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vicchi12:
I am super excited that you told your Pa, sir. Secondly, your wife is damn lucky. Maybe you are her angel. Third, you are a good man, and I'm happy you didn't let the devil have his way. Perhaps, you're smarter than some of us. I don't know. I was one of the people that screamed divorce, reason being that experience has taught me to run, forgiveness has left me burned! Still everyone's journey in life is different, so I definitely respect your wisdom and your decision. My mum taught me to forgive, but never forget. That is, never put your guards down. I still will never know what made your wife do what she did. Like at a calmer day or time, try to have her tell you her rationality. I'm a curious type, I studied psychology, so I'm always interested in understanding people. Please ask your wife how was she able to justify the whole brouhaha, what started it. Perhaps, you've wronged her unknowingly in the past. Please try to find these things out. Doesn't mean you don't forgive, at least just know it, and that way, history won't repeat itself. Another thing, please forgive what I'm about to say. However, I believe you should do a DNA test on your baby girl. Just to clarify things. Even if God forbid, you're not the biological father, I still consider you her father and she,your daughter. That should never stop you from loving the baby girl . Lastly, pray with your wife. Read the word of God together. Unlike how many Nigerians think, I'm not advising you to be following doctrines that are borne out of fanatism, but that of which is the love of God. I'm a Christian, but I pray in my own way. I don't go to church every Sunday because I believe I'm in a relationship with God. And it is my heart and its contents that matters to my maker. The bible says that by their fruit you shall know them. You sir, have proven that you are of God. You've have proven that your relationship with God is on a very different level, and I so much respect that. And, I'm sure God is pleased with you. Due to your actions. I believe God will continue to watch your back. The word of God says the woman should respect her husband, and the man should love his wife. You have truly done your part and I pray your wife realizes this. I pray that the Lord will open her eyes.

I believe men are nurturers and a woman is meant to be nurtured. You build a woman with love, out of love, for love. . Yup! That's my take. God himself is love, he represents love. I believe a man or a woman is not fully capable of loving the other, and each rely on their internal strength and that of God to be able to fully reach the capacity of loving one another. Therefore, there needs to be a strong relationship with God. May God help y'all. Overall, I'm excited everything is cool. I pray God continues to grant your wife wisdom and knowledge. And may his love for her never seize. Cause I believe that out of love for her, God used you her husband to expose the plot and works of the devil concerning her life. Yup! 'What God has put together, let no man put asunder ', so says the word of God. The devil manifests himself in so many ways. He was about to use what your wife loves most(her family) as a door way into your home, and indirectly into her life, your life, and the innocent baby girl. Let us be wiser and smarter.

People! With all that I've stated thus far, I still have ZERO tolerance for any form of ABUSE. Sometimes, God will try to remove us from situations. Everyone's case is different, so people, no not apply this case to yours! If you feel your life is in danger, please leave such an environment! I'm done...

You're done, but girlo you can type o.

Marvel1206:
like seriously... I love Good writers

even if you're ugly, as long as you're a good writer, i will love you

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It's because you are ugly.

Devguru, you did well, thumbs up. A person like me can't take what happened to you, the lady dey comot for house straight, cos i have seen how females are. Make sure you are at alert, be vigilant, sleep with one eye open and dont discard this thread, we will still want to know how you are pushing on with your family bro. We want more updates from you monthly, yearly so on. You have really molded yourself as a great example to follow plus you write well. Ciao.

DevGuru:
This is just to assure all Nairalanders on this thread that I am still standing. There have been further developments which I can't type now because my phone battery is low. I'll update all you wonderful ladies and gentlemen as soon as I get home. Cheers

Am glad and happy you are still standing.

There so many sh!ts going in this world op. You need to watch Gone girl. Also listen to I'm not the only one by Sam Smith. If you are still alive and welk though.

Hope the Op is not dead already. Cos the wife might be a NLder. Maybe she has poisoned him. See op divorce her before its too late. Let me tell you a story. My mum's younger bro married a woman that every family member told him not to marry. Later the wife born pikin, during a get together celebration like Christmas, the wife tore the husband's junior sister's cloth, an old neighbor warned him to send the woman away, but he refused saying, his wife have already bore him a child. Leave her and marry another person, but no, he was hell bent on his wife will change till she bore him 3 children and started showing him hell. He has already sold his house now, literally has nothing and now resides in his elder sister's house. The children's life has destroyed, one of them married a man with 3 wives, and the other girl has dobe abortions 2 times. Run op if u r still alive.

honorbule:
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saasala:
What do I think?....It is the worst decision of your life and I can guarantee that you are a dead man walking. She will finally tell everything to her sisters and you will die, they will kill you...DIVORCE her now or you die.

Kilode?

Bro, like someone said. With all your chats and calls, and she hasn't suspect or decode that you no be an Abuja citizen. Shey no be say na dummy u wan put for house? Another thing, wetin no make u chop the b!tch??

pharmagba:
Can you state categorically, the offence the wife committed?

