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EreluRoz:
If you weren't friend with the man it would be ok or what would you think will be his reaction if he ever finds out you've slept with his wife and still approved her for him.

If the wife does not tell him, I will never..na only two of us know.

They are both good people. I no longer speak to both of them so that they can enjoy themselves.

He asked me about her character. He did not ask me wether I have slept with her or not.

hopefulLandlord:
The idea of heaven is so stupid I wonder how people believe it lol
The Bible doesn't say much about what heaven is supposed to be like. Most of the claims about heaven are exaggerations of the Bible. The Bible says the Gates are made of pearl. What are the gates for? Are they made just as an excuse to irritate clams? Are the gates supposed to keep someone out or to keep souls from escaping?

it also says the streets are paved with gold but the only reason we actually like gold so much and we attach such values to it is because they are rare and difficult to extract. Gold is malleable and can be formed as needed for use in, among others, electronics, dentistry, medical tools, and the defense, aerospace, and automotive industries. Gold is durable and noncorrosive. However gold shouldn't be valuable at all in heaven unless we'd still need to use gold for those things in heaven too which actually makes heaven just another version of earth

The sales pitch for heaven is that there is only happiness and no sorrow. But it also says that many people's loved ones won't be there. Since they can't feel sorrow about that, are they ecstatic that their loved ones are being tortured forever? Either your memories are removed or your human empathy is removed. Is it really you that is left over once some parts of you have been removed?

If life matters to me now, it will always have mattered to me, even when I am gone. Death cannot change that.

Your best hope is to be locked in a gold cage with your memories of having an actual life being erased just so you can kiss ass for eternity.

Life is pleasant, death is serene. The transition might be troublesome but we all have to go through it. You shouldn't fear death so much. Heaven and hell are imaginary. You should reject the indoctrination. Life is much better that way.

To quote a friend: "Heaven's supposed to be this really great place, right? So how come a third of the angels got pissed off??"

I like your thought pattern. The afterlife is really unknown.

EreluRoz:
Do you think he'll marry her if he had prior knowledge that you once slept with her? As a friend to the man it is expected to tell him that you had sex with her before.

Or can you knowingly marry a woman your friend had sex with? But how is she comfortable with the arrangement sef.

They key is not to interfere in their lives. I don't call her I don't text her. I don't do anything. We knew early that we could not be together and moved on and remained good friends.

If I can't have something, why should I prevent another person from having it.

Life no dey complex

EreluRoz:
Mind how you mention churches anyhow for your fornication.

Aren't you a bad person for recommending someone you have slept with for your friend to marry? I guess it gives you pleasure each time you see her with your friend knowing fully well you've slept with her

Sex is fun to be enjoyed. So I should tell him she is a bad person or what. They are happily married. And I am proud of them both.

Iwobi can remain in London. Person wey dem don tie him legs together. Can't mark, cant tackle, can't stretch to receive a pass not directly to his feet.

We don't need him

I remember this Mercy...of Christ Embassy. Every Saturday. She either collects on her way to Choir rehearsal or when she is coming back from rehearsal on her way home.


The day she asked me what are we to each other? I said I don't know...but we are helpers.

She ran away soon after that.

Mary, we dey choir together ooo. Run am twice, the intellectual gap was way too much.
We just free ourselves honorably. A new choir member joined and told me he liked her and want to marry. I kuku recommend her and they did marry and have a child together.

Other than these two, I no dey like church parole till today.

Kushites:
Load of BIG FAT LIES AND TRASH.

“Farmers are not farming anymore…”

“Manufacturers are not manufacturing anymore…’’

“Most products are 2000% higher priced….”

ALL DIRTY LIES designed to support the criminal HOARDING of food items by greedy merchants looking to make a quick buck at the peoples’ expense.

You WILL be stopped. It doesn’t matter how many lies you tell.

When better hunger nack you, you no go get strength to type nonsense.

Babinski:
Pastor Adeboye's job is winning souls for Christ and not as a political activist, critic or social commentator. You cannot expect him to start inciting people against the Government because we all know how ruthless and vindictive our politicians are. It will be total lack of focus to get into political fights that can hamper his ministry and affect his primary duty.

Even Jesus Christ was an activist. He drove the money changers out of the temple with whips and spoke regularly against the actions of the pharisees and sadducees which ultimately led to his crucifixion.

A man of God must be ready to work that path.

Show me one man of God who did not speak the bitter truth to kings in the Bible.

From Moses, Elijah, Elisha, Nathan, Micah, Jeremiah,Daniel, Ezekiel, Paul, Peter. They all spoke the harsh truth to kings when needed and as commanded...and they suffered and some were killed for it.

