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Health / Re: Ask The Eye Doctor Any Problem Concerning The Eyes by optm(m): 9:42pm On Mar 20, 2023
eben97:
wow! thank you for the expose sir !
uwlcm
Health / Re: Ask The Eye Doctor Any Problem Concerning The Eyes by optm(m): 8:12pm On Mar 20, 2023
eben97:
HMM ..al right sir.i actually was also of d notion (though via observation and experience)that it has to do with blood hereditary.i also comprehend the gradual ageing thing. but i thought 40~50 ii quite early. but i shall work on this. i greatly appreciate this doc.
from 38 years many people would be having this difficulty. Some as early as 35 years
Health / Re: Ask The Eye Doctor Any Problem Concerning The Eyes by optm(m): 10:03pm On Mar 19, 2023
eben97:
ha ha ha doctor u said all this ?u didnt even console or comfort me ! it is well sir.i just hope i shall be able to find an eye centre here. one more question;is it a law for one to go on glasses at certain age ?is it totally hereditary?though out of my far household up to the generation i have met, (including my granny of about 100+ and still active)my dad (of now 70+)is the only person on glasses as we speak.is it also because he is an academia too ?
at some point in our life time, quite a majority of us would be needing glasses especially to see smaller things. It's quite a natural thing that occurs as we age
Health / Re: Ask The Eye Doctor Any Problem Concerning The Eyes by optm(m): 9:10pm On Mar 19, 2023
Mummytoo:
Is anti-UV eyeglass safe for both sun and shade? Or only for screen
photochromic blue cut lenses protects the eyes from the harmful effects of UV and are great for computer users
Health / Re: Ask The Eye Doctor Any Problem Concerning The Eyes by optm(m): 9:07pm On Mar 19, 2023
eben97:
GOOD MORNING DOCTOR,MAY THE LORD LIFT YOU HIGHLY.I AM IN my 40's.books are my favorite thus i do a lot with such either online or offline.i noticed my vision gets blurred over time n would have to strain to see even things around.but when i am relaxed i am okay as i can see objects close n distance well.but it looks as if a small veil or wool is been pulled over my right eyes some times. i also noticed every time EAT VEGETABLES,D SIGHT IMPROVES VERY WELLbut we hardly get vegetable here neither carrot.normally i love vegetable n carrot but ever since i got transfered to this part of the state, my vision started suffering since i stopped leaves and fruit.I never observed this eye trouble while i was at FCT (since we eat fruits n leaves almost daily & i neverknew what i was benefittin from this balanced meals untill now)can u recommend any supplements that can help take d place of this foods i am missing ?i am not enjoying this eye game at all.sometimes i would be needing high rays of light to study.
your troubles is most likely caused by ageing. You have attained the age of presbyopia and would be needing glasses and not just good food. Please go for an eye exam so that you can start enjoying this eye game grin
Health / Re: Ask The Eye Doctor Any Problem Concerning The Eyes by optm(m): 9:03pm On Mar 19, 2023
Hanibbal:


I notice that the more the ache/strain the more far objects go blurry and my vision has gone worse on the left eye. 5 years eye ache/strain has damaged my left eye. I remove the glasses at times when the ache becomes ubearable all still the same. I feel the pain to the back of my head too. At times the pain would be so unbearable with a burning sensation in the eyes that I would try to avoid phone and computer for days so that the eye can relax. I am sad. My eye muscle are now weak right?
you should go for an eye examination.
Health / Re: Ask The Eye Doctor Any Problem Concerning The Eyes by optm(m): 9:00pm On Mar 19, 2023
Antiochus:
Is Glaucoma patient a good candidate for LASIK surgery? I'm thinking of going for LASIK to correct myopia but with this glaucoma too I don't know if I am a suitable candidate for LASIK.

Cc: optm
It's isn't absolute that glaucoma patients cannot do LASIK but then it is for the surgeon to decide if it can be safe to be done in that patient or opt for other alternative that's safer for that person
Career / Re: Poll: Should You Tell Your Boss That You Are Looking For A New Job? by optm(m): 6:02pm On Mar 16, 2023
Of what use is the information to your boss? Probably to secure a replacement while you are there right? What you owe your boss is a good notice time before leaving which is 1month in most organizations. This time should be enough for them to put things together and get a replacement. Informing your boss of your searching for job isn't a wise thing to do. When you do that, he starts looking for a replacement and most times, he wouldn't put you in the know. You can only do this if your relationship with your boss more than just a boss to employee relationship
Religion / Re: Paying For Prayer: I Went Into Debt, Trying To Secure A Miracle by optm(m): 12:04pm On Mar 12, 2023
Any church money is put at the fore before impact, run away from such places as God can never be there. The gift of God is free and cannot be bought with money
Family / Re: My Girl Said She Can't Marry Me Yet While I Stay In Selfcon, Anything Wrong With by optm(m): 10:33pm On Mar 05, 2023
Marry a woman that wants a partner to do life with and not someone that's seeing you as a means to an end i.e escaping responsibility for herself as an adult or wanting to live a life she cannot afford for herself through you.
If along the line her expectations are not met, you'll start seeing a bitter woman. Rather than give you support in difficult moments and help you in finding ways out of such difficulties , she'll grow resentment towards you.

