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PoliticsRe: Tinubu's Scholarships: Peter Obi Is Clueless About Foreign Policy - Omokri by optm(m): 6:27pm On Jul 02, 2025
I imagine what would become of reno after tinubu leaves presidency. Would be an interesting time. grin
RomanceRe: Dating A Broke Man Is Torture by optm(m): 1:58pm On Jun 25, 2025
The issue isn't that your boyfriend is broke, the main problem here is that you have a dependancy on guys for survival mentality.
RomanceRe: Man Calls Off Wedding 3 Days To Event After Fiancée Lies About Being At Home by optm(m): 10:27pm On Jun 08, 2025
I would hv done same. Lying goes with other vices
RomanceRe: Time To Settle Down by optm(m): 5:13pm On Jun 07, 2025
Samantha125:
Marriage has always been like that from the beginning... A woman would stay at home while the husband would provide.

You men of nowadays are just weak... If he's no longer able to provide financially and he wants me to go back to whoever has be looking after me before him, I'll gladly pack my bags and go back to my father's house... I can't force a grown man to perform his duties as a husband because real men have savings accounts for rainy days.
Oh nice, i see girls having this mindset as the lazy ones.
What makes a man better at making money than a woman in this generation?
RomanceRe: Time To Settle Down by optm(m): 5:51am On Jun 07, 2025
Samantha125:
As women, it's our duty to be entitled to your money the same way it's your duty to be entitled to our submission... You provide and we submit...🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️
so what happens in situations that he's not able to provide financially? Who has been providing for you before you met the man? This position of yours buttresses the narrative that the majority of women are not looking for life partners but burden bearers and providers. Marriage becomes transactional in these scenarios.
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Paul Enenche Celebrates His 57th Birthday, Commissions New Borehole by optm(m): 4:30am On Jun 06, 2025
I Celebrate you Man of God. Happy birthday to you God's anointed.
HealthRe: Dr’ Title Controversy: Your Remarks Mischievous, Divisive, Threat To Interprofes by optm(m): 6:07pm On May 10, 2025
It's all ego and no substance.
Healthcare is team work and not one profession's show. Everything should be geared towards patient's interest and not towards any profession's benefit
RomanceRe: Still A Virgin by optm(m): 1:52am On May 07, 2025
Bro there are many virgins still even above 30 yrs.
It's normal to have those experiences you mentioned.
TravelRe: If This Is Nigeria, Who's On The Wrong Lane? by optm(m): 6:05pm On May 06, 2025
1 and 3
CrimeRe: Police Officers Dragged A Man From His Car And Beat Him Mercilessly (Photos) by optm(m): 5:33pm On May 06, 2025
On an average, majority of Nigerians are no different from the political class.
The only difference is they do not have the kind of power the political class wields.
This is the reason why when you elect a new person into office, he or she hardly acts any different from those there.
Corruption, brutality, abuse of power, greed is ingrained in the majority.
This is the major reason why it seems there's an unending to the woes in Nigeria.
If a majority of Nigerians were different from the rulers, trust me, we would have low treshold for bad leadership and they wouldn't last.
EducationRe: Rufai Oseni Has Been Vindicated by optm(m): 4:54pm On May 03, 2025
Lolz when you are being sidelined from sharing the national cake. Bunch of selfish people grin
RomanceRe: Should I Marry Her Now Or Let Her Go? I’m Not Ready Financially by optm(m): 9:35pm On May 02, 2025
Table these problem with her and ask her to come up with how she intends you navigate them.
The plans or solutions shout be concrete and workable else allow her go if she isn't willing to wait and failing to come up with a solution that's workable.
PoliticsRe: 2027: Our Loyalty Is To APC, Tinubu, Not Buhari - Farouk Aliyu by optm(m): 3:17am On Apr 22, 2025
Their loyalty isn't to Nigerians or Nigeria?
PoliticsRe: They’re Preparing Ground For 2027, Adopt Trump’s Approach – FFK Urges FG by optm(m): 4:24am On Apr 19, 2025
Nigerians are not interested about the reasons for the killings. If the country were secure which is the govt's responsibility, the killings should never have happened. It is failure of governance that's making the killers go uninhindered. Nigerians are only interested in the end to the killings and perpetrators brought to book, and not the reason for the continuous slaughtering.
All what the current crop of Nigerian politicians are after, is grabbing power in 2027 and not delivering good governance in the now.
PoliticsRe: President Tinubu's Reelection Is A Done Deal by optm(m):
You should be ashamed of yourself. Is this the kind of country you want your kids to grow in?
If Nigeria is no longer a democratic society where the masses decide who governs them, then they should stop wasting money doing elections.
