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Jupxter:
Thank God my sister you did it early, many of the men out there are shafts, not well groomed, when we, the good ones propose, instead make your sisters dey worship us, dem dey give attitude, i will go carry a 20 year old Australian, shiooor


I repeatr if you see my 21 year old niece, omo guys here go leave their babes na me talk am

Jupxter:
Never said so, but when the bargaining power is high, it's best to seal the deal during this window, when it becomes constrined, it becomes a miracle, the 30 year old getting married self is serving the good guy shaft, cos her goodies, OMG, make i stop here biko nu
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That being said, if you see my 21 year old neice? None i repeat none of the babes i've dated can stand beside her...I swear you. Physique and otherwise

Jupxter:
Heee my sister. A lot of ladies in their mid twenties maybe having what i call, their last moments of having the chance to get married, like it or not, agree or not. You're a xtian, i believe you know the scripture Teach us to number our days well that we may apply our hearts to wisdom? I also believe you understand the implication of these words, teach the younger ones the truth.

Jupxter:
The bigger picture is gradually rolling, and its clear to see guys need to be a lil more patient, the game is in favor of the guys....


Any smart lady should force her way into marriage between 21-25 thesedays, beyond this point, the beauty starts to fade as attention dwindles in swift pursuit, then the guy's value start to push up...

Gungnir:
What you said na...

Gungnir:

deavicky:
my dear she is serious oh. The thing in between the legs, no con get value again. One place in PH u can have it as low as #500.

Threebeaar:
The thing weak me sha
I said is this the man Bisola and t boss were fighting over.
His face looked multifarious, like every dot in the rainbow. No dulling sha, I snapped with am but the guy fall my hand o.

Billyonaire:
Trust me BlackCoffee109, I will write the Sex Doll companies to incorporate this AI memory controls into the sex dolls and I will be buying it just to make sure I have a permanent stripper at Home. God I cant wait to have this techie at home.

Saturday I was at the strip club with my better half and we watched lesbian strippers having life sex and we loved it, the energy was so awesome watching those ladies do to themselves what men cant do to them.

I love the romantic life as long as the sex is good.

Thanks for drawing my attention to this wonderful techie.

Ginaz:
I came late. Chaiii. It's not good not to have a phone. Well thank God for miracles . Talking about miracles, words went flying about a certain miracle in the BBH looking cute and finE

People please who's the favorite yet.?

Abeg this is no efe show o. Let's not use sorry sorry eyes to vote. If I knew efe would waste that precious money to sing "I love e you, my belle dey turn me" ,I would have saved my money.

benzema8:
pls vote Bitto my good friend he is lively

dollytino4real:
ok, so u be my sis in law. hw ur side

DeadRat:
Oh God! Not Again! These People Have Come Again With This Their Brainless Reality fvck Show

BeReaSonAble:
ironically, rccg doesn't want to add to the many trash found there. hence their theme... Don't add

dollytino4real:
see my NL mate, hw our man smellinganus and hapi new year u

vladimiros:
I feel this year's people would be uglier

ibkayee:
Team Oyindidi

ibkayee:
Hope there's eye candy this year o

dollytino4real:
see waste of sperm and delivery pains to the mother.

Jayboi:
I can recall seeing a couple's house documents with both names on it but to me this seem odd. I believe its only the husband's name that should be written there but i can understand how things can turn up in the event of a break up, divorce etc and probably protect the wife's interest judging by the fact that some men can be reckless.
My question now is ....ethically whose name should be put on title deeds of properties acquired as a couple?

alfredo4u:
Sincerely is not everything I will say here. I have gone through a lot just because of both of them. More than two neighbours have complained about two of them to me. If not for the sake of God and because divorce is not encouraged in my place i would have divorce her now that God have bless me.

Donald3d:
I dey see strong strong marital issues nowadays , e dey make me fear o

Donald3d:
Not again , person come dey fear to marry na , una wey don marry just dey make person fear everyday .Shey I go marry like this sha ,chei
Anyway.....
Situations like this to be honest would be very hard to solve(she is unwilling to do anything about it) , this is why you should always make it clear the things you like and the things you dont like before marrrying your partner .

Your madam was very very very very wrong on all levels ,
1.She is not supposed to go to a single guys room and vice versa
2.She is not supposed to collect anything from him , You should be the one to go to him if your family needs his assistance.
3.The height of it is her inivting him to your house at night to watch match by 10pm !!!!, like what the ....

Now to your own part
-If she has not always being like this, then something is wrong , and its at the foundation
-How often do you and your wife do things together ?, because from the look of things , if you observe critically and psychologically , its not just about collecting things from him , and she also might not be cheating on you, the koko here is SHE ENJOYS HIS COMPANY.Thats why she finds it hard to stop .
-Is your wife your best friend ? , how do you correct her when she is wrong (by shouting or in a loving manner)
-How well do you tell her sweet words and comment on her beauty
-How well do you give her time just to listen to her
-I know its hard creating time for all these with work and everything but you have to try .
-Women love someone who makes them feel safe and alive, someone who listens to their fears and worries and anything they have to say -Be her friend !
-Have a heart to heart talk with her, tell her calmly why what she is doing is wrong .
-Never stop telling her you love her , even when you are angry with her
-Try and get her busy , so she would have less time to even think he exists
-Bring back respect into your home , not just her respecting you , but you also respecting her .She has obviously lost respect for you
-Above all while you take actions talk to God about everything .

Act fast , because that guy na sharp guy, he knows where you are lacking and he is capitalizing on it , thats the advantage side chicks and side guys always have over the main partner "filling the empty spaces"

No matter what you do ,use wisdom and be calm and loving about it
God bless your marriage


MODIFIED : Women please stop assuming your husband would automatically know what you are thinking or feeling , talk to him if you feel he is not doing something right , not all men are mind readers biko, sometimes he honestly has no clue what you need until you open up,same goes for men too