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Romance / Re: 5 Types Of Vaga1na And How You Can Enjoy Them – Women Reveals by oswaggiee(m): 12:07am On Mar 10, 2017
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Webmasters / Re: Domainking.ng Users – Let’s Meet Here by oswaggiee(m): 11:04pm On Mar 08, 2017
mine is .com.ng, buh na follow come asin ...domainking gave me the .com.ng for free for buying one of their hosting packages, can it still be retrieved
Family / 5 Ways To Stop Nagging Your Kids by oswaggiee(m): 2:06pm On Mar 06, 2017
Although nagging can eventually be effective, it’s just not pleasant for anyone involved.

Nagging is exhausting to do, (Isn’t that the truth?) and that it’s the drudgework of parenting. Yet with impending adolescence, it becomes more necessary to do because as our kids get older and begin to exert their independence, now there is more

active resistance (argument) and more passive resistance (delay) by the child who begins pushing for having more freedom on his/her own terms.

Tip #1: Silence is Golden
One way to get closer to your kids is to quit the nagging and replace it with a different approach. Persistent gentle reminders will get things done—better, faster, and with less stress. Think kindness rather than anger and patience rather than barking out orders.

Easier said than done, right? Not necessarily.

A few years ago, unbeknownst to me, one of my kids videotaped me when I was having a fit about the dishes not being done. When she shared the video with me, and the rest of the family, I was mortified. Although I had every right to expect the dishes to be done after asking about it at least six times, my nagging approach made me sound like a pathetic lunatic. What's worse, it was clear that everyone was tuning me out.

That moment left a lasting impression on me; so much so that I made a pact with myself to nix the nagging once and for all. Now I ask once for a job to be done and if it's not done in a timely manner, I simply go to the child responsible for the task and quietly, matter-of-factly remind them of their responsibility. Failure to comply results in the addition of an extra chore besides the one that wasn't accomplished. In our house, silence is now golden!

Tip #2: No Nagging Diet
Kids will nag their parents about the same thing countless times in order to get their way. Parents finally cave because they just don’t want to hear it anymore. How many times can you listen to your tween moan that all her friends are allowed to hang out for an hour after the movie gets out?

Nagging, however, goes both ways—we as parents can be pretty fluent in nagging when we’re trying to get our kids to do their chores, finish their homework, or get to bed at a reasonable hour.

If you want to put a fresh spring in your parenting step suggest that your family go on a no-nagging diet. Become aware of your tone of voice, how you ask one another for things, and how you react to your children’s endless requests. Nagging can ultimately become a bad habit, so turn down the negative dial and increase the positive channels instead.

Tip #3: Redirect Your Delivery
Too often we as parents focus on what our kids aren’t doing right rather than what is going well, and that’s understandable at times when we’re all busy with our hectic day-to-day lives and are trying to keep everything in our home, school, and work lives running smoothly.

When we do get caught up in juggling dozens of responsibilities, however, we can become overwhelmed and lose our patience and ultimately become cranky. With my own eight kids, I have always had more success in getting them to help out with their chores and stay on task with their homework by heaping positive comments in the mix rather than berating them with sarcasm and crabbiness, including the type of body language I use.

For example, I recently came home from a 12-hour day at work to find my son and a couple of his friends goofing around in our family room while the kitchen was piled high with dirty dishes and an overflowing garbage can, which the dog was enjoying tremendously. It would’ve been easier to walk in, slam my pocket book down on the kitchen island and rigorously start loading the dishwasher myself to get his attention while prattling on about how tired I was from my long day at work and question how he could forget to take care of his own responsibilities and leave them for someone else. Instead, I greeted the boys in a pleasant tone (I didn’t go overboard with niceties) and reminded him it was time to get busy with homework etc. and he’d see his friends tomorrow at school. I left to get out of my work clothes and to give him a little space to see his friends off. About 20 minutes later, I returned on the scene much more relaxed and I reminded him it was his night for dishes. As I heated up some tea I told him it was great to see him having a good time with his friends and maybe they could’ve stayed longer if he had tended to his chores. Message was received and he got right to the dishes and even unloaded the dishwasher later that night so his sister wouldn’t have to do it in the morning.

Tip #4: Don’t Text and Nag
That important slogan, don’t text and drive, is one we remind our kids (and ourselves) over and over again because of how dangerous it can be. Texting has become one of the most popular and convenient ways for parents to keep in touch with their kids, but it can also become a negative tool as well. Nagging in person is certainly draining, however, it can also be just as wearing if we do it via electronics and smart phones, so I try to keep that in mind when I’m communicating with my thumbs as well.

CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE SEE THE 5TH TIP!..http://kleeqers.com/forum/articles/general/5-ways-to-stop-nagging-your-kids
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Romance / Re: She Likes Staying Naked When She Visits(advice Needed) by oswaggiee(m): 3:58am On Mar 01, 2017
grin grin grin.

Ategun MiMo!!!
Romance / Re: What's Going On Between This Boy & His Sister's Backside? (photo) by oswaggiee(m): 3:53am On Mar 01, 2017
obiorathesubtle:
He wants to cut the ass with a scissors..


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Webmasters / Re: Sound Hacking Skills by oswaggiee(m): 3:47am On Mar 01, 2017
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Webmasters / Re: How Reliable Are Nigerian Web Hosting Companies? by oswaggiee(m): 3:43am On Mar 01, 2017
Almost All nigerian hosts are resellers..90%

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Webmasters / Re: Partners Needed For Entrepreneurnaija.com by oswaggiee(m): 10:50am On Feb 27, 2017
mail me at oswaggiee@gmail.com or call me on 08065586518
Business / CBN Assures Nigerians, Investors of Exchange Rate Stability by oswaggiee(m): 2:52am On Feb 27, 2017
Basking in the euphoria of the appreciation recorded by the naira last week, the Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN) has restated its commitment to exchange rate stability.

Speaking at the Guaranty Trust Bank Plc’s 2017 non-oil export workshop held in Lagos at the weekend, the Deputy Director Trade and Exchange Department of the CBN, Olu Vincent urged Nigerians to continue to support public policies.

He further stated that measures had been put in place to support businesses in the country, stimulate growth and grow the economy. Olu called on importers to ensure that the country benefits from what they are importing.

He said: “We (CBN) are going to do more to stabilise the value of the naira so that everybody is happy. The present government is trying to ensure that we consume what we produce locally.”

Reacting to an earlier appeal by an exporter for the federal government not to restore the export expansion grant (EEg), Vincent, said there was pressure on federal government to restore the EEG. According to him, although the CBN was against because it was being abused, but the central bank does not have the powers to prosecute.

Vincent said the federal government had disclosed plan to reintroduce the EEG. He assured the exporters that the CBN was committed to supporting their businesses.

The event which was organised by the GTBank brought together some of its key exporters to dialogue on issues affecting trade, forex and export activities, thereby providing sustainable headway for the exporters.

“Last year at the beginning of this crisis, the Governor of the CBN, Mr. Godwin Emefiele had a meeting with the exporters in Lagos. At the meeting, we discussed issues bothering on remittances, volatility in exchange rate and other issues. “Sadly, there was no sincerity of purpose amongst the people that came for that meeting. But today we can see some level of sincerity and discourse,” Vincent said.

“About 15 years ago, if you were an exporter and you didn’t repatriate your export proceeds based foreign exchange embargo, people started having the feeling that we were killing businesses.

“We decided that for the exporter, there must be Know-Your Customer (KYC) by the bank. The bank must know the account owner. We decided to shift the responsibility to commercial banks who know much of their own to make sure that the business keeps going.

Funds don’t come back to us. There are people that export with the intentions of not bringing back the funds to the country.”

He explained that under the new export regulation, if an exporter exports and doesn’t repatriate export proceed to the bank where the individual transacting business with, the bank would be sanctioned by the CBN, adding that the customer has a responsibility of bringing back the export proceed, therefore in order for the banks to accommodate the penalty from the banks they need to create a pool whereby until you repatriate the export proceeds you will not have access to the money.

Vincent stressed that the bank was supposed to know the customer very, because if the customer doesn’t bring back the export proceed, the bank would be sanctioned, while urging the bank to devise strategies to prevent them from incurring unnecessary loss.

Earlier, the Chief Executive Officer, Fullmark Commodity Limited, one of the leading commodities trading companies in the country, Sriram Venrateswaran advised the federal government not to restore the EEG.

Venrateswaran alleged that the EEG was abused by a lot of exporters in the country when it was operational, saying that a lot of companies that were not in the export business were actually collecting the grant.

This, according to him affected general exporters who could not get full value.

Furthermore, he alleged that most exporters joined the trade because they were getting 30 per cent grant from the federal government.

He however stressed the need for the federal government to fix the country’s infrastructure to stimulate economic activities.

https://www.thisdaylive.com/index.php/2017/02/27/cbn-assures-nigerians-investors-of-exchange-rate-stability/
Webmasters / [urgent] Mmm / Peer to Peer Script Deal by oswaggiee(m): 11:12pm On Feb 25, 2017
I know Web Development, proficient in html, css, php and javascript and i know how to install CMS both manually and automatically, i can install the MMM script but i dont have it and i have been given a deal to create a site like MMM..i need someone with the script to partner with..i will give you the host details and other details as collateral, i build the site and when i get paid you , i will pay you too...

