Fashion › Re: Body Piercings: She Stopped Talking To Me Because I Told Her This. by OvertheTop(m): 6:04pm On Nov 26, 2025 |
Kobojunkie: All she did was stop talking to you, and you felt you should come here and to whine to us about it as though to suggest that you are entitled to hee energy and attention in or way or form?  chai... junkie, You must be a Very Troublesome lady o... Do you have a man? you go worry that man o.... i really pity him |
Romance › Re: “i’m Better Off Alone” – Man Says After Spending Over 100K On A Date by OvertheTop(m): 6:05pm On Nov 24, 2025 |
Immatex: Being happily married to a loyal woman (SPDAZZY) for 10 years and I will always count my marriage a blessing from God.
Never being insensitive to her demands but has proven to be Godly, virtuous, loving wife and mother, something now quite rear about this generation of women.
Our commitment is for happily ever after!
By the way, she’s also very brilliantly and only recently became a phd holder from a UK top university. Have you lost your Job before while she takes care of the Bills for 6 Months? |
Health › Re: Update: Burning Sensation Around Testicle Zones And Waist by OvertheTop(m): 3:41pm On Nov 24, 2025 |
seunlayi: Nairaland sef.... This are not topic you bring to FP on Monday morning like this. Why not evening or weekends?  . Someone is needing immediate Advice, you are suggesting he should persevere till weekend... what if its an emergency? |
Health › Re: Update: Burning Sensation Around Testicle Zones And Waist by OvertheTop(m): 3:38pm On Nov 24, 2025 |
Demetrix: Sequel to my last thread where I complained about a burning sensation in my testicle area, a lot of persons advised that I go for scan for a possible testicle torsion case.
I went for scan and ran all the possible scan from abdominal to testicle scan and nothing was found. The sensation stopped and I was found.
However of recent the burning sensation around my left testicle started again and sometimes I notice it moves up to my waist area in form of weird pains.
Please what do you suggest I do.
Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/8509171/pain-lower-abdomen-testicles if its not gonorrhea (if you are normally have Unprotected Sex) , then its staphylococcus aureus Go for UTI (urinary tract infection) tests |
Romance › Re: My Girl Broke Up With Me Because Of Hairstyle Money. by OvertheTop(m): 12:18pm On Nov 22, 2025 |
Kobojunkie: 1. Women are not commodities; rather, relationships are transactional. Note the difference! A man who wants a certain type of woman should be willing and able to take on a part of what it costs— be it financial cost, emotional, physical& mental labor, etc.,— for her to maintain herself in the way that he likes her. A man who wants a woman who dresses like a million dollars should be ready to have to take on some of the cost of maintaining that million-dollar look that he so likes. This is nothing new. 
There have always been costs associated with dating culture; this is something that adult men and women have engaged in for centuries; only a child of a man would think he could get a woman he cannot afford above his range at no cost to him.  2. I don't play these childish games with your kind, using the content of that book, which you lot have little or no regard for at the end of the day. 🥱🥱🥱🥱 relationships are transactionalNo Wonder Hookup became the new Norm. This is the Exact reason |
Politics › Re: The 'Many Wives' Of Lt. AM Yerima Who Stood Up To Wike by OvertheTop(m): 1:43pm On Nov 15, 2025 |
Adaisback: not actually handsome but brave and bold guys. Don't be a simp. Be a man that can stand up to your fellow man anytime , any day and you are good to go Guys Don't fall for this manipulation, More Conflicts will be Created for you to Solve.... and the Result is untimely Death |
Sports › Re: Africa Should Have Fewer World Cup Places - Gattuso by OvertheTop(m): 1:15pm On Nov 15, 2025 |
Jagabanfromcali: Can some one point out where he said that in the passage ? It can be interpreted that he wants more slots for European countries just like more slotted have been allocated to African and South American continents but sensationalism sells Exactly, that is what i read and understood too |
Sports › Re: Africa Should Have Fewer World Cup Places - Gattuso by OvertheTop(m): 1:12pm On Nov 15, 2025 |
SeverusSnape: Gattuso that I used to like that year at AC Milan??.  The reality of Life: A person you Like will Not always Say what you want to hear.... Know this and Know Peace |
Health › Re: Migraine: How Can One Handle It? by OvertheTop(m): 1:07pm On Nov 15, 2025 |
Sandjoe: Every migraine has its triger . Stress, light , even hunger and eating inappropriate kinds of food. Identity it and avoid it and you will be free from migraine. Exactly |
Health › Re: Migraine: How Can One Handle It? by OvertheTop(m): 12:51pm On Nov 15, 2025 |
GravityDefier: Happy new day wonderful people of NL. A close friend of mine has been having severe migraine that seems to be increasing with each passing year. This is gradually putting her in a state of depression as the medication she has been taking (Lexotan) is not working effectively on her again. She's scared of tramadol addiction so she had to disregard it upon the Doctor's prescription.