The most mortal sin that give room for divorce is adultery, she didn't do such.

Give this marriage an opportunity to come out stronger than it has ever been

If we really want to know the truth and the op actually need genuine comments, we need his long story that he has cut short. Like some people are asking, why will the b!tch change overnight? Someone you dated for many years. What is the op not telling us?.Fu¢k you NL. I wrote b!tch not dam. Bro send that b!tch away.

pharmagba:
I beg to disagree with you.
Please the evidences are no longer important. It has achieved it purpose you can delete them. Don't listen to them again but don't tell your wife you have deleted them.

If you will listen to my candid advice don't tell even your dad.
By the way all this one that you are afraid of 'rat poison' cut the crap off your mind. Don't live your life in that morbid fear, she will not kill you, women had done worse things and they still forge ahead. Even if she does, one day all of us will die and face the great judgement. Relax your mind your wife loves you alive

@op, this person sound like one of your wife's elder sisters.

All of you saying its the op's problem haven't handle or paid a big money before. In your mind as you are right now you think if you can get a N1m per month paying job now, all your problems are solved abi?? i Smh. When you earn big you wanna live large. It's true you can afford petty things alright? But you will want to have class. The fact is not everybody will end up like the op. Everyone wants to live the life of other people, rich people, but do they know what they go through

Dinocarex:
But what the mainstream media failed to include in their publication was that the deceased went to dine (breaking of Ramadan fast) with Ajimobi and other law makers before he was murdered. All they took with him was his phone and nothing else!!!

Something is not just right here!!!

No, he went to dine with Akala.

magabounce:
No sir, house stark is not dead yet. Even though Jon is a bastard, bran still lives remember?

Glover is not watching the series.

www.nairaland.com/3199804/best-apps-sites-downloading-movies . This guy just drop this thread on how to watch and dowload latest movies using android apps.

Gordon: Girls, your mother and I are getting divorced. Don't cry. I know you're upset, I know you're confused. I don't know what your mother told you, but let me explain it from my side in terms you can understand... You got your doll, right? You got your doll there. Five Year Old Kim: Yeah. Gordon: You got your doll and you like your doll, right? You love your doll. Five Year Old Kim: Yes. Gordon: Yes, you love the doll. But what if I told you that was the only doll you're allowed to play with the rest of your life. How would you feel? Five Year Old Kim: Sad. Gordon: You'd feel sad, of course, 'cause there are a lot of other dolls on your shelves. And if you play with the other dolls, you can't have that doll anymore. Even though that doll doesn't want to play with you at this point. You're both living a lie. There's other dolls you like, and they're making new dolls every year. You want a stewardess doll? Nine Year Old Amy , Five Year Old Kim : Yeah. Gordon: How about a slightly overweight cocktail waitress doll? Nine Year Old Amy , Five Year Old Kim : Yeah. Gordon: What about a doll who happens to be best friends with your main doll? Nine Year Old Amy , Five Year Old Kim : Yeah. Gordon: It could happen, right? Nine Year Old Amy , Five Year Old Kim : Yeah. Gordon: What about a doll you only play with one day and never see again? Nine Year Old Amy , Five Year Old Kim : Yeeeah. Gordon: What about a doll where your friend's playing with a doll and he needs you to, you know, kinda man up with the other doll? You don't even wanna play with that doll but you do it cause your friend's playing with that doll and you don't want to sit there and look at the other doll unattended. Nine Year Old Amy , Five Year Old Kim : ...yeah. Gordon: So that's why me and mom are getting divorced. Gordon: Monogamy isn't realistic. Say it. Nine Year Old Amy , Five Year Old Kim : Monogamy isn't realistic. Gordon: Again! Nine Year Old Amy , Five Year Old Kim : Monogamy isn't realistic!

I know have a huge data to download movies like you guys and i also don't visit cinemas. I only download 2016 blockbusters high mp4 only when its available. I just watched Trainwreck (2015), Amy Schumer. That movie was dope, not a fan of comedy but the movies is fffing hilarious.

kaydee:
@Nihilist reminds me of Jackal/Sauron with his arguments. It's obvious no one shares your opinion.
Jon made a great emotional mistake despite the fact that Sansa forewarned him and it's understandable. He's been a Stark most of his life and they always make that error.
Now everyone who doubted him or questioned his ability and leadership qualities is asking for forgiveness. He's marked for greatness and a better leader than anyone in the Seven kingdoms.
Give it up already and bow to the king in the north.

