₦airaland Forum

ahnie:
Lai Lai Poco....he must go...we must filter him out from her life let men with potential locate her.

Pickmycall:
Let him not be riding plane like those Dangote reckless truck drivers.
He just dey use pilot take cover face.Na public money wey him papa don corner he dey feed on.

sarrki:
https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=pfbid0VNrowjG57fwLXr4nGMitK6VpfxuooyQdePay3gZ5KBkCDjojSPr3PZJ8VsH8k8Qbl&id=663725258&mibextid=Nif5oz

Michael781:
How much for a VENZA like direct Belgium or the ones in apapa Lagos?

Sweetplum:
If you can maintain your car, I don't see why you can't maintain a lady. I think they said you men are the head. So...do like head and not the tail.
Money spent on a lady you love is investment.
Especially once you v been able to v sex with her.
Isn't that what's in your head and in the head of thousands of you roaming this site?
The once debe everly debe mentality (once I v had sex with her, it's in record I v seen her finish till eternity).

spartachico:
BASKET MOUTH WAN START TO LEAK AGAIN OOO OOO

Magnoliaa:
There is nothing a jobless child cannot do.

Don't forget that.

Magnoliaa:
Awwwwwwwnnnnn. How cute.

I said you should drop your number, and you, too, you did in hopes that I liked you enough to want to—you see that attraction or whatever ideas about me you were getting, oya, sope otilo .

Please, shut the furck up, alaye.

You think say I nor see you online long after you've must have seen my mention the night before?

How many minutes e wan take you to drop number?

Abobi sef dey form busy.

Yen yen yen yen...I ask for number, you're talking about commotion. Was I dragging you? Where is the energy for commotion in dropping a number?

For your mind, you wanted me to anticipate getting your number and end up feeling restless? I mean, na so dem dey build attraction and suspense, if that was ever what you were doing?

Mtcheeeeeewwwww; nor go delete your number. Leave it there make scammers come do watin dem dey do best with am.

Pells1:
You really don't want peace
Instead of you sweetalking/pampering me, you are making things complicated
I won't warn you anymore

Rainbow10:
Borehole pussy,
I don Bleep
For people at the back,if they aren't seeing.

It's a PITY

virginprincess:
Your madness and stupidity keep increasing day by day,hour by hour,minute by minute,second by second,i think you should look for a way to fix your already condemned and damage life instead of coming to nairaland to create useless topics that won't add any small meaning to your already meaningless life.

Candidlady:
Did iever said she was FORCED
isaid they took advantage of her.. •••and it could mean many things•••
We know itoro's age to be 17 what bout the remaining 5 iaM sure they are in their twenties...

Keep supporting rubbish. .. again you should be locked up in a confine space where you only get to see the ray of sun when it rise(s) and set(s)

Imagine you calling her ashewo

I'd go into midwifery so any boy child that comes through me is definitely going back to hell that he came from

MufasaLion:
Ah! It's such a messy situation and I don't think I've ever imagined myself as being a father (especially to more than 1 or 2 kids) or husband to anybody. I just wanna be left alone.

However, I think the man should firstly admit that he was wrong by not informing the wife before marriage about the little girl. Even if he can die for the girl, it's a must to open up on some sensitive things to your to-be spouse because little things can mess up the beautiful union.

He should separate from that lady and both of them should rethink about their union, vows and way forward.

Also, the guy seem to be the "my family, my family" type of person, hence the reason his aunt could be so reckless, disrespectful and insensitive to have gone behind his back to deliver a message she wasn't sent. Nobody dare try that with me because I restrict and limit my relationship with everybody in the family except my parents.

Also, he should put a stop to breeding. I really don't know why he'd go ahead and remarry and now he's got 6 kids. Well, it's his choice and I must respect it.

So, your turn, what would you have advised him?

Blissguts:
I think you have to look at it this way : don't just rush with the advise of those calling your second a bad person / insisting you take the child ahead of your 2nd wife - no. It requires wisdom here.

One again, I realise she's not acting so with the others who are still children of your first wife. So it cancels out that point of she being a bad person or getting the child ahead of her.

Then what ?

Find out exactly why she wants the girl to leave - its not because she didn't give birth to her. Find out that exact reason. And weigh it with this reality : women hate competition.

