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PoliticsRe: Throwback Video Of Fubara Singing “On Your Mandate” With Passion by optm(m): 11:14pm On May 22
Good for him. You should stand on the people's mandate if you wanted a re-election and not on tinubu's mandate.
PoliticsRe: Mehdi Hasan Debates Daniel Bwala On Terrorism by optm(m): 4:47pm On Mar 06
Eating his words without shame, blatant lies and denials of obvious facts; These are the kind of people piloting the affairs of Nigeria. What a shame!
PoliticsRe: FCT Elections: INEC Reacts To Mutilated Form EC8A Result Sheet by optm(m): 9:01pm On Feb 24
So there are still people that would vote for apc? Chai!! Smh
FoodRe: When I Say Things Are Cheap In Nigeria, Lots Of People Will Argue With Me by optm(m): 6:31pm On Feb 17
The question should be, what percentage of nigerians can afford it?
PoliticsRe: Wike Is Being Engaged To End Rivers Crisis – APC National Secretary by optm(m): 6:23am On Jan 30
It's really a shame that a person not elected in power can hold a state to ransome and contend power with someone that was elected into office. Nigerian politics is just somehow
FamilyRe: I Am In A Dilemma, And I Don't Know How To Handle It. by optm(m): 3:10am On Jan 30
If he insists on getting and keeping the benz with with you after use, you should probably discuss with him if he would be ok with the option of selling the benz to get a corolla.
FamilyRe: Two Weeks To Her Wedding, Not A Single Friend Bought Her Aso Ebi! by optm(m): 12:07am On Dec 22, 2025
Wouldn't be surprised if she fixed an outrageous price in order to make much profit.
RomanceRe: Help Me Choose Christmas Gift For My Husband by optm(m): 9:09pm On Dec 19, 2025
Give him a gift that makes his life or any tasks he does often easier. For a person that you just described, it is the thoughtfullness and/or usefullness that matters more than the price of whatever you are getting.
FamilyRe: Can You Fart In The Presence Of Your Partner? by optm(m): 12:18am On Dec 02, 2025
It is disrespectful and unpleasant to delibtately fart when any person is around you, irrespective of the relationship you share with such person.
I wonder how making a place foul smelling and uncomfortable for someone shows love!
PoliticsRe: Is This The Only Way To Stop Tinubu In 2027? by optm(m): 1:21pm On Nov 30, 2025
Between Atiku and Obi, who do you think has the capacity for transformative leadership? Why should obi be a VP? VP is just a redundant position. A VP doesn't have direct impact in governance, the president calls the shot. The impact of the VP can only be felt when the president is out of the scene. If obi is running because he wants to provide transformative leadership, then he should never run as VP. It is left for Nigerians to decide if they want true change or would want to continue in making horrible choices and then cry in helplessness when the consequences come knocking.
PoliticsRe: Why FG Hasn’t Prosecuted Terrorism Financiers – Minister by optm(m): 6:10pm On Nov 22, 2025
Is it that there was no investigation before the list was made? Why was there a list if there wasn't an investigation?
RomanceRe: I Can't Respect A Man That's Not Earning More Than Me by optm(m): 11:14pm On Nov 18, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Did you also know that it is poor men who complain about women from poor backgrounds being able to marry into rich homes? Yeah! 🥱🥱🥱

