Health › Re: Ask The Eye Doctor Any Problem Concerning The Eyes by optm(m): 10:07pm On Mar 29, 2024 |
Antiochus: Just seeing this. It's been a long ride Dr optm. You've been of help to many without collecting a penny. Thanks so much for the service you've rendered. God bless you sir. Thank you. Very much appreciate your words |
Politics › Re: Holiness (a.k.a) Righteousness Is a Bigot, He Doesn't Deserve To Be A Moderator. by optm(m): 10:05am On Mar 29, 2024 |
Kelklein: Clearly a propaganda video.. you could see an attempt at blurring the investigator's voice and the way the so-called jihadist was describing the scenario. Also the surroundings of this video were not shown but only the confessor's.. nobody knows who was doing the questioning and where, except for the Israel flag in the background..
This is not in anyway to sympathise with terrorists but you can't overcome evil with another evil..
Israel is committing alot of atrocities in Gaza and those victims - innocent men,women and children don't even have lives anymore not to talk of a voice to relive their own stories.. no amount of propaganda videos such as this can justify that.
Let's call a spade a spade.. the identity of certain special forces personnel are hidden ; even their voices hence the distortion . I have seen a documentary on that |
Romance › Re: . by optm(m): 1:26am On Mar 29, 2024 |
EreluRoz: He's from a rich home (son of former deputy sen presi the one that has the initials of I and M as his names) and I'm not hungry too . How am I exploiting him. My mom has spoken with him and he said he has no motive behind anything he gives me and I should not bother myself over anything. Guess what he did after his lengthy conversation with my mom, he sent a huge money to me again through his company . Whatever happens God knows I've cleared my conscience and I pray a good woman that likes him locate him If he's not this philanthropic to others, do not take his word for it; you should try to do some investigations on his giftings to you specifically . Wisdom is profitable |
Politics › Re: Remi Tinubu Is Right.....nigerians enslaved with menial jobs abroad. by optm(m): 3:03am On Mar 22, 2024 |
Asonaijaaso: The food you eat for $50 dollars in Nigeria will cost you atl east $500 dollars in America. So even though you will earn $1500, Food and rent will finish it, you will need another job to pay tax and other bills. if you work 2 jobs....your health will decline over time. what percentage of Nigerians are healthy? |
Family › Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by optm(m): 9:52pm On Mar 21, 2024 |
Elohorp: Ehn am a woman,so I should be the one to tell you about birth control not you,what exactly do you know about birth control I must focus on it because it's very likely,it's highly common for women to take in while on active birth control especially younger women And the do you know the effects on birth control on women any woman that has sense that hasn't given birth,will not put herself subject to birth control lolz. you should probably read more on birth control methods then. The discussion has digressed. I rest my case |
Family › Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by optm(m): 2:42am On Mar 21, 2024 |
Elohorp: What is your assurance that after marriage, pregnancy won't come? there are birth control methods to significantly reduce the chances of that happening so why focus so much on what would likely not happen? |
Family › Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by optm(m): 2:38am On Mar 21, 2024 |
Elohorp: What is your assurance that after marriage, pregnancy won't come? this is kind of deviating. the concept of birth control isn't new is it? |
Food › Re: Sachet Rice Now Available In Nigeria (Photo, Video) by optm(m): 1:52am On Mar 21, 2024 |
when you add the cost of packaging, tax and other expenses put into this, i do not think the company would sell cheaper than the shops in the locality |
Family › Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by optm(m): 1:39am On Mar 21, 2024 |
Elohorp: What do you mean in Africa moat girls are seeking for men to take responsibility for their living
Dude I fucking live in the USA, please it's the seem here don't trip yourself by saying in Africa that's a big insult Even lots of white and Spanish do that here do Yes they are some that's are fully independent,Mr if they give you those women to marry you won't last 3 months in. The marriage
But. Then you have been listing all the things a woman should have to give you in su h management marriage and all the things she shouldn't expect from you Then you went on to say that she shouldn't be the responsibility of her husband
So may I ask what does a man that wants to be called husband in such case have to offer or is his job only to take Or will the woman be the head of such home and will he agree that they are equals,since he has both to offer you are not following the logic in my argument . let me know why you feel a man would be slowed down in finding his foot after marriage without kids in the picture of things? |
Family › Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by optm(m): 9:05pm On Mar 20, 2024 |
