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AntiIPOB:
You guys want proof,I will show you proof individually.

I seriously do not blame you. After all Naija political class rogues that are thieves are still contesting elections and calling law enforcement "enemies of progress. So do pastors and fake imams. You are a thief, a scammer and a liar, instead of you to learn a lesson and maybe stop scamming people you are still lying and defending lies.

zurielsam:
he said he didnt deny been married though he never talked abt the wheelbarrow stuff but thats just my personal view. His only mistake is coming to the same forum he has fumbled abt sending someones parent money to beg. maybe because i am the egoistic type o but i will never swallow my pride to do that. Never

Zurielsam: Most times you dont want to insult people but the stupidity and foolishness on display is mindblowing that you just cannot help it. Zuri, to say the least, you indeed are a fool by the actual definition of a fool, i.e he that knows not and knows not that he knows not for even making excuses for this fraudster. His effrontery and insults with Benita27 are all clear indication of a fraudster ratted out and angry. I am pained because you have legitimate folks out there that will be denied assistance cos of fraudsters like this "antipob". This is why our country is messed up. Ibori is a thief he is guilty of money laundering but folks are hailing him and saying enemies of progress. Apostle Sulaiman is a rogue he is called MOG, $$ was found in rogue Oritsejafor's plane he said it was loaned by FG, IBB messed up naija and blamed it on others and he is sitting quietly in Minna. Ikoyi gate is pending, we don't know who owns the money. This antipob is trying to scam people and you are making excuses for him? After Benita27 took the time out (most Nigerians are lazy and would not take their time to dig-in) to rat his ass out.

lereinter:
why did u say cos of small phone

do u know the gal was lucky to be alive

have u ever been in such situation before

i guess yu part of the fraudster too

if so the curse she made is on u too

Habaaa chairman, he already mentioned that he is not supporting the thief. Why the curse naa. I personally feel sorry for the thief. He is the scum of the earth. His life is so useless, that he had to pull a stunt like this to survive. Can you imagine what he will be doing now? planning another one and people like that are useless completely. Its always easy come easy go. he might even sell that phone for 10k and before you know it its all gone and he is back to square one. Why wish him death? I wish he was caught and sent to jail maybe he will learn, that is all the other guy is saying and not wishing him death.

darfay:
Don't you think you should mind your own business if you are indeed a Muslim? Do you c Christians talk about what happens during jumat services

Mumu spotted. Keep minding your business naaa while the country is upside down. If a christian sees something wrong in jumat service pls say it out loud let it get addressed and corrected. If you hear someone planning an attack in jumat service will you keep quiet in the name of minding your business? Suleiman is preaching hate and bigotry and you guys kept quiet, when the wahala starts now you will be running helter skelter. If you see any wrong say it out. Lets make our world safer, go read my post again and stop your bigotry.

bughead:
don't be deceive by what you see!

can you differentiate a prostitute from a decent girl at day time?


I have seen alot of runz girls who wear a ring on that particular finger just do blind into the society.


common sense is not so common anymore!

If you had paid attention in english class maybe you would've have been able to speak and write better. Insulting and judging others...... This is the "d" missing from your "deceive-bug brain.

HPS3:
The child is ugly

Bros, you no get home training. The child is Gods creation.

linearity:
Agreed, the guy is a criminal and the sad truth is, we will have to live along side guys like these the rest of our lives and no matter where we live, locally or abroad.

But, the most important thing is to not become one of their prey or learn from past prey-experience against future interactions and that is what I was trying to address.

I was not really blaming the lady, am an entrepreneur and have fall victim to scam/fraud before and learnt valuable lessons that helped in mitigating future re-occurrences.

Yes but you still give people benefit of the doubt until they prove otherwise. In lagos, you ask somebody time, they will grab their private and run away or look at you somehow. Ive had an auntie beaten up and called kidnapper just because she asked for directions from maybe a 15 year old girl that was now leading her to the location. Our society is becoming something else. I, personally can legitimately not have cash on me or run out of minutes on the phone and will might be needing assistance for now, now, now until i reload.

