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Those concerned can not listen to counsel.

Nigerians...mostly wicked and heartless people. Na power never reach many people hand,that is why you think sey dem be better person.

TrustNone:
There's this my guy, we're so close and we share everything in common like eating together, going out to hustle together, gist and relate.
He's rich as he sells lands (real estate) and makes huge profits from it but he's uneducated and can neither read nor write, I usually help him and compose text messages for him and also chats for him on his Facebook account as he can't speak English correctly.

So there's this school I'm currently working, in the evenings when I go to workplace to drop my laptop (as home isn't safe due to recent robbery attacks in our neighborhood) he'll usually accompany me.

Recently he followed me and we strolled together, there's this corper working in our school, she came out and met me, we exchange pleasantries and gisted.

My friend said he likes her that I should help him talk to her, I obliged then smartly did the job but the lady seemed uninterested as he was not properly dressed and blowing wrong grammars with a very local accent.
But after the girl realized how rich he is and the assets he has she finally gave in.

So recently the Operating System in my laptop got expired, didn't have present money to fix and update it, gigs were coming in but no money to repair the laptop. I asked my guy to lend me 5k when I receive salary I'll pay back but he told me he doesn't have but he'll try and help, he requested for my account and gave him, he lied to me he sent it to the POS girl in my area that she'll give me, but till date I couldn't see any alert.
I approached the girl and she told me he's lying he didn't give her any money. He later told me he was lying but there's no money as he's broke. I moved on. Mind you the girl accepted him and they're both dating.

Yesterday I saw the girl with a new Redmi Note 12, I complimented her phone and congratulated her, she then told me it's my friend that got it for her yesterday and also told the her to move out of the school's premises (she was living in the school compound as accomodation was provided for corpers). The guy then rented a new self contain apartment (250k yearly) for her and she moved out and is staying in the new apartment.
The girl told me how he has stocked her house with foodstuffs and giving her upkeep weekly.
Funny enough the girl has a smartphone she was using and never requested for phone from him, he just willingly bought the phone for the girl. Price of the phone was around 140k.

I was sad and grieved how this guy could be so heartless to his fellow guy and close friend but extravagantly kind and so simpishly foolish to girls.
The girl sef couldn't even show gratitude for connecting her to a foolish maga.

On my way back from Church in the evening yesterday, I saw them together at an eatery with sumptuous meals on their table, the girl called me and I just waved at them and passed.
The guy doesn't call me again nor come around my place again as he used to.

I just learnt that if you're educated avoid walking or keeping company with uneducated people and those that aren't exposed, their mentality is annoying.

I feel your pain deeply. Just move on. And learn not to be doing things for free for people.As you dey help am compose and send information,you for dey demand for your commission. That way,respect go dey.

What is given freely is not valued by the receiver. You go dey think sey you dey help am , meanwhile he secretly detests you for having what he doesn't have.

Always expect disappointment from people...and do whatever you want to do with the expectation sey they will be ungrateful.

Jesus healed 10 lepers, only one came back to thank him. The people he was healing and giving food, na dem still crucify am.

Welcome to the real world.

EreluRoz:
Did you read I said it's a new job and I'm just trying to adapt. Did I say it's right to sleep? Am I under him? You people should try and be unbiased, atleast I didn't hide my shortcomings and I admitted and apologized but this man is just acting like village people

Your eagerness to abuse him with his personal life is a no no. He is criticizing your proffessional conduct on the job, you have no right to discuss his personal life especially when he did not tell you himself.

You are sleeping in the job and at your workstatioj for that matter. That is the fact and what he rightly disapproves of. Stop sleeping on the job abd he would not have anything to say against you.

You have no excuse whatsover for sleeping on the job...wether your direct manager condones it or not.

Drink coffee and save us all the drama.

You sef be problem.
Sleeping at your duty post is inexcusable

No two people married themselves because they hated each other.

It is disrespect, dishonesty, taking the other for granted,( see finish)and selfishness that eventually leads to the crashing of the union.

Marry your friend who genuinely cares about your well-being is the only advise that I can give anyone on marriage.

If you did not experience Tinubu's eight years of excuses in lagos...you can be forgiven for believing he had the midas touch to save Nigeria.

He is extremely good at propaganda, extortion of businesses like a mafia boss and ruthless politicking. Anything else na sakameje.

If this one na neatly used...how the one wey dey dirty go be ?

Best way to de-escalate the tension.

Because if the police wants to be hostile to the protestors...it could turn to full blown riots and looting in the twinkle of an eye.

Hunger no dey look face and makes people behave irrationally.

You k ow sey you be mummu

This is good news. If no be sey some devilish leaders that take delight in the sufferings of their own people, all these kind of projects are very very possible.

Good roads, connecting bridges and interchanges, rail lines from production hubs to markets, recreation parks , hospitals, modern farms and modern storage , oil refineries, power plants, well equipped and decent schools from basic to tertiary.


They are indeed possible with any visionary leader.
We get money, we get skilled manpower but na lie. Na make people dey suffer Naim dem like.

