₦airaland Forum

Lieutenant83:
It's gud he's pushing wheel barrow and not pushing drugs

Pentagon007:
Guy I don't even know where to start to narrate my own life. Especially when i check my age and check all the effort i put in and the level i am, i go just tire. Wake up by 5 yo arrive at work before 7:30 and close of work by 5. Rinse n repeat everyday. The work is not even something one can rely on to start a family and there is not even something else by the side i can hold hand to say i want to start family. No Age, No time, No money..The stress and frustration is Maddening. Honestly i wish i was NEVER born. These days i have to drink enough satchet of alcohol to induce myself to sleep.

Zonefree:
Remember when JP was on a boat and shouting "i have 3 boys o, na only me go train them".

The children you're bothered and worried how they will survive without you, another man will take care of them when you die and there's nothing you can do from the grave.

As a man, do whatever in your capacity not to die. Take care of yourself, be selfish with your decisions cos life is not programmed to favour MEN.

Calitoscassius:
beoming a daddy is not even a problem, people seem to have forgotten HIV, HIV still exist.

sylve11:
We have "One Man, One Matchet"

by

T.M.Aluko


This time around is "One Day, One Trouble"

By

Researchers.


Normally, if you can stay away from sex, you will stay away from troubles.

Hushpuppy20:
If them born una well come out and protest, I will keep saying my own, the only moment you can show your strength is through your vote...firstly dethrone all their council chairman and councillors which means you are sending a message ahead of 2027.

Max24:
Every sensible group knows that Tinubu has a good plan for this country and is making efforts. Only unpatriotic people think they must oppose him because he is not their kinsman.

Antoeni:
If you save ₦20 everyday, it will be

₦20 × 7 = ₦140 per week

₦140 × 30 = ₦4,200 per month.

₦4,200 × 365= ₦1,533,000 per year.

I care about you. Be wise and start saving now, 20 naira means a lot. Don’t sleep on it.

mrvitalis:
Tribalism entered Nigeria army as far back as 1970s

Honestly I look at our military I shake my heads... The poor training they received shown in every Posible way

You have a military where the side of nigeria that performs well in education suddenly fails in the army while the region with just as much graduate as IMO state becomes majority[b] ( yes IMO state produce almost same graduate as North West and North East combined)
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So you need anyone to tell u there is nepotism?

When you promote someone based on nepotism people he trains would be badly trained...

Then you use nepotism to select among the worse or those poorly trained to train the next set...
Then set the worse trained of that set to command the next set.. Do this for 50 years and you have Nigerian Army

Nazgul:
You can always cook in bulk on weekends like Saturdays. Then refrigerate it. Whenever you're going to work all you have to do is to wake up early and microwave the portion you'd like to eat.

You certainly do not have to cook everyday.

Nazgul:
The best thing is to start cooking at home.

I bought old layer (live) chicken N6,500 on Saturday to prepare stew. I still have the stew in my fridge. All I do is to boil rice and eat with it to my satisfaction.

Cooking at home is now more economical. Just try to get basic provisions like rice, yam, plantain, garri, oil, beans...etc. And you'll be fine.

Bellotelli:
#3,500 at least

We4all:
There is something I have observed over time which I find very satisfying. Quantity doesn't matter to me when eating. What gives me satisfaction is the meat and not the quantity of food. Eating meat makes me drink lots of water and keeps me full.

nsesam:
Before now a plate of garri and soup use to be #1000 but now it's #1700

ugodson:
Well is 1500 here in owerri. Vegetable soup with 2meat and d eba is quite ok and d soup use style plenty so i eat it twice. No complains

Seunpapa65:
No put body now u don carry twins for head

CountinBlessins:
Those old postpartum belly having human resource managers are all useless old women.

You see them employing young beautiful girls to work under them just so they can believe they too are still hip and beautiful

Those old cargos should be changed every 4 year max.

They are devoid of ideas after 4 years and the longer they remain they start playing corporate politics in the head office

Those old women whom every executive director has slept with , whose husband's are fathering other people's children should be changed every 4 years abeg .

Nonsense women whose dreams died in their youth but choose to remain as HR head for decades yet are as useless as a the P in psychology .

Talkisneeded:
A common act everywhere...
Survival is winning, companies does that because they think it aids their survival, you too should develop a survivor mindset.