P0intBlank:
The earlier illustration I gave of fake and original tells you I'm fully aware they are fake pastors. It's not in my place to judge who's fake or not. So I spoke of the one I know. You might not like him but it doesn't make him fake.

I have met several people who have been under his ministration for 10 years or more and they almost always say the same thing.

They say something along these lines: "I was a young man/woman not sure of what the future had in store for me, visionless and doubtful. I was just trying survive but I came in contact with the ministry of the Man of God and he fed me the Word, believed in me and told me I could be anything I wanted to be. It changed my mindset and ultimately changed my life"

Very obvious examples are Frank Edward, Joe Praise, Sinach, Buchi, Eben, Samsong, Ada, Martin PK (I know you're muslim you might not know them but these are household names in the Gospel Music industy who have been blessings to many lives). Success is not by accident. Bad trees don't produce good fruits.

The first two were hawking - Frank Edwards in Enugu, Joe Praise in Benin. If a man (or in these case men) tells you someone was integral to their success story why do you want to doubt it? I certainly won't doubt it because he has also impacted my life. If you remember the private jet story, it was said these guys and others in Music and Art ministry of the church bought him the jet to mark 30 years of impact.



About healing issue:

Let me say I came contact with the teaching of this MOG sixteen years ago. These teachings have told me my rights in Christ. An offshoot of these teachings is that in those sixteen years I have never been to a hospital (except for medicals). When sickness came I rebuked it in the name of Jesus and it went. I went 9 straight years without taking as much as panadol. When I finally took it was just de-worming medicine (I took for a funny reason. I'm slim and I'd been wanting to add weight so I heard someone advertising deworming medicine in the bus so I thought to myself could this be the reason).

Now, no faith healer claims to have 100% record cause healing doesn't entirely depend on the faith healer. The faith of the seeker is often required. Sometimes God in his sovereignty and mercy would overlook whatever shortcomings and heal all the same. Note this: Ten people seeking healing, three return unhealed does not automatically negate the fact that the other seven were healed.

Furthermore there's the issue of God's timing. Sometimes the person's time for a miracle has not yet come. They have instances of people who came multiple times and were not healed. They did not despair. They kept coming till they got their miracle.

Finally, I know a friend who used to criticise Pastor Chris and other MOGs but got a healing while watching atmosphere of miracles with Pastor Chris on TV. At that time he used to smoke weed. He went out with some friends and he smoked a different type of weed. From that day henceforth he had intermittent severe migraine . When the migraines came it would be so unbearable that it drove him crazy. One day he stumbled on the aforesaid program in desparate need of a miracle he didn't mind (what did he stand to lose?). Stretched his hands towards the TV during prayer time and God touched him. After this miracle he started attending Christ Embassy.

I don't even no why I have taken the pain to write these because nothing I write may ever convince you if you're not open-minded. Well, It's entirely up to you to believe or not to

Excellent write up. I am indeed impressed. There is this Loius Farakhan movement all over the USA called nation of Islam. Michael Jackson was almost converting to becoming (a lot of people will tell you muslim) but its actually nation of islam, before he died. African Americans were brought into America from west africa as slaves. You ofcourse know the history of american independence and civil right crusade etc. Now in the black community, there is still a lot of backwardness and hopelessness due to mainly drug use, crime rate and dependence on the system for food stamps, vouchers etc. Loius Farakhans nation of islam movement did a lot of social services in african american communities and he rid the communities of drugs, laziness, hopelessness etc. It has yielded excellent positive results and a lot of people hundreds, maybe millions are doing excellently well. There message and beliefs are totally different, they have a story of a Black God or black messiah etc and it is meant to give the black man honour and belonging and that its not true that all prophets were all white caucasians and that Jesus was white, Moses, Abraham etc... nope they dont believe that. Now, this is a huge American movement and they are very successful. Infact read about them.
About the healing, its all based on our beliefs, for me as a muslim, i know clearly that the prayer of a mother to its own child or you yourself fasting and praying to God is more efficient and will be answered by God more than any pastor, imam or any MOG. In my faith God said the best amongst you is he who has more God Consciousness and only God knows that.

