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i think they will be judged based on the life they led before their insanity. Example, if a man who slept with someone's wife was jazzed! such a man sure committed sin before madness started naw!!!!



my one cent anyways!

Is there any justice in this world? is there any justice in Nigeria at all? Does the leaders of this great nation have blood flowing in their body? can't the leaders and the justice system feel the pain of the masses that even SATAN cried at the INHUMANE and HORRIBLE way those promising life's and dreams were yanked off. IF one of the boys was Madam FAKA patience Jonathan's cousin, would they be that patient not to bring the perpetrators to face the law? I mentioned cousin because if any of the boy's was their son, MOPOL would have gone to the community and started opening Fire on passersby. Sonny Ades guitarist who was caught with cocaine recently, has been sentenced to three years imprisonment as i read from LADUN'S blog. So if at a short space of time, justice was served to this Baba, What about ALLU 4 killers, whom some are still roaming the street of ALLU community feeling like HEROS /HEROINS?

Had a dream three days ago, i was led hand in hand by an angel and taken to HEAVEN!, I was shown the shiny, glittering beautiful street of Heaven. I asked few questions, and the answer came through always in a supernatural form where the ANGEL does not have to speak to answer me but i receive it straight in my heart. Heaven is breathtaking!, the atmosphere in HEAVEN is glorious, word of mouth can't describe it, my heart is too small to still fathom all i saw, it can only be imagined. No dictionary word can describe HEAVEN!,...I fell in love WITH HEAVEN! while been shown around, i begged to stay back. But the ANGEL replied, YOU HAVE TO GO BACK, Go and TELL THEM ALL THAT YOU HAVE SEEN. He then led me by hand through a door written, DOOR OF LIFE! There He stopped, and watch me go through the door as i turn back to look at Him and He ask me not to. Then Came His voice saying, Tell them all you saw, but most importantly, tell them HEAVEN IS REAL!!!.........Then i woke up.....Friends, Heaven is real. You don't wanna miss it, I don't wanna miss it either......May this come to you as a reminder that we all are strangers here on earth, and when this phase is over, we return, face to face with the KING.....Yes! That means JUDGEMENT! ...Lord help us all.

Lord heal your daughter IN JESUS NAME AMEN!

Thank sophy, Godbless

Thanks so much,Larry-sun, and greatGod2012, will study those scriptures. Godbless ya'all.

Dear Nairaland friend, am very greatful to God almighty for starting this new year, whole and healthy. My life story is one of a novel, so to say. AM seriously expecting a miracle in my life this year, even though am at the moment going through some unsweet moment of my life, all i need from you all is to please encourage me, say a prayer and remember me in your individual praying time. May God almighty bless you back even as you pray for me. cheers

Mydear Beegold, Really you case is that of someone who is pouring Fuel on an already burning fire.
Am not here to condemn you becos all marriages go through trial and how you manage this difficult moment is what will
make you a better person in the nearest future. I presume you really are looking out for people to ask you to proceed
with divorce right, but the truth still remains that even if you divorce your wife today, the next lady is a potential
toxins waiting to explode. No one ever said marriage will be easy. we are the bride of Christ, despite our sins and all,
He still forgives and show more love than ever. Sit your wife down again, and work things through with her before the
JEZEBEL lady destroy your joy forever. Marry the jezebel and she will sleep with anything behind your back since she has
the guts to climb a Matrimonial bed. I am a married woman, and i tell you at times, i get frustrated, but truth be told, the Good side
of my hubby overshadows all. Keep seeing that good part of her, keep communication coming, apologise if ur wrong, appreciate and tell her
how beautiful she look, be physical with show of affection, drop those small notes of i love you, dnt skip intimacy., pray together,
have a monthly family review, review as in how the month went, what went wrong and how to be corrected. suprise her with little gift like new under garment,
perfumes, chocolates, etc if all these are in place, mydear, you will be swimming in heaven on earth. Stop fornicating.... All the best as you work things out.

Mydear Beegold, Really you case is that of someone who is pouring Fuel on an already burning fire.
Am not here to condemn you becos all marriages go through trial and how you manage this difficult moment is what will
make you a better person in the nearest future. I presume you really are looking out for people to ask you to proceed
with divorce right, but the truth still remains that even if you divorce your wife today, the next lady is a potential
toxins waiting to explode. No one ever said marriage will be easy. we are the bride of Christ, despite our sins and all,
He still forgives and show more love than ever. Sit your wife down again, and work things through with her before the
JEZEBEL lady destroy your joy forever. Marry the jezebel and she will sleep with anything behind your back since she has
the guts to climb a Matrimonial bed. I am a married woman, and i tell you at times, i get frustrated, but truth be told, the Good side
of my hubby overshadows all. Keep seeing that good part of her, keep communication coming, apologise if ur wrong, appreciate and tell her
how beautiful she look, be physical with show of affection, drop those small notes of i love you, dnt skip intimacy., pray together,
have a monthly family review, review as in how the month went, what went wrong and how to be corrected. suprise her with little gift like new under garment,
perfumes, chocolates, etc if all these are in place, mydear, you will be swimming in heaven on earth. Stop fornicating.... All the best as you work things out.

kulyie, tnx for your comment, so can you now tell me the meaning, seriously i want 2 know cos i so love dat name.

