Elohorp:


Ehn am a woman,so I should be the one to tell you about birth control not you,what exactly do you know about birth control
I must focus on it because it's very likely,it's highly common for women to take in while on active birth control especially younger women
And the do you know the effects on birth control on women any woman that has sense that hasn't given birth,will not put herself subject to birth control

lolz. you should probably read more on birth control methods then. The discussion has digressed. I rest my case

Elohorp:

What is your assurance that after marriage, pregnancy won't come?

there are birth control methods to significantly reduce the chances of that happening so why focus so much on what would likely not happen?

Elohorp:

What is your assurance that after marriage, pregnancy won't come?

this is kind of deviating. the concept of birth control isn't new is it?

when you add the cost of packaging, tax and other expenses put into this, i do not think the company would sell cheaper than the shops in the locality

Elohorp:


What do you mean in Africa moat girls are seeking for men to take responsibility for their living

Dude I fucking live in the USA, please it's the seem here don't trip yourself by saying in Africa that's a big insult
Even lots of white and Spanish do that here do
Yes they are some that's are fully independent,Mr if they give you those women to marry you won't last 3 months in. The marriage

But. Then you have been listing all the things a woman should have to give you in su h management marriage and all the things she shouldn't expect from you
Then you went on to say that she shouldn't be the responsibility of her husband

So may I ask what does a man that wants to be called husband in such case have to offer or is his job only to take
Or will the woman be the head of such home and will he agree that they are equals,since he has both to offer

you are not following the logic in my argument . let me know why you feel a man would be slowed down in finding his foot after marriage without kids in the picture of things?

Elohorp:


If you marry a wife what do you have to offer as the head of the house??
Because if you believe that she should continue been the sole caretaker of herself after getting married to you and you don't want kids after marriage
May I ask what exactly you are looking for by getting married in the first place
You have no need for marriage because you are not ready for the thing's that comes with marriage,you want to get married for sex and continue living your life as you were while still single with the only difference of having a stay in sex partner,all you said above is the simple example of someone that's not just ready for marriage but also selfish and you rounded it up by saying if your not successful then it's the wife fault,how exactly
There's nothing more irritating then a blame passer it's simply irritating if I don't make it it's her fault it sound immature

you actually misread my post . First of, getting a life partner is choosing someone to do life with. this person should ideally have a life as an independent person. If you both are doing life together, it means you guys ought to be better since there would be summation of resources, ideas and support that should ideally translate to better life for both partner. Now if a man is better off in being single than married, something is definitely wrong with the kind of spouse. it means his spouse isn't actually contributing much to his life. yeah i know in Africa, most girls are seeking men to take responsibility for their living and looking for who to live life through and not who to do life with. These kind of girls would definitely cause the men strain and slow down his pace cos she is depleting his resources.

Elohorp:


No it's slows done not because she is a wrong partner but because expense increase,if your wife is sick won't you treat her,if your kids are sick won't you treat them
School fees, feeding,health care, clothing,and on and on,you speed more,same applies to the woman,in the end you can barely see financial means to expand instead your just surviving and look around you and tell me if that's not what most people in Nigeria are going through
Yes you might see 2 or 3 that managed to expand and thrive but it's so rare,early marriage when not yet stable will hold you back
My advice make sure your financial back bone is strong before carrying load on it , If not it will crack, am not saying you have to be rich but at least be stable

I believe the lady you are marrying is an individual and should have been catering for herself and taking care of her expenses before you married her. both of you coming together shouldn't change anything much but rather amplify you cos of combination of resources and ideas. yes it would be proper to have your finances sorted before birthing kids because they would be dependent on you and if you do not plan properly, it would put strain on your resources. But for two independent individual coming together in marriage, it shouldn't cause you much strain in my opinion except it's the wrong spouse you are having. I hope you get my point ?

Elohorp:


Pregnant is a game it can come even when on active protection,so why gamble

I believe if a man gets married too early,when his not yet stable it prevents him from actually ever getting his footing in life

depending on the kind of partner. It is supposed to be the opposite. His acceleration in life should be faster with the right woman. If a man's life slows down after marriage, he got the wrong partner.

wifeesnatcher:




Maybe God in his mercy will one day save Nigeria from these political hyenas

I pray so

wifeesnatcher:



I concur, if you're building physical capital projects without investing on human capital, the human capital you failed to invest on won't value the physical capital projects or might even ruined it but investing on human capital can bring a lot of volunteers to build more of physical capital projects through their various foundations or community development service



