged forgery. The court dismissed the case . The court said that the applicant went to sleep since 2007 when the “toga of immunity “ could no longer shield Tinubu and suddenly woke up when the matter is statute barred . So as at today , court has exonerated Tinubu of any forgery even after leaving office . So what is the issue now as a result of Supreme Court decision, Lagos State House of Assembly under Speaker Mamora (present Minister of State) opened the probe via a motion moved by Hon. Tajudeen Agoro & a 5 man ad - hoc committee was set up with Hon Omowoare as chairman .

4. The committee sent out letter of invitation to the 2 gentlemen that wrote the petition. Those guys REFUSED to substantiate their petition. The committee even went to the addresses those guys provided and they could not find them . However , Tinubu was invited to answer

5: Tinubu came with Femi Falana who wasn’t Anthony bus stop SAN then . Tinubu admitted to the needless errors being pointed out by the petitioners and that it was Senator Tokunbo Akifuyomi that did the documentation. Then he submitted a copy of SDP Senatorial candidate form dated June 1, 1992 in which he used to contest the 1992 Senatorial election and he won as a Senator representing Lagos West. That form he personally filled . Tinubu attached the certificate of Richard Daley College and Chicago State University.

6: Qualification was B.Sc Accounting. Now, INEC in 1999 committed an error in INEC form CF01 that bore a wrong date of 28th Dec 1999 instead of 28th December, 1998. Commissioner of Oath detected the error.

7: Tinubu could not complete his secondary school because of poverty. He decided to leave for USA to find food. He did a lot of menial jobs & suffered like every young man without a rich parents or uncle or RICH TWITTER boys and girls. After 5 years,he enrolled at Richard Daley college in Chicago. Note, Tinubu did not complete his education in secondary school, therefore the college offered him basic , remedial and academic classes like IJMB in local Nigeria. He passed his remedial courses and he was offered admission to Chicago State University. He obtained Bachelor of Science in Business & Administration and his major was in Accounting. He had no scholarship like me that I enjoyed in my undergraduate and post graduate too . He was in Chicago State University from August 1977 to June 1979 . He worked with Deloitte Haskins

8. Tinubu was an employee of Mobil oil of Nigeria between Dec 1,1983 when Buhari, Babaginda, Dasuki,David Mark were preparing to overthrow Shehu Shagari & he used to pass though Dodan Barracks not knowing that fate would link him with Buhari later. He was there till May 17, 1992

9: Senator Afinkuyomi appeared with Prof Itse Sagay SAN too that he was heading the unit of Gov ‘s campaign responsible for processing of form & because of the rush & tense circumstances in Alliance for Democracy as per Guber primaries caused the confusion.

10: Chief Gani Fawenhimi also appeared to give testimony. That the committee should determine if the law has been breached. Then Femi Falana appeared on behalf of Tinubu that no evidence has been led to show that Tinubu presented forged certificate to INEC. Chicago University

11: Chicago state University has confirmed that Tinubu was a student of their University and he secured admission through Richard Daley College . The committee later sought legal advice from Chief Fred Agbaje a honest lawyer, Olisa Agbakoba, Deacon Dele Adeshina NBA chair, ikeja, finally the committee finding on the allegation of forgery was that “WE HAVE NO EVIDENCE that any forged document was presented to INEC” the only certificate presented to INEC was a transcript of CHICAGO STATE UNIVERSITY.

Unfortunately, the damage control can't control the damage.
Pity!

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Food / Re: Nothing Is Cheap Again. The Corned Beef Noodles I Prepared With 1500. Hmmm... by Opinedecandid(m): 9:37pm On Jun 23
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
Yummmmmy

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Politics / Re: President Buhari Says Nigerians Better Off Today Than 2015 by Opinedecandid(m): 4:31pm On Jun 22
He's talking about his family.
Family / Re: I Am Worried Over Her High Sexual Drive.please Advise by Opinedecandid(m): 4:10pm On Jun 22
Klass99:


So.....leg and waist dey pain you people, but una always want to knack. Somebody cannot even cuddle you people small to watch TV together, your gbola must rise and the next thing is to start pushing for knack grin.

Na cuddle carry you come?
Politics / Is This Actually How Some PDP/APC Candidates Campaign In The North by Opinedecandid(m): 3:32pm On Jun 22
I just came across this picture online and I wish to find out if this is how it is in the North

Education / Re: Student Faces Disciplinary Action For Drinking Water From Bottle’ During Dinner by Opinedecandid(m): 2:56pm On Jun 22
Quite
Politics / Re: 2023: Mohammed Sanusi Clarifies Reports About Endorsing Any Candidate by Opinedecandid(m): 2:31pm On Jun 21
Endorse Peter, (the rock)
Politics / Re: Kidnapped Train Passengers Fall Sick, Vomit Blood, Attacked By Snakes by Opinedecandid(m): 2:30pm On Jun 21
Help us Lord

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Politics / Re: How EndSARS Protest Will Shape 2023 Elections by Opinedecandid(m): 10:29am On Jun 21
Obi all the way.

It's so disheartaing that the persons singing the praises of Tinubu/Atiku here are young people.
Shame on you

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Politics / Re: Is Peter Obi Gradually Breaking The "Structure Jinx"? by Opinedecandid(m): 8:18pm On Jun 20
Absolutely!

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Politics / Re: Aguda House : Official Residence Of The Nigerian Vice President by Opinedecandid(m): 8:17pm On Jun 20
Beautiful.
Kwankwaso will soon be there.

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Politics / Re: We’ve Interest In Nigeria Because It Determines Africa’s Development - US by Opinedecandid(m): 7:24am On Jun 18
Good interest.
But .....
Politics / Re: Policeman Killed As Unknown Gunmen Attack Checkpoint In Nsukka (Video) by Opinedecandid(m): 12:01pm On Jun 17
I have read earlier that @OfficialIPOB has named the unknown gunmen terrorising People, get them arrested, please.
Politics / Re: Okowa Appreciates Supporters After He Was Announced As The Running Mate To Atiku by Opinedecandid(m): 2:22pm On Jun 16
Hhmmmm
TV/Movies / Re: Netflix Seeks Recruits For Real-life ‘squid Game by Opinedecandid(m): 7:14pm On Jun 15
Ready
Politics / Re: 2023: Unprecedented Surge As Abuja Residents Re-Double Efforts To Get PVC by Opinedecandid(m): 6:02pm On Jun 15
Obidient

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Politics / Re: VP Slot: PDP Dismisses Report Of Wike's Selection As Atiku's Running Mate by Opinedecandid(m): 5:58pm On Jun 15
Udom for VP

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