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Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by cyndylove64(f): 10:57pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey:I expected you to talk to your mum properly by covering for ur finacee instead u are even quarrelling with him .when u visited his parents did u go with gifts? 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Draei: 10:59pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Shameless Trayceey....#Spits# 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Lamanii22(f): 11:00pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by shantti(m): 11:00pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
SweetCunt97: Aunty there is nothing like intending inlaws, there are not in laws yet till he pays her dowry, this is just ordinary boyfriend girlfriend relationship, that i want to become an engineer doesnt make me one, that i want to become a medical doctor doesnt make me one till i go to medical school and graduate. Being a fiance doesnt make the girls family an in law, a fiancee is still just her boyfriend. A typical lady wondnt even marry her first, second or third fiance as things might not work out, it might be the fourth one that she will be married to. Now the first, second and third fiances, are they in laws to the girls parents? 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by osazsky(m): 11:01pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
This lady has to change her moniker o..i have taken note of her name.anytime she makes a conteibution on nl i go dey follow am up with insults and how cheap she is including her entire family 6 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by MorningStar233: 11:04pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
[quote author=TransAtlanticEx post=97809513]Swears I always tell people to avoid poor women as much as possible,it's for reason like this. Personally I'd rather die single than have anything to do with this class of women. Bread for that matter,Ha! [/quote Did she mention bread in her write up? |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Xmen149(m): 11:05pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
osazsky: I talk am. Lol,.like I said I no won go further. Na only them know the kind local Yahoo they run there and vex all other part of the east when they and external generalize it as igbo culture. My brother is marrying from abia,. another is marrying from us..so I know everything am saying |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by osazsky(m): 11:05pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
[quote author=MorningStar233 post=97864896][/quote]it has to be bread...from the way the mum reacted it has to be bread.or banana and groundnut.i am certain |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by praiseneo(m): 11:06pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Me I don’t have anything to say but to thank all the people that fired that girl. May god bless una then make una try check on her I no wan hear say person drink sniper o cos of internet bullying or wareva |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by descarado: 11:06pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Xmen149:They don't know that a man who go to his inlaw house with gift always is buying their conscience. That's bribery not courtesy. You will be blinded by what he brings you won't see the man behind those gifts and advice your daughter accordingly. Some parents will outrightly say no simply cos you are always coming to their house with gifts. I know parents that rejected gifts and strongly warned against that. I'm surprised people said it's African culture Have they travelled around All the tribes in Africa to know what's obtainable there. It's not part of my culture. Rather, it's part of my culture to give your visitors gift to go home with. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by shantti(m): 11:08pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Mariangeles: Aunty pls hide under your bed and dont come out again, what did u just say? 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Xmen149(m): 11:08pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
shantti: Lol,.see the matter my brother. intending in-law,.fiance..Na ala igbo. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by KosiGee(m): 11:11pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Hathor5: Yes you will look awkward. It’s not her birthday, Christmas or her wedding anniversary. You can get her favourite flowers and not the sort of present Traceey’s mother would expect. Again that culture and habit of expecting presents isn’t very good. It has to stop |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Gentleswift(m): 11:12pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
TransAtlanticEx:Savage |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Xmen149(m): 11:14pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
descarado: My brother. i comot my eye from their matter since oh. till they start arguing that it's igbo culture. do you even know that the girl in question is a single mother ..wey suppose Mello enter man house. E come dey shout ontop guy say e no buy em mama biscuits...What mana of fukkkry is this |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by nonut: 11:15pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Fiscus105:This one na wetin Redpillers in Nairaland dey call simp. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by UnBanEbenezer(f): 11:16pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Hathor5:let's talk via email |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Floreate: 11:17pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Yes, you were wrong Trayceey: |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Phrankin(m): 11:17pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
TransAtlanticEx:Bros, person no fit play with you again? Haba, e never reach like that na. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by MarthaGlobal: 11:18pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
God punish poverty Lafff... I will advice that guy if he was my friend not to such girl... Trayceey: |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by nonut: 11:18pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey:You're not removing anything. Someone needs to beat some sense into you, cos the distance between you and sense is enormous. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Lynchburg(m): 11:18pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
I love your sincerity but since it was not the first time, you shouldn't have been angry with your fiancee....you should have talked to your mom in a mature way....pls go and reconnect with your guy with a good kiss quote author=Trayceey post=97810401] not really. The first time he came to see her, which has been a while now, he didn't come empty handed[/quote] |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by UnBanEbenezer(f): 11:19pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
ceeceeuwa:it is your generations that do beg for crumbs and expecting any visitors that pay you poverty stricken fellows a visit you should expect he should be coming and feed you before starvation finishes off your family. You're cursed with poverty and so shall it be till you fools turn a new leaf. Bastard fellow You be idiot 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Xmen149(m): 11:19pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
descarado: she was even on another thread advising another guy to go and bang another persons wife.. imagine the kind upbringing she had use am imagine the kind request being made on bringing gifts. The Mr intentnding inlwa na struggling guy oh. He better Go do Thanksgiving |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by nonut: 11:20pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey:A twist in the tale. Poverty is dealing with your family mercilessly. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Chimaokigwe: 11:20pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey: But your mother crying over a loaf of bread is not broke. 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Lynchburg(m): 11:21pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey post=97810401] not really. The first time he came to see her, which has been a while now, he didn't come empty handed[/quote] Pls go and beg him Thank God for ur sincerity by telling us he brought something for his first visit |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by shantti(m): 11:22pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Fiscus105: Can u imagine how you paint someone evil, because a boyfriend did not buy a gift for his girlfriends mum on one of his visits( he bought gift for the mum on his first visit) he is now a potential bad father, bad husband and bad in law, i know u must be a woman, Let me ask u a question, the guy you are dating, assuming he stays with his mum, will u be buying her gifts per visitation keeping in mind that u will be visiting like thrice per week. I know the answer in no, so does that now means you are insensitive, irresponsible and bad. Judging someone personality using ordinary gift as a yardstick,I spit in disgust at your reasoning, u need therapy, counselling, deliverance(six, become one wont be enough), rehabilitation,sermon, preaching, exercise( to improve brain function), early morning sun, fruits, vegetables( to improve brain function), milk, surgery, brain transplant, head transplant, yoga, sex, strolling, love and care, education, career, talent, passion, wisdom, exorcism, water, discipline, incantation and chloroquine injection 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Wunna: 11:25pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey:Yes, he's not responsible and reasonable cos he spat out the truth will you gtfo 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Hathor5(f): 11:26pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
KosiGee: Like I said, they will appreciate it though not expect or demand it. The Preservation of Culture Committee will disagree. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Hathor5(f): 11:27pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
UnBanEbenezer: Sorry, not possible. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by shantti(m): 11:27pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Fiscus105: Thank God you are not a marriage counsellor, imagine how many happy homes you would have destroyed with idiotic mentaltlity, imagine how a human reasons 2 Likes |
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