PointBlank you know what is funny, in Christianity, there is MOG and christians believe he is MOG and they believe in his prayers, healings, preachings etc and he is very important and making $$, so much so that now Muslims are coping the Christians. Now you have lots of malams all over the place that are now Prayer warriors and people go to them for healing and prayers. I respect your write up and your belief but at the same time, I will share two messages of islam with you. 1. Pointblank, the prophet taught us that Paradise (heaven) lies at the feet of your mother, God also said be conscious of God and YOUR PARENTS, as well as saying DO NOT BREAK the ties of Kinship, this means focus on your mother, your parents and show mercy first to your family and then to your neighbors, friends and entire mankind, this is universal message of peace and universal brotherhood, not pastor, imam or all about healing, riches, money etc. 2. God said, (in the Quran) when my servants ask, concerning me, God, I am closer to them than their jugular, so my broda i beg you, yes, get preachings and guidance from those that know the book more than you, but understand that you yourself has direct access to your creator, nobody, no pastor, no one, you yourself and your creator and you can ask him your God DIRECTLY and God willing he will answer your prayers. Thank you and may God almighty guide us all, ameen.

VocalWalls:
****.
You think 10k is money? How long will it take for him to live an average life, get married and fulfill his dreams if he can only get a 10k savings on a full time monthly hustle?
Pray make bad thing no do you. Some people are comfortable in penury, it's not a crime if others aren't.

Nonsene talk. You can grow from 10K per Month savings. Its mentality like yours and the get rich quick syndrome that drove him into slavery and his life is changed forever. Value what you have and grow from it. Go and ask Dangote how long it took him or Bill gates etc.

Na waoh, sotay bobrisky is in the news, and bobrisky sacking gateman is being discussed.... How did we get to this level Naija is on a downward spiral

madgoat:
I love the guy
Very sharp guy
Ate free pepper soup with chilled drink and went away with a Samsung fone; ingenuity if u ask me. Nice stunt

Ol boy with this your comment you really sabi yoursef well well, mad-goat.... ewu namaaa. Goodnews, i see you walking towards kirikiri.....when you reach, tell Evans say i dey hail oh.

linearity:
Sorry, at least you have learnt valuable lessons & experience from the incident that will better prepare you for the future.

Lessons & Experience do have a cost that must be paid; they are not free and sometimes, they are very expensive.

Red Flags that you ignore.
1. Don’t allow Strangers to change your predefined meeting location on a fly. This has serious security implications, not only scammers use this MO, those who want to do you harm also use it.

2. Don’t allow strangers to influence or change your decisions. This is another of their MO, they want to throw you off your game and to see if they change your mind and gain your trust.

3. He wants to buy a real estate, which I guess run into some millions of Naira; but can’t afford to maintain enough minutes on his phone or means of topping up his minutes remotely.

4. His friend, who also want to make another million naira deal with you, can’t afford to pay his bike man.

Most likely, you were eager to make a sale and was blindsided...that is a weakness you must work on. Don’t loose the sense of all checks and balance, because you want to net the next breakthrough.

The guy is just a criminal. The only thing i blame her for was allowing the guy to walk around while making the call and letting the guy out of her sight. It should Someone from abroad might use other peoples phone and even ask that you pay because they dont have enough minutes or naira. Then they ofcourse pay back later. I don even borrow money from okada, use him phone etc and i pay am wella so tay him confuse sef. Criminals are just the scum of the earth. He will sell the phone and spend the money, then what next? Also, right now he is unsettled looking here and there wondering if the police is after him.... who dey suffer now? She will ofcourse replace the phone God willing, but he is the one at a loss, in this world and in the hereafter.