Elohorp: If you marry a wife what do you have to offer as the head of the house?? Because if you believe that she should continue been the sole caretaker of herself after getting married to you and you don't want kids after marriage May I ask what exactly you are looking for by getting married in the first place You have no need for marriage because you are not ready for the thing's that comes with marriage,you want to get married for sex and continue living your life as you were while still single with the only difference of having a stay in sex partner,all you said above is the simple example of someone that's not just ready for marriage but also selfish and you rounded it up by saying if your not successful then it's the wife fault,how exactly There's nothing more irritating then a blame passer it's simply irritating if I don't make it it's her fault it sound immature you actually misread my post . First of, getting a life partner is choosing someone to do life with. this person should ideally have a life as an independent person. If you both are doing life together, it means you guys ought to be better since there would be summation of resources, ideas and support that should ideally translate to better life for both partner. Now if a man is better off in being single than married, something is definitely wrong with the kind of spouse. it means his spouse isn't actually contributing much to his life. yeah i know in Africa, most girls are seeking men to take responsibility for their living and looking for who to live life through and not who to do life with. These kind of girls would definitely cause the men strain and slow down his pace cos she is depleting his resources. |
Family › Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by optm(m): 2:32am On Mar 20, 2024 |
Elohorp: No it's slows done not because she is a wrong partner but because expense increase,if your wife is sick won't you treat her,if your kids are sick won't you treat them School fees, feeding,health care, clothing,and on and on,you speed more,same applies to the woman,in the end you can barely see financial means to expand instead your just surviving and look around you and tell me if that's not what most people in Nigeria are going through Yes you might see 2 or 3 that managed to expand and thrive but it's so rare,early marriage when not yet stable will hold you back My advice make sure your financial back bone is strong before carrying load on it , If not it will crack, am not saying you have to be rich but at least be stable I believe the lady you are marrying is an individual and should have been catering for herself and taking care of her expenses before you married her. both of you coming together shouldn't change anything much but rather amplify you cos of combination of resources and ideas. yes it would be proper to have your finances sorted before birthing kids because they would be dependent on you and if you do not plan properly, it would put strain on your resources. But for two independent individual coming together in marriage, it shouldn't cause you much strain in my opinion except it's the wrong spouse you are having. I hope you get my point ? |
Family › Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by optm(m): 8:46pm On Mar 19, 2024 |
Elohorp: Pregnant is a game it can come even when on active protection,so why gamble
I believe if a man gets married too early,when his not yet stable it prevents him from actually ever getting his footing in life depending on the kind of partner. It is supposed to be the opposite. His acceleration in life should be faster with the right woman. If a man's life slows down after marriage, he got the wrong partner. |
Politics › Re: Wike Presents ₦1.1 Trillion FCT Budget To NASS by optm(m): 7:47pm On Mar 19, 2024 |
wifeesnatcher: Maybe God in his mercy will one day save Nigeria from these political hyenas I pray so |
Politics › Re: Wike Presents ₦1.1 Trillion FCT Budget To NASS by optm(m): 6:51pm On Mar 19, 2024 |
wifeesnatcher: I concur, if you're building physical capital projects without investing on human capital, the human capital you failed to invest on won't value the physical capital projects or might even ruined it but investing on human capital can bring a lot of volunteers to build more of physical capital projects through their various foundations or community development service
Nigeria system doesn't understand social democratic governance yeah right . We get people that have no business with governance in power. For their benefit, they need to have the current crop of Nigerians. There wouldn't be resistance to plunder of the nation's wealth and they have good control of the people. It's a win for them . what better way can they legally loot the treasury other than disguising it under infrastructural development ; which seems appealing to the untrained mind. |
Romance › Re: . by optm(m): 6:37pm On Mar 19, 2024 |
you should talk it out with him. Schedule a meet up and tell him you do appreciate his giftings but you really do not know what to make out of it and ask if he's expecting anything from you and that you'll like him to open up so you guys can talk things out as adults that you are. The excuse of your not being able to resist his gifts because they came at the right time doesn't really cut in because you would still have lived your life if those gifts didn't come. Try to improve on your finances too . yeah looks are important but then it would be the heart of the person that would matter more in the long run. Choose wisely |
