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Laeroy:
We've just had a round table talk, i'll give u updates later, I love my husband so much just incase u don't know, but when my Security in his house is threatened, Its definitely not out of place when I begin to restrategize.........
But after tonight's discussion, using a subtle tone unlike Yesterday morning's rant, I'm able to view things from a different perspective....

More updates later...

Good luck dear, I'm happy you are calm now

Laeroy:
U've told me this severally. ..and oh yes I'm a self centred person.....When u have anything else to say let me know......

Your husband can't speak for himself after all you've said about him. You are angry

NoToPile:
she never said she was noow, she did admit she was stubborn at some point in this thread.

She don too talk. I be one of those wey first post for this thread. Her husband na devil himself according to her.

NoToPile:
Saying she is self centered is harsh, very harsh. I really don't see what's wrong with some of her demands.

Apart from not paying school fees to prove a point that's the major offence here.

What still strikes me is how a full grown man will sit down and allow his wife to do the muscular jobs of washing starching and ironing clothes commercially without wanting to share when he's available and the money is for food right? She does other jobs too oo plus normal wifey chores.

That's slavery

Outspoken and a bit rigid yeah, made some mistakes here and there yeah but self centered? No


The major problem is they are ideologically different and it will take a miracle for them to agree on these issues.

Which woman doesn't want to feel secured in her marriage?

He doesn't pay his child fees, the wife does most of the work in the laundry business for the home( this is the most annoying to me because he could always help out), she's constantly threatened ( including a cutlas threat) she knows she means not so much to him (because of the I am doing this for my child statement), he's perfect to outsiders and doesn't want them to know wats up in their home.

So what exactly does he use his little income for?

It's not today men have had challenges with money but I do have a problem with a man like this.

He doesn't care about his wife simple.

She painted her husband as the devil. She is flawless

Dzeimzb:
Which yeye lane should he maintain. I will choose my paddy over any unfaithful bitch any day. Please don't waste time , tell your guy asap. Its this type of girl that will raise a bastard for your friend only for him to find out when the kids are in their 20s that hey are not his. Since he always got your back, the rule is friendship b4 any girl.

Next time, say what's in your mind without entering my lane

How you want keep mouth tell man sey marry me?

Girl: Marcus, will marry me?

Guy: yes, I will!

E no go well abeg for me, I be shy baby, I for no fit try am
Na Adam go meet Eve no be Eve go meet am.

Laeroy:
Thank U, but obviously u didn't read all my write ups...

Tell him to create a thread on Nairaland, I'm interested in his own version of this whole issue. Truth be told, you are a self-centered person. Judging from your post here. Work on yourself too as you intend to control him as he is contributing little for the family's upkeep.

Maintain your lane

jaksmillioniar:
am in pains here I feel so sad. when I saw what south animals do to that Nigeria guy. I neva knew why they hate Nigeria and are jelous of us why did we let them join nairaland even a Ghana girl here hate us and is a hippocrate

You are always in pains. quite Nairaland if you don't have thick skin.

sonofspada:
I rep Nigerian Navy secondary school Borikiri ph

My son attended NOWA

DearPeople:
Madam, just like someone mentioned, you come off as someone that is strong headed. You mind seem made up and some inexperienced, unmarried, or divorced folks on this thread have reinforced your plans which seem to be going well for you but here is the thing; they won't be there the moment you leave and you try finding your footings, nah.

Interestingly, I noticed you didn't mention a thing about him not trying to get jobs or work. Rather, your grouse is that he doesn't share the workload with you. The man has a battered ego already and you have done what a typical, average Nigerian woman would (apologies to all women); strip him of respect and worth. You have stamped your authority on his face which seems to annoy him a lot and he believes you leaving would make him feel better.

See, life has taught me that there are ways you can call a man stupid without him being offended. Sadly, your tactfulness is missing.

I understand that you gave a lot to have a home and you are prolly frustrated over financial matters simply because the man you married isn't in charge financially. However, there are certain things that begs for answers here which I wouldn't want to point out.

This isn't me supporting another man. This is me understanding that lack of money can deal a man tons of blow, so much so that his psyche would be thoroughly affected. I am sure he isn't happy that he cannot take care of his immediate family. You have a source of income, albeit little. Use it to the best of your advantage without having to rub it in his face.

If you claim you are ready to divorce him just because you don't want to be the subject of emotional abuse then take it from me that you are not entirely a wise woman. If your sole purpose of settling for divorce is just so because you want to equally have a day when he threatens you, then there something is amiss. You are his wife, supposedly his manager.

Your episode makes me question if you ever had had marriage counselling sessions prior your wedding. You guys need to see one urgently.

Nice one

luminouz:
LMAO
He is just clowning around na!
Why hard on him!

The doll threads are too many. Stale and annoying

Jaks the blogger, nice one

Bluntboy

Rayhandrinni:
you bout to lose your boyfriend to one

Okay

People wey never chop belleful just carry this sexdoll story for head. Its annoying

donstan18:
Yea, i'm having a bad network here in canada.

Okay, good night

donstan18:
Onye ajuju anaghi efu uzo.

I was just asking.

3 mentions

donstan18:
The thread

You no serious

BiafranBushBoy:
I like am oo babe...

Hehehehe.

But you be my second in command...

I be your apprentice I dey only read and laugh these days. Trouble dey sweet a times

futurebillgate:
lol

Your house don dry?

donstan18:
Pained?

Over what?

BiafranBushBoy:
Smiles... You dey try babe. But you don lose form sha!

Lol

Which form? You wey like wahala pass food

Mtcheeeeew

BiafranBushBoy:
Lol... I go bite your ...

I want see if I still sabi find trouble