P0intBlank:
The only difference?

Do you know assumption is the lowest form of knowledge

It's just like someone telling about his wonderful dad you have never met but you assume you know his dad more than him

There's absolutely nothing wrong with my statement. I would say it again and again: my life is better because our (Pastor Chris & I) paths crossed

Someone could say the same of you if you would take out the time to invest in lives of others

Like I told you before do not allow sentiments beguile your sense of judgement

I rest my case

Pointblank, i salute your belief and Hope as well as your respectable approach to issues. Yes, i agree with you i dont know Oyakhilome personally but i know of his antecedents, i listened to him on TV and saw lots of fake miracles, i also have friends that attend his seminars etc in Houston TX, where you ofcourse do not have healing. Mind you he is being discussed here its not about him personally, its about most of them and their lies. I am muslim, Pastor Bakare and Rev. Fr Mbaka's preachings are more appealing and more sincere to me. FYI, i attended a friend's fathers burial the other day in Church and i was called upon to give a 3mins talk. I told everyone there that i travelled 10 hrs to attend and that, the man in his faith as a Christian is an excellent example for me in the way he conducted his family life, with honesty, sincerity, deep spirituality, HONEST, and i equally said i cannot say the same about so many muslims that i know. My broda, that is the truth. How many Nigerian spiritual leader pastors/imams are genuinely interested in ensuring that guy on the street they dont know is protected, helped, assisted for the sake of God and our common humanity? Seriously, if you travel my broda, you will know these people are rogues for the most part even with your testimony, you are not living to your full potential. Maybe you supposed to be an entrepreneur creating jobs or a Michael Jordan... but all these corrption held you back and you are giving testimony for the little you have.

jayloms:
It is not working for you!! Just you!

It is not working for me.... just me, hahaha i laugh in swahili... Siddon there, you are a bribe taker or receiver, you cannot get justice in court of law, you are harassed with generator sound all over the place, you cannot conveniently go anywhere after 9p.m for fear of kidnappers and armed robbers, you abuse houseboy/girl or house helps if you can afford one and pay them peanuts, you travel on bad roads, police, soldiers etc harrass you, you are praying for visa to leave or for your family members to join you abroad, your daughter, sister, niece etc is exposed to sexual exploitation to get jobs, univ admission, pastor/imam harassment etc, you are religious, and it is all working for you...... continue, i guess you have no idea the difference between living and existing.....

P0intBlank:
@bolded I find funny when people do same thing they accuse others of.

You just called certain people rogues without evidence what does that make you?

These people have added value to lives of many

I can certainly speak of Oyakhilome. My life is better because our paths crossed. So many people can say the same

You never find a fake N30 note because there's no real N30 note. You only find fake because the original exists

Don't allow sentiments beguile your sense of judgement

See here, if you encounter IBB, or if you know him personally, he is better than all these pastors, because he is an excellent and cheerful giver. He is a huge philantropist to all those that know him or are able to reach him. I know this personally, but guess what, IBB is a corrupt man that messed up Nigeria. The same thing can be said about so many Nigerian political class rogues they all are good if you know them personally. This is the issue with some christians they ascribe power, to their religious leaders... imagine what you wrote, you did not even say God almighty...... the same thing with bokoharam, they believe in their leader and follow him. The only difference is Oyakhilome is not asking you to go kill others like bokoharam leader but its the same human being follow-follow mentality.

donnie:
You say stop judging and in the same breath, you call them rogues?

The stop judging here means your neighbour.... not those that from their ways and manners you know they are rogues thriving on your judging your neigbour or others as enemy.....

jayloms:
First of all, I am not your Chairman.

Secondly, I don't do the judgment, cause I am not the one sitting on the judgment throne - God is.

Thirdly, I hold no judgment over you or any one criticizing them cause it is not my responsibility to do so, I can only wish that it works out well for you guys. Cheers!