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Politics / Re: Assembly Poll: Save Me From Impeachment, Obaseki Begs Voters by optm(m): 9:55pm On Mar 05, 2023
It's not all about your ambition at the detriment of edo people this time around . You had 2 tenures to prove your love for the wellbeing of your people. Only a foolish person would put your ambition over their welfare. It's needless begging on grounds of pity

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Politics / Re: Intelligence Information On The Labour Party, Lp Candidate, Gbadebo Rhodes by optm(m): 5:14am On Mar 05, 2023
How come he was fully adopted by his mother and yet bears the name Gbadebo?

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Crime / Re: I Was Scammed 100k Yesterday by optm(m): 2:17pm On Feb 24, 2023
One lesson you should learn is to never give trust freely: It is earned. You shouldn't trust just anybody unless they have earned it

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Romance / Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by optm(m): 12:22pm On Feb 24, 2023
chccho:

I don't and will not manage marriage
it's better to remain single than manage marriage.
Op you are not alone on this. There are guys that do not want to manage their marriage and are very careful in seeking for a life partner. We can only but trust God to help us find a partner that's worth sharing a lifetime with. Keep praying and searching

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Politics / Re: Kalu: Iā€™m Not Sure Nigerians Are Ready For President Of Igbo Extraction (Video) by optm(m): 2:06pm On Feb 22, 2023
This one is hustling for his selfish interest. Anyways it's not about where Obi is from that matters but his competence and Character distinguishes him and makes him the best candidate for the job as Nigeria's president.
Family / Re: . by optm(m): 2:49pm On Feb 20, 2023
Dunionk30:
Thanks so much sir . It has been on for 5 days now sir..
It brings out Mucous discharge but Mild In the morning when i wakes up .
It is in the left eye ...I feel Itching ,Pains,headache which goes and comes back But the headache reduces a bit Since yesterday .
It also brings out Water ...

What i can say is that ,I would not know if its the very dusty Road on my Area that led to this .
Yesterday i felts some slight itching on the second eye but not much ...just very slight .

Trying to Upload the Picture do not know why it is not coming up ,I can share with u via whatsapp if U say hi to my Above number.

Thanks so much sir..
i'll really need to see a photo of it . Send me an email then
Religion / Re: Is It Proper To Give Your Tithe To The Needy? by optm(m): 3:58am On Feb 20, 2023
Doing Charity isn't same as paying tithe

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Family / Re: . by optm(m): 10:01pm On Feb 19, 2023
Dunionk30:
I'm having serious itching in my eyes and Pains .Water comes out too.
Nothing hits me ,It started with little pains at one side ...
Serious Headache ,It is Swelling .
I need someone to help me with Treatment Bills .i have used Gentamycin Eye Drop ,Someone told me to take Vitamin A,C and E , No Solution ,Someone Suggest i use Omi Ogi...Pap water ...No solution .I know all these Self Medication is Wrong but what would i do ,no money to Treats myself .I'm not Lazy ,I have work with family but Things Just Became sooo Terrible This time .
I need about 20k ,Someone have directed me to eye Medical Specialist .
Please Help ,I do not want to go Blind ... I cannot believe i'm doing this but it is my Last Option ,Better Abandon the Shame and save My sight .
I Stay arround Lafenwa Itele side via .. Ayobo .. To belief me i can show myself and U see Yourself .
If U intend helping With the money as a Loan, I can bring my TV to deposit with U ...By 10th of Next Month i Pay Back then get the TV back .
I took The TV for sale to Mallams they Priced it for 7k ,Not even Enough for treatments if it is enough i do not care ,What is TV ,All i wanted is just to get my Eyes Treated before it gets Worsen than this .
I am Honest and i do not want to Loose My Sight .
I have tried Loans Apps ,Fair Money ,Etc They are all willing to give 5k each ....
Can't even go through those Stress.
There are Lots of Liars i know but i'm ready to make myself Available for any Good Samaritan to see my eyes .