Really siena, i honestly thought she's ibo, buh i just like the name and wants the meaning too. so do u know/

Pls igbos in the house, i want to know the meaning of that name, tnx

Ok, this na my own take. I lived with my own blood sister for almost eleven years.
Even though we were blood related, it never stopped her from treating me like a slave.
At slightest provocation, my ghana must go will see the street that day, hurling all manner
of abuse at me. I saw ghen ghen 4 her hand. i was always abused by her Husband, and because i tuned
down all his advances, he lied to my sister that i disrespect him, therefore the abuse never stopped.
The main housemaid of thr house,that one, my own case better pass her own. Tufiakwa..plus God forbid, never will my
children live with anyone.

Total BONDAGE! For my people perish 4 lack of knowledge. Jesus is the only way, the truth and Life! Repent now! and be saved. JESUS is coming back again!

@kobojunkie, If you do not have an advice for this fellow, why not read and them pass jeje... what is you point now, He needed a way forward out of a problem and you are here passing judgment.
@OP, Listen we all are sinners and living our lives no more by Law rather, we are all saved by grace. Everyone including the clergy men we respect all have one sorts of sin in their life. It doesn't matter how long you want to change and then go back to your old habit. Anytime you make a decision to stop and you see yourself going back to it, just pick up strength and fall on your knees and confess your sins to God. JESUS is a ever loving and forgiving to accept you back. Remember, we all are saved by GRACE. My advice as per your habit is to asked the HOLY-SPIRIT come and reside in you and take total control of you. When that evil thought comes back, simply resist THE devil and see how renewed in mind you will feel. Have constant fellowship by praying and studying the word of God. Genuinely REPENT and give your life back to JESUS and mean it. Focus on your wife and let her know your situation 2 help you in prayers. Finally, ignore any negative comment cos lots of people on this forum have worse lifestyles that they will never disclose, yet Christ sees it and yet forgive. God will help and see you through.

my dear OP, there is no such thing as PERFECT MARRIAGE or home anywhere.Dnt ever mind most of the fake people on this forum my partner dis or dat and den paint a heavenly picture of their union. we all work at our marriage 2 make it what we want. Every marriage has ups and down. when people tell she's very wrong to call you names, 4get it. ignore it, cos they r days u called her names too, and no one heard of dat. jus call her, sit her down, say a word of prayer and hand over the marriage to JESUS to heal all the pains, that is on already, and ask him for further wisdom to make you both the best man and wife that you two desire to be. say sorry to each other, whether right or wrong. that night, make sure u fill in the gap by INTIMACY, u knw what i mean, . But mind you in marriage the DEAF AND DUMB system is the best, what i mean is ignore most things, and say noffin especially when situation is tensed.God will see you tru.

Look at this chimpanzee called OP. I replied based on your post and you are here acting as if your Nyash is on fire. Ode why didn't you give The whole information you gave in your last post? You made it look like she was pounced on and still sitting in the house asking us what to do

Otondo@ jennykadry, if you think in this your disease infested and horrible life that i will not answer you then your are the worst slowpoke still alive. You come over to nairaland to unleash ur frustration on people whom you noffin about. am not bothered cos i know you even in real life as a frustrated fool with a cursed generation. i pity the thing that married you as a wife, cos a CHIMPANZEE will do better. Ugly thing that cant even clean nyash well after pooing. Go clear up the decay in ur teeth b4 u return back to type in ur days job. Anuofia! IDIOT!!! like you. Bring it on! am waitin 2 answer ur stupidity!

My good people of nairaland, you all have spoken well except the miserable WITCH that call herself jennykadry. unbehalf of my dear sister and friend, i said back to sender to you as in no time too, people will gather at your grave to sing RIP on u. To answer most of ur questions, i have to refer to my friends side of the story as to what caused the situation. she was up at 10pm 2 prepare stew for her hubby who always go along with food to his work place. She then asked the hubby who just came back from work to assist with the baby while she was cooking. she said five minutes later, she heard a loud bang followed with the baby crying. what happened was that the hubby dosed off and the baby tumbled from the bed. she ran to the room and been and emotional type, she started crying herself. she said the hubby looked up and saw her crying hissed and turn his back on the bed abandoning both mother and child. this got her so angry that she took the hubby's phone that he gave the baby to play with, hit it on the wall. Hubby seeing that his phone has been banged pounced on her straight without even looking at the baby she was carrying.
1: This is the first time the hubby will display such behaviour as he is the very loving type.
2: The hubby is a junior doctor with one of the most busiest hospital in London, and that to her might end his career, which she said as long as babys fine, she choose to even leave him better than leave him battered.
3: For those who asked why the guy couldnt go home to marry the babe at home. she said when she eventually asked hubby why the marriage ended, the hubby said unknown to him the babe is the type that is so curious about travelling out of the country and after multiple application, she was banned not to apply for UK visa for a long time. Other issues followed and the marriage ended. But as I type this the guy later explained why he acted because his mentor at the hospital where he work refuse to cover him for a minor error according to him, and the anger landed on the poor wife.The guy in question is not a pastor as per owning a church, Where will he even have the time, sundays are mostly his free days. She is out of the house right now and the bobo is begging his life out. He comes around to ma frends house and weep like a baby. My friend on her paths is rounding up her Masters in a couple of weeks, and she's expecting calls from barclays and HSBC. But my candid advice to her is to do what her mind ask her to.

