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Jagabanarmy:
Mr president, you are the worse president so far and you enjoy making the poor suffer so much. The truth must be told. You have disappointed people that supported you and Nigerians .

Nyascobar1414:
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Wise man..I love the conversation...

I wonder why a man should go through all these for the sake of a woman or kids..

I mean if a man should ever go through all these pains,it should be for his ego or himself..

Man should live for himself since no one truly loves him,he should love no one..

An eye for an eye👌

AndrewTate:
I understood the first time… but I talked about this multiple times throughout my response to you. I’m sure if you read properly you’ll easily find the answers you’re looking for

AndrewTate:
I stated that multiple times already…

AndrewTate:
it is for a higher purpose
…and the woman is a part of that higher purpose, so as your children and your linage to come after you. A man who successfully conquers the masculine race in his lifetime lives forever and his generations to come will be proud to come from him, that’s the blessing of God himself tied to the masculine conquest. As a man you are born a King who needs to show himself worthy of his crown through the difficulties of life, for with that life changing process is the only way you can be equipped with the right knowledge, wisdom and abilities through which you, and the coming generations after you will sustain and expand your legacy.
Never see a woman as your equal or feel cheated by nature. You serve a higher purpose with a higher reward and this is why your path is much harder… if you don’t want it, you’ll have to live beneath and serve those that accept their fate and conquer, not just you, but those after you, until someone, somewhere in the generational tree decides to take on the burden.

AndrewTate:
“didn’t demand so much” isn’t true. When people talk about “the old society” they leave out the fact that status has always been a thing from the onset of time, even in the Stone Age I believe some people lived better than others, in every ancient story of any civilization there has always been the rich and the not so rich…it’s all the same with now, not harder, just slight changes in pattern through which to achieve that goal. Choose the life you want as a man, map out the way to that goal and work towards it, no matter how big, as long as someone has done that before you can do it 100% but the way it’s designed is, the more you desire the harder the journey is but the same law states that if you can persevere till the end the universe will give you all you ask for.

@[2]> if you don’t want the burden to conquer as a man then live within your means without sharing your responsibilities with a woman or else you shouldn’t complain about the chaos that comes with it because you’re disrupting the flow of nature by doing just that… you don’t have to be rich, if you feeling you need to get married asap with 100thousand naira in your name then you should probably go to the village to pick a wife, live in a hut, make babies, send them to the government funded school around there, your little income will be enough to take care of that family without any conflict, but if you want more, you have to go though the very painful and difficult process of increasing your value as a man so that you can have a better life. This is how life was designed to be.
The life of a man is not easy but if he can conquer, the world is his to gain.

…and how much you can conquer is how much you can have. This why man in the general sense is placed above woman. Your life is about conquering through pain and toiling. Break the code and suffer the consequences, just as if women break the feminine code they suffer the consequences too.

AndrewTate:
as humans we are mostly moved/motivated by our current situations or agitations, but the wiser humans are moved by the past and the future, this type of thinking is not found much in the female space because of an overwhelming dose of emotions as wisdom is more synonymous to men than women. Men have the ability to suppress emotions regardless of the situation and use logic of reality instead, and this is why it is men who have “built the world”.
Now, I said all that just to be able to state a clear realistic point that women have no business being “empowered economically”.this point never seat well with women hence they try to prove the logic wrong by “empowering” themselves by competing with men in the corporate hierarchy which cannot be done alongside being a submissive wife and a mother .
They do all that, go ahead and become a “boss lady” only to realize in their older days that all that didn’t matter to them, that they would’ve traded their whole “empowerment” career for a motherly role at home nurturing a family in their youth instead of pursuing a career that requires a large dose of masculinity which they trade their feminine nature for.
If you think I’m wrong make a research on feminists in their older years.

As for the man,

The life of a man is similar to a corporation. It is very important to build an empire and be ready to accommodate every responsibility that he will be entrusted with, how big that is or how far he wants to be in the building process before he gets married depends on him given that he mustn’t leave any responsibility unattended or complain.
And this is why the early days of a man is very important, it’s not supposed to be comfortable, (if his father failed at building an empire that should have his own life planned out by grooming him with the necessary knowledge, orientation and resources to start building his life early enough which in turn strengthens his linage from generation to generation).
A man that didn’t get that privilege should consider the far future before making decisions on marrying or having children.

…so, know what you’re trying to create before thinking of marriage, if you’re going to compromise then do so with the correct logic.

AndrewTate:
this is the exact logic that has crumbled marriages and will do worse. When a larger percentage of women tend to come up with solutions to issues like this the end results are always chaotic.
Normally, a woman’s fundamental expenses should be catered for by her father and mother till she gets married. But people get married before they’re ready for reasons I consider very stupid, only to struggle all their lives and cause disruption to the alignment of nature, having females take on masculine traits because they have to cater for themselves as adults which is wrong.
Women cannot fend for their needs in society without letting go of a part of their femininity replaced with masculinity which becomes a problem when it comes to pairing with the opposite gender…these are the traits men find disgusting or just can’t deal with, and it’s the same reason “self made” women find it very difficult to stick to a partner.
On the other hand it’s just so sad that a young woman has no choice but to de-feminize herself just to be able to do what her parents couldn’t do for her because they got married without being ready for the journey…it’s really sad.

To the men especially, never get married until you’re ready no matter how long it takes. The journey is not about you or your mother that wants a grandchild but about the future of your linage. Look ahead!

purples25:
I think we are saying the same thing. A person should have money so as to be independent and respectable on their own.