When you've found it out (which I feel it'll be most likely towards the competition reason ) then from there, assure her of that not happening as in she (her and hers) isn't going to be in competition with the girl. That you're like a father to her, but not forgetting what is expected of you too, to the other children.

This is where the main issue could be steering from.

jimyjames:
Even if the child of the first wife leaves , the second wife will turn the hate to the 3 remaining children of the first wife , she will never love the children of the first wife , with this type of hate

Gudfadah:
Good evening nairaland.

I am a married man and I have six children. When I met with my first wife she was a single mother of 1 girl she was a years 6 months we got married when she was 5 years old.
We had 3 children together making them 4 unfortunately we lost her in 2016 during the birth of our twins.

Before she passed on she asks me to promise her that if anything happened to her I should never send her daughter back to her family to experience the same thing she went through in there hands.
I have promised her that the child is mine and she will never go anywhere the day she will leave my house will be on her wedding day.
I have also promised her that nothing will happen to her and we will grow old together. Unfortunately we lost her and I have continued being a father to all four children and I have never treated my step daughter differently.

I have since remarried and we are blessed with twins. When I met with my current wife I didn't tell her that my step daughter is not my biological child she knew she was my first child.
She has been a part of me ever since she was 1 plus and I didn't think it was necessary telling my wife she was not my child.

She was treating all four children good until my wicked aunty has spill the beans which I have apologised for not telling her in the first and I have asked her to continue being a good mother she was before knowing the truth.
But she refused saying I didn't tell the truth and the child should go and leave with her mom family. I have explained to her the reason why she cannot stay with them to no avail and I ask her not to tell the child the truth but she has told her.

It wasn't easy for her knowing the truth she asks me if I will take her back to her mom people I said no. She is still my child and she will not go anywhere and I will resolve the problem very soon.

Unfortunately my wife has totally changed so much toward the child and I hate coming home seeing her crying all the time. She feel insecure in the house knowing that she is not the biological child of the house.

Talking to my wife was to no avail she has insist that the child must go back to her mother family or they will be not peace.

I reported the problem to her people nothing was done and we are still dealing with the same thing everyday.

Honestly speaking I hate being in such a messy situation but I will not send her back to her mom family she is my first child and I have made a promise to my late wife that the day the child will leave my house it will be the day she will get married.
Since my wife want her to leave and the child is already depresses.
I have come to conclusion I will not divorce her but I will rent a 2 bedroom apartment for her to be staying with the twins while I continue staying with the four children in my house I owe the house.

I haven't told her anything about my decision yet and I want to know if getting her own house will help the situation. This is where I need your advice nairalanders what do I do in this situation?

Looky:
This is so disheartening,95 percent of Nigerian girls are hoes.Yes they are hoes that can open their legs for even dogs for the right price.All hoes have their pricing some indomie,5k,10k,iPhone 14 and so on.
Honestly am ready to get married but I keep on meeting hoes.Can someone please do me a favour and suggest a location or place with the most virtous women so that I can go there and search for a wife material.Hoes are not worth it.
Hoes always target naive GOODMEN for relationships,they will never ask the guys they give their body to for relationships.
If you are not a virgin and you qoute my message of truth to GOODMEN thunder strike you.
Who are the GOODMEN HOES TARGET FOR RELATIONSHIP?
1.Ambitious guys like me
2.A nice guy
4.Guys with means
The most painful thing is that most of these Nigerian girls that are hoes act like saints deceiving uninformed gullible men.Dont marry a hoe please.
If a girl claims that she is a virgin and you want to marry her she must allow your mother to help you confirm her virginity status,if she doesn't agree to that term then she is a pretentious hoe.
A pretentious hoe is subtler than a chameleon,she can be relegious or pretend to have high moral standards.Dont fall into the trap of pretentious hoes.
THERE ARE TWO TYPES OF HOES
1.PRETENTIOUS HOES
2.SHAMELESS HOES
PRETENTIOUS HOES-This ones can pretend and lie for africa.Only a cunnyman can bring out her true couloirs.I will talk more on these type of hoes in my next post.
SHAMELESS HOES-This ones have nothing to lose by showing their true colours so they don't hide anything from you.These ones can even openly engage in threesomes but you need to be subtil to unveil their true nature.
MEN PLEASE I'M KNEELING DOWN TO BEG YOU.ANYTHING YOU DO IN THIS LIFE DONT EVER WIFE UP A HOE OR ELSE UOU WILL REGRET IT
message to be continued in next post

Gipre:
Why Are Weed Smokers, Cigarettes Smokers, Drug Takers Always Very Hot Tempered?

