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PoliticsRe: Don't Accept Minimum Wage Above ₦50k - Seun Osewa Tells Tinubu by optm(m): 4:31pm On Jun 03, 2024
I want to ask, what is the cause of the inflation now that wages haven't increased? If there wasn't an inflation, workers wouldn't demand for that increament. Address the high cost of living so the workers can survive on what they are paid
EducationRe: Mathematicians In The House come over Here by optm(m): 4:02am On May 25, 2024
A is the answer
EducationRe: How To Achieve High Scores On The GRE by optm(m): 1:54am On May 25, 2024
Hi all! please is there an active GRE preparation group one can join? I am asking for someone.
I'll appreciate any help I can get.
Thank y'all
RomanceRe: My Boyfriend Married Another Lady, Claims He Still Loves Me. by optm(m): 4:29am On May 19, 2024
Fattprince23:
The earlier you know it's about putting yourself first the better. Because people can leave you when you are down(even if they try not to) but you can never leave yourself (unless you want to quit the earth altogether by killing yourself)
It's ok to put yourself first but not by ruining another person in the process.
CrimeRe: Pastor Ebenezer Oduntan Jailed In The UK For Pocketing Church Funds by optm(m): 9:09am On May 14, 2024
These are the type that make people assume that all pastors are scammers.
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Jerry Eze Gifts His Musicians Six New Cars by optm(m): 10:18pm On May 11, 2024
MySolace:
I alreay said am in!
Since God is using him to heal, he's a great asset to d nation. He will hav to b going round d hospitals healing d sick.

But if i may ask, wot is d efficacy rate of dis healing power? Lets say 100 cancer patients are brought along for healing, how many could dis power heal?
If dis socalled power doesnt heal atleast 70 patients, why should one ever mention it as a solution to it? ...wen STANDARD HOSPITALS practicaly heal atleast 80 to 90 of such case?

D REAL OWNERS OF DIS RELIGION HEAL CANCER WIT PRAYERS?
where did you get your statistics? It's pointless arguing. Believe whatever you want but downplaying or denying other people's experience because you have a certain bias and not an evidence that their claim is false isn't right
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Jerry Eze Gifts His Musicians Six New Cars by optm(m): 9:11pm On May 11, 2024
Kobojunkie:
The Kingdom of God was not advertized by Jesus Christ as a place to find any such though! Most of those whom He healed weren't even part of the KIngdom of God. lipsrsealed
‭I Corinthians 4:20 NKJV‬
[20] For the kingdom of God is not in word but in power.

https://bible.com/bible/114/1co.4.20.NKJV
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Jerry Eze Gifts His Musicians Six New Cars by optm(m): 9:07pm On May 11, 2024
Kobojunkie:
God did no such thing through his so-called ministry. God does not need any of that to do what He said He would do for all, including the wicked and the ungrateful! undecided
getting into argument with you is tiring. Go check on his page and see testimonies from people all over the world that God has reached. Yeah it is not all about Pastor Jerry but the works of Jesus Christ and that he gets to mention that he isn't the one doing the works but Jesus Christ
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Jerry Eze Gifts His Musicians Six New Cars by optm(m): 8:58pm On May 11, 2024
MySolace:
U see! So, not being like u makes me a false one?

I worship God not relgious contractors...
And i fall under d category da beleives dat God cant do for u what he gave u brain to be able to do for urself...
If God doesnt want us to think, he wouldnt hav given us brain...

Africa misuse prayers! ...while some smart men now utilize it to their own advantage. Those are d ones people like me regard as religious contractors
What wrong has pastor Jerry done. Give me a fault you are finding. Is it that he gave certain people cars or that through his ministry, God healed a certain person of cancer? What is his fault?
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Jerry Eze Gifts His Musicians Six New Cars by optm(m): 8:50pm On May 11, 2024
MySolace:
Wow, am now impressed! since we've seen a sure plug for healing of cancer, i advocate d federal govt through d ministry of health to employ dis man of god. He should b provided wit every necessary mobility for him to be going around every hospital in Nigeria healing cancer patients. No more dying of cancer. No more flying abroad for cancer treatment/surgery, foreigners would now troop into Nigeria for dia cancer treatment. And this wil consequentially put Nigeria on d limelight. And even grow our dying economy.
ISNT THAT AMAZING?