As for the bolded part, and all my points that you don't agree with, these are scenarios that come up in this life which is not perfect. I respect people as human beings even without money, but is everyone the same? Many people pretend during dating, so you can't know who is who as per character... and men who provide actually do abuse their partners who cannot also provide often. So what I'm trying to say is that it is better to be safe than sorry. To be prepared for the worst, because being abused as a woman due to lack of your own personal money is a common thing in this world for many women.

purples25:
For your own respect as a woman, you really should have a job and some money in your account before marriage. This way you avoid financial abuse where you cannot have any rights because you depend on the man. You avoid verbal abuse coming all because you cannot make the same money the guy does. You avoid being controlled because you yourself don't have a dime. You even give yourself some dignity by having some money and a job or business. No man will rubbish you anyhow when you enter marriage with your money you made yourself, business or job that you got for yourself.

That's why I wasn't impressed by the other thread where the guy said he gives the girl 2k. Why the hell is a girl that earns 2k even in a relationship? What will she do when she starts having kids and she can only depend on the man? Then it's whatever the man wants, she can't give her child what she likes as she has no money. Anybody dating without a stable financial background, male or female, is on a road to disgrace. The financially stable partner will abuse the helpless one, or their issues will be open to family, family will start 'helping'.

Well, if anyone enters a relationship without money or business, be ready for what you will see. Dating is not actually meant to be had simply for sex and fun. You people are supposed to plan your futures and make sure you're both ready.

Firefly2017:
When I saw your name I smiled and said no wonderful. Very well said my brother.

Some people will just think of an idea from only one angle, and decide to go public with it.
The reason why there is so much broken marriages/homes is because the world has decided to go against the natural order of things, like the almighty Creator intended.

Men have become lazy and so afraid of hard work and ambitiousness, constantly worrying about why they should cater financially for their wives and family, and are continually demanding for the so called nonsensical 50/50
idealogy. Forgetting the role each gender has
to play in the family. Men have only ONE job, Provide/protect!! The hulkulian task of raising decent human beings and being a soul supporter for both the Man and the rest of the family has been so minimized that women don't pioritize it anymore cuz they are out in the jungle chasing money to bring to the table.

What a wretched state of affairs. We live in a failing world I tell you

1Sharon:
OK now. If you want women to contribute financially, it's also fair to assist domestically. Because usually the child rearing and running of the home is often on the woman and I'm sure you know that. 50/50 should mean 50/ 50 in everything, not just finances.

Englishisamust:
Hello I need your help..

I have cloudy vision

komzy589:
My intention is not to create disunity amongst humans.
Everything I said is geared towards preserving the purpose of a National team competition.
There should be a difference between club football competitions and national team competitions.
The Spanish team is gradually turning into France.
Very soon, you’ll be watching the Euros and think it is AFCON.
If Nico Williams was born in Syria, he’ll be playing for Ghana.

komzy589:
What will a black person be doing in Argentina before. There’s no correlation.
National team looking like a football club.
Just look at France. Look at Destiny Udogie playing for Italy. Look at Olisadebe Emmanuel playing for Poland. Does it make sense.
I mean, look around you. Look at your skin color and ask yourself the honest question.
Africans adopting these foreign countries is one of the reasons we are backwards.
Even if you were born overseas, at least look at your skin color and have some dignity.
You don’t need to be told.
How can someone as black as Destiny Udogie be representing Italy. It is crazy.

Look at this full blooded Ethiopian or Eritrean born representing Sweden. A Scandinavian country of purely Whites. Is that normal!

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
Supported. You have many Africans born to African parents representing the colonizers.

Imagine if Messi played for Spain instead of Argentina.
If they don't like the song🎵, these players should show more patriotism and represent their fatherland.

Imagine the likes of Musiala, Adeyemi, Saka, Eze in the super eagle.
I don't want to talk about how Saka and Sancho were all racially abused after England lost against Italy in the Euro

delpee:
Terrible indeed. So heartless! They deserve some Aboniki in their eyes too.

chukskafor:
My brother, gone were the days when nairaland was a learning ground, those days, one can't afford to miss a day without visiting the forum, if you check my time of registration herein, you will know I've been here long enough, even at that, I was a visitor for more than five years before I was able to get registered; today, every Jack,Dick and Harry get access easily, especially most of these uncultured jobless swines looking for either tribal or religious warfare on a faceless forum.
Those days, NL was the envy of so much neighbouring countries, then we have expatriates in abundance in our midst, some of the well-known MODS were people based outside Nigeria but today what do we have, MODS that turns blind eye on issue capable of causing national disaster, but do as little as fart inhere, you get banned for it, several occasions I have tried to bring this happenstance to the MODS notice but nothing was done about it.
The most painful of it is when they see people making fraudulent posts on different sections which are very vivid, they still turn the other way as if they partake in the largesse made from it.
All I have to say is that it is well

chukskafor:
Small talk in here, some people herein have turned it to TRIBAL WAR, smh, how did we get here?

ogbonti:
please ask your fada - thanks

thesicilian:
Don't say what you don't have know in a futile attempt to seem smart. The "white man" is more corrupt than the "black man" you talk about, and secondly you're more of a slave abroad than at home

ogbonti:
In world history- no race or people were captured, brutalized, dehumanized, maimed, caged, raped, killed, sold, hanged, tortured like the African - when you exhaustively analyze the history of your fore fathers - you will understand why the average African is angry without reason!

Exousiang01:
Sometimes when we blame politicians for things like this we are just 50% right.....

We have seen situations where contractors are paid and they choose to do shitty jobs.
If not that tge current minister of Works is a civil engineer most of the roads and contractors he has been complaining about we would never have known.

Kalu is not an engineer so he may even visit the site for inspection and not notice anything.

These contracctors can be wicked....

Kalu may not even have an idea that the contractor did a shabby job till now