JVector:
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Two sitting areas with 6 Toilets and 5 bathrooms.

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Dedicated recline wire for power

Suitable for conversion into Quest House.

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Richfan:
Dear Nairalanders, I have come to testify that the user Otipoju have fulfilled his promise to me.

He promised to give me the #10,000 that the scammer lady who operates a business called Lisquando place who I sent body massager to and she refused to send me my money as we agreed.

This good hearted Nigerian here by the name Otipoju took it upon himself to compensate me the exact amount of my loss from the transaction..

Please everyone here help me shower accolades to this great man and help me in saying thank you to him .
My personal prayer for mr Otipoju is that,
1)..before he needs help, such help will come his way..
2)..Nobody that plot evil against him will succeed, instead such evil will go back and consume that person.
3)..He will never lack anything good in this life and God will replace 100 fold where he removed this one from.
4)..His source of income will never run dry and whatever business or job he does will flourish like a palm tree.
..my fellows add your prayers to mine for him..

Pls accept my apology for coming late to acknowledge receipt of the money...it dropped since past 5pm but am just seeing my alert phone now because it was being charged .

God blese you sir

No wahala. All the best. Like I said , free the woman make she no use her wicked behavior give you negative energy wey go repel good things wey suppose dey happen to you because you dey justifiably a angry.

You win some, you lose some. Na so life be.Unto the next one.

Richfan:
Good day sir, how re you doing? Ok I just want to remind you about your promise to me concerning today sir..

No vex oo. I limit my transfers to 100k daily. I go sort you tomorrow. I no forget.

Pretend like they don't exist.

It works everytime

Richfan:
Good day sir, how re you doing? Ok I just want to remind you about your promise to me concerning today sir..

Good one. I go find someone to send an to you today. Make I finish my meetings.

slimfit1:
The picking weh say him mama no go sleep let him get ready to stay awake. Soon we will start sharing their body parts like they did to our people that have been killed down to babies being used for sacrifices so that they can become governors and senators.

This is the real problem of Nigeria. Heartless individuals who have blood on their hands and whose hearts have been calloused to the extent that they no longer have the ability to feel compassion for the misery of those they lead.

How much.

HydraFeeds:
was Porto golf established by then ? I visited the resort recently .

I doubt. If yes we would have known. Gezawa was the neighboring town. Minjibir is a quiet town with a lot of educated people. Everyone who was in any institution received a bursary from the local government every month.

They put a high priority on education and treated corpers real good. This new super eagles defensive midfielder is from the town. Alhassan Yusuf.

If police come arrest me, I won't put up one unnecessary struggle to avoid embarrassing situations like this.

I go respect myself. It's easier to put calls to those you know at the situation.

These guys were following orders and they can't return to those who ordered them without something.

I remember in 2008 when police raid me for street. The way I comport myself and speak politely to them, them give me maximum respect and could not harrass me they just told me to give them whatever I have when we got to the station.

I tell police sey, I know you are doing your job and putting your life in danger to keep our cities safe and I respect what you do.

Mad people wey want raise money to meet their target.

Struggling with police is a bad idea to me.

Excellent Public Relations.

I can still trace my way to the room I lived in Minjibir, Kano. Many many years ago

Rossikk:
Obi’s plan was also to remove subsidies, so shush.

The situation would have been the EXACT SAME THING today.

The first thing to tackle was insecurity.

If I was Tinubu. I would have secretly signed a 1 year contract with the best mercenaries with the singular mission of flushing out all terrorist and kidnappers in all the bushes all over the country.

Farmers are being killed and their farms burned. So they are abandoning the farms.
Naturally the cost available food will increase.

That was the very first task he needed to do. Security. Instead of buying helicopters...give the money to mercenaries who already have the equipment and manpower to get the job done.

The second was to inject money via grants and low interest loans to registered small and micro scale business...in the area of tools and equipment. Those small and micro scale business will in turn employ three to four people...thereby reducing employment. Instead, dem carry 5 billion naira go buy presidential yatch.

The fourth issue to tackle was Power. Sign laws so states can generate and distribute their own power...especially the industrialized states. And replicate the template of Egypt that Obi went to learn directly.

The fourth was to revitalize the four existing government refineries by any means necessary. If we are extracting,refining and distributing locally...there will be no need to import and this will save us the landing costs and reduce the demand for the dollar.

Stop thinking like a child

Religion should not take away your reasoning.

Hunger is resetting everyone's brain

Majesty7:
I have watched with keen interest what average Nigerian has been passing through since the inception of this new government.

It's so sad that the system has been bastardised and corruption has eating deep to the extent that Nigerians now see it as a way of life. When traders are stealing rice in modules from a bag of rice and still selling the bag as a normal bag, then what do you expect from such heartless generation?

MOST Nigerians don't want to surfer. They are mostly interested in cutting corners and hence won't love to wait or sacrifice for a greater future.