Lets join hands and advocate for this until it gets to d ears of d right authority. Am in!
It would be great to advocate the kingdom of God as a place to finding cure to cancer and that's what the pastor is doing in his own capacity as God uses him as an instrument of healing to reach the sick. Doctors could treat but God also heals. Those that are beneficiaries of the healing power of God would be grateful but it gets nausating when people like you would want to deny people's experiences of the supernatural even with evidences.
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Jerry Eze Gifts His Musicians Six New Cars by optm(m): 5:17am On May 11, 2024
Kobojunkie:
1. That is pretty much what I do when I pray. I say it as Jesus Christ taught us to say it in Matthew 6 vs 6 - 15. grin

2. You are not paying attention at all to Jesus Christ, are you? undecided

Recall that Jesus Christ lived under the Old Law of Moses which operated as the Law in the nation of Judah in the land of Canaan at the time. And if you search through the Old Law of Moses, you wouldn't find the same restrictions as the one Jesus Christ handed to His followers anywhere in that Law, not at all. So, Jesus Christ had no reason to pray according to Matthew 6 vs 6-15 when the Law of Moses did not stipulate that He should do any such. undecided

However, Jesus Christ called His followers to a different Law and Kingdom entirely from that which He lived under. Yes, His followers are called to abide by His own Law — Jesus Christ's teachings and commandments —, the Gospel and the Truth of God in the Kingdom of God. Under the Gospel are the teachings and commandments which include the one expressed by Him in Matthew 6 vs 6 - 15. And we know that Jesus Christ made known that those who love Him are those who obey His teachings and commandments— not those who do the things He did. What this means is that anyone who thinks it makes sense to copy Jesus Christ is only fooling Himself because Jesus Christ made clear that His friends are those who do as He says, implying that His enemies do not do as He says. grin
I couldn't help but laughed at how you twist scriptures. To you Jesus is the type of leader that says do what i say and not what i do. This is really funny.
I am done with you. I am not stretching this further.
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Jerry Eze Gifts His Musicians Six New Cars by optm(m): 4:29am On May 11, 2024
Kobojunkie:
1. Jesus Christ, who lived His Life in complete submission and obedience to God's Law at the time—The Law of Moses—, is quoted from the very same Law in His counter to Satan. Yes, Jesus Christ ran with the very Letters of the Law as His counter for Satan.

▶ Jesus Christ's response noted in Matthew 4 vs 7 is taken from the book of the Law, Deuteronomy 6:16.
▶ Jesus' response in Matthew 4 vs 10 is taken from the book of the Law Deuteronomy 6:13.
▶ And Jesus' response in Matthew 4 vs 4 is taken from the books of the Law, Deuteronomy 8:3.

All 3 responses given by Jesus Christ to Satan's advances were taken straight from the Law of Moses — the Letter of the Law. undecided grin

2. I am afraid you misconstrue what Paul meant by that statement which you quote there. It does not mean any of what you think it does. And it has little to nothing to do with this here topic or conversation. As you can see from the above point, Jesus Christ used the Law to fight back against Satan, and in much the same way, His followers are encouraged by Him to abide by the Law that is Him — use His teachings and commandments to fight off temptation — so that He too may continue to abide in them - John 15 vs 7 - 11. grin

3. But that is exactly what you have been desperately trying to do to this point. And sure, go for it! Point me to where they attempted to quote scripture and I will show you how it was all out-of-context, same as Satan's attempts against Jesus Christ. grin