It's Scary.

I have noticed this trend among these set of people and I want to know why?
Lol. Mumu talk..
I smoke weed cigarette take drugs and if you see me you no go ever talk am..am calm..but this days am thinking of starting a fight club. I nova fight in years. E come be like say I don weak finish

mariodko190:
I’ve been dating this girl for the past 6months now, her family knows me well, though it only once I’ve paid them a visit, and all through those period, never did I raise my hands on her, though she can be very stubborn sometimes, she always get angry gives me attitude whenever we having a minor issue, few days ago she visited my place and we had good time together, it getting late and I instructed her she should start going home considering where she lives can be very lonely and dangerous through the nite, she refuse and started trying to play some love play with me, I refuse her advances and started getting up to escort her home, she still cling to me, during those moments we were struggling I mistakenly hit her lightly, she was mad with me and angrily picked up her bag and left my place without even waiting to for me to escort her, I ran after her trying to plead with her that I didn’t meant to hit her, she ignore me completely and left, I called her countless times to apologize but she didn’t pick, I made up my mind to let her be now, i didn’t call her for a day, only for her to call me the next day and started asking me what my plans for her and saying she’s not sure if I rily love her, I was kinda sad she could be saying such things, I always treat you like a guy should treat a fiancé, I felt like scolding her a little by letting her know she’s being too dramatic lately and she shouldn’t let minor issue come between us, as our conversation was going on I never knew she put the call on Speaker and all I was saying was being heard by her Aunt and other siblings, one of them took the phone from her and started raining insults upon insults on me, telling me I’m a woman beater and she’s lost total respect for me and I should stay away from their sister, i tried explaining what happen to her elder sister she didn’t even allow me to speak, I kinda felt sad that she place our private conversation on a speaker, I’ve sent her an apology text, but still having double doubts if I should continue with the relationship knowing how her family sees me now, they sees me a rude and arrogant woman better, that’s what her elder sister called me guys please I need your advice on how to go about this, I don’t know what else to do

Moh247:




Yep, Shetima would deal ruthlessly with all enemies of Nigeria


He is not Osinbajo that keeps shut while his people get disrespeted like an ice cream seller


Shetima would never turn to an Houseboy or mere commissioner because of some yeye Cabal,

*Shetima, got Bsc in Agric Econs UniMad
*Masters in University of Ibadan
*Has 1 wife and 3 children who are all educated
*Retired as a Banking Director in ZenithBank
*8years Governor, appointing Ibos and christian in his cabinet, building and rehabilitating schools even when Boko Haram where disturbing

in the mind if Southern Bigots, all Muslims are terrorist, all Northerners are Almajiri and uneducated, everyone should laugh at you like an idiot


.

siofra:
Darling, I can't relate.

I'm living my best life.

Life begins at thirty.

Being single at thirty means I get to live a longer, stress-free life. No useless man to shorten my life by half.

Blunttruth:
Same way single men in their 30s with married friends cope

Pimine:
Stop using words that you don't understand. What makes him a SIMP? Saying the truth?

If I got a dollar for everytime someone like you misused the word SIMP, I'd be richer than Andrew Tate.

IwasNeverGone:
You are a simp....shameless woman wrapper

Kwanza:
https://dailytrust.com/tinubu-will-rule-nigeria-for-8-years-nasarawa-gov/:

Aareona:
Earlier this year, I went back in time to few years back when I was doing so well in Nigeria. The noises from friends and all nurtured the decision to move abroad inside of me. I became so restless till I finally leave. The first day in Canada was the day I knew this place isn't where I can be forever. Most of us would have come back before the time we had in mind except for the fact that I don't still have enough. If I want to travel to naija for vacation now, I will need up to $4k. If I take that away from my savings, I don't know how I can recover.