Please who's in?.

Mail me at oswaggiee@gmail.com or add me on fb Gbenga Banjo same Dp as that on nairaland..

Please i neeed it urgently
Webmasters / Re: Domainking Finally Gone by oswaggiee(m): 11:07pm On Feb 25, 2017
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Webmasters / Re: Check Out This Funny And Crazy 404 Page of University of Illinois by oswaggiee(m): 11:00pm On Feb 25, 2017
Lmao!!!.Developers with humour ehn!! grin grin grin
Webmasters / Re: "404- Component Not Found error" on bulk sms website .Pls Help by oswaggiee(m): 10:52pm On Feb 25, 2017
geeboy1:


Yes, the website runs on joomla

Send Me a mail i think i can help i have faced this situation before...
oswaggiee@gmail.com
Programming / Re: Friendzone by oswaggiee(m): 3:59pm On Feb 25, 2017
Jenifa123:

Just tried it now and d person said it's a wrong numba

Chaii....sowie dear.oya call this...09070954535
Webmasters / Re: Get Instant Payment For A 5mins Job by oswaggiee(m): 1:43pm On Feb 25, 2017
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You only need a blog with custom domain and < 1 million Alexa ranking...

Nigeria Or Global??
Sports / Football Legend Pele’s Son Set To Serve Up To 13 Years In Prison....see Reason by oswaggiee(m): 1:17pm On Feb 25, 2017
The heir of Brazil Football legend, Pele, has been told that he must serve almost 13 years behind bars – Edinho says that he will turn himself in to the police after being ordered to fulfill some of his 33-year drug trafficking sentence.



The former Santos goalkeeper, whose full name is Edson Cholbi do Nascimento, was found guilty of drug trafficking and money laundering in 2005 but has been fighting the charges since.

READ MORE >> http://kleeqers.com/forum/sport/3343-football-legend-pele-s-son-set-to-serve-up-to-13-years-in-prison-see-reason
Romance / [GIRLS ONLY] How To Make A Man Chase You: 15 Ways To Get Him To Fall Hard by oswaggiee(m): 1:03pm On Feb 25, 2017
Ladies, take a step back and let them do the chasing. You know exactly what I’m talking about, it’s time to understand how to make a man chase you.

Oh god, did I ever chase. I still do, it’s like I’m a dog looking at a piece of steak. But this is the problem, nowadays, men assume we’re going to chase them, and the funny thing is we do! We stalk them on Facebook and Instagram, we show up at their favorite club, we befriend his friends, we do it all. So here is how to

change it and learn how to make a man chase you instead.

But now, you have to shake up the pattern, they’ve become too comfortable. Stop chasing them. I know, it’s going to be boring without the drama, but why don’t you let someone work to get to know you?

How to make a man chase you – 15 ways that really work

Let them put in some elbow grease for a change. It’s time for you to kick back and let them do the internet stalking instead. Well, I mean, you still can do that, just keep that on the down-low.

#1 You’re busy. I mean, you could be sitting on the couch watching The Vampire Diaries all day, but the point is, you need to show him you’re busy.

You can’t always answer his messages right away or hang out with him at the drop of a hat. If he needs a 24-hour companion, he should get a dog. He needs to see that you have your own thing going on.

#2 Let him think he’s in charge. They need to feel like they’re in charge. They’re men, so, they want to feel like they’re the ones making the decisions. But that doesn’t mean you’re not the one making the decisions, you just have to be stealthy about it. Let him think he’s the boss. Keyword being think.

#3 Show confidence. If you want to know how to make a man chase you, you need to understand that men love women who exude confidence.

No matter your gender or sexual preference, when a confident person walks into a room, you look at them. That’s what you want and that’s the reaction you want him to have. Look confident in your skin and it looks like you don’t need a man, which makes them want you even more.

#4 Don’t let him think he’s the only one. ‘Cause he’s not. Listen, there are a couple guys, at least, that are trying to get their opportunity to date you. But you must show him that he’s not the only one.

Show pictures of you on Instagram with other people or tag them in statuses. Point is, he needs to see you’re in demand.

#5 You don’t have to give him everything right away. You don’t have to sleep with him or make out with him right away. He’s not your boyfriend, so don’t feel inclined that you owe him something. You don’t owe him anything. You’re not holding him down, telling him to chase you.