For how long has this been? Are the symptoms experienced in one or both eyes? Does it bring out mucous discharge? I am thinking you might be having an eye allergy. Can you share a clear pic of the eyes?
Family / Re: . by optm(m): 9:58pm On Feb 19, 2023
starbuck:
Optm

Your services is needed here sir šŸ™
thanks for the mention

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Health / Re: Ask The Eye Doctor Any Problem Concerning The Eyes by optm(m): 3:43pm On Feb 19, 2023
vinexe:
Ok just wanted to know if it can still be operated and she will regain her sight
it's depending on the cause of vision diminution
Family / Re: What Should I Do Please? Failed Marriage by optm(m): 1:37pm On Feb 19, 2023
Sheandi:
I met her in church. She seem decent, godly and respectful. She seem like one who wants to serve God (Which attracted me) but, hindered by survival[b].[/b] So, I tried to help and guide her to better life like a youth pastor would do but, she fell in love. Love beclouded her that she didn't even consider the solutions I was bringing for her and after much hell from her people, we got married[b].Marriage was a huge mess as she was never available whether emotionally, spirituly or even physically. She was so lost in her job that nothing else mattered in the whole of life. Even though I don't earn much, I could meet our needs alone. She seem agreeable and contented while we courted but, immediately we got married, she became someone else. she now wants the world, especially things we do not need. Although, I saw certain red flags while we courted like terrible lies, disrespect for elders, spendthrift, undue quietness, too busy and so on. But as marriage came in, she became a big mess with lots of concentrated and baseless lies, uncultured or unethical hardworking and hard life, infidelity, stealing from work, disregard for the things of God, disregard for time, no time for self, husband or even children. It was so bad I had to be carrying 2 months old baby about as she dumped her on me the moment her maternity leave was over. I forgot to mention that she works a shift job and she does night like 3 or 4 times a week. She works on Sundays to, so she hardly comes to church. It was so bad I have to carry baby to her at work for breastfeeding. I did everything possible to get her another job or business but she frustrated it. She later became very toxic and harmful and she has the backing of her people who I believe wants to ruin her and she does not know or maybe she does not care.
In the midst of all these trouble, I was still loving her like the only woman in the world, while she treats me like shit, locks me outside, wont cook or clean the house, became very disrespectful and insubordinate.
If you think I didn't try please let me know. I tried to calm her and seek an amicable way to resolve things but she kept pushing me away till I no longer feel safe with her. It became scary eating her food or sleeping in this same room as I learnt an adulterous woman will either kill her husband or herself. And since she's enjoying her infidelity, she might kill me, so i excused myself for some days hoping when i return she would feel some remorse and we would resolve things but I was wrong. She wanted me out of the house and her life the night I returned. In the process of the short fracas, she started rough handling me and I hard to spank her to calm the situation but to my surprise, she ran inside the room, I thought she was going to throw my things out or pick something to injure me but she came out with an obvious wound on her forehead, claiming I tried stab her and before you know it, I was in the police cell headed for prison. Luckily for me, God reveals all that she did or was planning. So, I got revelations from men of God of how she wants to send me to prison with the help of her people.
My concern now is, how do I help the children out of her grip and how do I help someone who is in love with her demons delivered. I don't encourage divorce. As a matter of fact I'm a happy-marriage crusader. And haven been separate for 3 years now, I can't see any remorse or repentance in her.
Children are still young, 6 years old boy, 4 years old boy and 3 years old girl. None of her family as showed any concern and she has so much despised my own family and the church. I recently found out she has strong narcissistic traits. My possible flaws or error as no man is perfect; my income is small but can cater for us; I may be too God minded for her liking; I so much want us to progress together and she wants to walk alone; I send not sufficient upkeep for children based on my current financial status; I want to raise a godly family but she wants us to be an anyhow family; while trying to love her more, she's continually wicked to me. During festive period one year, I wanted to surprise her with a car and was putting the car in order while my wife was busy preparing to send me to prison. I'm a dropout, she has a masters; I'm a moralist but, she wants to be with dreads, sagging and maybe smokers. But if you meet her, she be like Jesus' younger sister.
What do you advice I do friends ?
I'm sorry it's long experience of about 7 years. Too much to write
can you please explain the bolded how her loving you and not vise versa led to your marrying her? I think you are being economical with the truth and trying to portray this in the light of you being without a fault
Health / Re: Ask The Eye Doctor Any Problem Concerning The Eyes by optm(m): 11:08am On Feb 19, 2023
vinexe:
Cataract.
there are quite a number of complications that can arise after cataract surgery and could impact on vision. Just as you had intended to take her over to be examined, please do. The doctor after examination would tell you how best to go about it
Celebrities / Re: Nollywood Actress, Maureen Okpoko Goes Blind. by optm(m): 8:29pm On Feb 14, 2023
My number one bet is on glaucoma the silent thief of sight. Many persons are unaware they are at the brink of blindness; even some persons that may have commented on the post. Please go have your eyes checked especially if there's any family member or relative that suffered blindness. Early detection of these potentially blinding diseases is key. It's painful seeing young people go blind and there's no medical help that can be offered at that point and you wish they had presented earlier. Please even if you feel your eyes are healthy, go for an eye check and do no assume things. Also make it a thing of practice to compare vision between the two eye to know if vision in one eye is significantly different from the other eye