This has given me much concern on how to help but just don't know how to. I confirmed it has no cure. The pain transfers to her ears, eyes and now to her tooth which made her to remove the tooth of recent (Doctor's suggestion).
She goes through this experience at least 2-3 times every week which makes her to take the drugs in excess as it's now almost non-effective.
Those who have experience + Doctors in the house, is there any means (herbal or any surgery) that can help? Caution: consult your doctor before useCafergot Works for Me 100%. within 15 mins, it Disappears.But it has side effects: mine was: Diarrhea after like 1 hour but its very minimal. Cost: Its kind of Expensive now: Like 10k for 20 Tab For Your InformationThe first and most important step in managing migraines is identifying your personal triggers. This requires careful self-observation and paying attention to what usually happens before a migraine starts. Common triggers may include: Bright light Loud noise Smoke Hunger Screens or devices Stress or lack of sleep Once you identify your trigger, the next step is to control it or avoid it as much as possible. For example, my personal triggers were:1. Looking at a phone or computer screen in the dark for more than 30 minutes 2. Staying on the computer for too many hours (10+ hours) By avoiding or reducing exposure to these triggers, the number of migraine episodes decreased significantly. After that, I could reduce how often I needed medication—because taking migraine medicine for too long can also have side effects. |
Health › Re: Migraine: How Can One Handle It? by OvertheTop(m): 12:45pm On Nov 15, 2025 |
Azazyel: Cafergot would do a better job most importantly, that migraine is a symptom of an underlying issue in the body. Check your blood pressure, pcv or check if you have blood clots. Stop using NSAIDs This Works for Me 100%. within 15 mins, it Disappears.but it has side effects: mine was: Diarrhea after like 1 hour but its very minimal. |
Romance › Re: Girlfriend Dumps Yahoo Boyfriend After He Went Broke by OvertheTop(m): 3:32pm On Nov 14, 2025 |
Bendeco02: Which sensible woman will like to stay with Yahoo boy for long time relationship or marriage?
Just as men only date wayward fine girls but don't marry them that's how girls sees Yahoo guys because their life is not even safe with them.
Most Yahoo guy are just like jobless men. They make money but can never invest it. As the money is coming that's how they lavish it, once it stop flowing they become broke again.
Someone will pick 6M in January, by June he goes broke again. The girl left her because she does not see seriousness or future in him. Story.... it is not realistic to Move on from a Yahoo boy to a Normal income Guy. Absolutely impossible She can only move from one Yahoo Boi to the Next (because a Normal income Guy- that work Legit - can never give her such a lavish lifestyle) |
Romance › Re: Girlfriend Dumps Yahoo Boyfriend After He Went Broke by OvertheTop(m): 3:23pm On Nov 14, 2025 |
OgaTheTop2: Just get money in life...legit money. Not only that....it must not Finish....if not.... |
Phones › Re: Why Is MTN Installing Optic Fibre Lines Under Electricity Lines?? by OvertheTop(m): 2:32pm On Nov 14, 2025 |
ikorodureporta: Can someone enlighten us about the ongoing project by a telecom company. I heard it's by MTN. They're installing optic fibre lines to all houses...
But I'm worried that it's under electricity lines in some areas.....
BTW, do they want to phase-out their masts??
The picture below is from Ikorodu. FTTH (Fibre to Home) is basically for very high speed Data Services. Not to replace normal Phone calls. so i don't think they are phasing out masts But using your subscribe data package , you can still make Data Calls |
Celebrities › Re: "I Didn't Marry An 'underage' Regina", She Told Me She Was 21 - Ned Nwoko by OvertheTop(m): 4:05pm On Nov 13, 2025 |
SixSeven: Why will you post Regina's personal information online like this just to prove a point To prove your perception Wrong....and perhaps to Stop your Biase. |
Celebrities › Re: "I Didn't Marry An 'underage' Regina", She Told Me She Was 21 - Ned Nwoko by OvertheTop(m): 4:02pm On Nov 13, 2025 |
AKONE: This claim of Ned doesn't make sense. She told you she was 21, but you found out she was 19 from the Voters card, but a more reliable means of identification (International Passport) which you used in travelling with her shows that she was 17. Who is fooling who? show the Passport here.... Voter card is just has Authentic as International Passport (how many people have International Passport?) |
Crime › Re: Meet Wife Of Ozioma Okonkwo Who Falsely Accused Him Of Defiling Their Daughters by OvertheTop(m): 4:00pm On Nov 13, 2025 |
dederocs: Nigerian police very unprofessional conduct here, like in many cases, they just take the report of the complainant, and treat a defendant like he is guilty, even before conducting any investigation.