Nigeria system doesn't understand social democratic governance

yeah right . We get people that have no business with governance in power. For their benefit, they need to have the current crop of Nigerians. There wouldn't be resistance to plunder of the nation's wealth and they have good control of the people. It's a win for them . what better way can they legally loot the treasury other than disguising it under infrastructural development ; which seems appealing to the untrained mind.

you should talk it out with him. Schedule a meet up and tell him you do appreciate his giftings but you really do not know what to make out of it and ask if he's expecting anything from you and that you'll like him to open up so you guys can talk things out as adults that you are. The excuse of your not being able to resist his gifts because they came at the right time doesn't really cut in because you would still have lived your life if those gifts didn't come. Try to improve on your finances too .
yeah looks are important but then it would be the heart of the person that would matter more in the long run. Choose wisely

Simeonjoe1:


State like Abuja need atleast 30trn for efficient world class infrastructure and to run optimally. 1.2trn is so meagre, it's not even enough for only educational budgets of fct

you cannot develop a city more than its people ? yeah so much talk about infrastructure but how much effort is put into people development? Nigeria would never achieve so much unless its people are empowered and educated. When the people are not enlightened and empowered, build all the infrastructures you can, it would be plundered. we need mentally, emotionally and physically healthy people to build a healthy society. truth is most Nigerians are not healthy and you would hardly get the society to work. the priority of any govt that wants to work should be making investments in the people.

I often wonder what the men do when their wives maltreat their helps ? you really do not have to fight her. just tell her if she would not treat the help well, then you guys would have to return the help to where you got him or her from and attend to the chores yourselves. by the time your wife engages in those chores without help, she'll learn to appreciate them better if she gets a chance to have another.
your wife treating her help bad sets bad example for your kids and even brings awaiting karma for your family.
Don't tell me you would do nothing about an impending disaster on your family because of the actions of your wife. If you fail to act as the leader in your home in such situations, you have simply accepted to partake in the wickedness by your inaction. Infact, God would start by judging you for failing to lead your home right

Marry someone that's ready to build with you and not one that sees you as a ticket to enjoy the good life they are not ready to work out in achieving with you. Those saying they cannot marry someone in that accommodation may not be able to even afford one of such for themselves. Some women would make you see reasons why getting a bigger accommodation would be better and would join you in seeking ways to get a bigger one but you see those that would tell you, they cannot live with you there and are not suggesting ways to get a bigger space, you had better left them alone . Those type are not ready to do life with you , they are only after doing life through you.

Really the hate is real . But these people when they need help, wouldn't mind asking a non tribal person for help and wouldn't consider if Igbo or not. shame on you all tribal bigots
The worst thing is you still have friends and colleagues that are probably Igbos and wouldn't say it in their faces that you do not like them but would put up fake smiles around them. The Nigerian tribalism is worse than racism. shame on you all

This really cracked me. Funny man

maidstone:
Most of the replies above show that you guys aren't into management or business administration. When a business entity comes up with this sort of promo, often, it's not about you the customer. It's about the company's wellbeing.

Most companies, especially, supermarkets, would prefer Option B because Option B will help them to shift more goods. As in sell more goods than Option A

As regards Option A, most customers would prefer that as they most likely came in to buy 1 piece of the item on promo anyway. Most wouldn't need 2

Thus, Option B will be more impactful on the bottomline of the company in question

this isn't absolute. It depends majorly on the purchasing power of your target population.

What percentage of your target population can afford 70k as against 35k? That should give you the answer. If there are 10 persons in need of your product and just only 3 out of this 10 can afford your product at 70k, then the max client you can get is 3 and max sales 210k. But if 7 of those can only afford 35k that's 245k and of course those 3[70k empowered] persons can always afford at least a bag at 35k and they can decide to go for 2 if they so desire. Let's say those 3 persons decide to get 1 bag each, that's 105k sold. You have the chance of making at least 350k (245 + 105k) or more with 10 persons as against 210k at most with just 3 people.
It's wiser to apply A

Emma1Oj:
swear with your life say u never fu..ck twice this yr.

because you dey fornicate no mean say everybody dey like you

Some of you men here spewing vile words, it would be better for ladies to be single than marry your type.
Not all men are marriageable. Some ladies would have been better being single than married.
It's not about being married, the koko is how well are you enjoying the marriage. Marriage is beautiful only with the right spouse

Hafeexla:
Your environment is not safe and then you place under curfew yet you have the audacity to flout curfew. You have a family member who is mentally retarded, yet you allow him roam about the street.

and that is an excuse for the soldier's act of murder?