4. Look, Jesus Christ said those who love Him are those who abide by His teachings and commandments— God's Law and Truth in the Kingdom of God. I quoted His teachings and commandments to you earlier— the Letter of the Law that is Jesus Christ. That you think of them as unbalanced, is not of Jesus Christ at all. grin
That's the point. One must be able to balance scriptures and apply appropriately. you see when Jesus was talking about prayer in secrete, he was addressing the motives of the pharisees in the wanting to be seen during prayers. He even said they stood up in synagogues while they are praying in order to be seen. he was addressing their motives behind the manner in which they offered prayers. you shouldn't apply scriptures out of context . pastor Jerry Eze leading the people in prayers isn't with the intention to show off. That scripture wouldn't apply in his case. oh but if you say we shouldn't pray in public and you say the church is a public place, then prayers should not be offered in Churches. If you say this, then how do you explain the words of Jesus when he said "My house shall be called a house of prayer" in Matthew 21 vs 13. Also if you are interpreting the scriptures by letters then all you should say when you pray would be the words of Jesus in Matthew 6 vs 9 - 14. Now tell me if in all the times Jesus prayed, these were the words he was repeating? When Jesus went with the disciples to pray, why did he not get a room and shut the door since that was his recommendation? why did he go with his disciples since he needed to pray in secrete? Of course we can tell he prayed for more than an hour hence he scolded them of their not being able to watch with him just for 1 hour. Do you mean all Jesus was reciting was Our Father who art in heaven prayer?
let me know what your answers are .
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Jerry Eze Gifts His Musicians Six New Cars by optm(m): 4:24am On May 11, 2024
Kobojunkie:
1. Jesus Christ, who lived His Life in complete submission and obedience to God's Law at the time—The Law of Moses—, is quoted from the very same Law in His counter to Satan. Yes, Jesus Christ ran with the very Letters of the Law as His counter for Satan.

▶ Jesus Christ's response noted in Matthew 4 vs 7 is taken from the book of the Law, Deuteronomy 6:16.
▶ Jesus' response in Matthew 4 vs 10 is taken from the book of the Law Deuteronomy 6:13.
▶ And Jesus' response in Matthew 4 vs 4 is taken from the books of the Law, Deuteronomy 8:3.

All 3 responses given by Jesus Christ to Satan's advances were taken straight from the Law of Moses — the Letter of the Law. undecided grin

2. I am afraid you misconstrue what Paul meant by that statement which you quote there. It does not mean any of what you think it does. And it has little to nothing to do with this here topic or conversation. As you can see from the above point, Jesus Christ used the Law to fight back against Satan, and in much the same way, His followers are encouraged by Him to abide by the Law that is Him — use His teachings and commandments to fight off temptation — so that He too may continue to abide in them - John 15 vs 7 - 11. grin

3. But that is exactly what you have been desperately trying to do to this point. And sure, go for it! Point me to where they attempted to quote scripture and I will show you how it was all out-of-context, same as Satan's attempts against Jesus Christ. grin

4. Look, Jesus Christ said those who love Him are those who abide by His teachings and commandments— God's Law and Truth in the Kingdom of God. I quoted His teachings and commandments to you earlier— the Letter of the Law that is Jesus Christ. That you think of them as unbalanced, is not of Jesus Christ at all. grin
That's the point. One must be able to balance scriptures and apply appropriately. you see when Jesus was talking about prayer in secrete, he was addressing the motives of the pharisees in the wanting to be seen during prayers. He even said they stood up in synagogues while they are praying in order to be seen. he was addressing their motives behind the manner in which they offered prayers. you shouldn't apply scriptures out of context . pastor Jerry Eze leading the people in prayers isn't with the intention to show off. That scripture wouldn't apply in his case. oh but if you say we shouldn't pray in public and you say the church is a public place, then prayers should not be offered in Churches. If you say this, then how do you explain the words of Jesus when he said "My house shall be called a house of prayer" in Matthew 21 vs 13. Also if you are interpreting the scriptures by letters then all you should say when you pray would be the words of Jesus in Matthew 6 vs 9 - 14. Now tell me if in all the times Jesus prayed, these were the words he was repeating? When Jesus went with the disciples to pray, why did he not get a room and shut the door since that was his recommendation? why did he go with his disciples since he needed to pray in secrete? Of course we can tell he prayed for more than an hour hence he scolded them of their not being able to watch with him just for 1 hour. Do you mean all Jesus was reciting was Our Father who art in heaven prayer?
let me know what your answers are .
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Jerry Eze Gifts His Musicians Six New Cars by optm(m): 3:34am On May 11, 2024
Kobojunkie:
1. I don't even understand the question. undecided