I see your point. If not dady-freeze for the most part we dont question. Touch not my anointed.....that was why we were killing twins and worshipping everything until the whiteman came. In the bible God said prove all things hold onto that which is true. Nobody is asking you to judge or point fingers.... ask questions, if you are doing things understand it. Stop the stupidity, In Chinua Achebe's Things Fall Apart, Okonkwo killed innocent Ikemefuna because the gods, instructed him to, his friend Obierika who is uses judgement and asks questions, said, "that boy calls you father if i were you i will not have a hand in his death, Okonkwo replied, who am I to disobey the gods and Obierika said if the gods wanted him dead, the gods will have to do it themselves i will not have a hand in it..... Remember that that was the religion and practice then. so continue in your docile mumuism... me i know it is not working for you or us, with our society full of hate, injustice, oppression and corruption.

P0intBlank:
I see your point. But as one who has experienced divine healing on numerous occasions (including one which was instantaneous). No one will ever confuse me that Miracles are not real. I hope you get one when you need it so your doubts will be dissolved.

Ok, Cool. I hope you know the babalawos and the shrine dwellers do same... Why do you think people patronize them? My broda i am muslim ok. I have lots of excellent christian friends, in Nigeria we more or less follow pastors and imams. That is why our society is messed up. Some years ago, a 10 year old girl will travel from one end of Nigeria to another to start JSS1, anyone she comes across will be nice and good to her. Now look at what we have? In churches today you are praying about enemies of progress, everyone is now an enemy, that is how they thrive, healing, power, the goodlife as Gods blessings, being poor, struggling, etc are all negatives and of the devil..... siddon there dey follow all these fake pastors. I don talk my own finish. I leave you with one final thought to share with you as a brother of faith, See here my broda, it doesnt matter if you are muslim or christian, your own mother praying for you is more powerful and will be answered by God faster than all the pastors joined together so give that money to your own mother, or a needy one in your community or neighbor, make Nigeria a better place stop propagating rogues like Suleiman, Orits, Oyakilome Oyedepo, El zazaki etc. Be sincere, be good to others you meet across the way, stop judging and lets together make the world a better place.

P0intBlank:
You've not done your research. If you did, you'd know that promises made to AAU have been fulfilled and commissioned. BUI's Engineering Faculty construction (which Pastor Chris donated 1 billion) is at an advanced stage and is named in honour of him.

Furthermore He has conducted healing school sessions in Canada and has also performed miracles (as claimed by beneficiaries of these miracles) in the US whenever he preached

PointBlank, i dont know of those fulfilled promises. It might be true or false or inconclusive, i dont know, yes i will not speak to that, but the healing, that is a flat lie. If youre talking about healing sickness and diseases, well native doctors do those as well what i am talking about is someone as blind as stevie wonder is healed and can now see. If any of those happen like you see him do in Nigeria, it will be on the news and it will be verified. It is all False, false, false. I will give you an example, if i ask you if you know anyone that has played and won the american visa lottery, you will immediately say yes, cos you will at the very least know of someone that knows someone, that knows someone that has played and won just like that. But again if i ask you if you know someone that had is lame, blind, deaf, dumb etc, that went to any of those nigerian healing pastor and got healed? you will scratch your head or talk about someone diagnosed with cancer that got cured, (etc which cannot be clearly verified). My broda, the Pope goes about everywhere, he is a respected religious figure he blesses people all over, never seen him healing. Only Nigerian and African pastors, our mumu never do us lets keep deceiving ourselves.

