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Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by obstead200(m): 8:07pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey:naturally when I see posts like urs, I try to check ur profile to see if I will find a profile picture. I need to remind myself that morons still exist, then I note their face and avoid them in future. U are not yet ready to marry. When u get ready, we will know. Ur mama will even be the one to beg the guy to even come and visit. She fit dash am transport money sef. 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Oyiboman69: 8:07pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Biglittlelois:don't mind those sissy guys them. Why visit your mother in law every now and then?,that is the result of see finish 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by CauseTrouble: 8:08pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey: Shut up You expect us to support your disgusting behavior right? This is a free forum where people speak their mind You better take correction now but I can bet my last dime you won’t 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Kriss216: 8:08pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Mariangeles:So, what's the guy's offence now, going to see the girlfriend's mother without her being at home or not buying anything? 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by osazsky(m): 8:08pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
deltateam:biggest fool ever..so every time i go and c my inlaw i must go with cash or gift..how many times have ur wife given money to ur dad or mum..see simps everywhere.na now i know una mumu botton 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by bukatyne(f): 8:09pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Acidosis: It was not the first visit. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Nobody: 8:10pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
GayPontiff: Must the guy go when the lady was not around? What has he gone to do. Oh greet Mummy. And must he still take anything offered him? It is obvious he went to go and eat. E got disappointed food was not offered. He was offered drink and he still drank it shamelessly. May be the woman in his presence sent kids to go and buy him a bottle of Coke. He still carry mouth drink am. Shamelessness is what it's called. Nonsense and idiocracy. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Nchenches: 8:11pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey: The man wasn’t serious ab initio. But it was not mandatory for him to visit your mum with a gift for the first time. His reaction after you asked him why showed that he was not serious. Forget him. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by descarado: 8:11pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
At10tion:Nope, it's not done that way. She knows the type of man she took home to her mum. If the man didn't come with gift( nothing wrong with it, we usually visit people with gifts), it now behold on her mum to show him how it's done. Kill him with kindness. Get some things, wrap in polyethene and give him to go home with. The mum can continue by calling him the next day to ask if he reached home safely, have eaten what I gave you etc, that way, u are drawing him close to you and at the same time changing his mindset. Trust me, next time, he will go with truck loads of gifts. My mum will never allow that man leave our house with nothing be it cooked food, foodstuff or fruits. U are not doing that man a favour rather it's the opposite. All these entitlement mentality. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by comtem2011: 8:11pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey:You see!!! And ur mum is complaining now as if he hasn't be bringing things. Why are we human beings like this. This is why I love my parents/siblings. They don't count all these things. Infact, they will even pack things for him when he's leaving. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by ruthxzy(f): 8:11pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
donbachi:Yes like we watched in nollywood 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Chummynoni(m): 8:11pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
D OP is @ fault here. You shouldnt have scolded your boyfriend about it. There is an adage in yoruba that says" ti a ba ron omo ni ise eru, a fi ti omo je) meaning if a child is sent on a deadly task, you apply wisdom. U Bleep up 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by PS712: 8:12pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
TransAtlanticEx:She has a long way to go, ...a very long way! Someone with her kind of mentality, despite reading posts that show she and her mum goofed, still has time telling you she can feed your family for ages, so unfortunate! 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by investordj: 8:12pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
It's not by force na .. you can't give what you don't have .. this your belief is the reason igbos stay unmarried for a long while .. and when they are ready they are like evening newspaper .. bothered their male and female Mariangeles: 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by mandate12: 8:12pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