2. One thing Jesus Christ pointed out when it concerns the religious-minded is that they need to keep those goggles that keep them blind to — and removed from— the truth at all times. Here you are confronted with the fact that Jesus Christ said those who are of Him do not pray like Hypocrites where a third party can see or hear them. Rather than accept the Truth of Jesus Christ and gain an understanding of the difference between His Kingdom and that of men, you chose to downplay and even cast Jesus Christ as some sort of liar in other to lift Jerry Eze above Him. undecided

You obviously don't agree with Jesus Christ— you don't seem to care at all for what He has to say at all— so why pretend to believe Him at all? What do you gain by it given that Jesus Christ promised His standard will never be lowered to fit in any, not even you or your Jerry Eze? Why not worship Jerry Eze alone in truth and openness? undecided
I am talking about the temptation of Jesus where the devil lifted up passages of the scriptures. If Jesus ran with just letters and couldn't balance scriptures and know by the spirit how to apply it , he would have fallen to the temptation of the Devil. Hence it is written in the scriptures that the letter killeth and it is the Spirit that gives life. Just applying a part of the scriptures just like the pharisees would, is disastrous. I can point you to places where the pharisees also quoted scriptures and Jesus countered them. As a believer in Christ Jesus, one must be able to balance scripture with scripture and by the Spirit of God
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Jerry Eze Gifts His Musicians Six New Cars by optm(m): 3:21am On May 11, 2024
Kobojunkie:
Ok, I will bite! grin First, there is absolutely nothing "secret" about your churches. Second, notice that the rules Jesus Christ gave were to individual members of His Kingdom... not to groups of people/cults or what you lot call churches. grin
from your answer, i deduce you are saying that the church is public right? Is it ok to pray in the churches then?
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Jerry Eze Gifts His Musicians Six New Cars by optm(m): 3:20am On May 11, 2024
Kobojunkie:
1. Are you insinuating that God changed His mind and decided that those He condemned as hypocrites — antiChrist— were in fact of Him? shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked

2. Argh! So, by insisting on the declaration of Jesus Christ Himself as far as His Kingdom is concerned, I mislead you? Those who love Jesus Christ by obeying His commandments and teachings are fools whereas people like Jerry Eze who publicly flout their stance against the teaching and commandments of Jesus Christ are the wise. grin grin grin

I love the way almost all of the time, religion never fails to prove it is of the antichrist, just as Jesus Christ declared it to be beginning with the religion that existed during His time, the religion Christianity was famously modeled after. grin
Just imagine what would have been of Jesus if he couldn't balance the scriptures and fell to the devil because he used specific verses of the scriptures. Kobojunkie i am done with this talk as you already have a motive. If you are ready to dig into scriptures, answer the questions i asked you .
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Jerry Eze Gifts His Musicians Six New Cars by optm(m): 2:42am On May 11, 2024
Kobojunkie:
A "true minister" of God would pray like the Pharisees do?
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

2. No need for all of that! Jesus Christ made the equation for finding out those who belong to Him very simple. Jesus Christ said those who love Him and are loved by Him do one thing and one thing only; they obey His every teaching and commandment. And right here and now you and I know that Jerry Eze DOES NOT obey Jesus Christ's commandments and teaching starting with the one noted above. grin