Do you know how many months Jeremiah spent in a dry well as a prisoner or Micah in stocks or Peter that was crucified upside down or Paul that was in prison for many years or John that was a prisoner on the Islamd of Patmos...far away from civilization.

Dey play ooo. Man of God wey dey fear to talk truth...because him don dey compromised for decades.

One cannot but feel that Nigeria is under a curse. We have leaders who just do not care. They see all these but their primary if not only concern is to steal money and steal some more money to buy houses that they won't live in and gift money to hook up girls with big bom-bom.

We missed a golden opportunity with Peter Obi. He alone out of many seemed to grasp the gravity of the myriad problems and the willingness to provide solutions to them.

As far as I am concerned, Nigeria is gone...except there is a supernatural intervention.

a4cube:
It's seems the diasporans the hardship fall for head. Everyday calls and WhatsApp for money.

I'm telling you. I've hardened my heart now. Especially towards those that I know voted Tinubu for either tribal or religious reasons.

Built2last:
How people thought that a drug dealer with penchant for self aggrandisement will rig an election only to turn around and make life easy for the masses amaze me a great deal.

Why are people crying. Wait for another 4 to 6months. The e-rats defending the policies of this government will be stoned by close friends and family members. Just wait. No need for argument

Na we wey dey diaspora this thing pain pass. We screamed, we begged, we explained that this man is a wrong choice...but they still chose tribalism and religion over competence.

I had to imagine that perhaps a miracle would happen and somehow the man will try to prove us wrong.

I'm not surprised but I don't pity those childhood friends and old school mates who voted him.

Make them chop their tribalism. Na our brother dey there.

Tunde lives in Atlanta. Saw him last when AY was in town and came to play soccer with us.

May have moved to UK though, I doubt.

AfonjaEkiti:
He wasn't robbed for goodness sakes , he is simply failure.

Same with the owner of savannah bank

Same with union bank

Same with diamond bank

Same with oceanic bank

Business fold if you can't maintain or keep it the sharks come in to swallow shikena

How was he a failure. His bank was not in distress when they robbed him of it.

Sasaki wanted Erastus Akingbola to do something shady which he refused and Saraki used his childhood friend and old school mate at Kings College Sanusi who was the CBN governor to rob him of the bank.

Intercontinental Bank was not in distress when it was aquired by the CBN.

AfonjaEkiti:
Business is business.

Erastus had a poor business plan

He is done gone and forgotten, forget church or bible.

He lost and he is a failure a failure I say

So having a poor business plan meant he should be robbed of his sweat.

Intercontinental Bank was a leading bank and they robbed himof it.

nashito:
Hi guys,

I won’t bore you with long epistles. There’s this girl I’ve been dating since 2021 May, I met her in the East while I was having a short program there and left for Lagos around 2022 Oct, but, I can assure you we talk everyday if not thrive twice and in my heart I’ve felt like I’ve already met the right one and all along have closed my heart to loving anyone else. Even though I met her as a virgin and probably after two years of not seeing again. We met this December 2023 and I disflowered her and we still talk everyday, I’ve always felt this girl doesn’t love me enough, but is only serious with me cos I made her understand from the get go that I want her as my wife.

I’ve been struggling all through this period that I met her as I lost my job and all that but, she stuck by me, never bothered me much about her issues but, I know all of it. She gained admission last year but, her parents couldn’t afford her tuition fees and I made her understand I can’t chest such bills and instead I sent her to a catering school which is a one year program costing around 300k. I can afford this of course and have been making sure I take care of her school needs cos my plan was to marry her at the end of the year and as well set up a shop for her to do her bakery’s and all other things but, today been Valentine, she posted my pic and excluded everyone else from her status from seeing it and I happen to know cos I’ve got other lines I use to checkmate her activities which she is not aware of and finding this out, I told her to take down the picture as it was meaningless and she started posting other pictures we took together which everyone can obviously now see and when I talked to her that I wasn’t happy with what I just saw, she said it was just to see how I’d react and that she wasn’t serious but, I don’t believe her. At some point, she started eyeing someone that would pass as my younger brother, a boy who I took as a brother, I noticed it and approached her and she has denied it but, my instinct tells me otherwise and I’ve never ever forgotten bout it, cos I noticed how she was always looking at this guy each time she was with me and her body language changes as she would not even want to be close to me.


