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yuzedo: Post your picture make we see first...

. Childish boy what has picture got to do with her inner qualities. U are in the category that abandons a loyal girl after hitting success. Grow out of your childish fantasies.

pfii: I can proudly raise my head up anywhere and at any time to say that the man who will eventually marry me is proudly a very lucky man. Even if he narrows it down to 1%, I am d 1% he's talking about!

. This is the only woman has has made sense here and distinguished herself from the cheap talking materialistic defenders. That would do anything upon sighting a range rover and dinner in Sheraton. Pls these girls should shut up. And whoever knows berem should educate her on her attitude and speech, using the f word compulsively for a true naija chick isn't vogue but local and wannabe like.

on3simus: That's the same attitude most naija women have. They are so lousy.

. So so lousy my bro. The man spoke the absolute truth and nothing but the truth. The worse that ticks me off are the sucker for loves men hopping and fighting for us ladies.

baysol: Why are you foaming in the mouth like a rabid dog? Isn't it true that you the bygots have decided to give Nija bad name if you don't have Biafra? It can only get to point with some people when it comes to crime the nonsence over Nigeria is way too much to stomach in current times because of crime and money loving people of your type at least we can leave with criminality in our society compared with criminality from east and wanton murder from the north away with rubbish people and inglorious people who are nothing but parasites. I think you're one of them otherwise my comment is none of your business, why defend with lame excusses?

. Any fervent tribalist is shallow minded, myopic, and local.

People keep complaining how will these affect my life, change price of garri and fried yam and all, what baffles me though is you navigated yourself to view the page without any compulsion knowing fully well u wanted to see a picture. It actually sounds silly to me.

Eko Atlantic: ^^^
E enter your body, akpu village chopper

. Grow up

ileobatojo: Abeg, no vex! It's poverty mentality that's worrying me.

. Fine, but insulting my mom who suffered with my dad when he was so poor is very painful.

ileobatojo: Lmao! They are very happy together eh? I'm sure. As long as all that high carat jewelry continue to flow, it's all good..

I need to come and learn some manipulation submission tactics from your mom o.

. You astonish me with ur fake ameerikaana wanna be ideology. If only u know that water and oil can never mix. Internet stunts. Before my pops started commanding millions of dollars, my mum hawked ice fish for him and gave him the excesses leaving her with nothing. All these local wannabes

ileobatojo: Lmao! They are very happy together eh? I'm sure. As long as all that high carat jewelry continue to flow, it's all good..

I need to come and learn some manipulation submission tactics from your mom o.

. Poverty really sucks.

The plain truth is women these days are uncomfortable with submitting to me even if deep down they know that is the ideal thing but we want to adopt the western bogus feminine liberation garbage. my mom submitted totally to my papa and everyone was happy, He never hindered her purchases of high carat jeweleries, she spends as she likes because she knew her limits when it comes to addressing baba. They are very happy together. Sisters all these talks are out of arrogance and stubborness period. The ones that are most annoying are the men that give in to these pressures. Really annoying.

all4naija: Okay! A musician once said "some of them want to be abused..."

. listen a woman has her eyes, ears and senses open before she delves into marraige. so many are beclouded prior afterwhich they come crying foul.

50calibre: There is something called HIERARCHY, are everyone in the military or a country or an organization equal? Equality doesnt apply to marriage and family life, the moment equality and justice is brought into the family, the family goes into chaos and ruin.

. @ u are a real and tru African man. My dad use to say even in the animal kingdom there is orderliness. Don't listen to all these rats that want to forcefully be men, why don't u girls become transgender. Silly opportunistic kids.

omo_to_dun: I am not obsessed and NL is neither a school nor is it a church. It is a place for folks to just have fun. If you find it offensive, just leave the thread.

If you want education, you can go to a brick and mortal institution.

. All theses small small boys ehn. You just want to stubborn rock at all cost o.k suit ur pleasures.

Forgive me for this but poor folks possess a lot of negative energy. Agreeing with the fact that racing on densely populated roads can be dangerous and infantile, but the negativities and hate here is primarily an element of jealousy and poverty not necessarily a true concern for the public. My 1 cent

omo_to_dun: I agree that the pornographic images are not funny. However, I disagree that they are distasteful and offensive. The pictures are in the wrong thread, but they are not offensive.

. You can view porn images in ur privacy but a public and supposedly educative forum like this is outrightly offensive.Plsss don't be obsessed

Pls u guys shouldn't ruin this soothing thread with pornographic images. They aren't funny buy distasteful, offensive and disturbing. Thanks

Naija_pikin 1: hahahahahaha o baby ur vexin o... Ashually me thinks dia pets eat beta dan sum naija professors, so y not? Le‘em go as wel.

you need to physically witness this loot, not media assumptions then you will know Nigeria is totally fractured.

