₦airaland Forum

cyara: I got the ability to fight from my dad. Even when i know i will get beaten in a fight, i still go ahead to fight. I tried it when growing up and came back home with a red eye. I don't know why but i never learn lesson because i always get beaten in every fight

ladies don't fight it's thuggish. It is nothing to be proud of

dick hardener: The reality is over time, the woman begins to demand that initial gesture as an obligation by default.Did you know that most women subtly respects men with the capacity to put them under control albeit void of violence. This they will NEVER tell you. Stop being a sissy. Help when she's incapacitated, simple! any other trashy romantic servitude is garbage. I damn well love my principles.

u'r smart but mischievious

dick hardener: TONI BRAXTON with kim kadashians body,with the carraige of ego boyo,, astute like okonjo iweala with an attitudinal fix to the standard of the women in the 1600s

greedy thief, are u performing a regeneration or what.

dulphines: The one that annoys me is Oga, madam, sir, chief etc as used in most offices even mine.
The ideal thing is to address everyone with his or her first name. Apart from eye service, some people just think that if you don't address them with the oga or madam title that you have no respect. Our culture is somewhat problematic!

I beg to disagree, there is absolutely nothing wrong with our culture. Adopting an alien culture to soothe your ego is what I have a problem with. saying elderly Nigerians demanding respect doesn't add or subtract anything from them, so does it not add or subtract anything from you respecting them except offcourse a massage or smear on your ego. Be humble, it cost 0 energy. Cheers

jidegirl12: How you know say na 15yrs.... there're lot of young folks on NL..... Oyin always sound middle aged ( late 20s , rich man pikin ) ....Miranda is a Pepsi product eh? I think I saw it at one African store , I may be wrong tho... they feed us wayo everytime

no i am not up to that age. I am 24 and that photograph isn't old but taken 3 yrs ago in my mom's hometown not Nigeria. The place is remote and serene.

baby_123:
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Always one drama or the other. Hehehehehe. Na wa o. From his description of his wife, you may look like her. That your profile picture sef, how old is it? Is there still Mirinda sef?

excuse me maam

dick hardener: She tells me the only thing that makes her happy in this world is for me never to talk to any other woman. Because I must confess I liked girls a lot before I totally changed to become more responsible. She's just lazy. She facially looks exactly like zainab abacha. Facially o.

Mr man,I bet u are one hell of a messed up flirt. So u are married and u kept stalking me with those lousy PMS. Stick to your wife who appears decent and stop hopping around like a toad. @ topic something does not add up. You aren't spilling the entire truth that's if your story is true at all. Something more specific and definitive prompted her character swap

Gambrosia: Oh no! I am not!
Very real. . .without apologies too!
I am not a MONOGAMIST! Never have been.
I must have at least 2 men at all times!

I don't believe in putting all my 'eggs' in one basket o!
Too many lovable guys out there.
Besides, they get on my bloody nerves quickly as Nigerian men. . .so I gat to recycle them for some peace of mind!

Pathetic disgusting wierdo. Having multiple men inside you...gosh you are sickening. You the type men identify as having a stinky, oozing private pt. Y marry at all idio*t

andyanders: Even at that, you must uphold your integrity and decency to know how you carry yourself. It's a complement for you to be appreciated by the opposite sex but one has to be himself/herself.
In the US, sometimes when you go to a club, you can allow your female friend or male friend to dance with another person in order to see if you are still been admired or appreciated, but just for the fun and you can exchange numbers after you two get together and discuss it.But you dont go looking for the other person as you destroy the contact as soon as you go through it.

Since you look pretty, you must have to get admirers but you should know your limit of commitment.

thanks. But u see that's where the problem lies. What is a woman jumping all around in clubs with alcohols in one hand shaking all her body and sweating profusely. Therein lies the fundamental ill.

andyanders: Men note, not all women. Let us not say all women are players of this negative attitude been displayed by those who do not have morals.

There are descent ladies who still see those ladies who make themselves cheap as doing wrong to womanhood. so let us not say all women.

personally I don't think a good, reserved woman needs to sternly advocate her qualities. Men aren't blind, smart men have got discerning capabilities regardless of how well concealed those gory traits are kept.

1ndidi2: Sure thing babe there are always exceptions thank God! Am sure u are one of them,enjoy d chase o!