@kobo, and taryour, well done guys,I decided to post this so she see or hear from different angle. Keep it coming guys, more pls cos she's reading all the comment herself with me here. tnx

Mod pls move it 2 FP. i need aggressive response on this matter ooo, thanks

Hey folks, please i need all of your HONEST advice and opinion.Also do attack this matter as its someone dear to you like a sibling or somefin. My childhood friend, a very good singer who's an aspiring artist met this guy in their church in UK. The guy in question is their pianist and she is a member of the choir. Soon after, the guy started asking her hand in marriage and my friend was adamant but after like three months, she gave her consent as she discovered later that the guy was an ordained pastor from Nigeria, an d also the fact that the pastor of their church in UK and almost all the church deacon persuaded her and spoke well of the guy. they got married 2010 and she had a baby 2011. problem started the moment she changed her surname on Facebook a year later and a lady started threatening her that she was going to be killed for marrying her husband. She showed the message 2 her husband who asked her 2 ignore such random message only for him 2 later delete it from my friends msg box. To cut the long story short, investigation revealed the guy married a lady traditionally while in England, but left the lady since her visas were severally denied, and then proposed to my friend.But the lady in question, he has never met. My friend has been thinking of leaving this relationship built on lies only for the guy to do the unimaginable. He gave my friend the beating of her life even together with the little baby so that the baby fell from her hands while the hubby was pounding her.she said since three days ago that it happened, the guy has not even bothered to apologise. Now, my friend said she does not want to call the cop on him, rather, she is thinking if she should leave or still give him more time to see if he will change. More over she is confused about the fact that he had a first marriage and doesn't knw if its right 4 her to be in it with her hubby. Thanks guys!!! Waiting 4 y'all. cheers

nairalanders with their surprises, why the look and pass system. almost 217 persons have viewed this comment yet no one has the liver 2 answer our very own precious's question. well back to topic, Hell no, wont change him 4 nofing, not even in the world 2 come.haf she be answer d que?








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Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm Really, i think am very[b] SPECIAL[/b] and UNIQUE , because that point in time for me is the most ROMANTIC ever for me and HUBBY. LOADS and LOTs of SexTinZ! [quote]

@poster, Honestly while you were describing this horrible human being, I actually said to myself, who is this unlucky girl that fell for my ex, until you said he was formerly married. see girl, My ex fit perfectly your description, but guess what I did to him,I arranged for further studies abroad,got hooked to my husband, we wedded and i greeted him with the pix on FB. ABEG MOVE ON JOOR, NO LET ME CATCH YOU SAY YOU DE GO BACK TO DAT SWINE! dnt you tink you deserve better? i mean a man who will cherish, love and appreciate you 4 the rest of your life, accepting you for who you are? abeg am out of here, i dey vex when ladies de fall person hand. eeee na fight!

Waoh, how time flies, see me here typing five years after, thanks to ever reliable NL. Its always nice to return back and share testimonies especially when things took a turn for the best. few years ago I came on this forum and opened this post. It never took me more than three comment b4 i made my decision and today I thank God that a lifetime of disaster was averted.S/O to all who advised me then, i say a big Thank YOU 4 at least stopping by.
To understand this , you have to read the OP. I took my decision 2 move on from this guy that thinks he is a gift 2 women and ever since I never looked back. Rather than sympathising with myself, I dusted my myself, worked hard and gathered some cash 4 further studies in the UK, and b4 my graduation, I met my husband whom am married 2 today. Precisely a months to my wedding, my ex came begging and asking me 2 take him back. After thinking of what 2 do to him, i came up 2 play along like i was going to give him a chance only 2 display my wedding pix on my FB wall a few weeks later and ever since i never heard from him ever again. Today i can say i married the BEST HUSBAND any lady could ever dream of, THE BEST DAD any one can ever wish 4. My advise is 4 both guys and ladies. A broken relationship sometimes brings the best part of ur LIFE. Thank God mine brought me BLESSINGS, Cheers.

Elisabeth, av been following ur story now 4 a while so its high time I speak. A question 4 u. Would u prefer to fight a vain fight or hand over the matter to our LORD JESUS whom no one bribes to avenge 4 you?

I was be virgin when u people was hafin ex. tank u

All d way with my JESUS! Satan get thee behind me!

Sit down there till the lowlife gives u aids free of charge! Nonsense!

Op, safe yourself a lifetime of regret and move on now oo,