TransAtlanticEx: Well structured, well served! |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Lamanii22(f): 8:12pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Kingstanding: 8:13pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey:. Your mom is an honest woman, she is not a hypocrite. To the best of my knowledge in my own culture as a Yoruba man I will rather stay at my house than to go to my mother in law house to be with empty hands. Honestly your parents cannot enjoy that guy as an inlaw. Even common 300naira bread he can't give your mom? That guy is a shameless person. To my own experience that guy does not love you because if he does he will do what is gonna make you happy. If he wanna go let him go. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by osazsky(m): 8:13pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
I cant believe wat i am seeing..how did girls stoop so low.and relegate thier familys cuz of maybe 1000 naira..ur husband is not ur job..build urself una no go hear..which gift person wan buy for linda ikeji mama.wat a shame..no wonder they fall into the hands of yahoo guys who eventually use them for ritual..instead of ur parents to look at his prospect and aspirations them they fight for 100 naira bread.wat a shame..ma do ur parents live in the village or town..pls which state did this happen..it has to br imo or anambra 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Ihatebuhariwith(m): 8:14pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
TransAtlanticEx:na she and who get stupid culture.. Hungry vulture.. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by MoneyTrees(m): 8:14pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Broke or no broke Do for who do for you... Gen no dey shout for my yard no mean say I no get inverter No need to impress anyone were @OP's fiancee The sea is big and fishes plenty >: Trayceey: 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by kolade560: 8:14pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey: women will always be women.....u acted in ur litu limited mental capacity and understanding...... Is he your husband yet You have given that guy reason to start seeing ur family as would be in-law dependent. In fact, u shud have just waived it with ur mum and find a very sensible way to tell him, now he will even not respect u and ur mum as such. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Karemarealty288(m): 8:14pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
You Mum work for tax Office? Abi she be Native doctor? 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Sarita01(f): 8:14pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
GayPontiff: my mom doesn't go to her in-laws house without buying things for them, if she goes to the village and she doesn't have anything to give, she will just stay at her father's house, though people are different but it's weird just going to your woman's house without bearing gifts, especially if that woman is your SM, if it's normal LT sef we no go reason the matter serious serious but your main babe(fiance for that matter), haba na how you take reason am. it's not about entitlement mentality cos I can see guys already yarning their normal yarn, according to the op's story, her boyfriend was the one who offered to go see her mom, nobody invited him, even when the girl said she wasn't at home, the nigga still did strong head, enter motor only to go and gist and laugh, nawa for am o, who does that abeg. The whites that Nigerians love to copy so much(if you watch their movies), they don't visit their partner's parents empty handed, sometime they go with a bottle of wine or go with other stuff, it's simple courtesy for Christ's sake, is it that Nigerians only copy the bad stuff and leave the good ones. ayam not understanding |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by philip0906(m): 8:15pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Afromentalist: So apt. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by obstead200(m): 8:15pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
TransAtlanticEx:Bros u wicked ooooo. Infact I am crying on her behalf. U really finish the mumu girl 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Sixfeetbelle: 8:16pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Lashist: It's not about being broke. It's about courtesy |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by comtem2011: 8:17pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Mariangeles:But, that's not the first time of going there according to her. And he has been giving something before. What if he was coming from somewhere and decided to branch there or maybe he wasn't bouyant at that particular time and he just decided to go and say hello to them. If it's the lady's brother that went out or travel and didn't bring anything for her, is she going to disown him? 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by chronique(m): 8:17pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Sorry to say but that was foolish of you. Better call him to apologize. The fact that he came empty handed today doesn't mean he will come empty handed tomorrow or are you and your family that hungry and broke to always expect people coming to visit you to buy something and bring for you? Trayceey: 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by joxxy01(m): 8:17pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey:My Sister don't mind those people blabbing and calling you names... actually it is not normal for him to go empty handed to see your mum, haba no matter how small of a gift he should have brought. But my counsel for you is that just like a Yoruba proverb, the cure to an headache is not achieved when you cutoff the head.. Go and meet him and settle the issue maturely |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Ihatebuhariwith(m): 8:17pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
GIANTPLUSHUB:she no tell us the whole story, she don fight dat man.. She's so rude 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Blackdisciple(m): 8:18pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Hmmm! |
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