She’s from a very poor background, her mum left them all (5 kids) and ran away with another man and the dad had to send her in particular to her sister who raised her from 5 till now she’s 21. She has good characters I must admit and also has the height I’ve always wanted in a wife & which is what really made me choose her as my supposed wife and have been a very wonderful girl friend. I just don’t feel she loves me that much especially someone that knows how serious I take her, her parents have not met me but, have heard all bout me, her Anty who raised her talks to me from time to time. But, I don’t think my desires with this girl are what she desires too even though she confesses them too but, her actions always betray her words for instance, she started making fliers that she wants to start baking for ppl even before she graduates and stay on her own & this is someone I plan to wife latest Jan 5th next year. She only told me later and I said ok.

Guys I know Nairaland maybe toxic at times but, we’ve got a lot of people here with experience cos I’ve been on this app since 2006 and have never missed a day even when Nairaland was down, I visited every 5 to 10 minutes to check if it was up again.

What would be your advice for a supposedly 35 year old man with experience? Am I worrying too much or are the red flags here?

Note; I trusted her mostly cos she’s been a virgin and have kept herself till now and according to her, she only wants one man in her life and that’s the one who took away her innocence & her words on this May match her actions but, I’m not certain as I can’t obviously read her mind.

I know all about the simps and the red pill and I’m far from been a simp, infact, I’m an OG when it comes to women but, you naturally gets to an age and there’s nothing that occupies your mind other than doing what your mates are doing and also settling down for real with a family of your own. No matter how hard you may form, it gives you that sense of belonging.

Kindly drop your comments below and I’d be following, thank you all.

Telling her you want to marry her is an error.
It takes the excitement and mystery out of it for her.

If she is already attracted to a younger guy while with you, she will eventually sleep with him. It's just a matter of time and opportunity.

She is showing you she will leave you once she is no longer dependent on you for survival.

Forget virginity and professions of being with only the man who disvirgin her...people change and you can't build a future on the assurances of a woman.

The whores you see today were once virgins and in love with someone.

Continue to date her but start detaching emotionally so that you can use your brains more and take the best decision for yourself based on your observations.

miketayo:
You are probably rich.. I bought clippers $60 and cut the hair myself. I m becoming a pro gradually

Initially that is what I used to do. But Madam will complain tire. I only wish they knew how to barb well.

Hosting them is really good. At least it shows recognition of their efforts. They all tried but their are plenty room for improvement.

Goodlady:
She has landed and is devouring them. Some were removed but she went there with almost all items. Especially blades for shaving pubic areas cos she told me a pack of blade was $20. And the blade na nacet wey no strong reach tiger. $20 is over N22K in Nigeria.
Most of the food items too, she's enjoying them. Thanks sister.

Lol. Sometimes I feel guilty after using $50 to barb hair every two weeks. And dem no sabi barb well sef... na the annoying thing be that.

She will adapt when she starts making good money. Tell her not to settle for less

Goodnewsforlife:
audio billionaires

Nobody takes u serious for here, just face your nwa boy in peace make oga no pursue u

Everyone not supporting your madness is collecting 30k, that 30k must b big money to u to make u believe people can survive on it

Bunch of retards who can’t move on after losing

Story yi ti poju.. elejo wewe..

Shebi you say you are far from poverty.
Prove it now, and take up the challenge.

Fear dey catch you ni to book flight for this weekend to any city and come and spend money since you are rich.

If person do small background check for you now, your papa will be browsing with one useless techno phone and feeling cool that he has data.

Oshisco. Alayebaje.

Since it's clear that you can't man up and take up the challenge because you obviously lack the capacity...I am done with you and this is the last response you will get.

Goodnewsforlife:
typical igbo billionaire wey dey feed everyone

All na mouth

Na so corridon talk say e go give 50 people 1 million naira each only for him to later create thread of how he ate beans wen cockroaches don die inside

We know una well well

I'm not a billionaire nor Igbo.

Leave story. Kindly take up the challenge.

Again name one city in any country apart from Nigeria and preferably not Africa.

Let us meet there this weekend and let me see how you can spend money.

Na woman dey talk too much story. Let us match our claims with action.

Like I told you Hunger will reset your brain and you will realize that you are just a useless pawn in the hand of your masters who pay you 30k to stoke the embers tribalism to deflect from their gross incompetence and corruption.

If your Papa no fit take up my challenge. Then just keep quiet and keep it moving.

Arindin jati jati .

Melonsmasher:
Who come be Victor Moses? Guess he was ghost playing the whole time cus i didn't see him in the tournament

Na Moses Simon ojare. The guy was snubbing Oshimen. I hate team mates like him and Samuel a lot. Personal glory no go let them give their team mate pass

GenSpecifics:
Poverty .


Speak for yourself and stop projecting.

Obi will never ever be president .

Las las he go sell Una give Fulani in 2027.