Jupxter:
Quit being a woman pleaser. It's annoying,take a stand for what's right

I agree with you Jupxter. Benita27 i guess was hurt badly and decided to put all guys in the same basket. Wrong move. Also, she is being cautious in her relationship and her guy will see through that and might be hesitant to move to the next level, I will be. This is because there are rules and their are lines she wont cross, who wants to progress in a relationship like that and Hope it will get better in marriage? No way, what you see is what you get. If my babe is over cautious and watching me suspiciously because men cannot be trusted then we have a problem, but again I as a guy will not be accepting gifts from a lady if i know i will not be taking it to the next level or accept cash gifts from her, nope i wont. Yes, i see Benita's point in that regard but its both ways.

jayloms:
Some so called Christians have made themselves judge over God's elect. Hypocrites who steal from their place of work and carry out all forms of unethical things, who haven't thought of the poor once in their lifetime, are busy giving lectures on what and what a fellow Christian should do with his money.

Hypocrites!!! Please remove the log in your eyes, before you make an attempt at giving your unwanted advice.

When these men of God started, you Pharisees had no idea the labour they put in to see the spread of the gospel, but alas when God has blessed them, you have decided to question the blessings with your earthly foolishness you call wisdom.

How is it that you cannot pray to God to bless you so you can be a blessing to the poor and then perhaps get all the newspapers to publish the acts of your generosity.

May God have mercy on us!

My Chairman, the mistake all of you make is equate pastors wealth and riches and amass of wealth as "Gods blessings"..... Keep deceiving yourselves and defending these crooks... Why do you think our society is the way it is? you have all these men of God and churches all over the place, you have a lot of people in Nigeria dying everyday from one disease or the other, you have people needing surgeries all over the place with no assistance whatsoever, they are all amassing wealth and you talking now, if right now you need a kidney transplant and it is reported to Oyakhilome, i guarantee you he will not help you unless he knows it will be reported and he will be praised for it, then maybe he will assist you. Our society has not been this bad and its all these useless politicians stealing us blind and useless churches giving you hopeless hope while dining with Politicians. If not Fr Mbaka, who amongst the politicians criticised GEJ When 219 school girls was kidnapped who came to their aid? If Buhari needs prayer now and invites any of them they will run to Aso Rock to go give prayers, but will any of them critisize him openly about bad policies, sufferring etc....

donnie:
He can give it where ever he wants. After all, he didn't need your advice to do all the giving he has been doing all these years.

E.g..
1.Giving 1billion.naira to Benson Idahosa University.

2. Building state of the art lecture theater at his alma mater AAU and provision of street lights and reading lamps for all hostel students.

3. Yearly promoting leadership among African youth through the Future Africa Laders Awards (FALA) with comes with a minimum of $10,000 dollars per awardee (which number up to 16) plus support and mentorship.

And many more too numerous to mention. So please rebuke that spirit of freeze from your life... It is a spirit of poverty and destruction.

Donnie: We hear all these talks but we dont see any of these things. Our society is corrupt because even our religious leaders are mostly liars. This guy does lots of healing in Nigeria, he comes to America and preach a lot but no healing whatsoever, WHY? because these people are not lazy like us, they will investigate and trace it.Also, i know of someone that works with him, he is poorly paid. He is seriously struggling to survive on a salary less than 100K a month and before he gets the money, they take out 10%, they also take out a % for Chris's birthday when his birthday comes around.

Police arrested the wife of the man and later released her because of her condition........ is it impossible for Nigerian police to have "common sense"

unadeymadkwa:
Mr Bigs..Not functioning. Had to demolish Building. Hmmmm.
Noting better to do with the building... Awon crayfish brain.

This shows the economic state of the state... And the dullness of there goverNor

Deep deep.

This is the only sane comment so far. How does destroying the building remove the hoodlums from the street and into jail where they belong? Hmm, maybe the mumu gov is thinking they will become homeless and surrender themselves to the police, nonsense.

Imagine, when we cannot even generate enough electricity to power light bulb to even see road to pass, we are talking about electric cars.

Demichaels:
ABROAD HUSBAND...

It is almost that time of the year again when all our brothers return home from "the abroad". Soon, they will come from all parts of the world- America, Europe, The Philippines, Malaysia, South Africa and even Sudan- to celebrate Christmas.