Politics › Re: Wike Presents ₦1.1 Trillion FCT Budget To NASS by optm(m): 6:12pm On Mar 19, 2024 |
Simeonjoe1: State like Abuja need atleast 30trn for efficient world class infrastructure and to run optimally. 1.2trn is so meagre, it's not even enough for only educational budgets of fct you cannot develop a city more than its people ? yeah so much talk about infrastructure but how much effort is put into people development? Nigeria would never achieve so much unless its people are empowered and educated. When the people are not enlightened and empowered, build all the infrastructures you can, it would be plundered. we need mentally, emotionally and physically healthy people to build a healthy society. truth is most Nigerians are not healthy and you would hardly get the society to work. the priority of any govt that wants to work should be making investments in the people. |
Romance › Re: Igbo Women Not Treating Their House Girls Well by optm(m): 2:24am On Mar 19, 2024 |
I often wonder what the men do when their wives maltreat their helps ? you really do not have to fight her. just tell her if she would not treat the help well, then you guys would have to return the help to where you got him or her from and attend to the chores yourselves. by the time your wife engages in those chores without help, she'll learn to appreciate them better if she gets a chance to have another. your wife treating her help bad sets bad example for your kids and even brings awaiting karma for your family. Don't tell me you would do nothing about an impending disaster on your family because of the actions of your wife. If you fail to act as the leader in your home in such situations, you have simply accepted to partake in the wickedness by your inaction. Infact, God would start by judging you for failing to lead your home right |
Family › Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by optm(m): 5:30am On Mar 17, 2024 |
Marry someone that's ready to build with you and not one that sees you as a ticket to enjoy the good life they are not ready to work out in achieving with you. Those saying they cannot marry someone in that accommodation may not be able to even afford one of such for themselves. Some women would make you see reasons why getting a bigger accommodation would be better and would join you in seeking ways to get a bigger one but you see those that would tell you, they cannot live with you there and are not suggesting ways to get a bigger space, you had better left them alone . Those type are not ready to do life with you , they are only after doing life through you. |
Properties › Re: Igbos Have Suffered In Nigeria, Imagine This! (PHOTO) by optm(m): 5:12am On Mar 17, 2024*. Modified: 10:39am On Mar 17, 2024 |
Really the hate is real . But these people when they need help, wouldn't mind asking a non tribal person for help and wouldn't consider if Igbo or not. shame on you all tribal bigots The worst thing is you still have friends and colleagues that are probably Igbos and wouldn't say it in their faces that you do not like them but would put up fake smiles around them. The Nigerian tribalism is worse than racism. shame on you all |
Politics › Re: White Man Overjoyed After Securing Nigerian Citizenship by optm(m): 2:59am On Mar 15, 2024 |
This really cracked me. Funny man |
Business › Re: Which Of The Two Pricing Options Do You Think Customers Will Grab Faster? by optm(m): 2:42am On Mar 15, 2024 |
maidstone: Most of the replies above show that you guys aren't into management or business administration. When a business entity comes up with this sort of promo, often, it's not about you the customer. It's about the company's wellbeing.
Most companies, especially, supermarkets, would prefer Option B because Option B will help them to shift more goods. As in sell more goods than Option A
As regards Option A, most customers would prefer that as they most likely came in to buy 1 piece of the item on promo anyway. Most wouldn't need 2
Thus, Option B will be more impactful on the bottomline of the company in question this isn't absolute. It depends majorly on the purchasing power of your target population. |
Business › Re: Which Of The Two Pricing Options Do You Think Customers Will Grab Faster? by optm(m): 2:20am On Mar 15, 2024 |
What percentage of your target population can afford 70k as against 35k? That should give you the answer. If there are 10 persons in need of your product and just only 3 out of this 10 can afford your product at 70k, then the max client you can get is 3 and max sales 210k. But if 7 of those can only afford 35k that's 245k and of course those 3[70k empowered] persons can always afford at least a bag at 35k and they can decide to go for 2 if they so desire. Let's say those 3 persons decide to get 1 bag each, that's 105k sold. You have the chance of making at least 350k (245 + 105k) or more with 10 persons as against 210k at most with just 3 people. It's wiser to apply A |