BinghiNya: Even the picture of jesus they worship is even that of an artist, silly christians.

. The portrait or picture of jesus is not worshipped sir.

basic logic would imply a fundamental problem with islam, not rocket science analysis. If it were my Moslem brothers, by now a lot of roasted human flesh would be serving a sweet savour to their god.

Wipe them off, eliminate them, kill their families, their cooks, cousins, pets, dogs, cats any living thing in alliance to those vampires. Amennnnnnnn. Aminnnnnnnn.

rayor: I see absolutely nothing wrong with his request unfortunately. I'm a lady and married and I know deep in my heart that if having kids without marriage wasn't such a "looked down on"option, that would have been my preference. Marriage wahala to much abeg. I wish I could get out when I'm fed up and move to d next dude that drives me crazy. But culture and religion to be considered? I'm stuck with this dude for life I guess. He's not bad, just that im bored and tired of same ol..

Evidently ure not as concerned as I am so by all means go ahead. Hope u find the wright DNA..not an aloriburuku lady. Why don't u adopt even? Good luck!!!

. A cheat in the making

This is not a joke. I will give you an extremely beautiful and well cultured Ethiopian girl. But for marraige and not this set up. I relate perfectly well to the ills of my sisters. It is becoming rather endemic. These is a lady extravagantly pretty and looks down on her beauty.

Claus, uju, debrief, you all won o.k. All I'll say finally is God should give some folks real good money. God bless you all.

Ujujoan: Does she cook from the scratch? Peel the yam and pound . . cut up the vegetables, wash the pots and meat . . . pound peper and crayfish e.t.c!

Yes, she added the ingredients to the yam that was peeled by someone else and so on . . .

Dont pretend you don't understand what is being discussed here.

happy for you hon. Good for u n ur hussy. My dad and his friends will connive to give the chasetening of my life.

debrief08: Oyin Dear, take it easy, open your mind, the world is not about only you and what you believe. All the men who speak here never said they were forced, even the other guy who shares responsibilites here also said he earns much more than his wife, so calm down, what works for you may not work for us.
What works for other families work for them, our system was not imposed we both agreed, no one makes anyone do anything, we have so much fun together, time to spend with each other and happy kids who can say with confidence that their parents love each other.
That's what matters to us and not what Ibru or wealthy families do, we just want a happy calm life and we have that.

. Great conclusion. I'm glad it works for you guys, but my mom won't even permit. She'll get so irritated seeing my hussy cooking and serving her. God forbid.

As busy and rich as alakija is,she still cooks pls I'm so upset. Anyways it's reconciliable with husbands laziness, being less resourceful. If he had to catch 5 flights in a week around the world you guys will not be ranting. Even men that aren't too well to do maintain their grounds and aren't threatened by ideologies like this. At least our driver's wife did just that despite her own substantial income and 5kids to manage.

debrief08: I am confused where in this four pages did I say my husband was not bouyant? I didn't enforce any rules, when we first married, I spent all my time running around cooking, cleaning, trying to be the perfect wife, I wouldn't let him do anything even if he helped I would go and do it over, we were having so many fights and one day after a date night he asked that we draw up a list so we both would be clear on what we do and have no more run ins, since then I have been calmer, happier and so has he.
He pays most of the major bills, my contributions I know he can do without, my part is to make me feel like a partner a team member and not just another cash drain

. Your capitalisation on the bill split spoke volume dear

Ujujoan: Seriously

Are you saying women who work only do that because their husbands are poor

If a woman works and earns money, she can ONLY contribute to the home IF the husband is not 'financially bouyant'

And yet women wonder why men treat them like a bought commodity!

. The women treated that way have issues. Pls u guys should stop thos western integration. How can I eat my husbands food. It gives me joy to see hubby dying to get home to eat.

Ujujoan: That's because they probably have a dozen cooks! Could you bring this down to context? Is that asking too much?

. Exactly y I said it is prevalent among middle class n lower. I am serious when I said I personally know stupendiously wealthy women who will never I mean never ever ever allow a maid cook for her baba, talk least the man himself.

Debrief pls ma, there's a huge difference btwn a man doing things out of love occasionally and enforcing rules of engagement. That bill thing u were so emphatic about is becos ur hubby isn't financially bouyant else he wouldn't need ur money.

It's like saying your husband should wash your pants because you came home late from a board meeting. Haba this is probably prevalent among the middle class and down but rarely among the rich. Olorogun micheal ibru sure doesn't cook for Cecilia neither will obaru ibru cook for hiwot.

It honestly makes no sense at all especially the lady who's leveraging the compulsive chore enforcement on her hussy on the platter of bill splitting. I know wealthy women who still does these duties. In my own opinion the men are lazy and are less resourcesful. You should take pride in being provisional to your family. Mr. claus I'm ready for this