Hello healthlanders, it has been a privilege sharing my knowledge on eye healthcare with you all ;particularly on this thread. I would not be attending to questions here anymore as i am no longer in practice and feel you would be safer getting advice from someone in practice because they would be up-to-date in treatment approach to various eye health conditions out there.
I hope someone would be gracious enough to keep the thread going on.
Well, until i get back in practice sometime in the future, it's goodbye and i also thank you; the originator of this thread. God bless us all.

Oracleforce:


Do you know how many people whom have lost both parents to Book haram in a day ? Do you know how many people who are orphan ...Yet , they still ensure things are done properly...theu ensure they project the.image of.their family...I know what it takes to lost both parent within.the space of time ...died.in gruesome.murder.however., this is common sense ...
Some bereaved people at those sorrowful moment will even be happy that people.took.their time.to.visit.them.and share their pain....
However , In her situation , so many people came from.far and near...imcluding.the Vice President of a nation .... .to pay her dad last respect....see her sitting down as.if.VP is jobless and doesn't have any good thing to do with his precious time.

If VP could pay this VIsit to any of the children of our soldiers or civil servant who died in the active service.....imagine the uncontrollable joy that will.ravage the person face....

All these rich man's daughter are always spoilt brat....simple!

you are not trauma - informed. You do not know people can have same experience and react differently and alot of factors come into play on how people respond to trauma? In the north, people do not wail when they loose loved one but i guess you'll be shocked at people's wailing when you visit other states and you get to be in the scene of someone just loosing a loved one.

KayB:
Let the uncultured bootlickers be, you can't give what you don't have.
Definitely she hasn't eaten since the death of her loved one.
May the dead rest on

do you think her standing up to greet the vp is respect? If so, she ought to stand up in greeting everybody cos everyone ought to be respecteded irrespective of age, gender or status. If your respect is reserved for a certain class of persons, you are not actually respectful but hypocritic.

Many Nigerians major on minor issues. How does her not standing up to greet the VP affect him? This person would be mute on matters as concerning the economy that affects them in great ways. Yeye......

These examples being cited, how old are the kids? Is an adult a kid? Are you still responsible for those grown ups you want us to put on same pedestal as kids? It's a shame coming out to defend this

dejol88:

Lagos Nigeria

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PressMyButton:
Ignorance oozes out of this thread, so much for Illiteracy. Is Dangote responsible for production and delivery of crude oil?. As a business man, if NNPC could not deliver the sufficient supply, is he not suppossed to look for alternatives?. You people are the most ignorant but you open your mouth loosely as if you know.

And you believe a big business like dangote never factored in the availability of crude from inception of plan? Dey play

dejol88:
Hello doc, my mum is in her seventy’s and has been diagnosed of glaucoma and cataract. So , we are of the opinion she does the cataract surgery to see what progress we would have achieved. With this, could you kindly point to us a good hospital where she can have the surgery performed? She is currently scared of going through the surgery due to stories of those who got blind after surgery.Thank you

hi which state are you resident in?

Rach310:
Hello Doctor,thanks for the good work,I've had this reocurring issue with my eyes for almost 8 years now,I don't know wether to call it a boil or a growth when it initially started it starts from my lower eyelids and sometimes goes up to the upper eyelid,after a period of time it goes away, sometime it stays for months but i noticed lately it doesn't occur like before,i went to the hospital a certain time,i was given medications and told if it dosent go away they might have to perfom surgery on it to bring out what is there but as at that time my guidian was not comfortable with the idea so i stayed like that and it disappeared on its own,it happened again on Tuesday,I went to the pharmacy and was given some drugs which reduced it's swolleness but it's still there like a lump,please I want to know if there is anything else I can do or take to cure it completely aside the option of surgery because I saw a doctor concerning this 4 months ago and he made mention of incision.Thanks in anticipation to your reply.

from the description i guess it's Chalazion. Yes botox injection can be tried but surgery is the most effective way in getting it out. In minutes, you are done. The surgery isnt that complex. I know you are scared cos of the word surgery and your imaginations are running wild. You can check up videos on the net to see what it's like

These people castigating this act might have never given even just 1person free food all through last year. These are the same people that would say churches never do philanthropy yet would speak ill of the acts of philanthropy they come across on social media. These same set of people wouldnt have problem if the likes of davido put their philanthropic acts online.

jonnex:


I appreciate you doc, thanks

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