SOLUTION

Tinubu should SOLELY focus on 6 things.
1. PMS
2. DIESEL
3. KEROSENE
4. Aviation Fuel
5. Gas
6. Security

Let the USD dollar trade freely. Don't involve yourself in subsidising anything. Just try as much as possible to bring the above items ridiculously down and stable. Go refine in poorer countries so that you can import it cheaply while you build new refineries in different place entirely.

Nigeria owns four refineries, two located in Port Harcourt and one each in Warri and Kaduna. Despite huge Turn-Around-Maintenance (TAM) efforts none seems to be producing.
It is the people working there that are destroying everything. The country is too corrupt. Those refineries need to be sold as scrap and new one built in a different place.

Once the above products are sourced cheaply and security at top notch, Nigerians will start producing and consuming locally without complaining. While those still interested in sourcing foreign can go ahead if they have the money. This act will make our economy stronger and will make your first term a huge success.

Forget the road, electricity or anything in this term because nothing will work.

I won't regret voting for Tinubu because there is nothing he can do in this highly decayed system. Was it Tinubu that hoarded grains? Was he the one that was involving in illegal arbitrage and so many ills? Tinubu was never my candidate but he still remain the best out of the trip that were more popular.

Thank you

Fact remains that he is being demystified right before our very eyes.

The so called genius with a midas touch who built lagos has eaten what he cannot swallow.

We that lived in Lagos for Tinubus 8 year government know him better than you all.

He has nothing significant to offer, his reign was full of excuses and blaming the federal government.

Mryacks:
Don't mind him...that new contract he went to sign was not advisable...

The new contract is just to include a release clause.His previous contract would have ended this season and he would have walked away for free.

Oshimen signed the contract with all parties having a clear understanding he won't stay beyond this
season just so Napoli can benefit from his sale and recoup their investments in him...instead of gaining nothing if he leaves as a free agent.

They must have packaged the deal in such way that shows Oshimen that he stood more to gain personally from Napoli selling him, than what he would get from walking away and signing as a free agent...if not, he has done Napoli a very big favour.

PSG or Chelsea will buy.

Same lies Buhari gave us for 8 full years. Yet uncountable trillions dey miss enter him people pocket .

Treasury dey empty, yet una see 5 billion naira to buy Yatch for hosting sailing parties...and fit carry large delegation go do jamboree for Dubai for climate summit.

Abi Presi get where him wan go wey Plane no fit carry am go.

Una never talk true.

I'm impressed

dkidd:
Ur still not a good person. U have a shady and dubious character. I bet u smile in front of ur so called friend when u pretend to "wish him well"
Now answer this. If u were this friend and u were married to another friends leftover without ur knowledge only to find out ur buddy whom u trusted actually passed her to u and u wifed her. How would u feel after the revelation? Wait! No need to answer here just keep that answer to urself. Word of advice always play straight as best u can in this life. There's a thin line between love and hate, friends and snakes and I believe u know where u stand in this divide. People do get missing for less. A man's wife is his highest treasure. U fvck with that u get fvcked not all men are forgiving and merciful. Always be straight in all ur dealings so when it's time to go u will know exactly what's coming for u. Nor go try this shii with some men. U think it's a code but ur soo wrong. When she's fed up of waiting for the unknown, She will eventually confess to her husband that u were just a mistake or even u took advantage of her when she was still naive. Then it will be her word against ur silence. He might pay u in ur own coin and u may not survive the outcome. Most of u guys no nothing about self preservation. Saying u dated or had a fling with someone doesn't make her a bad person. Leave that to whom is interested in her to decide. Never ever let ur friend find out ur keeping secrets from him with his woman. Women know how to play it and fine tune it to their advantage and at the end the girl u thought ur doing a favor will be ur doom. Worse is if this ur friend decides to feign ignorance all through while scheming on u. It's obvious u are a inexperienced because no man will leave himself at the mercy of a woman. I hope u die well... Literally I do wish u well Captain save em' 😀

You have a point and have spoken well...and i do not take offencw. But if you observe, I removed myself from the equation. I am no longer involved in their lives in anyway. Shady and dubious? No. Naive for not looking at the question from all angles ? Yes.

If I could stop dealing with human beings today and somehow survive. I would gladly do so. Even God regretted creating mankind.

Anyhow. Life goes own. There is no need crying over spilt milk. From life's experiences if someone were to ask me that question now, I would just tell him It's impossible to know anyone deeply and so I dont recommend anyone for marriage. That he should do his due diligence socially and spiritually before embarking on anything.

I no trust anybody again for this life. Even my shadow.

Later some people go say no be Israel.get the land.

You dey fight for wetin no be your own.

dkidd:
Technically speaking he was never truly a friend of ours maybe an acquaintance but definitely not a friend

There is no lady that I have ever dated, that someone will ask if she is good for marriage and I will say no...because I have dated her before. I don't own her and just because we are no longer together does not mean if someone I know wants to marry her, I will get in their way.

I will wish both of them well and stay the **ck out of their business.