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professore:
And how we love, show up, and stay connected today determines whether later years feel full… or painfully hollow.

i wish men could Abandon their job in that case...
and focus on connection by staying at home.

what do you think?

Shikena:
In my opinion people just have to broaden their minds and horizon.

Stop thinking that your happiness comes from others. Find happiness from within and that's what understanding and embracing solitude is all about. Learn solitude from early days, embrace it and thrive in it.

If you are easily bored then you are not deep enough. Stay still and dig deep or else old age will be tough even if you are surrounded by 20 people. The history of life is loaded with mastery of the art of solitude. It makes everything fun in a quiet way!

You are Absolutely Right!
Be Independent as a Man before old age.

Be able to do everything your wife does for you by yourself, and be happy to do it.
and pray against life threating illnesses

Orlandoo:
The question is, will you also do the same to your husband, just like your mom is doing for you dad, without bringing up the jezeblic tendencies?

A touching Question!

66uvie:
Make sure you have money or you are financially comfortable at old age.

Wow, in this terrible economy,
is this really Achievable?

Bahamas95:
When you plan your life very well no child would forget you in old age. Parenting is not only about providing food and shelter for your children. Build that conscience and connection with them at a young age.

with which time?
when you leave home before Dawn and come back at 10pm daily?
for 40 years?

Kobojunkie:
The male loneliness epidemic affecting the world today impacts both married and single men alike. If you choose to blame Marriage, then why do single men also suffer the same problem of loneliness?

2. The problem has been studied and said to be caused by men's refusal to connect on an emotional, social, and mental level with friends, wives, and children. It is all linked to some unhealthy relationship many men have with their emotions in the way of identifying, relating, and managing them.

3. No matter how many wives and children a man has, he is still likely to end up alone and die alone, even then if he refuses to do the needful. Go village today, and you will find many lonely men like the one described by the OP. The family will likely show up after his death to perform whatever is necessary for them to get their hands on anything the man left behind, though.

How can a man have such level of connection with the kids....when:
1. He is out of the home before Dawn to work his butts off and get back late at Night
2. He has to face massive daily Stress and tension at work for 40Years
3. He has to enact discipline whenever he is around to prevent the kids from derailing morally


it's really a sad story for men to end this way

TUANKU:
Post the screenshot here.

Lol, No more need for Screen shot
when i can Turn the settings off from my side of the chat and keep my part undeleted.

Oizee:
because they reacted to what I posted, when you check you won't still see them in the list of viewers .

oh i understand . this really happens

davillian:
i wish whatsapp has automatic call recorder.....
all my audio calls are recorded amd the reason i turned it on was that someone denied a discussion on phone call and inhad nothing to prove about the call.....

in fact....I'm just knowing now that :
if someone is on Disappearing message settings, you can TURN IT OFF from your side.
so you keep your copy of your conversation.

i just tried it out now...and it worked
check it out now...

Oizee:
exactly, I believe people with ulterior motives do this nonsense. Once I see disappearing messages I completely distrust the person, same as viewing my status without me knowing.

how can you know someone viewed your Status...without you knowing?
and How did you know?

MiosheEmpire1:
You can ask well turn it off from your own end.
If her/his copy disappeared, you will still have your own copy.

Wow. thanks for this info.
i just tried this . it worked.

TUANKU:
Whatsapp won't let you screenshot.

Not true.
i just Tried it.
Screenshot was done

ARISHEM:
No African country in the list.
But if it is monstrous preeq, the most sexually active men and ability to procreate Africa no dey carry last

So, you have not seen the List of this one too,
it was here some time age.
Africa was very Scanty even in that List....

Lamasta:
South Africa there is a joke taken too far

They mean White SA...
Not Blacks

princepee:
Crying because a Man left you?
He doesn't deserve you.
Move on...
Work on your self, get someone better

But then I believe all is cruise

Let me Guess the Meaning of this when a Female say it:
1. Get a BBL to capture a better man
2. be More Seductive. to capture a better man
3. Wear Sexier Clothes to capture a better man
4. Wear More Revealing clothes etc

Definitely NOT Go for the BAG or Become Independent


am i right?

Ignmakwe:
They refused to adopt the per second/per channel billing and payment option(s) for subscribers🤷🏻🤷🏽

you are right...its Quite Sad

granuloma:
It high time people stop subscribing to multichoice. I dont see any thign entertaining with the package
Meanwhile good to be the first on the comment session

e shock you....
As you press enter, you saw 20 comments in the space of 1 second ....

That's how competitive Real life is

Wow, How did DSTV get here....
What a Barrage of loss...

Kobojunkie:
See, this is how stewpid men end up in prison in that Nigeria. If we check now, that same man may have been cheating on that same woman, but the moment he finds that she has found herself her own side-dick, he goes into a stewpid rage over what is absolutely nothing.

it is now....i see you are completely biased.
So you Said all these based on an assumption: that same man may have been cheating

So you call this NOTHING : so the man Should be Celebrating Instead....Right??

Chief2410:
Lol, if he loses his job,he will finally realise he has been married to his enemy

Not necessarily his Enemy....But...
To me showering praises too Quickly in ROSY situation is not wise.

Kobojunkie:
All she did was stop talking to you, and you felt you should come here and to whine to us about it as though to suggest that you are entitled to hee energy and attention in or way or form?

chai...
junkie, You must be a Very Troublesome lady o...

Do you have a man?
you go worry that man o.... i really pity him

Immatex:
Being happily married to a loyal woman (SPDAZZY) for 10 years and I will always count my marriage a blessing from God.