I am use to it though. I just tell them politely to pls leave me alone.

andyanders: I have followed your responses and I have found out that you are a special woman and equally intelligent. When truth is said, we must complement it. Say your mind and lets keep going and those who hate your words, let them hit their head and get it cracked up.

thanks

moresignal: Am a lesbian... So, who cares

u so gross

eldoradoxx: Men stopped cgasing women when women stopped being lady-like. I wonder what has gone wrong with many ladies of nowadays! Most of them behave like common street urchins and thugs, ill manner and not well groomed to be real ladies that command attraction and attention of men. Why do I have to chase a woman that sweat it out on a dance floor with guys publicly, u see her sweating in an unlady like manner before public glare,that "ladyish" signature that makes her attractive is no more there, so guys see her as co-hustler. Why do I have to chase girls most of who think relationship is another source of income? Why should guys bother chasing a girl that u take out on a date and she ends up disgracing u with the way she orders food like a woman that just escaped the famine of Somalia? Surely, what value do I have to attach in chasing women who are brainless. When we were stil growin up, girls used be the smartest, the neatest and the most organised, that was when mothers stil sat their daughters down to teach them how to be lady like, no longer today. How do I bother chasing women when girls of today are soo loose that sexx is as cheap as a bottle of coke and suya, Sharawma and Ice cream or a like on facebook or some 2go credit?

Superb!!!! My sister's are so crude these days. What aggravates this trend is greed and the notion of equality with men. A woman will forever be a woman. I do not care about ur feats or career. Let's stick to our gently respectful nature and not hooliganism and see if REAL men will not chase you. Abuse me for all I care

AguAgu: D country i cum 4rm women dnt need guys Pursuing dem, jst show dem dat u hav d moni, da ar ur's

And what country is this u'r talking about.

1ndidi2: In d history of advertising: a trader/manufacturer was d only one involved in a business,he was unique so as long as word went out on how good he is or what type of goods he could provide-people beat path thru d bushes just to get to him. he had no need 2 advertise his wares!!


Today,COMPETITION is too much and if he doesn't beat thru d bush part to look for his customers-he shall go unrecognized and hungry!!

What are my saying: before ladies were unique in their own right,and u wuld see men fighting,slaying dragon,doing competitions,etc for a particular woman,

But today! For where,we have to advertise ourselves just to get a hi! competition is too much,we all tend to look alike,no differences,noting unique anymore because we choose to follow d crowd-thus we are d ones fighting,doing juju,just to get d man.

It used 2be fun and part of the norm! I mean imagine one's hubby saying: I did this and this just to get my woman!my wife suffered me o.

But now,hear us when we jist with friends: omo eh babe,if I tell u wetin I do to get this man! No be small thing#phew#

Even some mothers are to blame here too!

what a shame really.

brilliant! But tonnes of men still chase me though.

dick hardener: I just can't find this oyin50 girl the girl is insanely beautiful. Somebody try and find her

do I know u plss?

Shinatu: I wonder why people think having your husband 'snatched' is the worst thing that can happen to the woman?

. Ideally, the answer to this question is determined by individual priorities. To some being divorced or single is nightmarish and not on their agendas, to some being single or divorce is hip and could care less of having multiple partners.

baby_123: So why are you complaining? I said look for the simple pretty ones. The shiny and flashy ones, obe to dun owo lo pa.

o.k ma

baby_123: Obe to dun, owo lo pa. . Look for a simple girl that doesnt lay emphasis on her beauty. There are many pretty ones like that. But dont prefer flashy and shiny things and not expect to part with your money. With the way the economy is, even ugly girls are not smiling. So go and put all your energy on a farm and work hard for your future family. Life is not easy again! Nobody is smiling.

. Aunty mi, a part of where my mom's from beauty is a norm so obe to dun owo lo pa doesn't work there.

baby_123: Obe to dun, owo lo pa. . Look for a simple girl that doesnt lay emphasis on her beauty. There are many pretty ones like that. But dont prefer flashy and shiny things and not expect to part with your money. With the way the economy is, even ugly girls are not smiling. So go and put all your energy on a farm and work hard for your future family. Life is not easy again! Nobody is smiling.

o.k oooo

dmcdad: I agree with u to some extent, buh not entirely.. There are cases whereby someone attracts an opposite. The last person I dated cheated on me several times, whereas I have never cheated all my life. I was extra nice & she took advantage of my simplicity. Although, I was aware of her unfaithfulness 4rm d outset, I decided 2 play d fool 2 see if she would change.. Yet! She didn't.. Unknown to her, I always get a sign when someone is cheating on me, even in my absense. Anywayz, in d long run I ditched her. So, bottom line is that, it's not always true to say that u attract who u are...