No one tells about the downside of this place. I feel lonely, depressed and empty most times. Because no one to talk to, just everyone in my workplace goin about their business. If I make attempt to talk to them, they just waive it with a smile. It's been 3years here and the people I still talk to on video call are friends from Nigeria. It's been 3years and my savings is still Short of $20k despite how much my friends in Nigeria do tell me how easy it is for me to make money abroad but I never tell them my situation. I can't wait to make enough and leave Canada for good. I know a lot will come at me with the usuall "come back to Nigeria na", please this is not an attempt to denigrate your abroad heaven, just for me to rant out and be fine

Angiewhite:
Good morning everyone ! Pls I have an issue bothering me and I haven’t slept for days, I need advice please. I’m a 30yrs old lady who is dating a guy of 35yrs old that’s the only child of his mother, his parents has separated since he was young and the mother later remarried but got divorced,the mother has been trying to have another child ever since then but she couldn’t. When we met after talking for some weeks he suddenly ghosted me for two years for no reason, no quarrel no nothing! He just stopped talking to me. Then after two years he resurfaced and started disturbing me again that he wants to settle down with me, since I had no one I was dating I accepted, he told me he had always wanted someone who he’s at least 10yrs older than so the person can respect him but since he likes me he doesn’t mind the age difference between us,I was surprised one day when after a little argument on phone over something that will actually favour him when he started yelling saying “ this is why he doesn’t like dating ladies who are 28,29,30 or 31” that they will be pressuring him for marriage that to be honest with me what he told me about dating someone he’s 10yrs Older than is not because of respect but so that by the time he’ll be ready for marriage the lady too will be ready that for example the girl his mother introduced him too is just 23yrs old and currently doing her NYSC and by the time she finish and ready for marriage he’ll be ready too” , I’m surprised at all these because I’ve never pestered him for marriage before even when he ghosted me for no reason I never asked why. I think the reason for such decision is because he once told me even up till now he’s mother who’s in her late 50’s is still trying to have a child, and that he had decided not to get married until his mother has another child because his mother will be lonely if he gets married but since time is going and his mother can’t conceive yet that’s why he has now decided to marry .
The following day he apologized, so I observed he has anger issue, he gets angry easily a lot and usually say a lot of mean and hurtful things after which he will start apologizing that he doesn’t mean any of what he said. He’s also a talkative, he talks a lot and he usually tell his mother EVERYTHING WE DISCUSS, at first I had no issue with that because since he’s the only child so I feel like he’s the only one the mother talks to, but there’s no privacy in the relationship at all! I mean even things that are meant to be between us he divulge everything to his mother.He also told me that immediately after we get married his mother is going to move in with us because she will be lonely, he didn’t say when she gets old and maybe needs someone to take care of her , he said IMMEDIATELY after our wedding meaning it’s me and his mom who will move in with him at the same time. As if that’s not enough we planned how he’s going to take me to his father to introduce me to his father and his relative , we’ve planned everything and I’ve even bought things I will take for his grandmother only for him to inform me that his mother said he shouldn’t take me there yet so he cancelled the whole thing, I was surprised but not hurt I felt his mum knows better.
But the one that happened now that has been giving me sleepless night and I’ve cried my eyes out , he called me some weeks back to inform my family that he wants to come with his people for introduction, which I did , only for him to come back again and tell me to inform them again that he’s not coming because his mother said it’s not yet time that when it’s time they will come and do it for him on his behalf, it really pained me because I’m an orphan and I had to call all my family members together I did a lot of traveling to pass his information across to them , so me now going back again to inform them sounds like I’m unserious and just messing with them and these are elderly people for God sake! I actually did that since he insisted that’s what his mother said, it really pained me and I cried and cried, he’s been telling me since then not to worry that when it’s time he’s sure according to what his mum said they will come and help him to do the introduction. Please advice me I’m tired, I really love this guy but this is getting too much, I would have said maybe his mother doesn’t want him to marry me but his mother talks to me everyday. I’m not desperate at all and I’ve already decided before I even met him that if by 35 I’m not married I will adopt and live my life since I’m doing well for myself, so It’s not like I’m desperate. Please has this happened to anyone before? I even overheard him on phone with his mother one day his mother was telling him not to over show me that he loves me that he shouldn’t love me too much I was surprised because this is same woman who talks to me everyday. Who has gone through this before or who has the slightest idea of what is happening?.

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