#6 Show that you have a life. You have friends, you have a job, you’re going to school. You need to show you have a healthy life that isn’t influenced by a guy. You need to show him that you’re content without a man. And honestly, you should be happy without a guy.

#7 Have some mystery. I know you can burp the ABCs, but he doesn’t have to know that right now, leave that for the fifth date. You also don’t have to open up and tell him about your family drama or past relationships. Save that for later and leave a little mystery.

#8 Flirt. Just because you’re trying to make him chase you, you don’t have to be the ice queen. Have fun and flirt with him. If you want him to chase you, show that you’re interested in him. You have to give him a reason to chase you.

#9 Less is more. If you are texting each other, don’t send him an essay. Honestly, no one likes to read pages of text on a smartphone. Keep your messages short and sweet, leave your words for when you two go on a date.

#10 Don’t woo over him. If you want to know how to make a man chase you, and do it right, the worst thing to do is sit, holding his arm as you look lovingly into his eyes. He’s not god and if you want him to chase you, you can’t let him think that anyway. Sure, compliment him but don’t go all googly-eyed over him. It looks needy and clingy.

#11 Be s-exy. Now, you don’t have to dress like someone you’re not. But you can amp up your sexiness by enhancing features that you naturally have. No, I don’t mean get your lips filled, but you can wear a plumping lipstick or show off your curves. Men are visual, so it’ll drive him crazy.

#12 Be easy on the drama. I learned this the hard way. Men don’t like drama. Actually, they literally run if they hint an ounce of drama on you. They can’t be bothered with it nor can they emotionally handle it. So, leave the drama at home or on the group message with your girls.

#13 Don’t focus on him. This is the weird law of the universe. When you don’t pay attention to the guy you like, which is hard, he comes to you. When you pay attention, he’s nowhere to be seen. So, what you need to do, is kinda ignore the guy you like. I know, but I didn’t make this rule, the universe did.

It Remains Two Ooh!..Click Here To Read The Last Two >> http://kleeqers.com/relationship-marriage/articles/relationship-marriage/how-to-make-a-man-chase-you-15-ways-to-get-him-to-fall-hard
Programming / Re: Friendzone by oswaggiee(m): 12:44pm On Feb 25, 2017
Jenifa123:

Tried contacting u guys but it seems someone else picked d call or something...

This is my number na 09065586518...try aqqain
Programming / Re: Friendzone by oswaggiee(m): 1:53am On Feb 25, 2017
Jenifa123 still no calls ooh..why na?
TV/Movies / Re: The Vampire Diaries and The Originals Fan Page by oswaggiee(m): 1:43am On Feb 25, 2017
Shii just got real!

Stefan is Human,i dont think he can last long in that human skin..i mean he practically died and got a second chance by the devil.. Enzo is dead,well kinda.. Kai is back,i dont think he's gonna spend long. Elena is gone..thanks to our asshole Damon, i mean c'mon how could he trust kai..Am still wondering why Kai poses as a threat for The Devil...you should have seen the look on his face when he found out about Kai,soo worried. Am sure he will find his way..
Romance / Re: What I Did To An Olosho Today.. by oswaggiee(m): 1:12am On Feb 25, 2017
Mr Pounder
Webmasters / Re: United Bloggers Of Nigeria (ubn) by oswaggiee(m): 1:03am On Feb 25, 2017
Vanillaskin:

Please if you are not going to contribute meaningfully to this thread then don't come here to comment rubbish and take up useful space

Screw you!!!

Am a blogger/webdeveloper/seo expert, with 3 years experience my web url is [url=kleeqers.com]Kleeqers.com[/url] didnt get the concept of ur idea...and i was wondering...was it a crime to write my thoughts?

angry angry..Now i am offended
Webmasters / Re: "404- Component Not Found error" on bulk sms website .Pls Help by oswaggiee(m): 12:58am On Feb 25, 2017
is the site running on joomla?
Webmasters / Re: United Bloggers Of Nigeria (ubn) by oswaggiee(m): 3:24pm On Feb 24, 2017
Hmmmm,
Webmasters / Re: Freelancers Urgently Needed by oswaggiee(m): 1:36am On Feb 24, 2017
oswaggiee@gmail.com

>>WEB DESIGNER OR DEVELOPER
Webmasters / Re: 2017! Google Changes Search Engine Logo, See New Logo Here (photos) by oswaggiee(m): 1:32am On Feb 24, 2017
dhardline:
The doodle was changed temporarily just to celebrate NASA's discovery of several new planets similar to ours. undecided


epp me tell am oh..they update doodles according to a particular event..like haloween,christmas..e.t.c

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