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Chikita66:
Funny enough I fit into all his requirement .

Lifeofpolice1:
can I mail you

Lifeofpolice1:
this is lifeofpolice1 aka king among men

Lifeofpolice1:
I truly love you dear
So whats up how today

Lifeofpolice1:
why na don't fall my hand here

Lifeofpolice1:
Oyi.ndidi my love let chat na

Tallesty1:
He's just the second to comment nah

BiafranBushBoy:
Same thing happened to me.

I removed my suit and tie outside, and went packing.

Use a mop bucket with parker. Then you scoop the water into the bucket and empty into your water system. Make it systematic, start from one room, move to another. Depends on how big the house it.

I know how you feel, sorry about that.

Make sure you dry with a rag or mop.

KushyKush:
It's not like Tanzanian ladies are beautiful though.

Most of them are dirty and dull...Nigerian ladies are still the best so far in Africa.

Even though they are annoying most times

mrphysics:
Pity your fellow woman

tritritri:
My brother i thought women r only wicked to there house maid.never knew to her own kids.

Save ur money and turn ur child to illiterate . U didnt even pity ur husband ..he is trying to build a comfortable home for u and ur child . ur trying to rub shoulder to ur husband . 2-3yr now if that man finally make it and go marry a new young pretty wife .u will say he is wicked u suffered with him.. Look at the stress ur giving him ? U knew HE DON'T av d money for Daughter schl fee. and U have but u refuse to pay. Giving the man high blood pressure..let me ask u a simple question..

even if u divorced , will you be able to bear it knowing well ur child is at home all day with u ?

mrphysics:
I am a guy oo Mr Physics

mrphysics:
She must have seen a lot. You know she will not completely say everything here.

From what she have written, she have seen a lot.

She isn't self centered, kindly take a look at some words coming from the husband.

mrphysics:
I think leaving now is playing to his tune. Why not disappoint him by involving his family and his pastor. Men respect their pastors words and also that of their family.

You really need to be relieved of some of the things you are doing. He has turned you to a house slave and without harsh words. Again, divorce only leaves you vulnerable to unnecessary thoughts.

Please do involve your parents and his parents too. Things like this usually get settled even worst things, so yours will be settled and everything will return back to normal. Pay the school fees of the child as it will give you upper hand during any peace meetings. You need to show people how irresponsible he is to his duties.

Again, God makes away even in difficult situations. So sorry for what you are going through.

To add, if you know his good friend, call the person and talk to him. You don't need to go through this alone.

robosky02:
good

Laeroy:
I love him and have ever submitted to him except my finance....

Laeroy:
Yes I do love, however I don't want to mistake love for foolishness, I resigned my well paying job for marriage, I remember how hellish that year was for me.........So he said I should start a laundry business, he made out the plan but I was the one who paid for the shop and bought necessary equipments in it.....Both of us are the only one running it, although he works somewhere else....but his net income is actually very small cos his salary has been mortgaged....

I'm the one who does the bulk of the laundry job from washing to starching and iron, coupled with running the house and taking care of our child, So I insisted That we will do the job equally (what I mean Is if I'm starching he must starch as I can't be only the one starching), he sticks only to ironing which I also do....so he said.....I should be the one doing the bulk of the job and it must be for feeding purposes, I said I cannot which he then said I can leave if I can't...

I insisted dat if he can't help me with domestic responsibilities.....I can't help him with providing feeding allowance (this is only wat I do) for the family...

Laeroy:
Yes as I do no have a choice given his constant Threats , what if he dies today, I'll be left a widow with nothing ....

The issue is and has always being Finance, Initially I used to support him very well with the Money I had, Infact I gave him my everything, The problem started when he asked me to resign my job ,I used to work with a FMCG company in Lagos, I resigned and relocated to where he stays, I gave him all the savings I had on me, But being a woman with needs I'll complain, the complains often leads to argument in which he will say If im not ready to cope , I should leave, And so being used to dat constant threat , I decided to start saving from any earnings I made, he prefers dat I work and use my earnings to run the home, yle his net income is nothing to write home about, cos he sometimes last year collected loan to build his house, yle the house suffers...

This man does not include me in his plan, he will only just say it literally dat all that he is doing is for my kid and I but when there's an issue he is usually quick to use the phrase "If u can't submit to me, GO"...

So dat made me stubborn about my decisions, I started saving from my earning, I saved About 450,000 from Laundry and my online business...Ever since I had the money in my account, he has been behaving funny, he said I'm being rude to him cos of the money I have and dat he gives me just dis year, I'll squander the money and asks me to leave if I can't key into his goals and dreams......

so I told him to let us make it official, The truth is dat, I have supported him in the past, I still do support him but with very little.....

Our child is at home......but supposed to be in school now, he doesn't have the money to take her to school, and I'm not ready to remove from my savings....I've told him he is the man of the house and A man is supposed to provide necessary things for the upkeep of the family, he said my duties in the house can't be limited to domestic chores alone but to assist with everything I have, And im hell bent on not doing dat, That is and has always been the Bone of contention between us....

marvin902:
teddy it will be low of me to fight with an unfortunate error like him

jaksmillioniar:
if I insult u is because u dont sence and I see how useless u are. did I insult every one auchi barstard go to hell were or genaration is

marvin902:
the last i checked am not from auchi..
neither do i have relatives there..
if is because of that post on my profile..
then my 3 year old God son get sense pass you insignificant fool..
i wonder what your dad ate that made hes sperm form a misfortune like you

robosky02:
how come you are a very complex niger delta linguistic?
you wan sabi all the language there

robosky02:
look at this iyoro tugwu

robosky02:
thank you izon n-ere

jaksmillioniar:
wen u get older u will understand fine dear is Friday a day for fun

robosky02:
waiting for you

robosky02:
then am ijaw

jaksmillioniar:
can u see wat dat fool is saying .thanks dear I will

robosky02:
are you ijaw or kalabari

robosky02:
bae