You can lie to yourself all you want but one thing you can't do is change the Word of God or lie to God Himself. grin
you are deliberate about opposing what God is doing through him. The wise ones know better than to be mislead with what you put up as regards this topic.
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Jerry Eze Gifts His Musicians Six New Cars by optm(m): 2:35am On May 11, 2024
Kobojunkie:
I didn't write or say that which is recorded in Matthew 6 vs 6. For you to think there is a way around it means you do not agree with it. For you to even suggest the statement ought to be questioned means you never even agreed with it to begin with. lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed

It is for this very reason — this need to second guess Him in His own Kingdom — that Jesus Christ called those who follow the religious leaders and their doctrines, blind people and antiChrist. grin
why don't you answer my questions and see where it leads?
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Jerry Eze Gifts His Musicians Six New Cars by optm(m): 2:34am On May 11, 2024
Kobojunkie:
Evidence of "miracles" happen every single day even outside of your church settings and without the many proclamaitions and declarations of your mogs aka gods of men? Are you for real? I only did a quick google search of the key "Woman cured of cancer" and got at least 3 of those hits on the first page. You sit back and search through other pages and using other keywords and you will find loads more stories of the same kind... people cured of cancer, and most of them without ever connecting with any of your religious gods of men. grin

One major issue I tend to have with these so-called testimonies in your churches is that they mostly never make the news. You could search all through google for a whole day and never in fact hit any story in particular connected to these miracles broadcasted from your religious pulpits and fire-altars. I have always wondered why they never make the news. lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
There are fake ministers of God and there are real and i am confident that pastor Jerry Eze is one of the genuine ones. If you care to, go find out about his ministry and the many miracles God is doing through him. If you can dispute the many miracles of the people that God has reached through his ministry even with the abounding evidences, bring it on here with your proofs.
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Jerry Eze Gifts His Musicians Six New Cars by optm(m): 2:28am On May 11, 2024
Kobojunkie:
You already took it outside of Jesus Christ the moment you insinuated that a separate set of rules apart from that stated by Jesus Christ Himself exists for your churches. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I Just asked you a question. I haven't concluded
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Jerry Eze Gifts His Musicians Six New Cars by optm(m): 2:18am On May 11, 2024
Kobojunkie:
Are you seriously attempting to INVOKE the rituals and traditions of your churches OVER and ABOVE Jesus Christ Himself here? undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided
Answer my questions. I am taking the conversation somewhere and it's never outside Jesus Christ
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Jerry Eze Gifts His Musicians Six New Cars by optm(m): 2:02am On May 11, 2024
Kobojunkie:
Coincided , you say! But the many other healings of the others in those other posts did not need to COINCIDE with the declaration of any of your mogs for them to happen. Why does this then mere coincidence serve as proof that this one miracle of your wife's is linked to the man's declaration? undecided

2. The other woman there in one of the posts claimed she took to eating vegetables and fruits and she was healed... no surgery and no drugs too. (Just so you know there is no special cancer diet; she simply wished to believe that her diet, like your pastor's declaration, was the key to her cure.)

3. Of course it is unusual but from the fact that there are so many of these kinds of stories out there — I searched less than 1 minute and found 3 different ones, it means that they are not unheard of. undecided
If you are disputing this with those points you put up, you should probably have evidences that it is either of the 3 that happened in his wife's case. Then for this same pastor , there are quite many miracles like this out there through his declarations so i wouldn't term this a happenstance as over and over again , such declarations have heralded many of those type of occurrences
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Jerry Eze Gifts His Musicians Six New Cars by optm(m): 1:55am On May 11, 2024
Kobojunkie:
You just now did exactly what Jesus Christ warned that the Pharisees do, which is cherry-picking only those aspects of the Law which suits their particular ideas, abandoning the rest which they consider of least importance! grin
Was the Jesus Christ that made the statement in verse 6 a different entity entirely? undecided
Indeed the letter killeth and it is the Spirit that gives life . Let me ask you this; Is the church a secrete place or an open place ? Is it ok to offer prayers in churches?
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Jerry Eze Gifts His Musicians Six New Cars by optm(m): 1:10am On May 11, 2024
Kobojunkie:
African man! Always desperate to reduce God(and Jesus Christ) to his level never mind the fact that by doing so he invariably condemns God a laid and deceiver! undecided