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Health / Re: Ask The Eye Doctor Any Problem Concerning The Eyes by optm(m): 9:20pm On Feb 06, 2023
vinexe:
Hello doctor please my sister has done operation before but still yet.. she can't see clearly although she did it at the village... I was suggesting for her to come to Lagos or we look for any specialist... But My question is can she go for another operation.. and get it.. done
what was the surgery done?
Crime / Re: Murder Or Suicide? Test Your Detective Skills. by optm(m): 8:44am On Feb 04, 2023
Tallesty1:

Smart



But


The position of the coke can, ash tray and even pen shows that the victim was left-handed?
what if she was ambidextrous? Seeing that the other hand is holding the cigarette, she decides to use the right hand to shoot while having her smoke
Politics / Re: A Governor Collected N500m New Notes From One Bank ā€“ El-rufai by optm(m): 8:07am On Feb 04, 2023
JackDaAlienz:
Some Nigerians are just Stupid
You think new notes will stop vote buying
I laugh in Japanese and Swahili
Una never see anything,
Boko Haram will get the new notes before you and your family standing under hot sun in bank ATM.

When I warned people that this policy will not work, They insulted me. Now it has backfired on the masses they are crying and doing protest grin grin

Una go cry well we'll, stupid Nigerians
Na who dey suffer now??
Even Tinubu they said it will affect don already order 4 bullion vans carrying 1 billion new notes each to his mansion.
You and your poor family dey under hot sun dey wait grin and after waiting under hot sun, na still old notes bank go give una grin grin grin

The rich and corrupt politicians you want to affect with your policy
Already has the new notes in bulk and millions in their mansion
And you that support the policy haven't even seen the new naira notes.
There are better creative ways to tackle vote buying and corruption but to change naira to fight corruption is the dumbest idea I've ever heard.
blame the weak institutions. By now, many bank managers and politicians should be answering questions in the EFCC offices
Health / Re: Ask The Eye Doctor Any Problem Concerning The Eyes by optm(m): 7:46pm On Feb 03, 2023
Antiochus:


Alright sir. I'll visit the hospital next week.
uwlcm. Please do
Health / Re: Ask The Eye Doctor Any Problem Concerning The Eyes by optm(m): 12:03pm On Feb 03, 2023
Antiochus:
I haven't visited hopital since my last appointment in December 2021 it's over a year now. I didn't do CVF test throughout last year too the last one I did was in 2021 but I try not to skip my "Duosopt" eyedrop.
So many reason though not that I willingly decided not to go for appointment to check my eye pressure and the rest. I hope I am not setting myself up for a disaster.

Cc: optm
you have to be evaluated for progression of the disease. It's not just about using just your eye drop
Politics / Re: Seun Was Roasted On Twitter For Posting This (photos) by optm(m): 11:24pm On Feb 02, 2023
baby124:

Yea. But advisers also convince the president that their ideas are favorable. They come up with policies and present them. All the President will do is approve. Let the political and economic advisers come and tell us their plan based on the challenges the country is currently facing. Those Presidential aspirants have no clue on these issues in an in-depth way. Cause, solution and economic impact/effect.

A politician will lie and twist words. But you can tell the capability of the economic team by the substance and intelligence of the technocrats who will be in charge of critical affairs. Technocrats have a hard time telling lies especially when their thoughts can be broken down and assessed on the spot.
the way some of you reason ehn, chai , very disappointing
Food / Re: Will You Buy A Small Bottle Of Water 2k? by optm(m): 5:24pm On Jan 29, 2023
faithfull18:
Maybe it's Holy water. You paid for perception, packaging, class etc.
which in itself isn't value to the individual
Family / Re: Wife Caught Husband With Sidechick In Towel Trying To Escape Through The Balcony by optm(m): 4:55pm On Jan 29, 2023
Is cheating worth the shame, drama and complications it brings? In all honesty, it doesn't. Next time you want to cheat, as yourself if it's worth it
Politics / Re: Emefiele: Governors Appoint Soludo As Chairman Of Committee To Engage CBN by optm(m): 2:14pm On Jan 22, 2023
It's interesting to see how governors and other political office holders are overly concerned about the CBN cash limit policy. Thieving people. Let the policy stay. How much does the average nigerian need in cash? Other transactions can be done electronically. the political class is more affected by the policy because most are thieves and their loots would be affected

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