A woman can only marry a man who wants to marry her, so if a rich man wants to marry a woman from a poor background— something that happens more often than not— why try to shame the woman for this? undecided
This isn't what the discussion is about.
I had to delete my post because when I read it, I realized I came too strong in addressing it.
I really do not take those kind of people serious.
RomanceRe: I Can't Respect A Man That's Not Earning More Than Me by optm(m): 11:05pm On Nov 18, 2025
CelebritiesRe: Video Of Sammy, Regina Daniels Brother, In Police Custody by optm(m): 2:25am On Nov 07, 2025
Majority of Nigerians have no problem with injustice or a dysfunctional society. The only time they cry wolf is when they are the victim. Seeing the comments here, I just smh.
PoliticsRe: Tinubu Government's Water Project In Ogoni Land Collapses Four Days After (video by optm(m): 4:36pm On Nov 06, 2025
yewit37486:
Do you know how many projects are going on concurrently across the country? Will Tinubu come down to supervise each and every one of them? Let's be realistic. The right thing is for the government to put in controls to ensure people do the right thing and make scapegoats of those that circumvent them, because you and I know Nigerians will DEFINITELY try to circumvent those controls and continue with corruption. It is easy to blanket blame the govt but look at the average Nigeria and the way every one keeps cutting corners even in their daily dealings, then you will realise Tinubu is not the biggest problem of this country.
there's no excuse we can make for him that's reasonable enough for failures in projects. Other govt's doing great projects are they everywhere? He has all the resources to execute and delegate but yet failing
PoliticsRe: Tinubu Government's Water Project In Ogoni Land Collapses Four Days After (video by optm(m): 11:28pm On Nov 05, 2025
yewit37486:
But it is not Tinubu that is physically constructing the project. Corruption runs in the average Nigerian from top to bottom, all the people involved in this construction are to blame. Easy to blame the president, but Nigerians need to take a hard look at themselves first. Market women cheat customers, employees cheat their workers, government workers cheat, yet all these people will sit down and be pointing fingers at "the leaders".
The question I want to ask is, If it were his personal project, would there be this excuse of corruption for a poor job done? Nigerian politicians take on projects for the sole purpose of embezzlement and camera. I blame Nigerians still giving support and making excuses for people robbing them of the privilege of a good life.
CelebritiesRe: Burna Boy Speaks On Conversion To Islam, Admits Spiritual Confusion by optm(m): 6:23pm On Nov 04, 2025
Was he ever a Christian?
PoliticsRe: Tension In PDP As Wike Faction Takes Over Secretariat by optm(m): 5:51pm On Nov 03, 2025
This is what you get when you make certain people bigger than institutional order for whatever reason.
PoliticsRe: Drama As Shaibu, Omobayo Clash At Former Deputy Governors' Forum by optm(m): 4:57pm On Oct 29, 2025
Seems these guys do not have a life outside of politics. What's the intended goal of such a forum? If only Nigerians would come together with 1 voice and take actions to retire every career politician.
CrimeRe: Drama As Police Officer Fires Gun During Clash With Road Safety Officials by optm(m): 11:01pm On Oct 22, 2025
If the frsc allows this to be swept under the carpets rather than use him as a scape goat to ensure such doesn't repeat itself, it would be a shame on their leadership.
How do you bring out a gun in an altercation that doesn't involve arm?
See how indisciplined the NPF is; for a personnel to have a service rifle in his private or is he a special duty? The lawlessness in Nigeria and her institutions is nauseating. May God have mercy on innocent Nigerians.
FamilyRe: "Married A Nigerian Man Who Refuses To Work – Please, I Need Honest Opinions Fro by optm(m): 7:48pm On Oct 21, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Na wa o! Imagine asking whether the man's apparent self of entitlement and obvious laziness has something to do with him being African or more than that. Nonsense! 🥱🥱🥱
I tire for her grin🤣
FamilyRe: "Married A Nigerian Man Who Refuses To Work – Please, I Need Honest Opinions Fro by optm(m): 12:56pm On Oct 21, 2025
You married an entitled man. If you have asked him what he intends doing with his life and he's not coming forth, stop giving him free money. Let him work to sort his bills at least.
FamilyRe: Grooming My Son To A Man by optm(m): 3:48pm On Aug 21, 2025
Teach him to be confident but not arrogant
RomanceRe: All Men Cheat. How True Is That Statement? by optm(m): 2:19pm On Aug 21, 2025
cr7lomo:
Make money first b4 knowing if its doable or not ... stop allowing urself to be conditioned by society , just to favor women... its never in man's nature to be with one woman ... we are not built that way, society is just trying to ponder to women to make them feel good , thereby forcing men to become what they naturally aren't...
It doesn't change anything whether or not money is it the equation. It all narrows down to greed and lust.
RomanceRe: All Men Cheat. How True Is That Statement? by optm(m): 10:53pm On Aug 20, 2025
cr7lomo:
Any man that has money will most likely cheT.. especially if thee opportunity presents itself....its natural thing...modernity is just forcing against nature .... a man is not meant to be with one woman.. naturally... its nature
This isn't true. It is indiscipline and uncontrolled lust that's speaking in your statement.
What can you get from 20 women sexually that 1 woman cannot give you? Those in prisons doesn't even have women and yet they are alive but you con say 1 no reach you. Na lust and greed dey worry people wey 1 woman no reach o grin.
PoliticsRe: My Landlord Did This After I Renew My House Rent by optm(m): 3:07am On Aug 04, 2025
Do not start what you cannot finish. If you pay now, you are encouraging him to place other demands on you.
TravelRe: My Friend Relocated Abroad And Ghosted Me Afterwards - Man Laments (Photo) by optm(m): 3:40pm On Aug 03, 2025
This is multifaceted.
It isn't easy maintaining relationships back home upon moving to a new country. You need to build new helpful relationships in your new country and this place demands on your time, you are also trying to figure out your life in your new country, this brings mental stress and sometimes, you are not even in the mood for chit chats with friends back home which are not too helpful for your new phase of life, asides this, many other people are trying to reach out to you for talks upon hearing you have travelled out, seeking for gists and sometimes this can be overwhelming for someone trying to settle in their new place. Also the time zone difference doesn't make things any easier.
For those in nigeria, nothing changes for them so it is easy for them to still maintain relationships with those that have moved. Not to even mention that a majority of nigerians are secretely in competition with the next person and gets easily envious when you are having what they are not having even though they might try to fake being happy for you.
Allow your friend be, when he is settled, he might want to connect back with you.
FamilyRe: Is My Wife Right To Ask This? by optm(m): 1:59am On Aug 01, 2025
It would be very stupid of you to do something wrong because your wife wants you to.
Give her the option of either withdrawing both of them and enrolling them in government school so they could help her out if she really wants help, or they remain in the school that they are currentlyenrolled in. Let your wife know that your intention is to help the girl in the capacity God has given you and not to make her your house help.
You had better led your home aright. Don't bring judgement upon your family and children because of your failure in leadership.
You are doing well today doesn't mean things cannot go aweful for you tomorrow. While God has blessed you enough to help that child, do what is right.
PoliticsRe: Nigerians Roast Edo Governor For Banning Obi From Visiting Edo State by optm(m): 6:26pm On Jul 19, 2025
Factcheck0001:
who is the chief security officer of the state?
by this, do you mean everyone organizing an event in the state informs the governor; as he is the Chief security officer so he puts modalities in place for their security?
PoliticsRe: Nigerians Roast Edo Governor For Banning Obi From Visiting Edo State by optm(m): 4:07am On Jul 19, 2025
Factcheck0001:
the governor has d right to say that cos obi is coming in for political reason

Obi will gather crowd n will bring paparazzi so y won't d governor b aware of it?


It's like u people really don't believe in protocols from that side, u just do things anyhow u like without consultation.

That's how one guy in Ghana went to build Kingdom without even consulting the locals



It's like consultation n protocol is an abomination to u people

The reality is that everywhere can't b your village where u do as u like
Is it the governor he is to inform or the security agencies?
RomanceRe: My Fiancee Tells Her Sister Everything.... by optm(m): 8:14pm On Jul 10, 2025
If her sister is having a peaceful home, you really have nothing to worry for.
RomanceRe: My Fiancé Has Stopped Requesting For Sex All Of A Sudden! by optm(m): 12:56am On Jul 07, 2025
Sex doesn't keep a man. If you like, give a man sex for fear of loosing him; when he's done with you, he would ditch you still.

Be chaste, una no go hear word thinking say una wise pass God

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