Nigeria is a dangerous place where someone can fabricate lies, and the police will lock you up without evidence or proof, this is very bad. Police should investigate before locking people in cells. sadly, Abroad, they would not even charge the Woman.... they will just let her go... Except the man Decide to take it up himself to sue for damages |
Celebrities › Re: "I Didn't Marry An 'underage' Regina", She Told Me She Was 21 - Ned Nwoko by OvertheTop(m): 12:37pm On Nov 13, 2025 |
tayepop: Women!!! Dey play. The one wey i fall in love with destroy my life, born, carry pikin go. I never still see another job like this after she go lie on top me for work make dem sack me. Na her evil face be that. You will get over it..... just Forgive yourself , pick yourself up and Get your Guards up... You will be fine Again.... |
Celebrities › Re: "I Didn't Marry An 'underage' Regina", She Told Me She Was 21 - Ned Nwoko by OvertheTop(m): 12:32pm On Nov 13, 2025 |
JuanDeDios: This is the fifth age I'm hearing for that Regina. 17 (Regina in recent times), 18 (her cousin), 20 (her mother), 21 (Ned), 19 (someone I can't remember). I've heard all. which one presented a FG KYC approved document. Voter card is the Most valid So far. other ones are international Passport, Drivers license |
Celebrities › Re: "I Didn't Marry An 'underage' Regina", She Told Me She Was 21 - Ned Nwoko by OvertheTop(m): 12:28pm On Nov 13, 2025 |
Ponmoalata: You kept the evidence because you knew what you were doing was wrong.
If you had marriaged a 30 or 35 years old, would you have kept the same records?
You go shalaye tire.
Men who looks for the exact age of consent to date are mostly pdfs.
If society permits, they would have dated lower lol. The Evidence was kept for this Period and for people like You: when you raise concern in the future. that future is NOW. By the way that Voter CARD is one of the most Accepted Documentation for KYC in Nigeria. you cannot Falsify your AGE on a voter Card. if you do, you are in a great mess |
Celebrities › Re: "I Didn't Marry An 'underage' Regina", She Told Me She Was 21 - Ned Nwoko by OvertheTop(m): 12:20pm On Nov 13, 2025 |
Wealthoptulent: Oga u go EXPLAIN TIRED! now strong head don kpai ur POLITIOCAL CAREER!
Just wait till the girl present her BIRTH CERT, and also push the narrative that u forced her to do AFFIDAVITS, so she can VOTE for u, na den e go DONE like beans cooked with jus LIGHTER flick
i no dey with WHEELBARROW oo, i no even dey on her side at all.. they both not SAINT, they both USERS. mine is MARRIAGE is not DO OR D!£ AFFAIRS, as it is now an Irreconcilable conflict, if they get back , ONE SPANNER go LOST
a SONG says "No CRI for ME, but for URSEF" i look like online INLAW? i am not taking side, infact "NONPARTISAN". Marriage no be DO or DIE. when i talk on such this MATTER, KNOW i AM SPEAKING FROM EXPERIANCE and PAST. have you DIVORCED bfr? if NO,
"I am ur SUPERIOR, i will be Talking and a Policeman will be talking, don't talk when i talk" Oga, Did you see your Wife's birth Certificate before you married her. This Evidence is clear enough....no need for birth Certificate |
Celebrities › Re: "I Didn't Marry An 'underage' Regina", She Told Me She Was 21 - Ned Nwoko by OvertheTop(m): 12:15pm On Nov 13, 2025 |
ussv: He could have asked for a copy of her birth certificate, she does not look 21 in that picture, my opinion though. We have seen obviously underaged children voting with legit voters card in this country, no be today. Its Obvious from your Statement that if they give you 1000 Evidences, You will Never be Convinced. WHY: Because You are already Biased from the Start |
Crime › Re: Meet Wife Of Ozioma Okonkwo Who Falsely Accused Him Of Defiling Their Daughters by OvertheTop(m): 11:57am On Nov 13, 2025 |
Lovit: But wait o, does it mean that if a lady accuses a man of something, police no dey do investigation?
why is the world against men?