Jesus Christ warned His followers to pray in secret and in Hiding. He told them that only Pharisees pray in the open where people can see and hear them pray. He warned His followers against setting up monuments in His name. So, how can the same Jesus Christ have apart in what your Jerry Eze does? Did Jesus Christ, who never did any of what Jerry does and never asked His followers to do any of what Jerry does a liar and a deceiver? undecided

2. Na so una go twist bible so stay una go twist out the last truth all to glorify men and their ridiculousness. The parable of the rich man in Luke 16 was instead told by Jesus Christ to teach that no one would be sent back from the dead to warn the living of Hell or Heaven. undecided
you are the one twisting the bible. I really do not like to argue scriptures with you but keeping quiet would let you mislead others with your misinterpretation '“And when you pray, you shall not be like the hypocrites. For they love to pray standing in the synagogues and on the corners of the streets, that they may be seen by men. Assuredly, I say to you, they have their reward. '

Matthew 6:5
https://www.bible.com/bible/114/MAT.6.5. Here Jesus was addressing their intentions for praying openly
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Jerry Eze Gifts His Musicians Six New Cars by optm(m): 12:57am On May 11, 2024
Kobojunkie:
Your wife's story is not unique at all. These cases are not as rare as you would think and it certainly has nothing to do with Jerry Eze or his prayers and altars, or whatever. undecided

https://www.theguardian.com/australia-news/2024/feb/07/teen-cancer-cure-god-nsw-chemotherapy-order-court
https://www.deccanherald.com/science/wonder-drug-cures-100-cancer-of-uk-woman-2717586
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2830942/Woman-given-six-months-live-claims-CURED-cancer-juice-cleanses-swapping-junk-food-raw-vegan-diet.html
how you decided not to read that her healing coincided with the declaration of the pastor and the fact that she was scheduled for surgery as the treatment plan by the doctors, this rules out the possibility of any drug responsible for cure and should question your stance of argument. This person didn't mention that she was on any special dieting for cancer and yet you want to deflect that it was possibly dieting. ok why did the dieting not work until the declaration by the pastor? Indeed the wife's story is unique.
Even in the story on the link you shared the doctor affirmed it was an unusual finding hence the child's belief that she was healed miraculously. these were the words “When the scans came back clear, I remember the doctors telling me they were not expecting not to be able to see it on the scans,” the girl said, according to evidence presented to the court.
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Jerry Eze Gifts His Musicians Six New Cars by optm(m): 10:45pm On May 10, 2024
MySolace:
Oh, u really missed my message. Go back and read wot i said.

I never doubted d scan. I only argued d healing process. I askd, is surgery d only way to go abt cancer irespective of d level? Was ur wife on any medication patening to dat?
Even wen she wasnt on any special medication, was she not eating? Food is medicine! Plants and leaves we eat are natural medicine given to us by nature. (havent u suffered any sickness and got healed witout taking medication for it?)

Go back and read my post.
seems you know the foods that cure cancer, abeg open shop use am cash out. So why did the food not cure the cancer before the word from the man of God? The way some of you just want to discredit the power of God by every means ehn..... I am sure you had thought your explanation to her healing makes sense
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Jerry Eze Gifts His Musicians Six New Cars by optm(m): 8:18pm On May 10, 2024
If with all the evidences attached to pastor Jerry Eze's ministry, you still have the guts to tag him fake, it is either you are possessed by a devil or just chose to be foolish. Evidences abound to what God is doing through his ministry and these cannot be disputed even if analysed logically.
FamilyRe: Bride Cancels Wedding In Vom, Jos Over Groom’s Refusal To Leave Family House by optm(m): 4:40pm On May 10, 2024
dangotesmummy:
both the man is immature in his way and the girl is immature.both are both toxic to each other and Will eventually serve each other breakfast.the red flags and cracks are clearly showing so it's better for both to find their way and focus on self development rather than marriage

The guy needs to work on self development and career or financial development while the girl needs to work on character development individually.