Jom Snow. The King in the North. Am just scared for Jon Snow tho, all this King in the North with no crown and proper coronation. Na so dem call Robb King in the Norf. But na Robb Bleep up sha. But that Volantis lady too dey tempting. She be like Lara wey come attend to peoples wound for Naija. Oshiomole jam am, nack am, marry am. Oshiomole the Fing in the Sauth.

ichommy:
Please, I need link to download season 6. i have search tired

Thanks

Just go to o2tvseries.com

The question this Nihilist guy should ask is. Why does Jon Snow gets away with everything

Endy10:
Just to end this argument.
I don't think either of the houses would have committed men regardless of who was leading the charge. Their main concern was with losing more men, not that Jon was in charge. They never questioned his leadership, they questioned the cause.

Abeg bro leave the guy. Glover even said house Stark is dead, why? Lady Mormont even mentioned it when she was counseled by her Maester that, Jon Snow is a bastard and even a man of the Night's watch, Sansa don marry Tyrion, marriee Bolton sef, tell me is house Stark not dead?? But they actually also use it as an excuse not to follow Jon, this is not a question about leadership at all, that's why i called the guy a Jon hater. Nobody questioned his leadership, those houses that didn't follow him were just thinking logically. Lyanna supported Jon with instinct, her maester would have told her not to, listen to Lyanna Mormont speech again when they declared Jon Snow a King. She said she doesn't care if he's a bastard. Your Glover that you are talking about sef ask for forgiveness for not commiting men to Jon's cause. You are just hating on a tv character whose Leadership was not questioned at anytime.

I want to Google one thing online, 'Jon Snow is a good leader'.

localblood:
Abeg I need help. Who has the link to this movie Straight outta compton?? Am in need of it like madt

Go to fzmovies.net

If anybody wants to hate on Jon Snow its not now that they have really built up hos character. Jom Snow always make unreal requestss, some decisions questionable ones, and mostly decisions that go against the principle of Castle back, but he always gets his wish, and people always follow him, people will volunteer to follow him. That's the build up for a leader. Jon Snow is a real leader.

If anybody wants to hate on Jon Snow its not now that they have really built up hos character. Jom Snow always make some decisions, questionable ones, and mostly decisions that go against the principle of Castle back, but he always gets his wish, and people always follow him, people will volunteer to follow him. That's the build up for a leader. Jon Snow is a real leader.

If not for Sansa that came to Castle Black. Jon Snow will still be a lord commander and he wouldn't have asked the wildings to fight with him in a house against house battle. But when the time comes to fight the White Walkers, the wildings will easily answer him.

Nihilist:
The same guys that elected Jon Snow ended up publicly executing him , so what exactly is your point?

If you look at each of the events I've mentioned, you will see that generally people just don't seem to believe in Jon for whatever reason.

Take the Wildlings for example. Jon warned them of white walkers which gave some of them time to escape. He defied customs that had stood for centuries by allowing the wildlings beyond the wall for their personal safety, and even lost his life for this decision in the process!

Yet the wildlings were still reluctant to fight for him until Tormmund yet again had to intercede

Sansa, his own sister was prepared for him for him to ride his men to certain death , rather than hand him control of the Vale armies.

One event could be bad luck. 2 could be coincidence. 3 is a trend.

Just to confirm that I'm not mad, I Googled 'Jon Snow is a Terrible leader' and found all sorts of publications agreeing with me for the EXACT same reasons I've given - from NY times to Playboy.

I know the guy is a popular character, but I thought it would be pretty obvious that he has severe leadership flaws.

Finally, I really don't appreciate your final sentence saying I'm arguing for arguments sake. I have had to remind you a couple of times now. Attack my argument, not my person. If you feel you are incapable of doing this, then don't quote me. I can be quite nasty myself.

Jon Snow hater for no reason. The fight they (wildings) agree to fight with Jon Snow was against white walkers not participate in a battle within northern houses. They despise and hate all southern of the wall. And yet you expect them to just agree ones. It was white walkers they agree to fight not northern houses battle, so stick that in you. Another thing is they would have even agree to fight with him against the Boltons, case Jon gave them a reason saying if they don't fight with him, after Ramsey Bolton is done defeating Jon, na even The young umber house go finish the wildings. But you know the writers made Jon Snow weak by making Tormund also have a say in the wildings decision.

gj22:
The time line on different plot point elapse at different rates.

King Robert entourage went to Winterfell. After the feast and Robert's talk with Ned Stark. The King entourage went on the king's road to King's Landing, while Tyrion, Benjen Stark, and Jon Snow went to castle black, Tyrion spent some days at Castle black, Arya and Joffery trouble happen at the trident on the way to King's Landing, Catelyn Stark was still tending to Bran Stark. Then a killer came to kill Bran but was killed, that was when Catelyn knew some people want her son dead, she decides to go tell Ned at King's Landing, at that time Ned had reach King's Landing. Tyrion left Castle back, he branched at Winterfell to give Bran a present, Robb offered him to sleep but he said he will sleep at a brothel instead. Catelyn has alao told Ned about people wanting to assassinate their son, and she head back to the North. But remember Tyrion also left to a brothel in Moles town, that was how they met.