A woman accuses her husband of raping the children, no one asked questions, no one investigated to confirm if true, you just bundle him to station
No one asked her to present a proof, CCTV footage or any other evidence to back up her claim
Na wa o! Allegedly, The nail on the coffin for the man was that: She had been tutoring the kids to confirm it ( say your daddy touch your bum bum on Saturday) |
Crime › Re: Meet Wife Of Ozioma Okonkwo Who Falsely Accused Him Of Defiling Their Daughters by OvertheTop(m): 11:52am On Nov 13, 2025 |
columbus007: Let those who have ears let them hear. The Reality of Life is : You can not be too cautious....we can only pray it does not happen to us! 1. you cannot avoid women completely. that's not the logical solution. Just like: You cannot avoid 'crossing the road' because of a story on : hit and run Accident |
Crime › Re: Meet Wife Of Ozioma Okonkwo Who Falsely Accused Him Of Defiling Their Daughters by OvertheTop(m): 11:40am On Nov 13, 2025 |
marksonrick: Life, in all you do, make you no ever keep bad records. you don't need to keep bad records... it can be pasted on YOU. we just hope it does not happen to us... |
Crime › Re: Meet Wife Of Ozioma Okonkwo Who Falsely Accused Him Of Defiling Their Daughters by OvertheTop(m): 11:38am On Nov 13, 2025 |
Sirheny007: Let those who were vocal in their condemnation be as loud in their apologies! They would never Apologize |
Crime › Re: Meet Wife Of Ozioma Okonkwo Who Falsely Accused Him Of Defiling Their Daughters by OvertheTop(m): 11:36am On Nov 13, 2025*. Modified: 3:47pm On Nov 13, 2025 |
Lifestone: How were they able to know the truth? Allegedly: 1. Medicals on the kids shows they were never defiled.... 2. You know they are kids naa, they will eventually mis-yarn unknowingly. especially when the Person doing the Questioning is very creative with Questions (an open minded person) 3. The kids eventually said: it was their mother that was Pre-teaching them what to say....before she eventually took the next step of raising the fake alarm. I give a Big kudos to the investigator. |
Food › Re: How Much Do You Spend On Feeding In A Day This 2025? by OvertheTop(m): 3:55pm On Nov 07, 2025 |
Love800: What do you mean by the bolded? it simply means, To Cook take a lot of Effort. u na dey try.... |
Food › Re: How Much Do You Spend On Feeding In A Day This 2025? by OvertheTop(m): 5:28pm On Nov 05, 2025 |
2Ways: I don't buy food daily, every month end, I buy stocks in bulk and they carry me till month end. I barely eat at restaurants unless it's necessary but on occasion.
From your 200k you can plan yourself. Since you said you are a bachelor. For a start you could keep 70-80k for feeding in a month. If you buy rice, beans, yam, seasoning cubes, oil (both red and vegetable oil), onions, buy dry pepper probably a modu then grind and put in a container.
Garri probably 2k should carry for a month... And other ingredients. This won't exceed 70k...
Keep small change for fruits, it's very important. At least twice a week you need some fruits. Then you will need a lot of patience and TIME to Cook. These 2 things(TIME and Patience) are overlooked but can be Quite challenging if your Work place is FAR from HOME |
Food › Re: How Much Do You Spend On Feeding In A Day This 2025? by OvertheTop(m): 5:16pm On Nov 05, 2025 |
Jakarta: Eating out 3k a day? Oh boy you try oh. Even with I better pass my neighbour chicken Republic cheap rice and chicken, 3k can't feed me a day. If I should manage at least 6k daily and that means skipping lunch. I think I need to study how those family man earning below150k monthly manage to take care of their families. 6k x 30 = 180k that means your income must minimum of 900k/ month to take care of other manly Expenses |
Food › Re: How Much Do You Spend On Feeding In A Day This 2025? by OvertheTop(m): 5:07pm On Nov 05, 2025 |
SpencerForbes: As a bachelor myself, I've picked up a valuable lesson – cooking my own meals has been a game-changer. I used to eat out a lot, but now I've switched to buying foodstuffs in bulk. I can stock up on groceries worth 90k-100k and I've even gotten a gas cooker.
So, I either whip up meals myself or get someone to come over and prepare them for me. Whenever I'm heading out, adding something to my meal prep rarely costs more than 10k. It's a huge saving compared to the 120k+ I used to blow before. 🚶♂️ if you factor the Cost of Gas, Transport to get all the Stuff, the Raw food monthly, its about same as eating outside. the real Difference is in the QUANTITY to BE EATEN. |
Food › Re: How Much Do You Spend On Feeding In A Day This 2025? by OvertheTop(m): 5:01pm On Nov 05, 2025 |
Hezzyluv: 5k that is 150k in a Month. chai  for just feeding... no flex, No transport, No GFrend, No kids School fee No House rent No Kids Transport, No Family upkeep. This country is Gone!! |