It doesn't matter where they come from, they will come with a black American accent. Even the ones that came from Sudan will come with pounds and dollars. Because the default currency for "the abroad" people is dollars. Abroad person that is spraying Cedis, is that one abroad person?

They will come to the village, and they will be at every ceremony spraying dollars and pounds. They will wear their starched laces and their original gold chains. I don't care the authentic quality of the chain, but as long as it is from 'the abroad', it is original. They will bag chieftancy titles that ends with "Ego".

They are the real MVPs. The Mr Steal-your-chic-and-convert-them-to-wife. They are always single looking for a wife at home. Yes, they are notcirculate, they come back home to marry.

You have a boyfriend who is just a civil servant. Fresh young man who is just starting life. You think you love him until your mother tells you about Emeka, the "abroad guy" that just landed in town. She reminds you about how you both used to be really close friends before he left to 'the abroad' when you were just 3 months old. Mama tells you he wants to marry you. You take a look at Emeka and you see the glory of the Lord shining around him. You admire his British-American accent and his fresh money. You think about your boyfriend- mtchew, "who young man with Dreams" epp? You suddenly start hearing the voice of the Lord telling you that Emeka the abroad guy is the right one for you. You suddenly realize that at 23 you are no longer getting any younger and you can't wait for a graduate who is just starting life.

Emeka spoils you while he is in the village. You both keep in touch as he leaves for "the abroad". You don't see him again but you still talk on phone. You are now both engaged and you are happy, you are dating a guy in Indonesia with an American accent.

Two years pass, you've seen Emeka only once. Because body no be wood, you have a side boo in your town who lubricates the engine when the oga is not around. But you are still engaged. You are getting impatient. You were 23 two years ago but now you are 35, or you feel 35. You nag, whine, write three different please-hide-my-Identity messages to "Dear Amanda" and "Dear Joro". Sacrifice 2 goats as burnt offering to the Fadalurd above. After some months, your prayer is answered. He fixes a wedding date but cannot attend the wedding because of work. So you just do the wedding with his enlarged picture anyway. That picture he was wearing a suit, that one. That's the one you kiss when it's time to "kiss the bride".

After three months, no Emeka. You realize you are now a western union wife. Another series of Dear Amanda/dear Joro messages, burnt offerings and pastor visits, God finally touches Emeka's heart to come home. He comes home for a few months to get you pregnant and go back. When he goes back, the real Lord - not my "Fadalurd" - decides to remember you this time and release you from your misery. You somehow realize that Emeka has two beautiful children with his abroad wife of 10 years now. Your eyes will now clear.

You finally wake up, after 300 posts cursing Emeka and other men specifically, you decide to join the Association of Online Feminists of Nigeria. Dear sister, Kolewerk. You are not a feminist, you are just an aggrieved mega idiot who hates men, and that is not feminism. Receive sense in Jesus name!

Christmas is coming, if you like, follow abroad husband and go.........

Demicheals.... You indeed have raw talents for writing, composing and passing communicating your message across. I take God beg you don't allow it waste. This, indeed is a good write up.

Benita27:
She's not mad. The man turned her into a mad woman 'cause there's a thin line between sanity and insanity. That man that's up there saying his wife is matured and told him never to bring a woman into their matrimonial home 'cause she understands men cheat should wait until she catch him cheating. Only then, will he be able to tell us how she handled it.

As for the woman, I wonder what she was expecting from a Muslim marriage?. He has rights to sleep around and take in 4wives.

