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if you have d fear of God in you, you dnt commit sin, but when the reverse is the case, u def will sin.

OP, why have you choosen 2 give satan the LONG FORK 2 dine with you in ur marriage. Honestly, 4rm the very moment you made up ur mind 2 get married 2 him, plans wuld hav been in place already by d both of you as regds ur job nd relocation. if u ask me whose fault, i wuld say u gave room 4 all d mess going on cos i havnt actually heard of couples who choose not 2 be 2geda especially when in d same country.why marry den? you both shuld av remained lovers till you get a good job in lag. well, in other not 2 bore you, let me just inform you as per the SEX tin dat when a man get emotionally attached 2 a particularly available PUSSi, especially one dat is good @it, jus knw dat d former no more count. Relocate as soon as possible, no fighting cos its nt his fault, u both shuld sort tinz out and make sure u fork shit outta him, i dint say lie down 4 him 2 do all d job. u takeover ride him till he scream ur name and beg 4more. make sure u return back 4 testimony o, ;Dall d best

girl, my advice first is for you not 2 sin against GOD. you were bought at a price by our LORD JESUS CHRIST, His blood was shed 4 u nd i. do not let one minute of enjoyment land u a lifetime of regret. That voice ur hearing is dat of satan. remember he never builds but destroy. command satan 2 get behind you, you instead of seeking 4 a meeting wif ur ex, softly tell him ur now gettin married and flee 4rm every apperance of him. Finally tink of how u will feel if ur hubby go back 2 sleep wit his ex! Wish you the best in ur marriage!

some people just bomp into someone thread, one who,s already damaged and hurtin badly, foolishly and stupidly bash d person with insult as if dey have THE PERFECT LIFE, only in their IGNORANCE, they expect people 2 like their post and applaud dem. Godiswashingyou as u no get conscience!

A BIG CONGRATS!

my dear, my advice for you is to first of all reconcile and rededicate your relationship with
JESUS, if you haven't. Remember, the bible says , seek ye first his kingdom and all other things will be added
unto you. Secondly, let every potential suitor know your stand with Christ that you are born again then leave it
to God to perform his Miracle in your Life. Do what is required of you and let God take over. shalom!

my dear, my advice fo

@freecoco,How do you know 100% that you are not wrong?

There's this thing about we human beings,most times our ways seems right to us, you think you are the one who's right and he also thinks he's the one who's right.

True sometimes we know when we are wrong\right but you got to admit its not always,sometimes we may be wrong but think we are right,NO?

Anyways i'm asking cos i'm kinda confused now i'm in a fight with my man and its lasted for 4 days now without a word to each other(the first time I'm experiencing such),Now I'm certain I'm right and he maybe thinking the same thing(he's right),I'm not finding it funny anymore but i vowed that i won't say sorry first or even talk to him first yet i want to talk about it to know if we are breaking up or forging ahead,its just really frustrating


Mydear, if you want to start justifying wrong or right in a relationship then you will definately have a long way to go. before i met my husband, i dated someone who can never and will never say sorry even if he's wrong, but i kept saying sorry all along and guess what, He tell whoever cares to know dat am his life cos of my simplicity towards him. i eventually fled 4 my life, when i knew dat was'nt what i wanted to live with 4 the rest of my life. if you really Love this guy, Just take the initiative, den sort things out later. In my marriage, i always send my hubby text msg cos dat seem easier 4 me and when he get back frm work, he returns with gift and kisses. the rest is history. all d best girl!

Do you say sorry to your spouse even though he/she is wrong just to ease tension? my take,
i think if we cultivate the habit of saying SORRY even when we are
not wrong, it will go a long way. well for me, i always do. what do you' all tink?

@OP, i hardly post coment but i will have to do dis. i hope its not the guy i dumped dat you endednup dating.lol. yes i actually dated someon dat did exactly same 2 me, but 2 cut the long story short, i played along till i traveld abroad 4 studies. if i tell you guys d way he molested and ridicule me b4 i left nija, everyone will call me a fool. despite workin at a bank and doing very well, my fiance culnt afford 2 give a ten kobo gift or sum of money b4 i traveled. whereas during his uni days i will be under the rain at 4pm beggin bank of the north den to pls open their gate so i culd have access to enter and send money 2 him cos he was strnded even though bank have closed. immediately he got his job with access bank my bf changed and became a monster. well am now married 2 d best man in d universe nt because he,s loaded cos he,s nt yet, but because he fears JESUS. we have a son and we r happy 2geda. mydear, my advice 2 you is to run 4 ur dear life nd believin urself and ask God 2 send ur husband ur way. i forgot 2 mention dat 2weeks 2 my wedding d big boy banker was still beggin me 2 accept him back, but i told him, he has lost his chances and honestly he lost it 4eva. pls @ op, move on jor. enof said!

