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#9....The husband of a woman who just gave birth most stay away from her s*xually for 3 months as she is considered unclean because of the after delivery blood she discharges.



#This isn't just about tradition.it's common sense.she needs to recover fully.

#8...it is seen as an abomination for an Esan man to use the same bathing bucket with his wife. but due to widespread christianity,this taboo has almost gone into extinction.



# don't know if it was the reason the male had a seperate bucket from the female.could still remember reffering to a particular bathroom as''mumsys's'' or female.

#7...it is also an abominatiom for a woman to spit on her husband under any circumstance.if she does she must sacrifice a fowl to appease him.but the man can bath his wife wife with his own spit.



#biased tradition.

#7...it is considered an abomination for a man to sit on the matrimonial bed of an Esan couple as it is seen as a taboo.

#6....a married woman cannot still her husbands money in Esanland as it is seen as an abomination.she must tell him about it.



#hmm..strange,many women are quilty of this..there's no consequence.

2BB4CB3E:
oh please!

I schooled in benin, a course mate of mine then was a prince, all these auchi princes, he told me that those things are just said to scare women against adultery, thats all

even my landlord then that was outside the country, my friend was hanging his wife regularly, nothing happened

African juju #crap

what does an auchi man know about tradition....i have heard of a family who lost their father because her wife wasn't faithful to him..most cases it does kill unless the woman is diabolical.

#5...Its a taboo for another man to cross the outstretched legs of a married woman.Else it is concidered aa though she already has s*x with the man.



#true..i know an esan man who quareled with his wife seriously for sitting on the ground and allowing her brother cross her legs.

halfricanadian:
lol SEA ING IS BELIEVING

I SIGHT YOU TOO

all of a sudden u went AWOL, u chop ban??welcome anyways

halfricanadian:
lol SEA ING IS BELIEVING

I SIGHT YOU TOO

all of a sudden u went AWOL, u chop ban??welcome anyways

#4....if this is not done and the woman goes ahead to cook for her children,they will die one after the other including her.if she also confesses to her husband and out of pity or love her husband conceals the confession,he will die within one week if he eats the meal cooked by her.

i sight u @ halfricanadian

Pierocash:
at my age i dnt comment on stupid post

No..should have been.....at your age u still don't know how to mind your business.

#3...when a woman commits adultery,she will lose her children and her life as repercussion for the abominable act unless she confesses and as restitution,she is striped completely unclad, a part of her head is shaved,a part of her private part is shaved,one of her ampit is shaved and both of her hands are tied behind her while a basket full of trash is placed on her head.she is then paraded around the community by the other women.



#well i actually witnessed this while growing up in my village.say like 3-4 of such cases of women residing in the community or outside,like lagos ,rich and poor striped of their clothes rubbed with charcoal and paraded round the community.

#2....It is an abomination for a married couple or anyone at that to have s*x in the afternoon,as it is believed that a certain spirit would be angerd by the act.



#no wonder i haven't seen any.(but they should be busy with work na).

#1.. when a woman is married to an Esan man,it is a abomination for another man to touch her wrapper.Else it is considered as though she has committed adultery,unless the married woman shouts at the man or reports to her husband.



#hmmm.strange

I rep ESAN[/] .

[b]Alright here is a little info about the esan nation.

Esan people are an ethnic group in Edo state who speak the Esan language.The modern Esan nation is believed to have been organized in the 15th century.There're on the whole 35 kingdoms established in Esan land,including:ewohimi,ekpoma,uromi,irrua,ewu,ubiaja and opoji.The institution of marriage is a sacred one to these people and as such have laid down rules to guide it.

Moving on, the TABOOS are:

thedarksider:
whatt...


i hope you understand that we have only alfa jets for speed of sound and the ugandans have sukois!!!!!!...


what if the ugandans get angry with us for whatevvvvvver reasons??...

libya is a giant example for all of africa to learn....did ghadaffi ever oppresed any african-nation??...

nigeria?? spliting??...realy?? did you really believed that junk??....

All your posts are so immature..this isn't a political.discussion.or KG thread.you're simply usesless here.why not move to the joke.romans or political sections where u can be more usefull.

mizzbouqui:
Hurt ke
Even the bible said I shall tread on serpents and scorpions and nothing shall by any means hurt me
Talkless of your ordinary post

omo u don make me fall in love..or,
leme say..u
U dey make me fall in love with sm1 on Nairaland.

jakeporeshenko:
A pair of Nigerien Air Force hinds

bro any idea where the pic was taking?...the other guy looks like the a military personel of one of the french speaking countries.

bidexiii:
Presidential committee traces N2bn to Ihejirika's 5 children

http://pulse.ng/local/arms-deal-probe-presidential-committee-traces-n2bn-to-ihejirikas-5-children-id5377768.html‎

whatttt..i didn't expect this from ihejirika..their trial should start already,accusations everywhere without any meaning reasult.and i think they shouldn't handle all the cases at ones to avoid unnecessary delays.All these guys put together might just be too much for PMB to handle.

Odunayaw:
too big??923,778sqKm is big ??
separate ways as if its not dz same Nigerians that will rule the "separate ways"...guy forget!!its either we were cursed with corruption or sumtn I don't know of

I mean what does it take dz fools to do the right thing!!

but u should know i wasn't refering to the landmass.what i meant was the diversity of the culture and religion.this is africa,and an average african is selfish,thinks of himself and his family.

Go to the north,you can't even live in ur home in peace at the slightest provocation heads are already off the body.
Everyone wants to develop his region first when elected to govern the people.the corruption in nigeria is a different thing entirely,why should the military be killing itself. let me not bore you with my pessimism..enjoy your day.

guys i might sound a little too negative,but i really think this country can't work.it's too big to be controlled by leaders who are either religious fanatics or visionless,without any iota of love for the country.
we need a revolution now or better still go our seperate ways.

Henry240:
We are just hopeless and Irredeemably corrupt! "I don't understand."


If you see the recent "arms audit report", God knows, you'll shed tears. Our military leaders are just too corrupt..... Jesus Christ!


It is so brazen and in your face, it's so unfortunate. If the past military/politicians leaders don't burn in hell, nobody on earth would go to hell.


Thank God, we have all them Dasuki, Amosu, Badeh and the rest in jail. Witch-hunt or not, the levels of corruption in the military has to stop.


I mean, we paid for 42 second hand T-72 Tanks at over $2.2 million a unit. That's unit price of a brand-new Tank. The company who collected $2.2 million dollars from us for each of those Tanks, filled a lawsuit in the US explicitly stating that a similar T-72 for which Nigeria paid 2.2 million dollars for cost them $88,000.

OMG...what kind of corruption is this.now i think it isn't just about human rights violation that makes america unwilling to sell to us some lethal militarry hardwares,is the level of corruption in our country.
And to make matters worse the russian company had to file a lawsuit against us in the same america. What a shame
No wonder our sunday school teachers taught us to say''God bless you''when we are wronged.God is watching us all.


Oga henry how many t-72 tank do we actu'ly have.??

@op,no source?.


Modified..@op fake sauce

emusmithy:
FP material...

9. He isn't intimidated by his wife's success.

10. He doesn't allow his libido disgrace his family in the public.

hehehe

Berlyn:

waoo i know what u'r thinking

Opistorincos:
We wey neva marry God go do our own too

yes pray for me too...oo.

We must marry the Godly,brainy and beauty.

Berlyn:

what is on your mind.

Feal free to add yours.

#..9..wiffy's boo.

#8...always cool.

#7..Won't allow any moda fckr..beat his wife.

And would fight dirty for her.