This is not true. Benita27, you don't just make outlandish and false statements about a religion, faith, way of life of millions of people. A muslim man has no right to even touch the palm/hand of a lady that is not his wife, sister, mother, daughter etc not to talk of "sleep around". As per taking in 4 wives. You need to educate yourself objectively on this topic. Let me just give you a brief narration on it. Firstly, understand that when the command came that you can marry 4, a lot of muslim men were killed in a battle and lots of women were left without husbands. Back then, a man provides security, comfort, sustenance etc for a woman, secondly, 4 was limiting. Back then, people used to marry 10,15 etc and it was limited to a maximum of 4. Thirdly, it is permissible and not a rule. Buhari, IBB, Abdulsalam just to mention only Naija former leaders all married only 1. (Meanwhile, their cook, househelp or driver might have 4) fourthly, Understand that unlike other cases whereby a guy has a wife and has a babe as a side chick for ever, e.g Prince Charles and Camila, he can actually marry her and give her the respect, honour and privileges of a wife that she deserves, and not have her as a side chick forever. Fifth, a woman can have his muslim husband promise not to marry a second wife as a condition for marrying him. Also, a woman or (a father) can ask that the man asks the woman (his daughter) permission before marrying a second wife. What this means is if for example , I, a muslim wants to marry you, your father can make me promise (in my own case i won't promise cos i want 2... ) not to marry another wife except with your permission. Finally, understand that these are part of the mercies or privileges that God almighty bestowed on us to enable us live well, with equity and justice for all. Another example is "DIVORCE" It is permitted but highly discouraged. As a matter of Fact, in Islam, God said of all the things he permitted, Divorce is the one most disliked. Hence in cases where both parties has absolutely no love for each other (as they say in divorce papers - Future reconciliation is IMPOSSIBLE) again Ladi Di and Prince Charles, comes to mind, tell me why should they stay together? Focus on the opportunity and the generality (entire mankind) of the permissions and rulings and not just what some people do or what you personally want in your own little world or selfish, me, me, me mind. Cos, there are lots of ladies that wants to be 2nd, 3rd wives and have more time to focus on their career, bizz etc.

Keneking:
Buhari would intervene....

"The accused was remanded at the Federal Prison and the case adjourned to February 9th, 2018 for further mentioning."
- Federal prison not State prison indeed
- So that Buhari can intervene

Guys are just delusional. Hmm, so Mr President will support someone going around and killing people? Most times, if you follow the fulani herdsmen stories, you will realize that most of them were oppressed without justice and they took the laws into their hands. Although i equally acknowledge the criminals amongst them just like any other tribe. All in all its our justice system that needs overhaul period and not the blame game or finger pointing.

RETIREDMUMU:
op pray for that aunty i forsee ugliness in that man's genes














am in my house comman beat me

He is God's creation. You sabi how your own kids go be? Something you dont have control over.....

In as much as this is so, so cool. This guy will hear it from his bride. He will hear her mouth for the rest of his married life. She will say it was intentional to ridicule her and her family. I hope she doesn't call off the wedding. But, if she is cool like him, then he is a Very, very lucky man. Cos, most times, it is the ladies that want to show off to their friends and families, guys are always laid back and careless about show-off. (not all guys though)

PHIPEX:
Buhari keeps missing every opportunity to be relevant to the Igbos. The amount he wasted going to campaign in Anambra would have been better appreciated if it was used to treat Ekwueme who is Anambra citizen.

You didn't pay him his entitlement since you entered Aso rock yet have the gut to eulogies him in death, hypocrite.

IPOB will forever keep wailing and complaining. The moment they said he was sick, Presidency said they will fly him abroad. Then the air ambulance plane was used to airlift him to london. Then someone in the presidency said Presidency will not pay medical expenses, then Presidency now said they are paying the medical expenses. This is Nigeria for you it is not about Ibos, it is obvious that there is no cohesion. I.G withdrew Obianos Security aides cos of antecedents in PH etc, Obiano told Buhari himself and Buhari ordered it to be reinstated immed. If you say, its a shame things are happening behind Buhari and he doesnt know about it and it is not supposed to be so, i will agree with you absolutely. If you say he is old skul, yes i will agree with you. But at least speak the truth, and stop all the lies and finger pointing.

Votukpa:
Very valid.

Guess one doesn't know till one knows.
The Christ in me resonates with what you've said.

One love bro.

Respect bro. Thank you for your "humanity".