Never being insensitive to her demands but has proven to be Godly, virtuous, loving wife and mother, something now quite rear about this generation of women.

Our commitment is for happily ever after!

By the way, she’s also very brilliantly and only recently became a phd holder from a UK top university.

Have you lost your Job before while she takes care of the Bills for 6 Months?

seunlayi:
Nairaland sef.... This are not topic you bring to FP on Monday morning like this. Why not evening or weekends?

. Someone is needing immediate Advice,
you are suggesting he should persevere till weekend...

what if its an emergency?

Demetrix:
Sequel to my last thread where I complained about a burning sensation in my testicle area, a lot of persons advised that I go for scan for a possible testicle torsion case.

I went for scan and ran all the possible scan from abdominal to testicle scan and nothing was found. The sensation stopped and I was found.

However of recent the burning sensation around my left testicle started again and sometimes I notice it moves up to my waist area in form of weird pains.

Please what do you suggest I do.

Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/8509171/pain-lower-abdomen-testicles

if its not gonorrhea (if you are normally have Unprotected Sex) , then its staphylococcus aureus
Go for UTI (urinary tract infection) tests

Kobojunkie:
1. Women are not commodities; rather, relationships are transactional. Note the difference! A man who wants a certain type of woman should be willing and able to take on a part of what it costs— be it financial cost, emotional, physical& mental labor, etc.,— for her to maintain herself in the way that he likes her. A man who wants a woman who dresses like a million dollars should be ready to have to take on some of the cost of maintaining that million-dollar look that he so likes. This is nothing new.

There have always been costs associated with dating culture; this is something that adult men and women have engaged in for centuries; only a child of a man would think he could get a woman he cannot afford above his range at no cost to him.

2. I don't play these childish games with your kind, using the content of that book, which you lot have little or no regard for at the end of the day. 🥱🥱🥱🥱

relationships are transactional
No Wonder Hookup became the new Norm. This is the Exact reason

Adaisback:
not actually handsome but brave and bold guys. Don't be a simp. Be a man that can stand up to your fellow man anytime , any day and you are good to go

Guys Don't fall for this manipulation,
More Conflicts will be Created for you to Solve....
and the Result is untimely Death

Jagabanfromcali:
Can some one point out where he said that in the passage ? It can be interpreted that he wants more slots for European countries just like more slotted have been allocated to African and South American continents but sensationalism sells

Exactly, that is what i read and understood too

SeverusSnape:
Gattuso that I used to like that year at AC Milan??.

The reality of Life:
A person you Like will Not always Say what you want to hear....

Know this and Know Peace

Sandjoe:
Every migraine has its triger . Stress, light , even hunger and eating inappropriate kinds of food. Identity it and avoid it and you will be free from migraine.

Exactly

GravityDefier:
Happy new day wonderful people of NL.
A close friend of mine has been having severe migraine that seems to be increasing with each passing year. This is gradually putting her in a state of depression as the medication she has been taking (Lexotan) is not working effectively on her again. She's scared of tramadol addiction so she had to disregard it upon the Doctor's prescription.

This has given me much concern on how to help but just don't know how to. I confirmed it has no cure. The pain transfers to her ears, eyes and now to her tooth which made her to remove the tooth of recent (Doctor's suggestion).

She goes through this experience at least 2-3 times every week which makes her to take the drugs in excess as it's now almost non-effective.

Those who have experience + Doctors in the house, is there any means (herbal or any surgery) that can help?

Caution: consult your doctor before use

Cafergot Works for Me 100%.
within 15 mins, it Disappears.

But it has side effects:
mine was: Diarrhea after like 1 hour but its very minimal.

Cost: Its kind of Expensive now: Like 10k for 20 Tab


For Your Information

The first and most important step in managing migraines is identifying your personal triggers.
This requires careful self-observation and paying attention to what usually happens before a migraine starts.

Common triggers may include:
Bright light
Loud noise
Smoke
Hunger
Screens or devices
Stress or lack of sleep

Once you identify your trigger, the next step is to control it or avoid it as much as possible.

For example, my personal triggers were:
1. Looking at a phone or computer screen in the dark for more than 30 minutes
2. Staying on the computer for too many hours (10+ hours)

By avoiding or reducing exposure to these triggers, the number of migraine episodes decreased significantly.
After that, I could reduce how often I needed medication—because taking migraine medicine for too long can also have side effects.

Azazyel:
Cafergot would do a better job most importantly, that migraine is a symptom of an underlying issue in the body. Check your blood pressure, pcv or check if you have blood clots. Stop using NSAIDs

This Works for Me 100%.
within 15 mins, it Disappears.

but it has side effects:
mine was: Diarrhea after like 1 hour but its very minimal.

Bendeco02:
Which sensible woman will like to stay with Yahoo boy for long time relationship or marriage?

Just as men only date wayward fine girls but don't marry them that's how girls sees Yahoo guys because their life is not even safe with them.

Most Yahoo guy are just like jobless men. They make money but can never invest it. As the money is coming that's how they lavish it, once it stop flowing they become broke again.

Someone will pick 6M in January, by June he goes broke again. The girl left her because she does not see seriousness or future in him.

Story....
it is not realistic to Move on from a Yahoo boy to a Normal income Guy. Absolutely impossible
She can only move from one Yahoo Boi to the Next
(because a Normal income Guy- that work Legit - can never give her such a lavish lifestyle)