@OP, May I kindly remind you that once upon a time your mother conceived you and gave you a chance to life, if you were aborted at two weeks, you will not be here today. well, I dont care how many people choose to attack me. I speak the bitter truth and stand by it. your been preggy is an act of you/spouses carelessness so why terminate or deny an innocent child the opportunity to have a life. The sin of abortion is grave! stop it, have a rethink, and have this baby and do not choose dis husband of yours over an innocent BARACK OBAMA of the future. My sis married 21yrs ago still searching 4 the fruit of the womb while your are here planning and devising means of destroying this precious gift from GOD!

@biabeke, please kindly forward a copy of d maggie ebook  to me please, please and please.lol      my email addy is  eoyanu@yahoo.com

@biabeke, please kindly forward a copy of d maggie ebook to me please, please and please.lol my email addy is eoyanu@yahoo.com

i never knew NAIRALANDERS carry fake rumour,becos to my best of knowledge, i and banky w are stil dating,though he has'nt propose yet,but i know he ll do dat soon.so wher is dis rubbish coming out from,after all we hav a gr8t sex life

marriage is honourable,in all the bed undefiled. To all the VIRGINS in d house,GOOD JOB,IF UR A LADY,STILL HOLD ON TIGHTER TIL D D-DAY COMES.U WILL NEVER REGRET DIS COS U WILL REMAIN D PRIDE OF UR MAN. @SEUN,DONT BOTHERSTRESS DIS ISSUE,D TRUTH IS DAT VIRGINS ARE HARD 2 COME BY,SO GUYS JUS GO 4 WATEVER IS AVAILABLE ,SO WHENEVER SUCH TOPICS ARISES,INSTEAD OF BIN SINCERE WIF THEMSELVES,THEY RATHER CHOOSE D DEFENCE SIDE.AM PROUD 2 BE A VIRGIN,I DONT CARE HOW/WHAT U FEEL

haven gone tru all d replies,i would like 2 cap it up by sayin,the poster bigboyslim,is very immature,childish and still boyish in d game of luv.his act of irresponsility is obvious,and wit his high sence of ego disease dat he has,he wil always continue 2 fall in and out of relationship.people like u are not ready 4 commitment so why bodering urself ova a lady dat probably has moved on, sure she has,cos by leavin u shuld be d best tin dat has ever hapnd 2 her dis yr.BUT DNT 4GET DAT WHATEVER WE DO 2DAY,GOES A LONG WAY 2 WAIT 4 US IN D FUTURE,SO BCAREFL HOW U TREAT LADIES,COS U LL SURE NOT EXCAPE D SAME TREATMENT.BUT ONE TIN D HOUSE IS NOT AWARE OF IS DAT,YOU ARE YET 2 TELL D TRUTH OF D WHOLE STORY,COS IF MY BOYFRND LEFT ME 4 ANODA GIRL AND DECIDE 2 COME BK AFTER REALISIN HIS MISTAKE,I LL SURE 4GIV HIM AND TAKE HIM BK WIT OPEN HAND.BUT LOOKIN AT D WHOLE WRITEUP,AND UR UNWILLINGNESS 2 APOLOGIES 4 BIN WRONG,IT MEANS PROBABLY UV BEEN LYING 2 HER ABOUT EVERYTIN SINCE D START OF D RLTSHP,AND SHE GOT 2 DISCOVA D REAL YOU.SURE NO LADY LL EVA TRUST A GUY WHO 4RM D START OF A RLTSHP LIED ABOUT HIS JOB,STATUS,FAMILY,ACADEMIC BACKGROUD 2 MENTION BUT A FEW.MY ADVISE 2 U IS 2 COM DOWN 4RM DAT HIGH MOUNTAIN WHERE U ARE,(EGO)AND EMBRACE REALITY.[color=#990000][/color]OR U GO CONTINUE THE SHIT 4 CHURCH. [quote][/quote]

wonders shall never end.GOD HAVE MERCY ON US ALL. ladies beware of guys u meet tru d net,log on 2 nairaland,browse learn 4rm post dt are worth learning 4rm and return back 2 d reality of living ur normal life.d moment u make d mistake of starting any rltshp with someone who hides his real identity,u ll be sweettalkd in2 eternal regret.then,u might hav bin so used and rubbished.THERE IS NO TRUE LOVE ON THE INTERNET.LOOK UNTO GOD,HE ALONE CROSSES TWO PATH.IN GODS TIME,HE LL MAKE ALL THINGS BEAUTIFUL.AND WHEN D RIGHT GUY OR GIRL SHOWED UP,IT IS ALL SRESS FREE,VOID OF SRUGGLIN.BUT LADIES,DONT 4GET,SAY NO 2 PRE-MARITAL SEX,NO MATA D PRESSURE,COS SEX IS WORTH WAITING 4.

mine is felistikal_licia@yahoo.com

3 months

i claim all the blessings attached with this testimonies in d name of JESUS,and i ll have cause to return back to nairaland and testify.

Thanx emma,ll save more cash

tnx emma,really appreciat.but how much do u tink cobhams cn produce a five track album?

NOTHING DO US, OO I HAIL

benue chic 4eva