We already have enough adults both men and women wey no get character and home training getting married inside poverty and giving birth to dysfunctional children.make them no add to the statistics.having a big penis doesn't make you eligible for marriage and having big breasts doesn't make you qualified to be married either.

You go see grown man in his 40s still sagging trousers like a teenager while his wife is having personality disorder and both of them are living off retired and old couples in their homes because the man has refused to grow up and have self respect except to be playing bet every morning.enough of the emotional decisions jare
both the man and the woman needs to work on their financial development. Every adult should do that irrespective of gender.
FamilyRe: Bride Cancels Wedding In Vom, Jos Over Groom’s Refusal To Leave Family House by optm(m): 8:55pm On May 09, 2024
dangotesmummy:
lol any woman that agrees to live with a man's family after wedding is a compound fool and her education is a complete waste.

How can a man claim hes a man and he is still dependent on his parents at his adult age.even young boys as young as 21,22 move out of their father's house as soon as they start a business or get a job.ho abroad,by 18 or less you're out of your parents house.but an adult man wants to get married and live with his parents.tufiaaaa.una no dey get shame talk some kain things outside?

If you cannot survive alone without your parents whether they're alive or dead it means you're not mature enough not to talk of mature to get married.e remain make una dey ask for pocket money from your retired father.na una type go dey fight una mama say she no cook food for you


#Spits in disgust# tufiakwa once again
I do not have the whole picture of things and why he decided to have gone about it this way. I am just particular about her making demands and not contributing in anyways. That spells one who would be a liability rather than an asset to the man in marriage.
EducationRe: My Friends IELTS Results Was Withheld. by optm(m): 10:45am On May 09, 2024
My first IELTS exams with MOD was witheld, i had to write to them explaining that i sat for the exams myself and how it all went in the exam room. It was later released though. There was nothing spectacular about the result. Some persons had said then that it was probably that the performance was great and that was why it got withheld for investigation. That wasn't true.
Just write to them and see what happens afterwards
FamilyRe: Bride Cancels Wedding In Vom, Jos Over Groom’s Refusal To Leave Family House by optm(m): 5:41am On May 09, 2024
Oshin56:
The lady is not ready to help situation, common 15k to add to the 15k that the guy gave her for the wedding gown is hard for her and secondly what reason did she have to make her to tell the guy to leave where he's hustling and go to Jos (maybe the lady don spoil vom with her vom)
lolz and she had probably been living with her parents in vom. Demanding a standard of living she cannot provide for herself from another person is unreasonable. It's not bad to want a better life or improve your living standard, but be willing to put in efforts to achieve them. The guy had better left her alone and be grateful to God
FamilyRe: Bride Cancels Wedding In Vom, Jos Over Groom’s Refusal To Leave Family House by optm(m): 2:32am On May 09, 2024
Pacesetter123:
Despite any situation,I don't think it's proper for a man to marry and bring his wife into the family house to live in.

De kind wahala wey ur wife and ur Mama go dey get..ehh,u fit run mad in attempt to settle quell on daily basis.

So even if nah small two rooms,try rent am prior to ur marriage wey you and your wife go stay after marriage.

I don see wetin bin happen to my friend marriage bcuz of staying in family house.I learnt a lesson since then.

That being said, the lady in this case no also try at all.
She should have made her stance known to the guy right from day one of their relationship and not at the injury time she did.
It's ok to not want to marry a guy yet in his father's house, but my question is , what is the lady doing to help the situation? just giving the guy conditions without contributing anything. Even her wedding gown, she couldn't afford to make up for the part payment . The guy is struggling and going for someone that would put more burden rather than help him but God is trying to save him from such unwise decision.

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