You lots that support wrong doing because it favours you right now, know that the this wouldn't be long lived and you all would never go guiltless as the reward for your actions would definitely come to you all
RomanceRe: How Can I Overcome Some Of This Life Challenges??? by optm(m): 1:36am On Apr 15, 2025
Your up bringing is where the crux of the matter is.
Firstly you need to change your mindset about yourself anf change how you perceive yourself.
You should not also focus much on what people think about you.
Look yourself in the mirror every day and start speaking positively about yourself, declaring those qualities about the person you wish to be to your present self. With time, you'll start seeing yourself differently from what you used to be and start acting in the way that suits the person you want to become.
Watch videos and read books on communication and self confidence
Also seek God's help.
Nairaland GeneralRe: What Does Nairaland Need Right Now? by optm(m): 1:13am On Apr 15, 2025
Have zero tolerance for tribal hate and also create the dislike button
Foreign AffairsRe: Trump Imposes 104% import tariffs On China's goods to the US by optm(m): 3:42am On Apr 09, 2025
With the way trump is going, other economic giants would definitely put in measures so they cannot be held hostage by one country. They may start looking out for other currencies to trade and the dollar as a universal trade currency would have a competition. This would be in a bid to strip America off its perceived economic powers.
The world economic dynamics would definitely change after this.
PoliticsRe: $10 Won’t Buy You Lunch In U.S, But $1 Will Get You Meal In Nigeria – Tope Fasua by optm(m): 1:36am On Apr 07, 2025
These people are intentionally evil. Asides that this portrays how weak our economy is in comparison to the american one, the question is, how many nigerians can afford that 1$ to eat? How much does an average nigerian make in a day?
Calculate your minimum wage and convert it to dollar and then give me a break down of the spendings in meeting bills in nigeria and let's see how many days it can cover.
You guys should continue in your intentional lies and wickedness but one thing is sure that God would never hold you people guiltless and the wicked would never go unpunished.
PoliticsRe: Police Officer In Kaduna Threatens Reprisal Attack On Southerners In North by optm(m): 8:36pm On Apr 02, 2025
It is very obvious Nigerians do not see themselves as one.
How do we expect the country to achieve greatness if the people are divided at heart?
I think it is high time the people are called to separate in peace.
With the trajectory of events, It is only a matter of time for the people to be separated via violent means.
EducationRe: Would I Have Any Problem With This? by optm(m): 9:16am On Mar 24, 2025
Davemani77:
What happens if I register GES normally but I forget to add it in my online course registration, and now the registeration is closesd, would I be affected?..I've seen my results already , but I don't know if not registering ot online would affect me, I'm in Uniport.
Go meet your course adviser and relay your concern
CrimeRe: House Owner Kill Boy For Trying To Retrieve Ball From His Compound (photos) by optm(m): 4:56am On Mar 22, 2025
Melonsmasher:
A barrister for that matter
some persons feel that they are powerful and can do almost anything in Nigeria and go free
CrimeRe: House Owner Kill Boy For Trying To Retrieve Ball From His Compound (photos) by optm(m): 7:08pm On Mar 21, 2025
This one has brought blood judgement upon his family lineage.
SportsRe: N’golo Kanté Officially Married Today In Bamako (mali) by optm(m): 12:41am On Mar 20, 2025
princepee:
cool classless kante.
A very good footballer, but very local.
With all the money he still looks local
What makes him classless? You all that think wealth makes you superior to other human need some growing up
PoliticsRe: ISWAP Terrorists Release Gruesome Video Executing 3 Nigerian Soldiers In Yobe by optm(m): 12:30am On Mar 20, 2025
When soldiers are captured by enemies, do they not plan a rescue for them? Why are they left to fate in the hands of their captors? This is really frightening.
RomanceRe: I Don't Think Life Is Really Worth It I Regret Coming Here. by optm(m):
Let Jesus Christ give your life a meaning; That is who you really need.
Find a good bible believing church around and join them.
You could also look for christian messages on youtube. Preachers like Apostle Joshua Selman, Pastor Poju Oyemade, Pastor Femi Lazarus, Pastor Paul Enenchie. So many preachers that are sound in the word.
Also just talk to God about how you feel
RomanceRe: Look At This (pix) by optm(m):
Check this guy official_devices on instagram. He proferred a solution in one of his videos.
It works.
PoliticsRe: 2027 Presidency: Okpebholo Promises Tinubu 100% Votes In Edo by optm(m): 11:09am On Jan 21, 2025
This isn't democracy. Shame on ya'all applauding this.
CrimeRe: Timileyin Ajayi: I Beheaded My Girlfriend, Salome Adaidu Because She Cheated by optm(m): 4:21pm On Jan 15, 2025
The state of a man's heart is the most important thing to dicepher when relating with people.
His heart was never right.

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