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I know in most cases, lawyers have to tell lies in court over serious cases like land disputes, murder, robbery, rigged elections etc, to win their cases.
Will God be happy with tithes paid from such proceeds?

Dollarjunkie: @OP bro, you should not mind the guy castigating you. Since he is so matured, were he able to proffer a solution to your stated plan NO!


My thoughts, human being differs and can view your kind gesture in different ways. Some will be happy even knowing its his wife ex that gave her the money, while some will be enraged with anger even while it is his wife's cousin that offered the help.

My verdict: Ask your ex to tell her hussy that a friend wants to help her with some money for them start up a biz with. She can tell him she knew you before they got married and she didn't date you. If the husband says she should collect, then let God bless them through you.

Thanks, God bless you.

crackhaus: Ooh good.
Well then, I'll be honest with you & let you know that the only positive thing that can come out of this will be her undying gratitude and appreciation for your generosity, unless of course you value your feeling of accomplishment over the sanctity of her marriage...

Like someone said, you can reach out to her husband...but I can tell you that may not go down too well either, because he might just wonder how you even got to know about his financial woes in the first place...remember you're not a family friend, just an ex of his wife (which in itself is an ego problem to most men).

I'll just leave them to their fate.

demelza: Get his phone number and intimate him of your plans.

I'll give that a try, thanks.

Yield: Don't give her any money without her husband's consent. You haven't seen her since she got married, but you two obviously did not stop communicating. Do you still love her or you just want to play Mr. Good Samaritan? Anyhoo, make sure you consult with the hubby first.

Nothing between us now, just for old time's sake. God knows!

crackhaus: What a stu.pid question this is...were you dropped as a baby And you're asking for mature advice when you seem not to have a single drop of liquid sense in you.

You want to put another man's wife on monthly allowance, a woman to whom you're of no relation...like is this what you need advice on, huh

Okay tell me this please...in your highly generous and affectionate mind, what are the possible outcomes and effects of doing this? I hope you've thought long and hard about how the negatives totally out-weigh the positives in this situation...well by all that's good & right, I really wish you've given it serious thought. You're welcome!

Sorry sir, I meant no harm. I am really ready to drop the idea if the negative outweighs the positive.

Leyqute: GBAM! Risky. Buh life's a risk, innit?

Na wa o!

Leyqute: Thats a good thing but I'd rather you conc. on her husband, not her. Since he is the bread winner.
Help her family. In so doing you are helping her too.
#jx my tots tho

How do I table the issue to him? Who would I say I am to the family?

demelza: Why dont you go meet the husband and table your plans?

We're far apart, location wise. How do I present the assistance to him?

Yomii: Bro i see nothing wrong with what you wana do so long you don't have an alterior motives. Another thing you need to consider is what will the husband think if he get to know that you are sending his wife cash monthly. Just think twice bro. You can assist her with cash but not to be sending her cash every month seeing to the fact that she is married. Marriage involves the man, woman and God so if the husband get to suspect or know that another man is busy sending his wife money monthly, he might conclude that his wife is having an external marital affair which in turn might make her marriage soar.

Think twice... Just an advice!

Thanks, no ulterior motives whatsoever!!

Leyqute: Before doing anything, put yourself in your ex's husband's shoes. How would you feel if your wife's ex starts sending your wife money to take care of your kids? You might begin to wonder if the kids are yours even.

My thots? "Teach a man how to fish and he won't ever ask you for fishes. Ever."

Thanks bro, so I should set her up in business instead, wouldn't that also cause problems?

My ex is married with children, they live in the north and I am in the south. We've NOT seen since she got married. The husband's business is facing some challenges financially. Is it right I place her on a monthly allowance to take care of the children till their condition improves? I am doing this from my heart. Matured answers only please.

Now that Madiba is gone, which African leaders do you think can wear Mandela's shoes? Rest in peace Madiba.

African, Unifier

HoldenCaulfield: We The People Of Arewa Are Now Begining To Be Fed Up With All This Threats Of Dividing The Nation, Gej! Organize The Conference Lets Break! Eat Your Oil, We Are Tired Of All This We Are Not Afraid Of It No More. Haba! Think Of All Of This Workers In Our Companies, Banks, Hospitals, And Other Government Agencies Are Going To Be Replaced By Our People. Think Of The Vast Agricultural Land God Bestowed Onto Us, Think Of The All Those Mineral Deposits We Have Here In Arewa. And Who Told You That There Is No Oil In Arewa? Take Nijer Republic For Instance, We Now Mostly Use There Petrolem Products Here In Kano, Aren't The Largest Oil Fields Found In Desert Areas Of This World, Almost Every State Here In The North Has Different Resource That A Whole Country Can Stand On. We Are Saying It Boldly LETS BREAK AND SEE WHO WILL STARVE. Gej We Want You To Hold The Conference With The Every Intention Of Dividing This Country, And Make It Soon!

You're talking of agriculture, solid minerals and what not. I hope your brothers B/H will allow you benefit from them. GO ON WITH ONE NIGERIA!!

Valour surpasses valour, but God is watching.

The easiest way is to get a couple of LEPERS, give them one room in the house for free and watch your stubborn tenants vacate the house PRONTO.

When children are born out of wedlock, people refer to them as illegal children. Are they really illegal? Why not call the parents ILLEGAL PARENTS?

No amount is too much for God!!

didfy: Study old covenant and new covenant before u start a thread

What does the new covenant say?

You can engage the cruise control if you're traveling, that will enable you to relax your legs. You can also move the seat backwards (if you're tall) so that your legs are stretched out.

Still yet
Can be able
Oga sir
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To reiterate again
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teeo: Abeg I no fit laugh this morning. If you live a sinful life, whether your feet doesn't even step on the floor, it's all insignificant. God is after our hearts been right with him.

Then why did God command Moses to put off his shoes? Please read; Exodus 3:5

greatgod2012: @op, are you a CCC(celestial church of Christ) member?

I am not a member of CCC.

Why do Christians enter the church with their shoes on; contrary to Exodus 3:5, or is the church not a Holy place? Your views please.

You're even lucky she did not call you her houseboy.

I enjoy eating fried grasshoppers, in Maiduguri, we call it desert shrimp. Has anybody tested it before? Let's share your views.

hammariise: She will not be able to remove it unless he unlock it thats the problem

She can use a razor blade to make a hole where appropriate.

Why do people go through engagement before marriage and what does engagement really mean in marriage?

Does cooking with gas (LPG) really bring out the sweet aroma of the food you're cooking compared with kerosene stove or fire woods?

Do I feel shy using my hand to pay for the chicken?

earthrealm: the 2008 to 2013 highlander r all the same with slight modifications in lights and engine spec ..but the shape is basically the same budget as from 3.5m for the 2008 upwards....but you shud be aware there is no fixed price on a car... a 2008 highlander with 40k miles will be more expensive than a 2010 highlander with 130k miles............so also a car with salvage/junk/accident title.

see the one advbertised by inspired man in the thread belwo...u cqan get it way cheaper depending on the spec/year
https://www.nairaland.com/158762/pre-order-car-usa-40/137#19401943

That's a clean one.