I sell herbs

EmperorCaesar:
Experienced this as a staff of a company, where I got to see my exact role being listed as a vacant one on a job listing website.

I couldn't ask the HR why but was scared. It became worst few days later when the lady directly below me came in to tell me the management called her to a meeting and had informed her of their plans to make her understudy me for three months before coming to announce her as my new Boss....Lol that's the craziest thing I heard


I couldn't walk up to the management or even the HR to confirm the news, and I know she's a over-ambitious person that's always eyed being my Boss


Well, before the end of that three months, I got a new and better offer and I left them....so she finally has the chance to boss them all in my absence.

Whether wetin she tell me na true or not, me no know till date but at least, we are all happy now

CatchMeIfUCanMO:
Mr man focus on your life, improve your life.

Don't just pause your life because of your relationship.

My candid advice is to slow things down and increase your hustle but always check on her once once.
During this period, you will know the direction of your relationship.

JimD:
That's just her way of saying, you're option B, I want to wait a bit to see if Option A will show up

OboOlora:
This is an old gist BTW, and what is HOME LAND SECURITY madam reporter?

Nor be new thing, this kind of story is rampant in UK at the moment.

Most men are at the mercy of the women, and the women are bleeping anyhow cos they make the same amount of money as the men (sometimes even more cos they pack extra shift more than the husbands).

Women will only respect you when you are financially better than them. If they feel they are at par with you, and share financial responsibilities with you, otilor.

The way they are bleeping those COS girls, afi ki Olorun shaaanu.

Visit my page to read a story about one...

Honestey:
She no mention who can sweep, mop, wash plates I for show up

peterboro:
What am i doing?
I can do everything she mentioned there through Christ that strengthen me. As long as she's the one in charge of anything that has to do with fund.

Please tell her to contact me.

tobenuel:
lolz, well that's women for us. their reasoning is out of this world. what will be her own contribution to the so called union, just to lay down like a drained log of wood

tobenuel:
Whats the meaning of PDA?

Chickenandchips:
I Want An Educated Man Who Can Pray, Cook, Do Laundry, Loves PDA And Can ‘Perform’ For Marriage - US-based Nigerian Lady

She stated that the man must love plants and know how to pronounce certain words before she can consider him.

A US-based Nigerian woman, Ogechukwu Christine Kalu, has taken to Facebook to list the characteristics she requires in a man for marriage.

The educational consultant, in a post on Sunday, June 2, 2024, said the man should know how to cook, do laundry, enjoy other house chores, PDA and “perform.”

She stated that the man must love plants and know how to pronounce certain words before she can consider him.
 
"Now that my DM is clogged with “I love you” let me reinstate that I am single. Looking for a cute man, well educated, God fearing, knows how to pray and intercede for the family, can cook and enjoys laundry, is homely and can fold clothes immediately after laundry.

Enjoys house chores, can take care of kids and also has a good job business and/or great career prospects. Loves PDA and can perform. Loves plants. Enjoys listening to worship. Expects loyalty, respect, faithfulness because he gives and is capable of giving them long term. Listens to understand and not to respond. Knows how to pronounce “parallelogram, Otorhinolaryngologist, and Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious”

Babastrong:
We are enjoying in my area. They no born any fulani well to enter someone's farm and eat. Hummn heads will

Mopolchi:
These people are very wicked. Army should do the needful.

TheOmalicha:
So the children of A rich man should live like the children of a struggling mum? Because they are living like that?

The man is capable, let his children enjoy the good life.
Poor man go call am waste....lmao

Since you love comparing, why not compare his family with that of Dangote? Abi na only poor people you dey use take do example?

I'm a big fan of people living within their means.
If the man can give his kids a good lifestyle, it is not a bad thing.

Btw he never complained of his wife buying bonestraight or worldly frivolous items for herself with the money.

Anyway if e reach your turn, give your children stream water to drink in order to save cost.

fistonati:
Hope she won't stop her future husband from doing the same for his siblings.

TheOmalicha:
Lmao
You people are not in touch with reality or maybe una no get family to feed, that's why you don't know the money involved

Anyway let me just be reading and hope this man is not unfortunate to take advice from people who know how much just breakfast cost