Family › Re: Newlywedded Nigerian Lady Discovers She Married “I Better Pass My Neighbor” Gen. by optm(m): 1:45am On Mar 15, 2024 |
Emma1Oj: swear with your life say u never fu..ck twice this yr. because you dey fornicate no mean say everybody dey like you |
Christianity Etc › Re: Why Ladies Above 35 Years Should Propose To Men – Rev Father Oluoma by optm(m): 1:38am On Mar 15, 2024 |
Some of you men here spewing vile words, it would be better for ladies to be single than marry your type. Not all men are marriageable. Some ladies would have been better being single than married. It's not about being married, the koko is how well are you enjoying the marriage. Marriage is beautiful only with the right spouse |
Crime › Re: Soldiers Beat Man To Death For Flouting Curfew Order In Nasarawa by optm(m): 12:13am On Mar 12, 2024 |
Hafeexla: Your environment is not safe and then you place under curfew yet you have the audacity to flout curfew. You have a family member who is mentally retarded, yet you allow him roam about the street. and that is an excuse for the soldier's act of murder? |
Health › Re: Ask The Eye Doctor Any Problem Concerning The Eyes by optm(m): 3:21am On Mar 10, 2024 |
Hello healthlanders, it has been a privilege sharing my knowledge on eye healthcare with you all ;particularly on this thread. I would not be attending to questions here anymore as i am no longer in practice and feel you would be safer getting advice from someone in practice because they would be up-to-date in treatment approach to various eye health conditions out there. I hope someone would be gracious enough to keep the thread going on. Well, until i get back in practice sometime in the future, it's goodbye and i also thank you; the originator of this thread. God bless us all. |
Politics › Re: Tochi, Wigwe's Daughter Slammed For Not Standing To Greet VP Shettima by optm(m): 6:44pm On Mar 09, 2024 |
Oracleforce: Do you know how many people whom have lost both parents to Book haram in a day ? Do you know how many people who are orphan ...Yet , they still ensure things are done properly...theu ensure they project the.image of.their family...I know what it takes to lost both parent within.the space of time ...died.in gruesome.murder.however., this is common sense ... Some bereaved people at those sorrowful moment will even be happy that people.took.their time.to.visit.them.and share their pain.... However , In her situation , so many people came from.far and near...imcluding.the Vice President of a nation .... .to pay her dad last respect....see her sitting down as.if.VP is jobless and doesn't have any good thing to do with his precious time.
If VP could pay this VIsit to any of the children of our soldiers or civil servant who died in the active service.....imagine the uncontrollable joy that will.ravage the person face....
All these rich man's daughter are always spoilt brat....simple! you are not trauma - informed. You do not know people can have same experience and react differently and alot of factors come into play on how people respond to trauma? In the north, people do not wail when they loose loved one but i guess you'll be shocked at people's wailing when you visit other states and you get to be in the scene of someone just loosing a loved one. |
Politics › Re: Tochi, Wigwe's Daughter Slammed For Not Standing To Greet VP Shettima by optm(m): 6:36pm On Mar 09, 2024 |
KayB: Let the uncultured bootlickers be, you can't give what you don't have. Definitely she hasn't eaten since the death of her loved one. May the dead rest on do you think her standing up to greet the vp is respect? If so, she ought to stand up in greeting everybody cos everyone ought to be respecteded irrespective of age, gender or status. If your respect is reserved for a certain class of persons, you are not actually respectful but hypocritic. |
Politics › Re: Tochi, Wigwe's Daughter Slammed For Not Standing To Greet VP Shettima by optm(m): 6:30pm On Mar 09, 2024 |
Many Nigerians major on minor issues. How does her not standing up to greet the VP affect him? This person would be mute on matters as concerning the economy that affects them in great ways. Yeye...... |
Politics › Re: Presidential Aides Defend Inclusion Of Tinubu's sons on State Visit To Qatar by optm(m): 10:43am On Feb 28, 2024 |
These examples being cited, how old are the kids? Is an adult a kid? Are you still responsible for those grown ups you want us to put on same pedestal as kids? It's a shame coming out to defend this |
Health › Re: Ask The Eye Doctor Any Problem Concerning The Eyes by optm(m): 3:53pm On Feb 05, 2024 |
dejol88: Lagos Nigeria send a direct message |
Politics › Re: Maybe It's Time For Nigerians To Start Calling Out Dangote. by optm(m): 11:32pm On Feb 04, 2024 |
PressMyButton: Ignorance oozes out of this thread, so much for Illiteracy. Is Dangote responsible for production and delivery of crude oil?. As a business man, if NNPC could not deliver the sufficient supply, is he not suppossed to look for alternatives?. You people are the most ignorant but you open your mouth loosely as if you know. And you believe a big business like dangote never factored in the availability of crude from inception of plan? Dey play |