Sapa cretin

You papi fit show him account balance. Dem no born am well. You wey your papa never taste good l8fe before dey yarn dust.

If dem born your papa well, name any country or any city outside Nigeria or Africa make we meet thus weekend make we hang out, I want see the level wey you dey take operate.

And if you can't take up this challenge dem you have not started level.

Name any city in any part of the world apart from Nigeria. Make I can see the money wey dey shack you.

GenSpecifics:
.we know people that sapa kill dem like fly.

We know them well. Your family that need you to collect your 30k before they can feed for the month.

Osinwin

OmoFiditi:
The guy had a terrible tournament. He really made Onyeka the DM suffer.

Before the finals, I advised Iwobi to train alone and learn proper offensive passes. He was the weakest link in the midfield, hardly gives accurate offensive passes and easily lost the ball to the opposition, it happened against South Africa. It was just a matter of time before he got a thorough lashout from Nigerians if he did not improve before the finals.

Alas, he was too lazy to take the advise. Coaches should tell players who do not do well the truth. Tell them they played shiit, and should go for extra training, even when the team wins.

The boy was playing as if his two legs were tied together. To even stretch for a pass is wahala for him not to talk of tackling.

No accurate pass , no tackle, no pressure on opponent, he won't even show up for passes so he can receive and drive forward. Often times he was not aware of opponents around him.

For those who know football, he was pathetic to watch.

He had no business benching Iheanacho and the coach should have listened to Nigerians.

Samuel Chukwueze was another stupid player. Walking around the field the whole day. Selfisshness and Jealousy for Oshimen fame no let am see road.

For that attack only Oshimen and Lookman were playing with passion.

Victor Moses sef will simply refuse to pass to Oshimen.

It was an eyesore

GenSpecifics:
Hunger go kill you again like fly.

Northern states are now banning food exports.


Better go and find one patch of evil forest and start farming before hunger kill you.

Your papa na Sickler.

End of month dem pay you 30k for typing nonsense. Oshisco.

GenSpecifics:
Stop projecting your suffering on others.

Nigeria will no longer be an import based economy.

Start farming .

Cretin

Idiot...world has moved on to knowledge based economies. Cave man dey talk about farming.

Those who you want to go to farm na you go give them seeds or the hectares of land they will farm on an industrial scale.

Omugo...better shut your trap and stop spitting trash.

MyVILLAGEpeople:


I still this man and his family death isn't ordinary. There is just this uncanny feeling I have towards the whole thing.

They flew at a very bad time. There has been bad weather all week especially this winter season.

Last January I was to be at a mandatory company on-site work in Michigan. I had bought my ticket and was to fly that evening. I canceled my flight and told them I can't risk my life in a snow storm.

Nobody dared question me further. I no dey take my life play gamble. If something happen, I will be quickly replaced in one month.

You don't fly helicopters in bad weather, it's suicidal. Planes are way safer. Helicopters are just way too fragile in bad winds with poor visibility.

GenSpecifics:
I am far from hunger


Stop projecting your suffering to others.


Cretin.

If you are indeed far from hunger,are you far from fuel scarcity,or having to buy fuel every day and night for your noisy generators,abi you think sey generator na enjoyment?

Are you far from insecurity...where you cannot drive in peace from one state to the other without fear of kidnapping by bandits or harrassment and being shot from trigger happy policemen over 1,000 naira bribe.

Are you far from bad medical facilities where there may be no power nor oxygen to perform life saving surgery on you if needed.

Are you far from wasting hours of productive time in traffic for a distance that should not be more than 20 minutes .

Abi suffer don blend with your skin.

Muntula. I know say as nations cup finish, dem go release una from una cage to start propaganda distractions again.

Obi is not in power, your principals are...govern if you can...but since you can't give what you don't have...you want to start instigate another tribal chaos to distract from your failings.

Retards.

GenSpecifics:
Obi will never ever be president .

You have a better chance getting Biafra and Kanustein as your supreme life time president than forcing that idiot on us.

I have said my own.

Hunger will soon reset you brain with those shameful work they pay you for.

AFCON don finish, they have paid you guys to do image laundering again.

Brown new cars ke?

The kain people wey don take over nairaland sef just tire person.

gratefulheart:
He travelled by road with the luggage because the chopper couldn't carry their luggage.

More like there was no more space for him in the chopper sef.

Richfan:
Thanks very much for your concern..Am just a husssling guy with no job.i said let me just sell the massager to hold body, i dont even budget for am, na d 419 decided to take what is not hers...

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Thanks

I'll sort you next friday Insha Allah. 10k.
Just comot mind for the lady matter. She go meet am for front.