. Thank you so much, I mean a seven months old pregnant married woman begging my brother for sex cos he's goodlooking....common now.

baby_123: You attract who you are, dont complain. If you are a nice, hardworking man that treats his WOMAN not GIRL well. You will get a good woman who will treat you well. But if you are an agbero, you will get agberos. Even if she was not an agbero you will turn her into one for survival sake. You are what you attract. If you want a good woman, work on yourself. You cant value beauty and fashion sense and not be expected to pay for it one way or the other.

. @Babyy mama every man by virtue of nature is attracted to beauty, the reason why we feel good girls have to be ugly is because Nigerians does not have a high percentage of beauties hence the few once feeling bloated.

gentlegg: The barrister even exaggerated it up to 25%. As far as am concern is <25%.

. LolllL ahn ahn it's not and can never be that bad.

pfii: It's not about my facial picture. It's about the picture of my heart. It's about giving my man the kind of atmosphere in our home that will make him always hate Mondays and look forward to Fridays.
It's about me being his Spinal cord, without me he can stand up str8.
It's about praying and fasting for him when he doesn't even know I'm doing all that.
It's about helping him find great avenues to turn his cowries into kobo and his kobo into Naira and his Naira into £ ¥ € $.
It has nothing to do with d "tongue out" fake dps I put up.

. I wish my brother wasn't tied up. I will gladly beg him to have you if your assertions aren't feigned. You are a sweetheart, a man that turns a woman like this down is either young at heart, vain or without purpose.

pfii: It's not about my facial picture. It's about the picture of my heart. It's about giving my man the kind of atmosphere in our home that will make him always hate Mondays and look forward to Fridays.
It's about me being his Spinal cord, without me he can stand up str8.
It's about praying and fasting for him when he doesn't even know I'm doing all that.
It's about helping him find great avenues to turn his cowries into kobo and his kobo into Naira and his Naira into £ ¥ € $.
It has nothing to do with d "tongue out" fake dps I put up.

. I wish you my brother wasn't tied up. I will gladly beg him to have you if your assertions aren't feigned. You are sweetheart, a man that turns a woman like this down is either young at heart, vain or without purpose.

mondi_cheeks: I'm jus saying that more women move away from being the 'wife material' because they are not enough man who will act like 'husband material'. I have met so many guys who are looking for a 'wife material' but at the same time he can't act like someone a woman would want to keep as a husband. Men who spend most of their time taking out varsity students (wit boyfriends) because she is pretty and she has a good fashion sense. how does he think he will end up wit a wife material, if he waste a lot of time wit women who are not going to commit to him ? If u put ursef out thereto be used nd abused, u will be used and abused. I know we are talking abt men here dear

. Absolutely correct dearie, but the fact is women are distinctly different from men, it has degenerated to a point where I hear some girls say if a man cheats why can't I cheat, it's crazy. True, naija men aren't the best of character especially when it comes to promiscuity but that shouldn't tilt our sanctity as women. A virtous woman is highly valuable to a wise man not azonto dancing kiddos.

mondi_cheeks: But there are more women that are wife material than there are husband material cos were are probably looking 1,8% tht are husband material

. That's very true but we are talking about women here. All we need do is refute or concur based on an unbiased truth

sexsinners: Guys ,this is ridiculous,no man should be depending on any person let alone their girlfriend to build their own success.My father always told me i shouldn't date untili am ready to be a husband. aka finished school and have a job.

the last thing i would do is wimp down and ask my girlfriend to help me build my success cause am too lazy and wimpy to do it on my own.

MEN GROW UP AND BE MEN, NOT WIMPS OR VICTIMS.A WOMEN SHOULD NOT EVEN COME 50 FEETS NEAR YOU. WHEN YOU R JOBLESS AND YOU GET HER BELLIE,WHAT WILL YOU DO,ASK HER MAMA AND PAPA TO SUPPORT YOUR RESPONSIBILITY.

god did not put you on this earth to depend on people,especially a girl,its not her responsibility or job to help build you,you should of already built yourself.

this is posted by a responsible ready made man.stop giving yourself excuses and get your ass to work.

. Where u got it totally wrong is the girls can actually ruin your empire even after building. This has nothing to do with milking from a woman but a woman prudently managing your little resource to selflessly see to it's growth.

My naija sis are strongly attracted to one of these two or a combination of both. Good looks and money. Plain and simple. I know another clime in Africa where a beautiful girl don't really care how you look or what u have.